Thread 212515691

Why do assholes get all the girls when nice guys get NOTHING

girls are retarded whores

I’m 27 wake up everyday with no idea what I’m doing no job no direction I never cared about having a girlfriend but I have reached a point where I have to ask myself what if I did want one would I be competent enough to get one but then I’m like well maybe I just don’t care after all N I G G E R S N E E D either way this type of shit is the last thing I should be thinking about

>>212515797
Fundie fuck

I could actually explain it to you, but I don't feel like it.

>>212515740
no they aren't

You know she's a lesbian, right?

>>212516288
That's wrong on SO many levels.

I'll bite a bit, I have a theory that most single men could actually get a gf if they actually tried. You won't get one online, aside from dating apps you still have to go outside and get around people. Anything, or anywhere where socializing is part of it, bars, clubs, events, even concerts. But there's self.improvement there too, lose weight, dress better, have your shit together and you actually have to fucking talk to people. Yes, when I was younger and was out in occasion I had women talk to me. Because I was in a social environment where it was expected.

Im not an expert,but that's my two cents.

I'll bite a bit, I have a theory that most single men could actually get a gf if they actually tried. You won't get one online, aside from dating apps you still have to go outside and get around people. Anything, or anywhere where socializing is part of it, bars, clubs, events, even concerts. But there's self.improvement there too, lose weight, dress better, have your shit together and you actually have to fucking talk to baskin. Yes, when I was younger and was out in occasion I had women talk to me. Because I was in a social environment where it was expected.

Im not an expert,but that's my twoC.

>>212516399
I actually regret that I didn't go out more, because I was so insecure about it and myself. Because most of the time, it actually wasn't that bad and you'll be surprised who will spark conversation with you. I just never asked them out even when I should have. And looking back and realizing that I made a mistake not putting myself out there more and could have done more to be secure with myself.

I'm a nice guy and get everything I want and more. Sounds like a skill issue.

Women are entirely emotional creatures and assholes are exciting to women. It's the same excitement men get out of seeing tits and ass.

Don't get angry at me. That's just how nature made us.

>>212516557
Still a fat fucking loser, and I wasted a lot of time being one. Passed the point of no return lads.

>>212515691 (OP)
Because nice guys are boring.
Plus, their "niceness" is usually a façade that hides insecurities and weakness.

>>212516596
POOFTER

>>212516605
It's not even the fact that theyre assholes. They're prone to liking men that stand up for themselves and her. A nice guy isn't going to throw hands with a dude that grabs her ass at a bar, she wants that. But you're comparing "assholes' to the jocks that ripped on you and me in high school. I was never like that, and understood that I have qualities that women don't find that attractive. Is was only when I lost weight and was younger that I'd get rare attention. But I wasn't an "asshole", I was juat..I guess a bit more socialable and comfortable after the anxiety of speaking to them faded in conversation.

>>212515691 (OP)
Nelson was probably nicer to Lisa than Milhouse would have ever been. That blue-haired servile cuck is the kind of guy that becomes a huge asshole as soon as he gets a girl to be even slightly dependent on him

>>212515740
/thread

>>212515691 (OP)
Because nice guys dont have enough social value to get through life without being obsequious

>>212515691 (OP)
Shitpost thread but I'll throw my $0.02 in.
You need to understand the fundamental exchange that happens in a relationship.
Men desire sex and women desire commitment. As such, women are the gatekeepers of sex whereas men are the gatekeepers of commitment.
A woman that is loose and gives sex to any man that asks is considered low value. So what is the equivalent for men you might ask? It's a man that is loose and gives commitment to any woman that asks.
That is the "nice guy". He very simply commits to any woman he can thinking that will get her to like her, much like the sexually promiscuous girl thinks she will attract guys by having sex with them.
It's not the fact that being "nice" is what girls don't like. Everyone is nice. The problem is the "nice guy" thinks he's "nice" for committing and giving attention before a girl can reciprocate thereby devaluing himself (ie: showering with compliments, being the shoulder to cry on, giving unsolicited gifts, always "being there", etc). The noncommittal "assholes" are such not because they're "assholes" (they aren't) but rather they understand that their currency (aka: their commitment) is a hot commodity and they won't just give it away so easily. That's why women like the "asshole", because he IS high value.

But saying they like "assholes", is some kid shit. Just accept that you didn't try, or that you're that estrogenic, ugly, and unappealing so you send them in the other direction. You don't have to be an "asshole", to get a gf, and the times these men were assholes maybe they didn't want you around their girl and/or just didn't like you.

>>212515691 (OP)
Because assholes project strength and confidence, traits that are very attractive to women, and nice guys project weakness because they "play by the rules" in order to not get in trouble.

But ive seen some piss ugly dudes that have a wife or gf. Im not an expert on this, but I do understand the frustration and it doesn't seem hard if you had a bit of confidence and took care of your shit a bit more. I shouldn't have made excuses, but..yeah.

>>212515691 (OP)
Nice guys are weak pussies that won't stand up for themselves let alone a woman. Assholes will push your shit in if you step up to them ESPECIALLY if you screw with their woman.
How is this so hard for you to understand? Women want you to protect them, not shower them with compliments and chocolates. They have family and friends that do that for them already. You provide her something they cannot do for her: protection. Niceness isn't a commodity and never will be.

This is why traditionally men would ask the father for his daughter's hand in marriage. Because it was the symbolic handoff of the father being the sole protector of the girl to her husband.

>>212515691 (OP)
Nelson was just using Lisa to get to Marge.

Awful lot of beta incels larping in this thread. Pathetic.

>>212517036
>Women want you to protect them, not shower them with compliments and chocolates.
They want you to do both, tard.

>>212516399
>most single men could actually get a gf if they actually tried
Funny enough it was when I stopped trying and caring that I bumped into my now wife. Once I stopped trying to please women and instead better myself for me I became more attractive.

>>212517086
It's 4chan. We're all fake alpha male chads here. Get with the program dorkazoid.

>>212515691 (OP)
Just wait 'til she mellows out in her 30s bro.

>>212516974
It’s a combination of lack of respect for themselves, far too much respect freely given to women, and wildly inaccurate expectations of female behavior thanks to years of faggot media programming.

>>212517092
POOFTER

>>212516878
This guy gets it.

>>212517036
I don't understand the nice guys will, he thinks that being "nice" will get him something. And it usually doesn't while acting entitled and whiny about it, being nice is good. But being "nice" no matter what you call yourself is always something that's off putting. I don't think that they get that, and that being a "gentleman" will have women fawning over them. Being nice, and being a gentleman is a good thing, that all men should do, but it doesn't mean that you have to force it and weird everyone out. I learned that in my teens, and never was "nice' to a woman again and just alked to them like I would everyone else and it made things a bit more comfortable for both parties

>>212516399
"trying" and "self improvement" are copes

>have you actually...tried???
most men who have girlfriends didn't actively try to get one. they just passively existed, met women, and basically ended up in a relationship without ever putting in a modicum of effort

if you feel like you have to be able bench 300lbs and wear designer clothes to attract women, you never had a chance.

>>212515691 (OP)
Because you're a pussy that sits around waiting for life to happen to you instead of making shit happen.

>>212517118
Dudes aren't committing in their 20s either.

>>212517152
They aren't copes..at all

>>212515691 (OP)
Most assholes are confident, most nice guys lack confidence.

Confidence is one of the most desirable traits for women, they would rather be with an overconfident jerk than a decent guy with no confidence

Its literally as easy as pic related.

>>212517157
Is passivity really such a death sentence for men?

I've never had a gf, but I've also never explicitly asked a woman out. It makes me wonder
>if I wasn't repulsive, a woman would have asked me out by now
or is it
>99% of women will never make the first move

>>212515691 (OP)
no rizz

>>212515691 (OP)
You're not a REAL nice guy, bud.

>>212517157
>try to make life happen
>life says no
Well, shit.