>>212664920 (OP)the moment that "two married people yelling at eachother" turned into "male verbal abuse" was the moment relationships were doomed.
two people yelling at eachother isn't abuse. stop witht his fucking newage doublethink. Abuse is only when one person won't stop and the other person isn't reciprocating the anger. If you sit your wife in a chair and yell at her for two hours - that's abuse.
If your wife screams her head off at you and you start yelling back at her, that shit isn't abuse. But in 2025 that's 100% considered abuse (not the wife screaming, just the husband.
"Abuse" is a feminist power word that we should start avoiding, same with harassment. Telling someone to fuck off isn't harassment. We are spiraling towards a dystopian reality where all emotions are bad and you're only allowed to be happy.