Thread 212664974

This movie makes me regret not making friends and getting a girlfriend in my high school years.

>>212664974 (OP)
I guess it depends on the girlfriend and the friends you have because they were very forgettable experiences in my case

>>212665120
Did you get pussy at least?

Ok

At least you didn't have a cute tomboy oneitis who you pussied out on confessing to on the last day of school and watched her walk away as you stood there frozen from fear and never saw her again after that and now live as a gnarly, depressed emaciated wageslave.

>>212665120
>Dude like yeah y'know i had a girlfriend and totally lots of friends but it was like y'know so forgettable and like lame or something so y'know don't be sad you didn't have friends or a girlfriend in high school because uhhhh...
Kill. Yourself.

>>212665183
Would you really be better off if you "confessed" and she said ew? Life isn't an anime anon.

>>212664974 (OP)
This movie makes me regret the time I wasted watching it.

>>212664974 (OP)
I won't have that regret because I don't watch films with Emma Watson in it

>>212665216
Why the seething? I'm NTA but having high school friends and sex was totally forgettable.

>>212665259
>>212665120
Maybe it was forgettable because you're both worthless NPCs?

>some kids grinded their studies and got into Harvard
>some kids partied every weekend and made lifelong friends and memories
>some kids did both
>I did neither

>>212665228
Yes because my irrational mind tells me there was a chance, she could've liked me back and now I'll never know and that one percent uncertainty has been killing me ever since.

>>212665306
>>some kids grinded their studies and got into Harvard
They probably had to fuck a kid in some dark room as blackmail material for the cabal
>Some kids partied every weekend and made lifelong friends and memories
NPC wageslaves to the aforementioned cabal
>I did neither
Now you're a NEET and free from the cabal's influence.

>>212665281
Nah you would only be an NPC if you didn't have friends. Forgetting them is normal when you get married and have new friends

>>212665354
You have no idea what an NPC is, NPC.

>>212665311
you didn't have a chance. that's why you didn't ask. you knew deep down

does anyone else get legitimate existential dread from knowing they squandered their high school experience? knowing that i'll never be a teenager again and I completely wasted my youth still keeps me up at night

>didn't date, go to any parties, join any extracurriculars because i thought that was all "cringe"
>went to prom (alone) but left after a couple hours
>tfw graduated almost a decade ago now and I still feel depressed over this

inb4 "none of that shit matters anon, developing formative milestones in adolescence is overrated!"

>>212665372
Cope. It's always people with nothing in their lives that latch onto the NPC shit to feel superior. Let me guess, you are the non NPC who cracked the code? You are the chosen one! kek too much anime

>>212665354
>Forgetting them is normal when you get married and have new friends
They weren't real friends. You're current friends probably aren't real friends either.

>>212665376
It's not like she was a hot and popular girl. She was like a little above me in the pecking order. Which is to say I thought she was attainable and not like she was a stranger, I actually talked to her and knew her on some level but I froze up because I was a kid and scared of her saying no to my face and then not wanting to be my friend after that. Even though I didn't contact her anyway after high school.

>>212665379
All I remember from being a teenager is feeling afraid and tired all the time.

>>212665417
>t. NPC and proud father to wife's son

>>212665379
For people like us it's impossible to have a satisfying adolescence like that, learning from the folly of our rejection of social interaction during our teena is a genuinely important part of our development. But yes it fucking sucks hard.

>>212665423
Strong projection. You sound like someone who still lives in the little town he was born in and desperately holds onto a few people he talked to in high school because he sat next to them. Normal adults make new friends through real life experiences, not high school.

>>212665472
You are a sad pathetic person who looks down on people with lower intelligence despite being average yourself. Only midwits fall for NPC theory. It's just rebranded gnosticism for retards.

>>212665473
>>212665379
I'm someone with personality disorders and a really bad from of assburgers and I still had a friend group and a girlfriend because i happened to be the cousin of the most popular kid in school and he'd pretty much force people to hang out with me and this girl to be my girlfriend just because he said so. i couldn't care less if it wasn't real, i still got laid. which is to say the only hope guys like us have is to be born as relatives to Chad who you have a good relationship with.

>>212665379
>tfw spent my teenage years playing WoW, barely had any IRL friends
>tfw now in my mid 30s, married, nice car and looking to buy a house soon
>tfw never once think back on my teenage years

How can you be so hung about the past? Time only flows in one direction, so make the best right now.

>>212665379
who cares? it's over now anyway so what difference does it make? it's not like you can go back in time and relive it even it was good

>>212665504
>t. My Daughter Just Announced Her Transition And I Couldn't Be More Proud of Her Stunning Breavery #bigotsbegone

>I had multiple girls ask me out in high school
>the only time in my life that women showed any interest in me
>turned them all down because it was Spring of senior year and we'd be going to colleges 500 miles apart
Why? Why does life taunt me? Should I have just banged them like an emotionless sociopath? What if I'm not like that? What if I have feelings?

>>212665530
>tfw now in my mid 30s, married, nice car and looking to buy a house soon
let me correct that for you:
i'm an absolute despicable failure of a human being in my 30's who lies and LARPs as an ideal version of myself on a juvenile Japanese internet forum meant to post cartoon porn

>>212665474
I've moved to 4 different stated since high school and am still in touch with my best friend from High school as well as several people from my early and mid 20s.
Some of the friends I made in and after high school weren't real and so I lost touch with them, but some of them were always real.

Not a terrible shot in the dark on your oart though, you'd be right most of the time on here.

>>212665572
What do you gain from being so spiteful, anon?

>>212665504
You're getting trolled hard by a dude regurgitating memes.

>>212665379
High school? No.
College? Yes, but I wouldn't describe it as existential.

To get over my social anxiety I’d force myself to sit at a bar and not look at my phone and years later I told people my age I’d do that for fun and they talked about how scary that seemed and how they could never do that

>>212665588
If you couldn't keep up as a child with zero responsibilities, you are not succeeding as an adult. The people here are broken failures mingling with Reddit tourists who come to the 4chan zoo for screencaps.

>>212665547
>who cares?
the confidence you gain from a social adolescence propels you to be more social and outgoing in college, which basically affects the trajectory of your entire life.

>>212665666
I fuck with that. Just sitting alone in bars until you start slowly integrating with the regular crowd is surprisingly easy once you get used to it. Might have a few awkward silent nights at first but that's what the booze is for.

>>212665666
Yeah, I used to do that humiliation ritual shit too to "get over" social anxiety. Then I realized social anxiety is just how you feel when you're ugly and have been rejected all your life. That it's normal and makes sense, that it would be weird to not feel this way given the circumstances, and that there isn't a book, exercise, or pill that will make the pain of complete social rejection go away.

>>212665759
>I fuck with that
Sorry, I don't speak nigger.

>>212665681
That's projecting pretty hard. I was a shut in kid/teenager but I did a near 180 during my first job when I was 20. To be fair, I hated school and the constant pressure to perform, the rigid lifestyle of classes, homework etc. I blossomed a lot in my job because I had a lot more freedom, money for hobbies etc. When you enjoy life, you get a much more positive mindset. Only Doomerfaggots care this much about the past and what-ifs.

>>212665704
people underestimate how important having experiences are during puberty/ie teenage life. this is why all the age of consent/age gap shit is so insideous. If you dont take risks and experience new things as a teenager, theres a huge chance you wont ever try even as an adult. The people who have no sex as teenagers go on to have no sex as adults and then try to pretend its some weird incel thing with the world holding them back, in reality its their own learned helplessness. Of course, that learned helplessness is technically society's fault but its hard to frame it that way without people just laughing in your face.

Zoomies dont want to fuck, they dont want to drive, they dont want to work, and they are encouraged to not want to do these things by gatekeepers and traitors who will do everything in their power to keep regular american/european citizens from getting motivated and taking control over their own lives. If you sit passively all throughout your teenage years, you will become a worthless passive adult and people do not feel pity or empathy for worthless adults.

The same mother fuckers who will tell you having sex as a teenager is disgusting pedophilia will harrass you for not losing your virginity by age- whatever. The same cunts who decry child labor will embarrasse you for not being able to get a job at 26 with no prior work history. The same people who will report you for looking at teenage porn looks the other way when their own family members are fucking at 14. The world is full of two faced hypocritical liars and they spend their entire day trying to sabotage everyone around them so their own people can succeed.

>>212664974 (OP)
i cringed so hard when he kissed emma watson rather than his gf

>>212665894
Sorry, I meant that I can relate to and appreciate that experience.

>>212665588
I hate losers who have mindfucked themselves into thinking they're not losers. Take your schizophrenia pills.

>>212665913
You are a stupid NEET abominable failure of a human being who is addicted to internet forums. None of those things happened. Ever. And they never were going to for you.

>>212665379
You need to go start making memories now and stop dwelling on the past, anon. You need to meet a nice girl and start a family. You won't care about your high school years if you meet a girlfriend, get married, and become a dad. That will be the most important thing to you. And while you're out trying to do that, you'll meet friends along the way.

>>212664974 (OP)
>This movie makes me regret not making friends and getting a girlfriend in my high school years
Naaah, you would messed it all up and went back to jacking off and playing nintendo switch

>>212664974 (OP)
Really just this movie does that?

>>212666045
>he thinks anyone who has spent ANY amount of time here will ever become a father
Lol, just accept your lot in life. There's more dignity in it.
>>212666070
Already confirmed that the OP faked that whole picture and story.

>>212665306
>>some kids grinded their studies and got into Harvard
The kind of kids that used to get into Harvard were indeed the ones that grinded hard, but they also partied every weekend and made lifelong friends and memories. You had to be very a very well-rounded person to get into the top schools. Not only basically a prodigy, but also extremely prosocial with fantastic social skills. But this process got corrupted by DEI initiatives, so you also have plenty of less-than-stellar people who get in because of their immutable characteristics, and you have stellar people who don't get in because of their immutable characteristics. And you have people in the leadership positions at those institutions who are insane. Harvard isn't what it once was.

>>212666045
>You need to meet a nice girl and start a family.

I'm almost 30. My last girlfriend was in high school and I was scared of her. Women in my age group outpaced me developmentally by the time they were like, 12. From their perspective, I'm like a retarded little boy. Stuck and never progressed.

Do you think the average woman, with a career, life experience, plenty of ex-boyfriends who were better-looking than me, smarter than me, funnier than me, richer than me, better than me, wants to date a retarded little boy? No, of course not.

>>212665259
>>212665120
ragebaiting virgins

>>212665562
we should have just talked to them at least.

>>212666045
here's the problem anon

>not dating in high school means no one in college wants to date you, and then when no one in college wants to date you, no one in their mid 20s date you

>>212665913
>20
That's still a kid. You didn't blossom, you just grew up. That's the way it works for normies.

>>212664974 (OP)
Sounds like you were a huge loser but only a BIGGER loser would still be talking about/lamenting your past. Get over it, fag.

>>212664974 (OP)
you didn’t miss much
FOMO is no way to live, look ahead to the future anon
gym, self reliance, hobbies, etc will help you find friends and never chase pussy

i can guarantee life is much better when you don’t have to mask your autism

>>212666363
30yo men are supposed to marry 15yo virgins
this is a fact of life the jews try to take from you then participate in behind closed doors

>>212665609
Nah that's genuinely how stupid people who spout the npc stuff are

>>212665524
Are you Schizoid, anon? Or Avoidant Personality Disorder? I'm glad you have such a good cousin. Hope you guys are still close. It's heartwarming to hear stories about family members actually looking out for each other.

>>212665379
The thing I'm salty about (and I suspect this will be the case for many here) was that it wasn't my fault, I just had really shit parents and then mental illness, poor social development etc followed.

Now I am a full blown normie but why did I have to go through all that shit? There was no reason, logic, moral to be learnt it was just not fair.

>>212665333
>They probably had to fuck a kid in some dark room as blackmail material for the cabal
NOOOOOOOO MR NOSEBERG DON'T MAKE ME FUCK THIS YOUNG TEEN GIRL NOOOOOO THIS AIN'T RIGHT

>>212667095
A whole bucket load of mental afflictions due to horrible abusive parents who all but abandoned me to my aunt and uncle. I guess in a spiritual sense we're more so brothers because we pretty much grew up as such. He's a year or two older than me and always looked out for me due to my background and my parents. He's a great guy who always went above and beyond for me even though he didn't have to and would probably be better off not associating with me instead of proudly telling people "hey, guys, this is my cousin! hang out with me or you won't be cool anymore". he was a star player on the football team and lived an idealic life with good parents and upbringing. He went to business school and is doing very well for himself. I'm in accounting. Not bad but not terribly good either. He still invites me over every weekend though adult life has limited our interactions. Great guy, makes me tear up how good he's been to me even though I'm a mentally diseased loser.

>>212665379
Yes, although for me it's just the love life that's completely missing. I had friends and went to parties at times.
Curse myself very often over it. And especially that I have continued as such. I'm 30 now and haven't done basically anything to get a gf or even laid. Or I asked out one girl clumsily which obviously led to nothing.
Should just install tinder and at least tried there...

>>212666363
Not with that mindset, I don't. But if you improve your horrible self-esteem, I think you could meet a nice girl. You need to do something to feel better about yourself as a person. You hate yourself.
Try reading Meditations by Marcus Aurelius. It helped me:
https://archive.org/details/meditation-GeorgeHays/mode/2up

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>>212665921
Truest shit I’ve read in the thread

>>212664974 (OP)
as if any of those twinks would be "wallflowers" they're all sexy high school-aged dudes. they'll get dickings.

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>>212666363
I feel that, but you overestimate how developed women your age are

>>212665921
Wow would have skipped this because of tldr but actually really feeledover that hard, as a person who skipped teen sex I was so awkward in college and women are less likely to sex with you the more awkward they are it’s like virginity is a self perpetual cycle. Successful men all have sex at like 14 and they just have the hard part of talking to ladies down and don’t have that virgin shame and loser energy to have weighing on them into their 20s. You can still pull out of it of course but it’s probably because you have a career.

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