>>212756513
much of a woman's behavior can be reduced to and explained by some form of selfishness.
if a guy is married and vetted, then he's worth something, if he's worth something, she needs to have it, if she has it, she's now validated and better than his wife. In many ways, a lot of women practice this as a sort of sport.
>but basically irrelevant for women?
men validate women by the potential they see with them, not by the implicit standards of other men.
