>>213360921 (OP)I have had sex on more than one occasion and as a man of the world, let me tell you that finding a woman who will give you a really good blow job is A LOT RARER than it looks in porn or on the internet.
Many real women point blank refuse, even if you are clean. Even when you find a willing woman 9 times out of 10 they will only take the tip between their lips and do that thing where they hold both hands around your shaft, one on top of the other so only the last 4 inches or so go in at maximum, even when you push her head down on it. Very few will even attempt to deep throat you or even swallow the head past their tonsils and down their gullet. Even when they do often they have not practiced this with a dildo or cucumber so the gag reflex kicks in too soon, and/or they can't hold their breath for more than 30 seconds as you pound their tonsils with your tallywhacker.
Even after all that probably only about 15% of them, in my experience, will swallow your filthy yoghurt when the deed is done. They'll either spit it out somewhere making a mess (lady, I came there and not on your face for a reason), or worse still attempt a snowball (I don't want spunk in my mouth, not even my own, as I am not a woman or gay).
So a woman who can actually give a good deep throated blow job with nice pacman style waka-waka sound effects and just the right amount of drool is as rare as hen's teeth. Its a rare thing and compensates to some degree on things like age or not having huge nipples. When you see a mismatched couple (eg. Daniel Radcliffe and his wife, or Richard and Judy) you can be sure that the woman is a vertuoso player of the pink oboe or if the man is the lest attractive one that he is an accomplished pork-swordsman.