It’s not too late to change your ways.

>>213418942 (OP)
Until it is. Get moving.

>>213418942 (OP)
Except it was too late for that guy right? Cause he was old as fuck and almost dead?

At the age of 32 I have no career, no friends, no sexual or relationship experience, I live with my parents, I don't drive a car, I have few hobbies, and I've been miserable for over 15 years. It's too late to change my ways. I'll never recover from what I've done to myself. I'm so far behind. So many years wasted.

>>213419512
You are based. Never forget it.

I ate 100+ raisins today

>>213419512
>At the age of 32 I have no career, no friends, no sexual or relationship experience, I live with my parents, I don't drive a car, I have few hobbies, and I've been miserable for over 15 years. It's too late to change my ways. I'll never recover from what I've done to myself. I'm so far behind. So many years wasted.
You still got plenty of time. Tick tock.

>>213419512
How the fuck does that even happen? You should at least have something around 30.

>>213419850
Based.

>>213418942 (OP)
I went through college and got a decent job thinking that would get me what I needed to be happy , but it didnt. I thought the promotion, the nicer car and the house would make me happy but they didnt. I need a woman and unfortunately that just doesnt come naturally

One of the most underappreciated movies in decades imo, I think about it all the time

Absolutely criminal there's no physical of it

Also absolutely criminal how much nobody wants to give him money to make more movies. The only reason he could even get this one financed is because it's an adaptation of a book. Shit is very depressing

>>213419512
Its not going to be fun , but I unfucked my life at 33 , now at 45 I have no wife , but I have a job and a condo. Got some decent friends and a few hobbies. Its lonely , but beats hanging out in your parents basement

>>213419922
severe depression and social avoidance

>>213420169
what about the friends?

>>213420971
Used to have friends we would shoot archery , guns , play DnD chill out have movie nights , parties. For the first time in my life things felt "Alright" then covid just took all of that away , scattered us across the country. Some got married , some just dropped off the face of the earth and some died. Ever since then things havent felt great. Miss you Nick , wherever you are I hope you are doing alright

>>213420169
>I thought the promotion, the nicer car and the house would make me happy but they didnt. I need a woman and unfortunately that just doesnt come naturally
>I got all these items on the list, surely the next one will be the one to complete me
Retard

>>213419512
It's not worth it. You're just suffering needlessly to appease other people, at the end of the day what do you really gain?

Enjoy life. Fuck every glowing faggot that tries to guilt you into becoming slaves like them.

>>213421507
Yeah , pretty much.

>>213419922
Self loathing in your teens and 20s. Postponing yourself taking accountability and responsibility. Saying to yourself “I’m still young, I’ll do it eventually”. What happens is you create self destructive habits with this line of thinking that are very difficult to break. Before you know it you’re in your 30s and in the same place as you were when you were 20.

>>213419850
Get on my level

>>213419512
I'm 40, no longer have a job and never had a career, have debts I've just decided to default on, have no friends and have not had a girlfriend or even sex for around 10 years. I live alone so have no contact with anyone and while I own a car it's an old POS and I rarely leave my house anyway.
My entire life is a waste and while I often mentally steady myself to amend and change I never actually do anything towards it. I cannot see my life turning around and even if I initiated some action I'm so far behind and the benefits seem so far away they're barely tangible.
I would give anything to go back to 32. 32 is still relatively young, especially in today's world of arrested development and societal stagnation. As for me I think it's too late. I still think of myself as young man but I really can't. I'm just not anymore. I'm middle aged and it's depressing that I have absolutely nothing to show for my lifetime.

>>213419512
Get your driver's license and find some way to make money. Doesn't matter if you have to go through garbage sales to find stuff to flip on eBay.

Something that made me want to unfuck my life was just the thought that if I hadn't unfucked it I'd be a total burden to my parents and I was enough of one as I was

>>213419922
You can't get a job because your last job was too long ago and all you can say you've done since is hunt for a job.
It's like the end of Great Gatsby, where you're swept away by the currents of time as you try to grasp the past. Except you're trying to move with the current and grasp the future, but the current is fighting you anyway.

>>213421607
Yep, I have hated myself for my entire life. That's how I ended up like this. Self hatred, no courage, no self-esteem, no confidence, knowing that I'm an annoying burden to everyone

>>213421754
32 is not young at all. Most people spend their 20s having fun, making friends, having relationships and sex, developing their careers, moving out on their own, learning about themselves, When they hit 30, they are fully realized adults with good social skills, potentially married or close to it, good career and finances, etc. People like me are literally a decade behind everyone else.

>>213421946
You did it? How?

If I have the misfortune to live another 8 years and get to your point, I can't even imagine how horrible things wil be. Howhave you managed to stave off suicide? I'm as close to it as I've ever been right now but of course I'm just afraid to do it.

>I am le basement dwelling 30 year old NEET
>guaranteed 5+ replies about how it's not too late and you should go get a job
Wow thanks tips, nobody tell him that once he gets a job and a place and some money the rest of his situation is just as fucked as before. No friends, no relationships, and starting a social life from scratch in the modern world is nearly impossible. Same goes for your career, enjoy working dead end jobs your whole life because you lack confidence and experience. Might as well stay in the fucking basement.

>>213419922
Trust me it's going to become a lot more common doubly so thanks to Americans ruining everything by turning professions into "gigs"
My industry just imploded in my area because of the coof and never recovered fully as a result so now I'm just applying for any random dogshit job to see what sticks at 29 so I'll be going into my 30's with semi-zero job experience (Not really but it's not like I can apply my profession to work as a office wagie)

Anyone who say they don't have a job. just get a car and start urbering like every other jeet/pakis. Don't know how to drive? Learn it. Apparently you can make really decent money driving if you are willing.

>>213420169
Not to sound like a faggot but a woman isn’t gonna make you happy in the long term. You might be happy at first but that will fade away because you’re miserable inside. Unless you deal with yourself and figure out how to be happy on your own all the things you distract yourself with aren’t gonna do much.

>>213422989
This is exactly what my mindset is, and why I'm so locked in on suicide at 32. I'm a decade, more than a decade, behind. It isn't just one thing that I'm lacking in. It's literally everything. It's not like if I got a good job, or got a relationship, or got my own place, then everything else is good. I need to start literally everything from scratch. Even normal people find modern dating and friendships in your 30s to be very hard, for me it's impossible. To try to get a good job, no one wants to take on a person in their 30s as an entry level person, and for me to hope that by my late 30s I have some career where everyone else has one a decade earlier. Home ownership will never happen for me either. I look at the future and there's just no hope whatsoever. And to top that off, I don't even have a positive life that I can look back on with some happiness and nostalgia from my childhood or teen years or anything. My entire life has been completely wasted and I remember none of it.

That clip from Seinfeld has always resonated with me. But George wasn't that big of a loser. He just lost his job and had to live with his parents for a bit. He was never depressed about his situation.

its so fucking over.

>>213423134
I have a license, I have a shitty beat up car, but I have quite literally no sense of direction. You can tell me the name of a road and I'll be lost, but if you tell me there's a gas station or a dentists office or something there then I probably know where you're talking about
that's on top of constant dreams about spinning out of control and getting in wrecks, dreams about getting lost, dreams about being on the wrong road altogether and not knowing how to get back

>>213423134
>>213423134
yeah i probably should have done that.

>>213418942 (OP)
Fuck you. Now I want to watch this again

what made people hate this movie?

>>213424874
I think it got too avantgarde at the end

>>213418942 (OP)
/tv/ will look at this film and without a hint of irony call it propaganda

>>213418942 (OP)
It's not my ways that need changing, I refuse to conform to a system I know is fake.

>>213425135
This is cope

I don't understand the concern about "falling behind" others, about social comparison. I've never wanted to get married or to have kids, and I'm not bothered by others who do. That's their problem, not mine. I like not being on the hook for anybody else, not being responsible.

I haven't had sex since high school and I don't really miss it that much, I'm 31 now.

>>213425457

Wait until your mid-life crisis in your late 30s or thereabouts. This won't necessarily manifest in any of the stereotypical reckless behaviors, but is more likely to be a psychological process about your whole life's arc, and confronting the reality of your parent's mortality (assuming they haven't died already).

Oh boohoo niggers
These threads are always just "losers" getting gaslit into being even more miserable by heckin based alpha male normalfags that probably hate their lives anyway. Why else would they come here and shit on you?
Take small steps to improve your wellbeing in realistic ways that are applicable to (You) specifically.
I stopped NEETing when I truly started to appreciate that it wasn't making me happy so now I work part time.

>>213425491
My parents are both 19 years older than me.
I'm probably gonna be dead real quick after them, but also probably not for another 40+ years as there are a frightening amount 90+ year olds in my immediate family, on both sides
If anything I worry more about living that long, I'd love to die at 65 of a sudden heart attack, and I do chain smoke cigarettes, but so do most of those elderly people, and for three times as I have, and most of them also drink a lot and I don't drink at all

>>213425491
Its not that deep you rotten little faggot. And "mid life crisis" is like a social contagion in a way.

>>213425457
>he's has sex
get the fuck off this board

>>213422569
>Yep, I have hated myself for my entire life
If society and your peers hate you is it really self hatred?

>>213419512
There really is no point to any of it. I wish I could lie to myself but I can barely affect a smile. My only relief comes from imaging that one night I'll close my eyes and not have to open them again.

>>213419512
You're almost literally me except I went to uni at age 30 and feel optimistic about my future

I am 40 years old, and I want to start a band. No, I will start a band.

>>213419922

>>213425491
The day my parents die is when the best of me goes with them. How stark is that I wonder?

>>213420181
Kaufman's got a new short film debuting at Venice and it's got the girl from I'm Thinking of Ending Things in it

>>213426190
Blue hair, nose ring. Yeah ending it might be best.

>>213419922
I don't like talking to people
Pretending to care is exhausting and I only have that reserved for my job

>>213419512
>So many years wasted.
sunk costs fallacy. Oh no, i wasted 15 years of my life. So i'm gonna do nothing and waste the rest because of that. Don't do this man. Don't think this way. You won't recover those 15 years but that doesn't mean you should lose what you have left because of that

>>213424874
Too arty for briandead retards and the libtards thought it was misogynistic

>thinking its common for people in their early 20s to get into serious careers
>thinking its common for people in their 30s or 40s to have well paying jobs that they've spent a decade or more to get to
>thinking the few people that the above actually applies to also enjoy their careers or lives instead of spending most of their time going through the motions to make money so they can afford to throw their money away on things that don't bring them satisfaction
>thinking normies don't have trouble with friendships and relationships, instead of them desperately clinging to their few (lackluster) relationships due to fear of loneliness and the effort required to make new ones
Embarrassing. I seriously hope you guys don't do this.

>>213426505
Normies don't need to put effort into any of this because it happens to them by default. It's normal. Anyone who doesn't have a career, friends and relationships is faulty.
A normie fears only that which the media tells them to fear.

>>213419512
Pussy. Get out there and make something of yourself, sport.

>>213426505
nuance and balance. this anon has actual life experience and wisdom. he is correct
>>213426582
a dumb retarded faggot. plenty of people with good jobs have zero social life or dating life. plenty of people in good relationships have shitty careers. lots of people have poor health. just do your best and quit whining you massive faggot. thinking everyone is a perfect normie with no problems is literally braindead autistic retarded faggot logic

>>213418942 (OP)
nah, 23 and ive rotted away the last 6 years of my life. its already over. everyone is done with their fun phase and is settling into long term relationships and careers by now.
if you fall off the boat you never get back on, thats how it works

>>213419512
You can get your shit together, you've just gotta put in the effort. I was in the same spot at 29 and managed to get a full time job and a girlfriend within 18 months.

>>213419922
A lot of things. I went through similar shit, in that I wasn't good at being social, didn't have much money, lived pretty isolated in a small town and thought it just didn't matter and it would magically fix when I got older.

>>213427341
Bro at 23 you can fix shit easily, it only gets hard when 30 is approaching. Don't give a fuck about relationships and just focus on finding a job, it doesn't have to be great but should be something than can be a stepping stone. I managed to get my skills up in a shitty admin job for about 3 years and scored a six figure job next because I gained the skills the next place wanted.

>>213418942 (OP)
Is this that stupid movie where the girlfriend was in his head the whole time?

>>213424874
It was just misery porn, and unrealistic misery porn at that. They made the protagonist have the emotional maturity of an eight year old so he would seem extra pathetic. The only people I've ever met who are bachelors that late in life are either happy because they never wanted to settle down or gruff misanthropes who literally live in a cabin in the woods.

>>213427341
you are either trolling or retarded

>>213418942 (OP)
Glows starting up again after a couple months off. You think I would be fooled that easily?

>>213418942 (OP)
>It’s not too late to change your ways.
cope

youve been finished for quite a while now

>>213427425
>it doesn't matter if you find fulfilling relationships (either romantic or just friendshps) you should focus on working for Mr. Shekelstein
I've been doing that for 14 years now, when does life get better?

>>213427618
ha ha yeah who would live like this

>>213424012
Bruh, you think the jeet came from dehli who nearly got killed by trains have a sense of direction? The uber app is literally just a google map that you follow.
Maybe take a couple of uber rides to get a sense of how it works.
Also I know dude who bought a tesla to uber with. if you have a shitty car get a better one with a loan. It's a JOB now and the car is your investment. It's ok to get a nice car because it's gonna pay of in a couple of years.

>>213427802
>yeah man just take out a fat ass loan on your uber salary, you're ballin

I just got my first job at 27 and I'm a janitor
I am an aristocrat of the soul with a degree in Engineering + autism
I didn't succeed in this system but in reality there were many times when I could have done better and likely gotten a decent engineering job but I didn't, because I was unsure, because I was lazy, etc
The one thing that pains me is that I didn't use my time more effectively to study Latin, Ancient Greek, Italian, French and German as well as their respective bodies of literature and philosophy
Just all of those years gone and what do I have to show for it?
Only 3 years of active study
It's not worth thinking about wasted time though

My first job was working at McDonalds. I quit in less than 2 weeks. Did few gigs that lasted less time than that. My second job was two different Alaskan fisherman jobs. I have been homeless for nearly 4 years. I'm nearly 30. This world is fake, too many artificial limitations. No interest. Rather be free.

>>213427955
So what's it like being homeless?

>>213428032
I have an SUV, so I'm basically royalty. I'm currently naked in my trunk or I'd take a picture. Prefer the winter, less foot traffic, cans get away with more. I'd make a killing if only I choose to get another job. Unfortunately, I'm deeply misanthropic.

The older I become, the more I think happiness is genetic. Not in the sense that physical more healthier people have less reasons to be upset by the world, but that some people simply seem to be glad to be alive every day no matter what their problems be. I like to think I'm closer to the happy wanderer than the opposite.

>>213419512
>At the age of 32
>I've been miserable for over 15 years
Did it ever occur to you that you should've gotten over your teenage angst by now?

>>213428072
How often do cops tell you to move along?

>>213428135
>I have a problem
>did it occur to you that you might have a problem?
...

>>213428072
What do you even do all day? Where do you get money for gas/food?

>>213428199
I mostly hangout behind a Denny's and eat some of the scrap food when it's really fresh, otherwise I hang out around the park or a river and charge my phone at McDonalds at night.

>>213428165
Literally not once because while crazy, I am not unintelligent.
>Run my tags
>Over 6 feet tall
>Don't see anyone in the car
>Must be empty
Meanwhile, I have lived in the same spot for years. I sleep like an L-piece on my side. Works for me.
>>213428199
In the Summer, I chase shadows aka drive around to places I know will have shade.cofr the moment, I get SSI. I will be paid for my fishing at some point, and will get off of SSI for a little while. Social Security has an accelerated program to get back on it within a year, so I'll pull my money out of the bank after taxes and do that. Will be nice to have a nest egg. In the Winter, I can sleep straighter and stay in bed all day. Burn candles to regular moisture and have some heat. Browse my phone, be horrified of the world.
>>213428254
You are not me.

>>213426086
What was your degree in?

>>213428291
Information studies, only it "wasn't" because I'm only 2 years in (I'm going to be a librarian)

I'm 22 and have never worked a day in my life. What do you think?

>>213428380
That's really niche bro, I hope you have somewhere setup that will hire you. I knew a girl that desperately wanted to be one but it's a really rare job.

>>213428393
It runs in the family, my paternal uncle, maternal aunt and my older sister are all doing it.

Okay so is this a Kaufman thread or not? Because if it is, I'm telling you to clean your rooms instead of watching this anti-human postmodernist drivel

>>213419512
I'm pretty successful but it takes 2 hours for me to pass a shit so I'm rather miserable desu

How do even you stop yourself from daydreaming about retarded shit all the time? I'm even more retarded than the guy in the movie because I'll do the same thing with people that I ghost and don't have the courage to reconnect with rather than people I never spoke to in the first place, some of them message me regularly telling me how much they miss me and I just ignore them while still having fake conversations with them in my head. It's so fucking unbelievably retarded I'm embarrassed to even admit it anonymously so I'm glad someone else was mentally ill enough to make a whole movie about something similar, though I'm not as old as the janny and think I could still make a change

I think I have to stop listening to music entirely as a start, music + an active imagination is literally worse than drugs

>>213428547

>>213428566
I never saw it, how does it relate?

>>213428576
It's the story of a guy who's constantly daydreaming to the very real detriment of his real life relationships, it sounds like exactly what you described

>>213428385
Im 22 too and Im going to a Military to see if it's for me.

>>213428593
Interesting, I'll check it out then

>>213428628
Guy from country with conscription army and mandatory service here, the army was a fun time but you don't want to spend more time there than you absolutely have to

>>213428185
Being miserable isn't an unsolvable problem, doing it for half your life is a choice.

Why is Charlie Kauffman so underrated? His movies have a unique level of depth but the he never wins any oscars

>>213428686
>never wins any oscars
He did for Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind

>>213418942 (OP)
The truth is that it was over before it even began.

>>213418942 (OP)
Some people already gave up since they were kids, subconsciously deciding to live a NEET life in the most irresponsible manner possible. It might be a genetic issue.

>>213419512
been in school foor a year now.
>t.32
suck it

>>213419512
I finished college at 30 and now havea decent programmer job
Everything else still applies tho. My life improved 0% since I stopped being a neet, besides not living with my mom and having to hear her nagging

>>213428656
I guess. I've been training. It's the first week shock that worries me.

IT'S A FUCKING JOKE STOP CARING
i was at the same shit place as most anons in my early-to-mid 20's
fixed my shit
am now in my 30's and did everything i was supposed to
have a well paying middle class job, could own a house very soon and am going steady with a girl
but its all shallow and i hate the girl i am with and only picked her so my parents are happy
i want to kill myself
i really want to
please convince me otherwise

>>213418942 (OP)
True dat. You are not your past. You can go the streets and make a person smile right now, thus improving their day.
A week spent knowing you made a change, however minuscule, is not bad at all.
Life is just a war with yourself, and it feels good when youre winning.

>>213429123
Fuck the doomposting in this thread. I just went out to a cafe to socialize and the people there treated me really nice, this young girl waitress was kind to me and I had an amazing drink while looking at the morning sun. Life is good.

>>213428960
The key is to realize it's all play-acting and to go along with it. Let out your inner theatre kid.

>>213429165
They were just nice to you because it's socially expected. They don't care about you as an individual and forgot you existed 20 seconds after you walked out of there.

>>213429531
>t. trans btw not sure if that matters
>oh heck brb im dilating really bad rn

>>213429165
Ignore that other anon, they thought you were a decent young man and would be more than happy if you were to go there tomorrow. Keep it up!

>>213420181
>Also absolutely criminal how much nobody wants to give him money to make more movies.
Ryan Gosling just did.

>>213420181
Of my top 10 favorite movies, 3-4 are by him directly or via script writing.

He makes top tier content and nobody in Hollywood seems to want him to make anything, really bizarre.

>>213429554
If it helps you cope, you can imagine me as whatever kike creature you wish. But you know all I described to be true.

if I died tomorrow I'm not too unhappy with how my life went
I made massive mistakes and have massive regrets, and I have many of the same issues you all have + I wear diapers and peepeepoopoo myself because of spinal issues
But I tried, at times, definitely could have tried harder, I am a lazy fuck, but I did try, and I got to see some interesting highs because of it, even if most of it were in lows (lows mostly caused by myself by the way, even if I did have some challenges)
Retarded as goofy world, also we got born during the fakest gayest times ever, but at least we had some material comforts. The problem is hedonism is fine for a time but rots the soul

I do suggest getting healthier though. The first few days are the worst then it gets easier. Just eat less and stop consuming sugar. t 270 to 170 pounds

thanks for reading my blog

>>213424874
I think most people where confused by the combination of it being non-chronological and also surreal / imagined.

But it's an easy 9/10 or 10/10 on second watch.

I do think the theater piece at the end was unnecessary and masturbatory. We get it Charlie you're a smart guy who understands theater, nobody cares.

>>213419512
29 and same

>>213429604
It's because his movies aren't big crowdpleasers and lose money. At least his novel turned out pretty successful, here's hoping the second one comes out soon

>all of you getting this worked up over Jewish media slop
End your lives. That's the real horror here. Your existences.
>>213429614
It is not. You're a loser on the internet who hates himself and acts like this because he's eternally stuck at 17. I wish when you die, cats eat your face and some hobo comes in and creampies your asshole and fucks your mouth and then skins you alive so he can cover himself at night with your skin when it gets cold and then maggots enter your body and copulate inside of you and you're nothing but a raped skinned hodgepodge of cum, skin, shit and flesh. I will do it myself to you.

>>213429719
If autistic threats of violence make you feel better, feel free to dish out some more. But once again, saying "you too!" to the waitress is not a social interaction no matter how much you delude yourself.

I moved countries in my late 20s. I'm not 39 shitty apartment, ok job no girlfriend or wife or any family or friends this part of the planet. I am pretty sure it is over for me.

>>213429719
You seem like a perfectly well-adjusted individual lol

>>213429745
How'd you move country with just an okay job? That shit always seems like you need to be highly skilled or just brown to be allowed in anywhere.

>>213429756
Well it is a fine job that requires a postgrad degree but I have to annually renew it and have no long term guarantee.

>>213429704
>>213419512
Excuses excuses

>>213420169
What about your friends?

>>213428090
There's some studies about this that suggest that you basically have a baseline happiness that doesn't really change whether you win a lottery or lose your arm.

>>213419512
I’m getting married in September

>>213428437
I mean....doesn't that kinda prove his point?

>>213419512
Literally me, except I am 10 years older.

>imaginary 5/10 waifu ends up hating you

>>213419922
Not being born with chad genetics. Add in overprotective parents and/or a pampering (single) mother and you're irredeemably doomed. If you also miss out on teenage love, then it's all finally sealed.

Better luck next time.

>>213418942 (OP)
I'm physically fit. I will try for a career and stuff after the civil war.

>>213419922
for me it was

>HS obviously not since ugly and short
>college major filled with 99% men
>graduate and get a job in field which is also all men

so its pretty easy to go KHV until 30 desu

>>213430019
It's such a great movie

>>213430019
Such is life for a janitor

>>213419512
Have you tried getting into racism and watching feminazi owned compilations on YouTube?

>>213426302
There is NOTHING left if you missed out on teenage love. You will never catch up on normies with the amount of sex partners or number of relationships.

Women are disgusted with inexperienced men.

>>213427425
Was your gf even a virgin? Had she fucked niggers or other subhumans?

>>213430091
>You will never catch up on normies with the amount of sex partners or number of relationships.
you people are so weird, why would you ever think about this
you're having sex wit ha woman and you're thinking about how many people normies, who you pretend to hate, had sex with, and how you compare?
Why?
Who cares?
So you had sex with less women than them, that sucks, get over it?
Some of you really need to be slapped in the face

>>213419512
>will waste 40 to 60 years cuz he already wasted 15

>>213422044
I have tattoos up to my fingertips and no job as long as a year but i find it easy to get hired. You are not applying yourself

>>213430109
>why would you ever think about this
Agony over onetits and inability to talk to her in high school, so they think it's over.

>>213430157
Joke's on you, I asked my crush out in the 9th grade and got rejected like a real man!

>>213430109
Because the amount of sex you get defines your value as a man. Women do not want sub-humans (gamers, nerds, manlets, fatties, non-chads, virgins).

>>213430181
You are an incel and it's entirely your own doing.

>>213430205
>you are voluntarily involuntary
???

>>213430205
No, it is done by the society which gamerphobic feminist women have turned into chad only.

>>213430212
Never said you did it voluntarily. But you clearly are one.

>>213430224
This rhetoric is literally an incel cliche at this point.

>>213430248
I'm pretty sure he's yanking your chain, pal. Here, enjoy these dulcet tones and let the worries slip from your weighty brow. You deserve some rest, king.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CJMNkoRJnSw

>>213430248
Be chad, looksmaxx or be alone:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j6yFadu2yV4

Value and status are the only things that matter.

>>213429904
She'll divorce you.

>>213430062
Being a KHV at 30 isn't nearly the problem you guys make it out to be. Having no education or career at 30 is way fucking worse.

I had basically no experience with women until I was 28, but I decided to get on tinder because I was finally earning a good salary and living alone after a severely prolonged childhood and spending 9 years on what should have been a 5 year masters degree.

It took be around 6 months of awkard fumbling and embarrassing myself on dates before I started figuring out how to handle myself, but now I'm 33, have had multiple girlfriends and live with a woman who I'm essentially engaged with.

I can undestand the people who are blackpilled over being broke and unemployable at 30, but being KHV just means you should kick yourself in the ass and go fuck some girls who are younger than you, so you can impress them with your adult money and they won't realize how awkward you are.

I know several boomer couples who hooked up when the guy was 30 and the girl 18, or the guy 40 and the girl 24. Even one couple where he was 50 and she was 29. Exact same situation with the guy being some asocial retard who just careermaxed until he realized he should probably get his act together and start paying attention to women. The 50 year old had 2 daughters within 3 years of meeting his wife, and sure he's 69 now while his oldest daughter is 17, and he could very well be dead before ever becoming a grandpa, which is far from ideal, but at least he actually made it.

>>213430512
>LIFE IS ABOUT WORSHIPPING HOLES EVERYTHING YOU DO IS ABOUT HOW TO GET YOUR DICK INTO A FEMALE HOLE
Life is a joke.

My dad sold off a decent sized mountain view property in VT and now I’ll have pretty much nothing. Nowhere to go and nothing to offer. I’m just like any other shitter out there because apart from some assets we are part of the struggling middle class. Unless I start all over and build something that won’t even be half as good as what we had I have nothing. I don’t even fucking work. Fuck.

>>213429750
Far more well adjusted than your hole-worshipping cuckold self. Thank fuck I am not you or I would stab myself to death with a shard of glass if I woke up one day as yourself then I'd kill your family and rape them so your genes never pass on.

>>213430585
>EVERYTHING YOU DO IS ABOUT HOW TO GET YOUR DICK INTO A FEMALE HOLE
This but unironically.

>>213430091
What the actual fuck do you get out of spreading these sorts of lies?

>>213429744
Your family will all die.

>>213430585
For over a billion years your every single ancestor has fulfilled this simple function, yet you decide it doesn't matter, thus ending the chain.
Reproduction is the one thing that life is supposed to do, there are many species that die once they've managed this because it's the end of their life cycle and the beginning of the next one. And you say nah, I'd rather not risk getting rejected.

>>213430627
>>213430646
No, it's not. Get off your oversocialization echo chambers or end your lives.

>>213430616
>>213430640
Take a chill pill lol
Also you sound underage, are you upset about the end of your summer vacation?

>>213430654
Why is it that every single one of your ancestors saw reproduction as important enough to do it but you don't?

>>213430660
I am now masturbating to the thought of you dying in your death bed while weeping silently in despair while your useless vocal chords try to cry out to mommy and daddy to save you as you want to go back to being a kid again and not die.

>>213430684
Yeah you are definitely underage lol
Does your mom know what you do on her computer?

>>213430681
Because they were dumb fucking animals and I don't want to be one myself. I'd rather die alone than play in this circus.

>>213430700
And you worship feMALES. You're lower than a maggot eating dirt on the ground.

>>213419512
This is exactly me except I'm 31, had sex once in my life 9 years ago, a year of retail experience, have a car, and some basic entry-level IT certs. The problem is I'm hideously ugly and people comment on it when I go outside. Nobody wants to hire/work with me. It's over for me, too, brother.

>>213419512
I 'm 34 and have a car, a job, hobbies and a few friends but still live at home and am a virgin. I still feel like a loser.

>>213426178
Same. I think with them gone I'd go off the deep end. To what extent I wonder

>>213430646
>billions of years of reproduction
>it was you who broke the chain of suffering

>>213419512
Same except I'm almost 38, have a car, and I'm not miserable.

>>213419512
Indeed is right there, go fill out a job application you fucking leech.

>>213430795
I'm 20, I have been working on my career since before I graduated high school. I totally missed out on all the "fun" stuff people typically associate with being 16-20 (partying, sex, drugs, etc.).
I managed to have a handful of (bad) relationships through the years and have been fairly successful in my career. Everyone I know that partied and had fun laments it and tells me they wish they did what I did. I don't think it makes a difference.
I honestly think it doesn't matter what you do in life at this point because everything external to you will overpower it. You could be driving a 1995 camry or a 2025 LX460 and that will have no effect on whether or not a homeless person is pissing on themselves 5ft from your window at a set of traffic lights. No amount of meditation or money or marriage is gonna stop the air you breathe from smelling like shit because of the pollution coming from the city.

We are all the pig with maggots.

>>213430181
Wrong. Women want Chad, that's it. It doesn't matter if it's gamer Chad, nerd Chad, IT Chad, etc. as long as it's Chad. When women say they want X guy, they mean Chad who happens to be or do X.

>>213430512
If any of this shit was true, there would not be any single guys and women would even accept overweight gamers as their bf. Women will never reject chad and they will never settle for an inexperienced man.

>>213419512

>>213430630
>lies
lol lmao even

My therapist thinks I should start putting myself out there in terms of dating. I'd pretty much be up for any woman that is nice and would tolerate me, but I don't think that person exists.
>ugly
>only kinda tall
>below average, dead end job/salary in a high cost of living area, been stuck here 7 years because I'm terrified of change
>live with and pay rent to my mom as a result
>csa victim
>below average dick
>been in therapy and on anxiety/depression meds for longer than that
>have zero experience with women since they've been at best apathetic and at worst reputation-destroyingly vindictive my entire life, spent most of my youth playing video games as a result
>generally unassertive, scared of authority, confrontation, change
I'd never tell her this but the only reason I haven't killed myself is that it would ruin my mom's life. Thank you for reading my blog.

>>213430997
Yes, work your life away so some jew can make more money while you can't even afford an apartment that isn't in the ghetto. Then after decades of making all that money for some jew, you can die, and the very day they'll replace you with someone else.

>>213421754
>I would give anything to go back to 32.
man, if you think 40 is too old to start something new, you don't deserve to be 32 again.. you would just fuck it up again anyway.

you people spend too much time watching other people over the internet. who cares what's the right age for anything? who decides that?

>>213431049
True. Women made the world chad only and they should get what they fucking deserve for ruining it for the rest of us.

>>213431079
Get on dating apps and swipe right on everyone. Then when you get nothing but OF advertisements, bring the numbers to them. Watch as they say more bullshit to avoid admitting that women are subhuman scum that are all the same.

Just ask a girl out bro

>>213431127
Forgot link

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jbALU943nsQ

>>213431110
Exactly. If even 25% of guys stop catering to women, shit would slowly start to change. Stop giving them any attention, moving when walking, helping them, etc. They don't see non-Chads as people, so don't see them as people either.

>>213431099
You can't do anything in your 40s anymore except go to work and sit at home unless you have succeeded at life. It's completely over if you haven't expedienced the things you should have.

>>213430585
My post was making the exact opposite point you fucking retard. The first paragraph is literally
>Being a KHV at 30 isn't nearly the problem you guys make it out to be. Having no education or career at 30 is way fucking worse.
Of course you can be happy and content being celibate. Being happy and content while poor and unaccomplished is much harder.

>>213431057
Women don't give a shit about you having sexual experience, but they obviously don't want some fat manchild. Get a career, get in shape, and stop wasting time on whatever lookism hellpit that is feeding you all your self-defeating ideas.

>>213431099
>who cares what's the right age for anything? who decides that?
Cool, can't wait to see what happens when you have a bunch of 40+ year-old men hanging around high school or younger age people. I'm sure the cops won't get called or anything, right? As you said, who cares what's the right age for anything.

>>213430902

>>213431178
>Women don't give a shit about you having sexual experience
So you're saying all those videos of women laughing at virgin dudes or saying they wouldn't date a virgin guy are 100% fake? If not, then you have no argument.
>stop wasting time on whatever lookism hellpit
>get in shape
>women don't want some fat manchild
Contradicted yourself in the same fucking post. Holy shit, you clearly don't believe anything you say.

>>213431178
>getting a career
totally possible as a 30yo+ khhv virgin, yeah right

>getting in shape
kinda late for that, in your 30s you are supposed to know what to do at the gym so that you dont get laughed out by chads

And even IF it was possible to get in shape and get a career, none of that shit would bring back the wasted years. All this to get a woman? It's very impossible to get a 18-21you virginal gf as a 32yo+ man. You'd have to go through all that trouble to get a race traitorous liberal feminist single mom who has her body count in three digits.

>>213431261
This, neve expect any logical argumentation from normies who watch capeshit.

>>213431323
>totally possible as a 30yo+ khhv virgin, yeah right
Okay, I'm just going to post my opening paragraph a third time for your benefit.
>Being a KHV at 30 isn't nearly the problem you guys make it out to be. Having no education or career at 30 is way fucking worse.
I agree anon. You obviously fucked up if you don't have anything to show for it careerwise at 30

>kinda late for that, in your 30s you are supposed to know what to do at the gym so that you dont get laughed out by chads
Oh, you're just shitposting. Shit, consider me b8ed. God damn.

>>213431261
You have incredibly shit reading comprehension my man. If you think not being fat and having interests besides 'videogames' constitutes 'lookism' you are unironically beyond saving.

>So you're saying all those videos of women laughing at virgin dudes or saying they wouldn't date a virgin guy are 100% fake? If not, then you have no argument.
What do you think this proves? Do you think all white women enjoy interacial gangbangs because you spend all your freetime watching Blacked?

How is your sexual experience ever going to be a barrier for entry anyway? I sure as hell didn't admit to people I was a virgin. After I lost my virginity, the girl asked me how many previous partners I'd had, and I told her to guess, and she guessed 20.
Unless you insist on wearing a t-shirt that says 'Virgin' on the front, there's no reason it should hold you back.

>>213431414
>What do you think this proves?
It proves that you're wrong and women do care if you're sexual experienced or not.
>immediately brings up blacks and tries to use it as an ad hominem
I accept your concession
>I sure as hell didn't admit to people I was a virgin
Because you know women care about it, and you just proved that.

Thanks for failing 3 times in one post and proving me right every time. I accept your concession.

>>213431508
>It's true if I saw a clickbait video about it.
This mindset alone is enough to completely ruin your life, nevermind all your other delusions.

Good luck being a failed adult anon. I hope you come around to realizing your whole life is in front of you and you're the only one who can make it happen.

>>213431618
Strawman/10

You failed once again. You clearly are a very low IQ person because goddamn you have lost every single time. Just quit now and stop embarrassing yourself.

>>213430181
Imagine actually believing this

>currently 33
>still at ground zero of life
>never experienced any sort of relationship, sex, nothing
>limited experience with friendships
>same low paid dead end job for a decade, in an extremely high cost of living area where everyone is rich and successful
>never moved out of childhood home
>never did something as basic as getting a car and driving
>so miserable and depressed for years that I barely speak, barely look up, barely make eye contact, never smile or laugh

I don't even know what to say. I don't even know how to explain it. How I could just sit there for over a decade and waste my entire youth along with any chance I had at a decent life. I ruminate about it every second of every day. Every waking second I ask myself how I could do this, How I could be so mentally ill to let this happen. Isn't like I got into drugs, or alcohol, or got into incel redpill stuff, or any bad behaviors. I just did nothing.

Yesterday I finally had a complete mental breakdown to a parent, about how I've given up and how much I want to die. I'm not going back to my suicide inducing job either. They say they will send me to a hospital and get me help but I doubt it, and even if I go, I doubt it helps. I've wasted and ruined my entire life. I've never had basic social experiences, career experiences, life milestones and checkpoints. It's never going to happen for me. There's no hope for the future. There's no light at the end of the tunnel.

I'll be honest I don't care about being a virgin anymore at 31. Don't see any point in begging for a crumb on the apps when all I'll get in return is herpes.

I see the narrow path to my freedom but I'm too weak to put in the effort to know computers that well

>>213431927
Meet others like yourself? Perhaps inside a psyche ward?
How common is this.

>>213430646
all my ancestors weren't up against this playing field, you know that. I am glad you had success, I have to. Our success and flings are shallow compared to loyal family building. That isn't something men can achieve because the modern field of women prevent it, don't make me list all the ways how

>>213431323
disingenuous lout, no one listen to this guy
show up at the gym even if you are drooling, 400lbs, and crawl. I'll do stairmaster with you. I'll spot you. You are here to get better.

>>213432249
None of these people have ever experienced any kind of negative attention in the gym. The idea that fat people are humiliated in gyms only persists so they have an excuse to not go.

>>213426155
The problem with this image is its not real. People realize they're wasting their lives but are powerless to change it. Thats infinitely more bleak.

No pussy, no work, no taxes.

Simple as. If I don't get laid, taxes wont be paid.

>>213433014
What's tragic is 10 million shitskins risk their lives every year to bribe or smuggle themselves into western society to get access to our amazing opportunities.
Meanwhile people actually born here will say something as retarded as "I'm powerless to change my life for the better", even though they're more empowered to forge their own success than almost any human ever was (discarding literal cavepeople)

>>213428385
>>213428628
I’m 22. I haven’t had a job in five years. I have no idea what to do for college or if I should even go especially with AI taking over coding fields, which was the one thing I felt like I wanted to learn

>>213433161
Why do you act like life is some video game. Niggers have a 100+ year head start and they still do worse than chinks and jeets that come over. Your success comes from your genetic traits.

>>213431927
Bro, I know it will sound really reductionist but start exercising hard and eating well. Take a trip to another country you've wanted to go to. Get a remote work job if you can. There's stuff you can do freelance that doesn't require a set schedule. The most important thins is that you start to make real changes in what you are doing. The momentum isn't going to be constant and you are still going to feel shitty sometimes and run into roadblocks and tragedies, but if you just get some momentum going and make a conscious effort to keep pushing even when you feel like shit, you can change your life and reshape your whole future in what's actually a pretty short period of time. Good luck to you and everyone else in the thread having a hard time and feeling down and out. It really only takes a few months to change your life for the better. You can do it, and I believe you.

>>213419512
Help your parents out in any way you can, cherish your hobbies

>>213419512
I don't remember posting this, am I going schizo now too

>>213419512
Literally just go to Catholic Church you loser.
It's that simple.

I have paper skin disease. I should have died in my 20s and yet I’m still here in my 30s. No woman will ever want me

Shut up faggot

Shut the fuck up

>>213418942 (OP)
This is unironically my favorite movie and I cried watching this scene

>>213419512
I got my license just now at 34.
I've had sex but it's been so long it may as well have never happened.
I have good friends, but it's awkward to talk about some topics because they have good careers and I don't even work currently.
Of course no gf.

>>213418942 (OP)
>28
>balding, fat (went to a nutritionist but it's going slowly), friendless KHV
>accident after accident after accident
>getting kicked out of Uni
>no talents, or any experience with anything, nothing
>back to living with parents in the tiny apartment, trying to study for the classes I have left but it's hopeless with the time left and circumstances
I honestly don't know what's left. I'm trying to make my peace with my life ending up like this, and on some level I can do it. I've fallen so far that my ego has sort of eroded. I can deal with dying alone as a KHV and all that. But I don't know how to find even a menial job just to support myself. And I don't know how I can do this dance for 50, 60 years. That's more than I've been alive already. It's too much. Most days I wish I'd die soon.

>>213419512
literally me

>>213419512
I'm this. I'm trying to baby steps my way to something better but there's no job/career i'm interested in so I keep getting really depressed about work.

>>213433948
Curious, how have your friends stayed with you the entire time? Not trying to be mean, because I'm in the same situation but don't have any friends. It seems like people who are somewhat normal and successful would ditch someone who's a loser like us. Do they try to help you? Do they show any concern for your state of life? Or is it just kind of like a think you guys don't speak about, and they don't ask you about dating or job or anything?

>>213419512
>The faggot insufferable losers on 4chan who larp all day about being muh based Aryan Whites, stoke flame-wars all-day, argue about shit they know nothing about all-day, and go on about how they're le Chads are actually pathetic, depressed, failed-male, worthless motherfuckers who can't touch pussy, lives with their parents, contributes zero to society, and wants to kill themselves

WOW who could have guessed. I sincerely hope you either hang yourself, or drink bleach in the near future. No-one feels any kind of sympathy nor empathy for you, you pathetic demonic fuck. Most especially if you're anything like 98% of the "people" who browse this board(and website in-general). The life you've led till now I hope was filled with complete misery, and despair. No-one loves you, and the other ugly faggot retards here that will no-doubt comfort you because they're likely pathetic losers themselves aren't humans.

TLDR; drink bleach. Do so before you inevitably go on a shooting, or murder your parents after they tell you to get a job or else they'll kick you out.

>>213435764
>4chan is one person
You will never be a woman btw

>>213435764
>who larp all day about being muh based Aryan Whites, stoke flame-wars all-day, argue about shit they know nothing about all-day, and go on about how they're le Chads

I have never done a single one of those things. I'm not racist, I don't troll and flame people, I don't argue much, and I never say I'm a Chad. I don't spew hate.

>WAAAH I HATE MY LIFE AND HAVE NOTHING, BETTER KILL MYSELF OH THE MISERY OF MY EXISTANCE
Never understood this mindset, you have nothing and dont care about your own life? Thats not a curse, thats a fucking superpower. Nigga you can do ANYTHING. Go hobo and travel the world hitchhiking for free, do crack with the homies under the bridge, go shoot at russians in donbass, get one of those "white people jobs" in china (like pretending to be security to make the chink seem more important) or even better go be white in subsahara africa working for some NGO or some shit (NGO's are actually racist as shit, if your not white you're not getting to manage any of the developmental aid) and get some black pussy... The options are endless for some lone white guy from a developed country that doesnt care about staying alive anymore, yet you sit in your moms basement contemplating suicide. Very gay and retarded

I seriously do not get whats wrong with be a janitor?
>Work at own pace
>Usually work alone can listen to podcast or music
>Pay is usually decent
????

>>213430091
>There is NOTHING left if you missed out on teenage love.
just kill yourself then. You won't? Why not? If you decide to live, you may as well have some fun doing it, instead of whining about what you lost

>>213436053
>get one of those "white people jobs" in china (like pretending to be security to make the chink seem more important)
Tell us more about these.

>>213419512
You've probably said the same thing to yourself every day for the past 15 years
It's never too late to make life better for yourself and allow yourself the effort to at least try and make yourself happy. Stop being shackled by self-imposed delusions of what your life should have been and take a step today to make yourself happy

>>213427618
>the only people i've met
Selection Bias, Survivorship bias too
You don't meet the ones stuck in that hole, the worst cases don't make it to that age

>>213436112
Google "white monkey jobs", you're basically used as accessory by a rich chinese fucker but you don't need any skills, for example its better if you dont speak chinese because makes you seem more important lol.
I heard the japs and koreans also have jobs like that but mainly to subvert their strict (and very dumb) corporate hierarchies: " You cannot tell your korean boss he is doing something retarded because that would be verry disrepectfully? Why not tell the designated white guy in the company so he can tell the boss he is a fucking dumbass"

>talk with younger coworker
>he's lived 10 times more than me in half the time
I tried my best
It's just not fair

Fucking normies who have had gf's etc handed to them on a silver platter for their entire lives couldn't last a second in the life of a khhv virgin incel beta male nice guy gamer.

>>213421754
You've had sex? You fucking normie.

>>213428679
>doing it for half your life is a choice.
fuck you and fuck your family

>>213428090
Happiness is based on wealth and social status. If you are born into a wealthy or successful family, you will be happy, simple as.

>>213423134
this, jeets drive 24/7 it’s crazy, they are smelly but they like working and making money, unlike niggers

>>213419512
yeh i'm 30 this month and i got evicted and now I live with my uncle along with my mom (who borrowed thousands from me when i was working but told me to fuck off and never paid me back). I thought trying to be a programmer was a good career pick with job stability but I can't get hired because my resume sucks and I didn't do enough in my last job.

>>213424012
like the other anon said most uber drivers don’t even know how to speak your countries language let alone the streets, just use google maps or the uber app

>>213419512
I'm identical to this post and my mom needs thousands of dollars of dental work. I feel like shit that I cant buy her teeth but I also feel like she brought all of this on herself including me and my lack of competence. She spent most of my childhood screaming in my face because of her marriage and I resent her heavily. I dunno how to get out with no resume and no work experience. I work with my father sometimes outside but it's not even part time and it's basically under the table. I have no money, no interest in going back to school, and sometimes I feel like dying would be better.

>be 52
>get in an accident
>hospital for a month
>every fucking nurse/doctor keeps telling me I'm still young
>realize people live so much longer and healthier that 50 is middle aged now instead of 35 like when I was a teen

>>213421445

Losing hold of what friends one had as they move on in life is hard. My gf left me a couple months ago - fucking bitch - and I've belatedly realised how virtually all the social cachet and network I had left was through her. I know I'm more fortunate than many to have a good relationship with my brothers (even tho there's a certain ambient humiliation from them both being more successful than me) but its still pretty fucking lonely.

>>213419512
The worst part about being like this is that I know it's probably not that difficult to change. Getting a license and car, teenagers do that. Making friends and getting a relationship is apparently not difficult since everyone does it. Moving on your own, getting a decent job, everyone does it. Go get education, everyone does it.

But for some reason, it just seems like an insurmountable mountain for me to climb. There's just so many things I'm behind and failed in. Living like a loser for your entire life, being able to suddenly fix yourself and change, it doesn't seem possible.

>>213438562
Making actual friends after like college is ridiculously hard and normies don't do it either.

>>213438799
Yes I know and that's what's even more debilitating. Normal people find friendships and sometimes now even relationships hard in your 30s and beyond. Well not only am I in that situation and age, but it isn't even like I was regularly having friends and girlfriends and sex when at the prime easy ages for them. I've just always been a complete outcast for everything. Socially, career, everything.

>What did I expect?

>What did you expect?

>>213419512
yeah... 35, living with parents, only about 40k to my name which is spent on doctors appointments and health insurance which is about the lowest level you can get before free
herniated disc, bad posture because of the disc which causes weird pain below my shoulderblades, keep getting the runaround from doctors, going on 2 years of just nonstop pain from nerve compression
no career, no friends, no established credit even, no retirement funds, no motivation in life, used to like to cook but cant do that anymore its gotten so bad
gonna try to get on disability next year, no idea if that'll even give me enough to pay for appointments and insurance

I have never seen a vagina.

>>213435764
>retarded wannabe Chads = sadsacks commiserating with other sadsacks
There actually can be a delineation between the faggots who believe their Aryanism makes them the second coming of Christ and the anons who are just here to have fun and make irreverent jokes in one of the few places they belong. Its just that one of those groups is far louder than the other and has come to represent the identity of the site as a whole, even if not every anon pulls the same shit or takes themselves so seriously.

>>213428635
>>213428635
the daydreaming is a feature of the movie but isnt necessarily core to the plot
what causes mitty to start being invested in his own life is the corporate restructuring and the personal fear of having failed to do the utmost in his job for the first time since hes had it
hes worried about not getting the film negative when he starts to make changes in his life, and not at all driven by a need to overcome said boring life
the movie is two plots and two themes awkwardly stiched together with some overlapping coherence that turns it from a 2/10 mess into a 5/10 movie that you watch because it happens to be on a streaming service that week
the locales are the only thing which really stand out, which is probably why it feels like a long tourism ad

>>213439390
>reasoning with a spiteful mutant that defaults to violence every time while pretending to be the good guy
You must be new here

Movie in OP?
Problem Child 2?
>>213419512
I was in a pretty similar place at 30.
But then I started investing energy in having a better life. That's how it works for most. Some get it for free, some have been fucked from the start, but most just have to work on it.
I guess it started with me going to a bar, just getting a beer and sitting at the bar. After a while a guy next to me got a beer to and said cheers to me. We started talking and on it went.
One of his friends, later also mine, actually murdered his own dad, then went out with me, all night, later to another party, until noon on Sunday. He just didn't want to go home for some reason.
Only a week later I learned what the reason for his behavior was. Crushed his skull with some blunt object.
Anyways, mostly it was good stuff and I have a decent life now. It's entirely possible for most.
Best of luck.

What's the female equivalent of these threads?

>>213439835
>tfw only 7 chads on rotation

>>213439835
/r/ChildFree

>>213439835
crystal cafe threads and /r/femaledatingstrategy
that Tea app that just had a major security breach

>>213419512
and so the plan is to keep living like this? what are you doing nigger?

>>213438109
Forget your mom's teeth, sucks but you're not fixing that shit. You would feel less resentful if you moved away, that happens to most people. You can find work enough to scrape by, and work upwards from there, but that's up to you. Many people make themselves their own prisoner.

>>213439324
Anon, get a call center job or something temporary, get approved for a credit card, build credit slowly and safely (spending less than 30% limit and paying on time). You can explore disability but credit is a time based thing you need to actively be working on. If something serious happens you'll be fucked, and it's wishful thinking to think "oh nothing bad will happen" after already having a fucked up back which is a death sentence in the wild.

>>213437370
reading this alone made my pussy shrivel bro

>>213437370
This but u ironically. Remember normies literally went insane when they couldn't have casual sex for 2 weeks during COVID.

>NEET nuclear meltdown thread

>>213440835
I'm surprised it's still up.
What the fuck is KHHV?

>>213436088
It's not just about him being a janitor. He has greater ambitions (he used to be into art and science, but his parents never encouraged his pursuits) and is lonely but never took action in making those reality. He spends most of his time fantasizing of what could be or what could have been, instead of going out and doing it, and by the time he realizes that's what he should have done all along, tragically, it is too late (it happens literally right before he dies).

He is not stupid, I believe he actually did read a bunch of books and is knowledgeable. However, he is too old to use that knowledge in a meaningful way. His fantasy in the movie is being his young self again, only possessing all of the knowledge he has now in old age so he can actually use it to gain approval, attract a woman and make a career out of it.

Btw the actor who played his younger self was in his early 30s (i think 32, 33?) when this movie came out. So yes, it is not too late for the majority of you. However, constantly thinking "it's too late for me, I won't even try" puts you in the same mentality as the janitor. If there is any moral to this story, it's to stop thinking about what you want, stop being afraid of making a sacrifices or taking some risks since you have to start somewhere, and go out and get what you want.

To think, it's a movie about a janny... yet it describes the average 4chan user instead. Is this the jannies getting their revenge?

okay i just watched the movie and i guess it was good? don't really know what it was about except that aging sucks and that you let your life slip away from you for no reason at all

>total NEET destruction

>>213435601
>How have your friends stayed with you the entire time?
We still have the same hobbies (board games, judo, video games) they just do it less because work. We discuss new stuff and enjoy playing together.
>It seems like people who are somewhat normal and successful would ditch someone who's a loser like us
I feel that way too, but also the older I get the harder it is to keep friends. I think we're all just tired, and we know the system is against you. I also do my best to be a nice guy, and I think that cuts you a lot of slack.
>Do they try to help you?
No, but I know they would if I asked. I don't want to be a burden. Two have suggested I move in with them, but they live in a place where I'd have to kick up 1,500$ minimum and they command unreal salaries (one bills 450$/hr), the other is a VP for a bank.
>Do they show any concern for your state of life?
No, they just ask how my family is. They've never asked about a gf, their girlfriends have asked me about it though.

>>213419850
maybe the best post I've seen all day, truly, unequivocally based
for me? It was a couple handfuls of very sharp shredded cheddar, and some chips and salsa

>>213440835
>>213441950
It may be NEET nuclear meltdown and destruction in this thread, but I was never some arrogant misguided NEET who acted like working was for suckers or "jews" and that not doing anything is the best thing in life. It's just the severe misery that my utterly worthless, meaningless life has brought me that caused me to melt down.

>>213421635
another based post. Need to add cheese to your olives, however.

>>213424012
>This dude isn't chasing it because of DREAMS
Anon I was once hit by a car and sent spinning across six lanes of oncoming traffic. I had my best friend in the passenger seat and nearly fucking killed both him and myself. You know what I did after that, despite waking up screaming from nightmares and suffering PTSD from it? I got another fucking car and rode that bitch till she died. You need to realize that a slow rot by your own fear and weakness is literally worse than death and you cannot conquer your life if you refuse to engage with things that frighten you.

>>213419512
Who cares what society wants from you? If you don't support that society or the direction it is going in, why would you ever contribute to it in any way?
But if you are really convinced living a normie life is the key to happiness (it isn't) don't waste your time with college. Get a trade education. The jobs pay well and most have insane benefits. Best of all they actually have spots to fill in the economy. If I didn't have an OVI, I would have become a trucker. Literally chilling on the road by yourself for a few weeks then have tons of time off, get paid 6 figures out the gate. I remember reading on /x/ about an anon who played trucker simulator then decided to just do it for a living because it was comfy.

>>213422989
So just rot away and die then what point are you trying to make? Why not at least try? It's cliche but you really just have to take it one step at a time

>>213419512
>32
You're a fuckin kid. I'm 46. Get your shit together

>>213435764
You sound more psychotic than the people you hate, making far fetched assumptions and hoping for their demise

>>213435764
>4chan is one person
You're a retarded normalfag and you found out about this website a couple of years ago.

>>213437974
satire?

>>213429745
So was moving an upgrade or downgrade?

i wont share it again here, because /tv/ is full of monkeybrained brownies anyway, but its never too late. i've been drawing consistently for six months now, dropping most other shit and have broken through countless barriers so much that i cant stop and any other activity is boring and almost a chore, forcing me to take breaks and relax. i'll be turning 35 later this year and i've never been happier for myself and for not giving up. its not too late. it might taken a while till you found or remembered what you like most, it might still does, but giving up is literally retarded. the time will pass anyway, right? why not use it you monkeybrained niggers

>>213422989
Unless you are actually, literally planning on killing yourself (and not just fantasizing or thinking about doing it) then you either have to try at some point, or you die a slow death from not trying.

That's why "the blackpill" is pointless. "Everything's fucked"... okay, so what now? Should we all just kill ourselves or what?

>>213419512
I'm 29, pretty lonely some days but I distract myself with classic vidya and tv/movies and the occasional book, I do work and have my own car though so really no excuse for me other than I realized like 99.999% of people fucking suck so I just work and live for myself and my interests. Sorry you feel the way you do and anything that has happened to you in those 15 years but at least try to enjoy things and live for your own happiness at the very least anon.

>>213423134
google maps you retard

>>213419512
cool, nobody asked though

I’m 26 years old and I don’t know how to swim, ride a bike, or tie my shoes. I also can’t cook not even in a microwave. I feel like a mentally retarded child, like I don’t deserve to be treated as an adult
>just learn bro
I tried I can’t.

>>213418942 (OP)
I will literally never be happy without female validation. Yes it is pathetic and I'm gay and retarded.

>>213439352
Not even in porn?

>>213429058
Stop living to please others. What do you stand to lose if you drop a gf you hate? Even if your parents are disappointed what do you have to lose from that either? You're holding on to things that make you unhappy. You're unhappy because you're not being authentic to yourself. Any why? because the alternative is worse? How? You legit want to kys, how could the alternative possibly be worse? The path to happiness is subtractive. Eliminate things that make you miserable/unnecessary burdens = less stress; more time for introspection, creative expression, etc.; more money for yourself to save to retire, exit the rat race. If it makes you feel better, no one is really happy because we live in an artificial societal construct that is designed to cater to the needs of the plutocrats. It is a system based on efficiency at the cost of human well-being under the guise of "progress". Progress towards what? Humanity is being led off a cliff.

>>213422044
>Yeah, I had to take care of my Alzheimer grandma for 3 years I burned through savings doing that and my brother supported us financially
>I was working on a farm in Iowa
>I was cycling through Argentina, sleeping in tent.
>I was trying to make it into the movie industry in LA and working nights in a bar

>>213422044
This is true. Only job was 10 years ago and I got fired. Now I can't get a job in fast food or construction. They're all felons, but at least they can explain where they've been.

>>213424874
It's too metaphysical and metaphorical for normalfags while also revealing fart-sniffing artfags as losers trapped inside their own heads. The scene where the film makes fun of Robert Zemeckis' movies is so fucking funny that I had to pause it for a minute when I was watching it for the first time. It's also a really sad film without any kind of cruelty, so the average psychopath is unable to enjoy it as miseryporn. Basically it just filters a lot of people and is made for a very particular audience.

>>213429683
>I do think the theater piece at the end was unnecessary and masturbatory
That's the point though. Janitor thought he was doing something amazing while it's actually just ridiculous and pathetic.

>>213419512
Nah you still have plenty of time but you're fucked if you already decided not doing shit

>>213447294
>The scene where the film makes fun of Robert Zemeckis' movies is so fucking funny that I had to pause it for a minute when I was watching it for the first time.
When I saw Robert Zemeckis in the credits I laughed so hard man. What a great film.

>>213428834
This happened to me, I remember being 12 and feeling so dejected and it all hitting me at once that I just didnt feel capable of ever having a job or being a normal person. And that feeling just followed me for 10+ years. Now I want to try and be normal but its like how do you recover from 15 years of arrested development. I cant even look a person in the eye let alone get a job or make friends. I wouldnt even know where to begin.

>>213437937
He's right. At a certain point you have to take accountability for the circumstances of your own life.

>>213421635
Why do I have the feeling I would regret eating 30 to 40 olives?

>this thread has been up nearly 24 hours
site really is dead, huh. I think it's the AIDS 2 minute timer on every post

>>213448200
What's your problem, man?

>>213419512
>only 32
>parents still alive, still providing for him
kek pussy. i'm 40 and no one pays my way. i can't even put more money into the stock market with rent what it is. you think anyone will rescue me? you could be stacking bills and building a portfolio right now.
pathetic, really.

>>213421635
>>213447916
i've eaten an entire jar of olives with no problems. now, i may have an ulcer. but i've had it for well over 10 years and i really don't think it was the olives. i did eat a lot of olives before and after i got this ulcer, but again, i can't say it was the olives. it probably wasn't the olives, it was probably my raging alcoholism.

>>213448809
Parents don't pay my way at all. I even pay them a lot of rent living with them.

>>213449270
are they charging you below market rate? otherwise why the hell are you living with your parents?
you should tell them you'd like to build a stock portfolio, so can they please give you a moratorium or a reduction in your rent so you can put it into stocks. if they're not retarded they'll recognize the value of this. my parents were retards with no assets.

>>213418942 (OP)
This movie was really gay.

>>213420169
faggot

I'm just afraid all the time.
I don't wanna be afraid anymore.

>>213447916
It's okay so long as you eat precisely 30 to 40 olives. Just eat 30 to 40 olives it's good for you.

>>213419512
in asia, they would make statues of us
losermaxxing is not so bad when you don't even see the point of the alternatives

>>213440926
Newfag