Thread 213453694

best thread on /tv/ right now

i cant believe the amount of lying they did to women telling them its normal to and even healthy to wait til mid 30s or later to have kids.

>>213454098
>il mid 30s or later to have kids.
financially it is. im never having kids but if I did it would be when im finically stable which would be my mid to late 30s

Plenty of children turn out fine, you spergs. You should be more concerned with the toxic chemicals being allowed in Our drinking water.

>>213454134
It's generally safer for a woman to have a child when she's younger.

>>213454098
Who lied to them about this? I am genuinely baffled when women in their thirties talk about how they'll have kids "someday." Are they really that far removed from reality or is it a cope?

>>213454134
>Noooo not my hecking careerino!!! These damned brats will have to wait!!!

>>213454134
Pussy

>>213454134
Delatarious and Prayshus have ten kids by the time they are 28. So does Juan and Guadalupe, and Dikshit and Priya. You can afford kids but you’re just a Timmy.

>>213454168
Older women.

>>213454202
This isn't the funny post you thought it was when you were writing it.

just adopt

This movie was so fucking terrible. They did my boy Jon B dirty. Dude was just tryna freeze out the haters, but got burned more and more with every local

>>213454202
>>213454176
>the economy is just as strong as ever
this is your fault rabbi

>>213454202
kek

>>213454134
Good. Nobody should have kids. I wish I could instantly sterilize every single person on Earth.

>>213454176
>>213454202
>its ok to have children you cant afford
>because it just is ok!!!

>>213454134
ill never be financially stable in my life, I have one child and I might have two more, I got a roof and food on the table thats all that matters

>>213454622
cringe mentality likely from a liberal, all white couples should make it their duty to have kids to preserve the race

>>213453694 (OP)
>age: 43
>kids: want someday

many such cases on bumble and hinge
tragic, really. women were propagandized into being girlbosses (making powerpoints for $60k) throughout their 20s instead of marrying young and are now forced to come to terms with missing the boat by like 20 years.

>>213454653
I mean you could probably make it work, plenty of people do. the problem is those kids grow up poor and possibly resentful not just of their parents for their situation but also resentful of anyone who is better off.
it's insanely difficult to escape the lower class, maybe 0.001% of people manage to do so. so if you have kids when you're poor then you're dooming them to be poor forever and so on.

>>213454098
my parents were in their late 30s when they had me, which probably explains why ive been turbo autistic all my life, that thing about "old cum making retard babies" usually has truth to it

>>213453694 (OP)
ben got old

>>213454134
Older women produce downies, older men produce autists.

>>213455451
No shit, he's a raging alcoholic and a long-time smoker in his 50s. On top of that he's been living in California for decades and probably doesn't use sunscreen because it's gay.

>>213454134
>im never having kids
you literally failed as man.

>>213454134
Tell that to my autistic half brother whose parents were both over 40. He wont pay attention to you though. He's too busy watching Frozen and banging his head on the couch while cackling like a madman.

>>213455743
oh no, i'll make sure to regret my failure for the rest of eternity. or at least until the universe becomes inhabitable for humans. have fun multiplying like an amoeba in the meantime. i'll wait for you and your spawn on the other side.

>>213455875
Tell that to Zod's snapped neck

>>213454157
You too, babes? Stay tough, girl. You got this!

>>213454098
the last two people i dated finished their bachelors degrees and were going back to school for their phds or masters or whatever and they were in their mid 20s. couldnt really see a future dating either of them because i knew they would be busy all the time. the fact that education takes so long makes stuff like this unavoidable. even if someone *only* gets a bachelors, because not everything goes perfectly they are often like 24 or 25 by the time they get it. stuff like not getting all of your classes, failing a few courses, changing degrees/majors. its all a big trap because if everyone gets a degree they are all essentially useless anyway. not enough jobs for these people often times but they dont even find out until they graduate. bullshit system. not to mention we pressure people to know what the fuck they want to go to college for and do for the rest of their life when they have 0 life experience or practical knowledge of the world. its all a big joke. and thats not even getting into the student debt aspect. seems like a system designed to make people fail.

>>213456598
>and were going back to school for their phd
lol im in my mid 30s and thinking about going back for a phd. nothing worked out. shit job no personal life. what am i supposed to do.

>>213454134
Enjoy your autistic kid because you let all your good eggs die while making powerpoints for shekelberg
Also tits or gtfo

>>213455500
Don't blame your social failures on your parents, anon.

>>213454202
i'm not an irresponsible piece of shit that'll let my family starve or not have the medical care when they need it. i do need to save up for their schooling you do know that

>>213457825
Make sure you have fun, nothing is a waste of time if you are having fun!

>>213455442
>old cum making retard babies
*Eggs
you fat ugly foid

>>213457825
if you dont WANT to have a family its fine, but when people talk about country X has a lower birth rate this is probably one of the main reasons. people talk about the economy being bad and thats true. but if people get the idea drilled into their head they HAVE to go to college until they are in their mid or late 20s then it doesnt matter how good the economy is, let alone the supposed health risks of having children in your late 20s early 30s. it will be very interesting to see what changes demographically in another decade because the average age a woman has their first kid was like 23 or something in the 1990s and today its like 27 or 28. if we start getting a ton of women having their kids in 30s hopefully it isnt a problem or we will have a crazy spike in random developmental issues.


go back and do your thing and have fun if thats what you believe in i was only talking about this from a society point of view. I have been in plenty of relationships that didnt work out, but then again i was dating the wrong people in college basically just having fun feeling like my "real" life hadnt started yet. sometimes i wonder if i didnt go to college if i would have actually made more progress and settled down earlier. thats a whole other story.

T. has had sex with like 30 people but feels ike they missed the boat just having a traditional life.

>>213457949
>*Eggs
nope. it's both.

>>213457972
Nope
Science shows that it's just the eggs.
Old disgusting foids (25+) can't cope with this so they try to make it about men too.

>>213454202
Delatorious won't raise any of them, Juan will do backbreaking labour til he dies and Dikshit is getting hired at Microdick.

>>213458065
Nah old man cum makes retards too

>>213454098
vanessa and rihanna had kids later but, they are rich ass celebrities with doctors and in vitrol fertilization too sometimes, it's harder and the risks of medical issues go up.

>>213455743
>>213457843
>bringing kids into a world on the brink of collapse that's full of negros, pakis and jeets.

Having kids sucks though in most circumstances for both men and women. Lets not pretend just because its good for society that its actually interesting to tag a burden to your life in the modern context.
Sure it was alright when you live in some tribe somewhere, chilling and hunting with your bros all day, bringing your kid along when he's old enough.
But modern day? No. It equals more expenses, more exhaustion after waging, more bullshit from a wife who will at best care more about the kid than you.
Work, Wife, kids and a mortgage has been the railroad to the grave for wagies for the past 100 years. Now you'll be lucky to even get half those things in a lifetime, even though they already sucked in practice.
Things are just getting so bad that people reminisce about the pan when we're getting thrown in the fire.

old cum is the most unabashed cope roasties have come up with yet lol. A 70 year old man can seed a woman that births a healthy baby. A 50 year old woman can't have a baby at all. Simple as that.

>>213458103
Nope, just the eggs.
ywnhac

>>213454134
That's the rub. Nobody sane wants to bring a kid into a situation where they're born into a struggling family, but by the time you're at a point where you could afford children you're running into health risks. Lots of people just inflict poverty on their kids because kids are something they want to have.

>>213457970
>if you dont WANT to have a family its fine
i have had one gf in my life. countless first dates that went nowhere. it's not what i want i have failed romantically.

>>213458065
>Science shows that it's just the eggs.
>If the father was 30 to 39, then 9 in 10,000 children were autistic (1.6 times higher), rising to 32 in 10,000 (5.75 times higher) for fathers aged 40 to 49. The risk was even higher for older fathers.

>>213454168
>Who lied to them about this?
Jews and bitter old roasties (also lied to by jews).

Are breeders retarded?

Why the fuck would anyone have children in a world with murder, rape, pornography, blacked.com, suffering, disease, and death.

>Gee, what a WONDERFUL world to bring our innocent children into, let's start a family, honey!

Are you delusional? You know that you WON'T be able to actually protect your children, right? You're not superman, there are so many things outside of your control so why risk another persons guaranteed suffering just for your own gratification?

>>213458296
Now do women aged 40 to 49

>>213458296
>correlation is causation

>>213458253
inflict poverty? huh? poor people having children is the standard though. You can't really inflict something that part of the natural state of things.

>>213458267
honestly bro i feel like having a good wife and a good family would probably be nice but i think when you roll the dice most marriages end up shitty in some way and end up either in divorce or partial resentment and in many cases people would be happier single. i think a LOT of people marry so they dont end up alone. which to a degree is understandable but at the same time kind of pathetic because you are marrying someone as company at that point. im just speaking loosely whats coming to my mind right now. but i think i will probably either stay single (not marry) or if i find someone i like a lot, just tell them we can live together but i dont believe in marriage. if i didnt have a kid with someone i see no point in doing it. and even then really too many men get ruined by divorce court, often times marriage is only something where the woman stands to gain anything and the man only stands to lose something by entering that contract.

the grass is always greener i have had many flings and relationships in my life and i regret most of them. not because i think they are bad people but im not really happy with the way my life turned out and frankly a large part of that was me always getting tunnel vision on who i was dating and putting them first putting my life on the backburner. misguided good intentions. if i could go back in time i would just concentrate on myself and my future my finances and my blood family and how to help them instead of helping someone who loves me in the moment but will decide they dont a year or two later.

im rambling but im essentially saying dont feel bad your life wether you realize it or not is probably better having avoided so much bullshit.

>>213457910
What if fun for me is setting random cars on fire?

>>213458342
>>213458351
both sperm and eggs go bad after 40 you moron. google it.

>>213458338
Especially today, having a child is literally for social media points. That's all there is too it.

I had an ex who had a kid at 34 and it completely destroyed her life. She was super fit before hand, was nearing finishing her top lawyer degree, had her own house. Then she slept with a fucking dunce and her life and future is now just a depressed wine drinking goverment meds popping working in a shitty dementia old people home.

She could have had everything. I was even goingto give her everything even being a cuck to her kid who called me dad. But they become the most laziest insecure stupidest cunts ever. Then she got addicted to tikok and would throw all the buzzwords at me like lovebombing, gaslighting etc.

I'd see her now and then after a break up but she guzzles lager now and is an embarrassing mess so I've left her for good lol. Even her kid likes things on tiktok about alcoholic mums etc, sad desu.

And all of this because she couldn't keep her legs closed all them years ago.

>>213458405
>im rambling
yeah it's like im talking to a woman. i have had sex maybe like 5 times in my life. romance was not my thing. talking to me about relationships in meaningless.

>>213458506
im half asleep cut me some slack

>>213458123
I have kids and I love it. Why do you see it as a burden? It's a blessing imo

>>213458338
Yeah, it was much better to have kids back when they were at the risk of being eaten by predators any time you turned your back

>>213458338
So scared of life lmao

My scientist stepsister went through this. Had to get a surrogate

>>213458123
Having no kids and getting older sucks so much more. All your friends and siblings got families, every social getogether you are the odd one out, you got time for hobbies and fun sure but you are left to do it alone.

>>213458380
>Timmy can't imagine a white couple relationship where the woman hasn't taken gallons of nigger cum
Honestly hilarious.

>>213458338
Human extinction? Humans are stil Capable of bettering themselves. But at this point we probably gotta tribemaxx and hermitmaxx. Bring back grandparents helping raise the kids

>>213454134
By your 30s you should have been educated then worked for atleast 5 years. Why work for 5 more before getting a kid or 3?

>>213454929
Retarded white couples still make retarded babies. Doesn't matter how young and healthy they are. It all comes down to upbringing and the type of people they mingle with. The majority of white couples with babies I know, all use a tablet to distract they're child and barely keep track on what they're watching. We're already living in Idiocracy and no amount of white babies is going to fix that.

>>213460032
I'm already the odd one out. I'm an autist posting on 4chan. None of us here should be having babies.

>>213454134
>mid to late 30s
it's fine for a man
just date a girl 10 years younger

>>213460294
>should have
Life doesn't always work out perfectly.

>>213453694 (OP)
lol too late for that. no eggs, geriatric womb

>>213453694 (OP)
>45 year old wife
anon?

>>213454168
Capitalists and other careerist women. It's also a cope. The worst thing for a capitalist is a pregnant woman because it leads to a loss of production which reduces money made for the capitalist. Careerist women are just a joke.

>>213454232
it's funnier

>>213454134
>finically stable
cope
You dont need a lot of money or any in fact to have kids in a modern setting. You can be a deadbeat loser and the state will pay for everything.

>>213458383
I couldn't imagine forcing my kids to work a 9 to 5 and get rejected by stuck up bitches on Tinder. I want my kids to be kings and queens and mog peasants. Also all of Europe will be brown paste of shit. Fuck that.

>>213458114
My kids will carry the flame. Yes there world will be harder but mine was harder than my grandpas

>>213462217
No it wasn't you turd, it's easier than ever

>>213459701
This but I also married my virgin high school sweet heart who I met by the grace of God fate and pure lucky circumstance.

>>213460420
How? I'm in my mid 30s and make a good salary but barista girls and college girls reject me when I ask them out.

>>213462264
Debatable. My grandpa worked in his local small town bottling factory. As he raised my dad at age 20 they paid for him to go to college while maintaining his schedule and then after graduation they had him travel and train others for work earning more money. By the time he got his psychology degree he only switched careers to follow his passion at which point he afforded 4 kids his house and a life of traveling since he was 60 and retired. Show me where my bottling factory path is

>>213462114
I was raised very poor and happy and to me that proves you don't need a lot of money to have a family. It's just about enjoying life cheaply. Other poor people come up same way and they tell themself they can't inflict that horror on a child

>>213462325
Companies would rather hire pajeets and AI models than local males.

>>213462325
The 50s was literally the only good decade in human history and chuds still pretend it was something other than lightning in a bottle (mainly due to WW2 profiteering).

>>213454098
>You don't want a family getting in the way of you having a job where you pretend to work by sending emails, having meetings that are just open social discussions, and creating busy-work tasks for people with work to do that accomplish nothing
Convincing women of this was so insanely damaging to society.

>>213454168
everyone does this though. Not sure why women get the blame. You have men thinking they age like fine wine and having kids into your 40s-50s isn't also very risky and difficult.

>>213462380
People like to cope and lie to themselves. The natural state of man is poverty.

>>213462454
>>213462442
Not him but my own parents split up because money was constantly causing their relationship stress. People don't want to go through that same pattern.

>>213454168
oh honey
you don't even know who you are until age 50
what about your career? do you want to have a kid and be broke? what if your man isn't any good? what if you can do better? why rush into things when you can wait and be in a better place?

>>213462380
These people dont like kids. Just be a kind loving parent and your kids wont give a shit about being poor.

>>213455442
Mine too. I'm not turbo autistic, but definitely somewhat.

>>213462501
Your parents did not break up over poverty. Come on now. Immigrants live in one bedroom and a truckload of kids. I'm sure we go back to your grandparents, and great gran parents they lived in shacks.

>>213458438
I have a PhD in biology. Men make sperm regularly, and rate of complications gradually but slowly goes up on a linear scale. Shugoshin in women's eggs (all made from birth) degrades insanely fast around age 35 and rate of complications skyrockets. It's not remotely comparable.

>>213457825
>going back for a phd
Definitely not that, unless you get into an Ivy League program or are otherwise very smart and will get a legit teaching job, even that sounds kinda gay.

>>213462579
>Your parents did not break up over poverty
It definitely exacerbated the issues they already had. Stop being purposely obtuse.

>>213462621
most people are broke bro. They did not break up over money. If you really love some one you stick through. I know so many broke as fuck families, they argue, but get through it. It's normal to stress over money sometimes.

>>213454098
This lie was often told by other women btw, thereby harming the future of younger females

>>213462579
>Immigrants live in one bedroom and a truckload of kids
And they all deserved to die for that. So?

>>213459729
>>213459990
>>213460060
As expected, breeders' best copes are:
>bruh put some life in your life
>babbis are, like, cute mang
>dang kids think life's harder now? it was harder in my time damnit!
Niggers reproducing themselves isn't the excuse. You're is at fault for letting them spawn.

>>213463253
>you’re is at fault
Brownie detected

https://x.com/charliekirk11/status/1924106974209401200

Very important video on this topic

>>213462114
Kek you have no idea what you're talking about. Shut the fuck up

>>213453694 (OP)
imagine being 60 and having a 15 year old. a 15 year old that will likely be autistic/downs or at the very least have been raised spoiled financially but unloved/uncared for. literally the last thing on the checklist of a companyman/girlboss.

unsurprising that americans >>213454134 >>213454653 >>213455253 only focus on the money involved in raising kids instead of actually being healthy and energetic enough to do the job properly. it takes a lot more than money and 18 years to raise a baby into a functional adult

>>213460316
this. the masses need to be culled.

>>213453694 (OP)
>>213454098
>>213454134
>>213454157

my 2nd great grandmother had her first kid at 33 and her last kid at 42.

my aunt had her first three kids at 42, 44 and last kid at 45.

her daughter had her first kid at 29, her other daughter didnt have her first kid until she was 38 (thought she'd never get married she settled for a bald guy)

my mom had me at 32

My dads mom had him at 36

my moms mom had her at 32

my other first cousin had her first kid at 31 and her second at 38 (to another husband who she also divorced)

her older sister had many kids, her first kid in her 20's and last kid at 39

We also had spinsters that never got married, died without kids

It really depends on genes. My 2nd great grandmother died at 96, her husband at 93, my grandmothers sister died at 95 and she died at 92,

Whether kids turn out retarded? My dad always seemed mildly retarded. People even called him "slow"

>>213460032
This is a deep-seated fear of mine and I don't know how to cope with it becoming my new reality

>>213454622
Kek why are you so angry?

>>213455202
This is my favorite thing to read on dating apps.
I lol all fuckin day reading it.

the only way I'd have a kid is if an 18 year old untouched virgin came into my life, after living a life with her for a while.

i legit fucking hate roasties.

>>213466883
we hate y'all too