Thread 213474701

>literally just walk up to a cute girl in the park and make small talk
>a month later you’re already married together and about to have children

Did boomers really have it that easy?
This scene blew my mind when I first saw it, I couldn’t believe it as a zoomer

>>213474701 (OP)
>zoomers get mind broken by disney cartoons

>>213474701 (OP)
If you are tall and at least a bit attractive this will happen quite often.

Thinking about getting a dog for this exact reason.

>>213474701 (OP)
Pongo was a god-tier wingman that day

>>213474701 (OP)
The dogs helped obviously.

>>213474701 (OP)
>>213474766
wrong. I knew a guy who was 6'3 and looked like clark kent, and he married a 5'3 chinese woman

>>213474701 (OP)
>>literally just walk up to a cute girl in the park and make small talk
And you can't do this now because...?

>>213474701 (OP)
>Did boomers really have it that easy?
The answer to this question in almost any and every context is yes.

>>213474968
I can only talk big, I have to keep on moving and can't sweat the small stuff. Don't have time when I'm always on the hustle, going to make it big and be a star some day, you'll read about it in the newspapers.

>>213474968
Women don't want to be talked to by strangers. He'll either end up in tik tok or a list

>>213474968
>just go talk to her bro it's easy

>>213475223
Have you actually tried? Or is this just something the internet has told you?

>>213475278
This is ai

>>213475320
I bailed as soon as I noticed she was uncomfortable before things escalated to that point.

>>213475278
He doesn't look that old.

>>213474701 (OP)
Getting married was extremely easy at the time. Most got married so they could have guiltless sex and were so horny they would jump into marriage with anyone they could get. However, breeding with someone you barely know is a retarded idea that often results in misery. It's probably the main reason why boomers are so embittered and hateful towards families, their spouses, and their own children. Many didn't actually love their spouses after they got to know the real them after being together for more than 1 or 2 years, and they often hated their own children who were a reflection of their shitty, impulsive life choices and a reflection of their hated spouses.

>>213474701 (OP)
How did you come up with idea to make a thread with this topic? Im not even being mean or ironic. Were you just scrolling Disney+ looking for thread ideas? Were you watching this randomly and say this will be funny to post. Is this some advance form of bot thats like an incel sweeper for media.

Please respond, I want to know.

>>213475508
Why did you make that post? Walk me through your strange obsession with threads on 4chan and why they matter to you so much.

>>213474701 (OP)
Just don't be an ugly manlet

>>213474701 (OP)
This shit is so classy. Literally 70s Disney was the best era of 2D animation.

>>213474701 (OP)
Alright, no bullshit, just get straight to the point and answer this.
In the position of a mid 20’s-30’s male who only goes to work and doesn’t have much of a social life or friends, where do you meet women, or join a social group where you can regularly meet new women?
Despite many here being in a similar situation, no one has been able to give a concrete answer to this. Why?

>>213475919
Go somewhere where alcohol is available. I'm not saying to get women shitfaced and drunkfuck, and you yourself don't even have to drink, but for some roastoids, just a small amount of alcohol is enough for them to lose enough inhibitions to approach men and be conducive to being approached.

>>213475736
Thanks for the reply, no further questions.

>>213475919
It really is insane, isn't it? It's supposed to be a basic function of society, a routine happening in life. But how it happens is utterly bewildering to me. I have NEVER. NEVER. NEVER been in any sort of situation where it seemed that I might make romantic advances on a woman. I rarely ever get to talk one on one with women in my age range outside of cashiers and waitresses. The only women I know through my friends are taken... by my friends. I just think that there is some baseline psychic energy that links people together, and some of us don't have the juice.
>>213476112
The only people that go to the bar near me are sad old boomers and gen x-ers. If young women go they go with their bfs or in intimidating flocks of stacies that are as inpenetrable as Fort Knox.

>>213474935
... but that proves him right

>>213475919
get a hobby

>>213474842
You mean a wingdog.

>>213476343
wingdogs make it easy to pick up white women

>>213476241
marrying a chinese woman is not winning

>>213476444
you're moving the goalposts, the question was about a tall man being able to meet a smaller girl and marry her

>>213476500
the qualifier was "cute woman" which is not the case here

>>213474701 (OP)
>Did boomers really have it that easy?

Yes... they didn't have social media back in the day, and Jet-Set Culture wasn't a thing too.. Female expectations were drastically lower than it is today. So the moment a female 'bumps into' a regular man that appears to have his shit-together, the moist-machine goes into overdrive and she becomes his.

These days, girls need to scour the internet and find some brown-skin guy wearing gold jewerly and italian sports car, and if you bump into her, not checking her boxes, you're a rapist.

If 101 Dalmations were set in the modern day, 'accidently getting wrapped up in a shit-bull's leash by accident', if you're checking boxes you'll be in jail for rape.... and you can't blame the dog.

>>213476500
The OP post specifies "cute". So Chinese is out of the picture.

>>213474701 (OP)
It's a cartoon, dawg. Even the fuckin' dawgs got married.

>>213475919
On a train in Europe

>>213475919
Well, do you have a lot of money?

>>213475919
>>213476944
Forgot pic

>>213474799
If you are attractive just smile at random women. If they smile back say hi

>>213474701 (OP)
>talk to girl
>she likes you
>you are dating
thats how it works

>only boomers were able to naturally meet girls
anything is possible. i became intimate with a good looking (blond, big breasts, broad hips, cute face) girl even though i'm:

>generally seen as somewhat strange
>diagnosed autism

>unkempt
>unattractive - hairy, rather asymmetrical face, big nose

>generally incompetent
>irresponsible
>meme degree and no money

only thing i have going for me is some humor (tend to be dark, but not a lifeless jaded 4channer) and bigger than average pp (which is useless for initial getting girl)

it's unironically just a numbers game. i don't go outside an awful lot and i was lucky this time, but my chances are generally low and i doubt it will happen again anytime soon

>>213474842
Mandela affect. Coulda sworn his name was Bongo Bongo

>>213475919
Women were phased out to bring in endless retarded immigrant slave labor which is all male.

>>213477067
Where are all their women? In my formerly 99% white country, they are importing hundreds of thousands of browns and blacks and they're all male, it probably dropped to 80% white in the last 5 years.

>>213475919
>go outside to public space
>look around for women
>if one is looking at you, you smile at them
>if they smile back, go up to them and make some small talk
>if they seem engaged, start asking her about herself
>try to get her number and make a graceful exit
>if she seems guarded, just cut the convo short and leave
ezpz

>>213476944
You mean like this?

Does this actually happen irl tho?

>>213474701 (OP)
How will Disney deal with this Yikes-worthy scene in the Live Action Remake?

>>213474701 (OP)
I'm 63, I met my wife when I leaving the theater after watching Pulp Fiction. I saw her leaving the same theater and she was incredibly cute. I knew if i didnt say anythng to her i would never see her again, so I walked up next to her and I said "Crazy movie, huh?" and she was like "Yea, I know". But you alwys got to be ready to keep the ball rolling to keep them talking, so I said "WHAT was up with that Gimp guy? That came out of nowhere" and she looked at me and she was like "I know! I was freaking out when that guy appeared". And we kept talking, I kept my interest in her. You gotta commit to it. And she was wearing this thin shirt and she had those torpedo tits, they looked fantastic, sticking out all perky, like they want to be sucked on. I kept eye contact with her but slipped a look at them when she was looking away. We dated, I got to suck on those torpedoes mmmmm, they are still perky and we got married in 2003.

It can happen if you want it to. You gotta believe it can happen and not stay in a prison of self doubt.

>>213477296
I did it once, but on a bus. Asked a girl to get off with me before my flight that evening and we walked around Prague all day. Didn't fall in love, but it was still fun and could have led to something. Things can happen when you try to make them happen.

>>213477402
This is good advice. Equally important as actually trying to make conversation is not getting crushed and giving up when it doesn't work. Go into it with no expectation that it will go anywhere. That will make it more likely to work, and make it far less painful when it doesn't.

>>213477296
This movie was really awful. The characters don't have chemistry. I get women liking the actor.

>>213477542
Forgot to mention that I did this because I had recently seen Before Sunrise and was hoping I could recreate it, lol
Didn't fugg though

>>213477402
>you can get married in your 40s and die childless
Wow very encouraging.

>>213474701 (OP)
I liked this art style in Disney movies

>>213474701 (OP)
How come Disney never made a sequel

>>213474968
I have a speech impediment

any way to deal with blushing like a little faggot? even at work in normal conversations I start to blush and it gets bad. I just hate fucking talking and having attention on me. i completely lack social confidence and im not going to bars or clubs because they suck

>>213475508
>Please respond, I want to know.
why tho

>>213474799
This is disgusting even if your dick is small enough for it.

>>213474968
I haven't seen an attractive woman in over a decade.

>>213475919

Raw truth time:

First off, to all, stop giving a fuck what women will think

>"...but girls don't like being approached"

Who gives a shit. This is about your dick.

Also, this is basically everything in life. In business, 9 out of 10 people don't want a product, but there's one who does. Just focus on the girls that do want you, the others you move the fuck on. The girls aren't mad that you approached, they are mad they you didn't move the fuck on. The approach becomes "creepy" if they think you aren't going to take no for an answer and just linger and potentially stalk them.

Ok now how to meet them. If you are single mid 20s-30s, then your logistics is like 60% of the battle. Some dork living in NYC has a better shot at getting laid tonight than some chad in bumfuck, USA. Proximity and volume to girls is everything. Even in the NYC example, the guy who lives around the corner from the bar will likely get laid more than the guy who lives 45 min away via the train. more time=more obstacles. Make life as easy as you possibly can.

The other thing that matters is congruency to the location where you are meeting women. Sticking with the NYC example, if a guy lives around the corner from the popular venue, but lets just say for argument its a electronic music rave style venue and hes a preppy well dressed guy, well he just won't match the vibe at all of the place and likely won't have much luck vs if he just went 10 minutes further away for the preppy lounge bar, he is completely congruent with the venue and girls there and will likely do very well. Same guy, same lines, same night, but different venues, different results.

Proximity, Volume, Congruency. The are pretty much the only levers you can pull outside of yourself that affect your dating life.

If you have zero proximity to women, zero volume of girls, zero congruency to anything near you. Then you either need to fucking move ASAP and or take massive action.

>>213474935
skill issue

>>213477801
Forgot to mention the gun helped.

>>213478161
Treat people like anon and assume they are retards you don't care about the opinion of at all, because you shouldn't. The good ones will respect you for it.

>>213478646
>If you have zero proximity to women, zero volume of girls, zero congruency to anything near you. Then you either need to fucking move ASAP and or take massive action.
And who's going to finance this?

Need.

>>213479023
Fucking rich people houses.

>>213474799
that's a poor substitute

>>213474799
>getting a dog just to pull women
You're probably staying a virgin forever lol

>>213474935
That guy on the left is balding and at least 10 years older than the others in the pic. He also makes minimum wage as an English teacher. And he STILL got a mid girlfriend.

>>213478646
Thread is about marriage material. Unless you plan to go to the bar with your wife all the time, it's a shitty place to meet women.
You want a routine where you can casually interact with the same women over weeks, just hello, how goes, doing anything; stop at any point they cannot respond politely. Invite them to do something you are already going to go do.

>>213475919
Personally, I use dating apps.
About 19/20 women there have issues, but you only need to find the one who doesn't.

>>213478938

you are. get some skills. go learn some shit. I don't care if you live in Nowhere, New Mexico, you are better off being in Albuquerque. More people=more chances. Go work at the Walmart, but the one near the city, get some shitty apartment with roommates. You got to start somewhere. Go be a bus boy at a restaurant, you'll probably meet some cute waitresses. Better yet, take a bartending class and become a bartender. Clean the dishes at a stripclub, clean the bathroom at a hooters, stock the shelves of a Sephora. You can make money, learn skills, meet girls all in one. Just do fucking something.

>>213475278
Maybe he was a dentist

>>213479208

Sure, like I said, congruency. Substitute bar with whatever floats your boat, improv class, meditation retreat, film club, gym, dancing class, church, etc. Just do something mildly social that you vibe with.

>>213479305
>dating apps
>99/100 are travelwhores
>the one that isn't doesn't reply

>>213474968
Every moderately attractive, non-overweight woman has a boyfriend
The real thing that's cratered the dating market is that the average woman is fat as fuck on top of everything else wrong with them

>>213477964
didn't they make a direct to video sequel in the mid 2000's?
which had nothing to do with that book.

>>213479023
Need what anon?

in the past even gay people got married and had children, even though they didn't want to
it was literally that easy

>>213478533
>even if your dick is small enough for it.
What do you mean?

>>213480522
Don't. She is a dog.

>>213480873
dogs are lovely creatures

>>213480873
Don’t what?

>>213481110
>>213481039
Guys come on...

>>213474701 (OP)
She looks like she used to hang out with the football team back in her state college...
late nights at her dorm, months and months of taking brutal poundings...
and then three years after graduating she reinvented herself into this book-worm delicate woman, and found an unsuspecting John..

>>213474968
Because they’re pussy ass faggots anon

>>213474968
I'm indian.

>>213474799
Get a dog for companionship , for it to be your pal . Not for some roastie to say its cute and then continue ignoring you.

I want to fuck this dog.

>>213481694
My female husky hates every woman I’ve ever introduced her to except for my mom and sisters.

>>213477813
or you can lay down and die. Children are nice , but just like anything not guaranteed your dream women could be barren or your swimmers could be duds.

>>213481774
I have a gay little dog ( but shes nice ) and she hides behind my leg everytime a woman passes by during walks

>>213474701 (OP)
>Did boomers really have it that easy?

Yes. Back then the average American man could easily get an 8/10 European immigrant girlfriend. All you had to do is be nice to her and have a job.

>>213475919
What the fuck do you mean? They're 50% of the fucking population. If you're a normal person you should be surrounded by them in most situations. Gym, shops, class, going out, everywhere

>>213481884
That’s because women were seen as hopeless if they weren’t married by like 30s

>>213475919
If you don't meet people you won't meet women either. Doesn't matter if it's friends or strangers, you have to meet people.

>33 years old
>have never had sex
>have never been kissed
>have never been on a date
>have never asked a girl out
>went to college, lived on campus and in an apartment in the college town, still this is true
>have lived in a major metropolitan area my entire life (although apparently it IS known for being bad for dating and heavily male) and this is still true

i cant believe what ive done to myself. this in addition to the rest of my life's failures.

>>213482154
Cheer up, you could have been born in India

>>213475919
>and doesn’t have much of a social life or friends
This right here is your main problem, anon, period. If you are unable to even make friends, how the hell do you think you're going to meet women? And if you do manage to meet a woman, and she sees you have no friends and no social life, she's going to ditch you for that as well.

You should be much more concerned with meeting people to make friends or social groups where you can make friends before you should be concerning yourself with meeting women. The fact you seem to care more about meeting a woman than having friends or a social life is concerning.

>>213482154
Just stop being ugly

>>213475919
Hinge, bumble
If youre attractive and below 30, instagram dms
Otherwise should have found youre sweet heart in college like everyone else lole get fucked

>>213478646
You have to be 18 years or older to use this website

>>213474701 (OP)
My wife and I got married within 3 months of meeting each other. It happens.

>>213475278
>I didnt mean you could sit there
Bitch is this your fucking restaurant? Did you pay for this fucking chair? Im gunna sit here and hit on you whether you like it or not.

>>213482270
>And if you do manage to meet a woman, and she sees you have no friends and no social life, she's going to ditch you for that as well.
I don't want a woman with friends and a social life though?

>>213474701 (OP)
>Did boomers really have it that easy?
No, no they didn't.
Stop believing in glorified fantasies of the past.
That guy looks like the cartoonized version of HP Lovecraft who... oh wait he scored as well, if only with a 3/10.
Oh well, he died from cancer as the result of abject poverty.

>>213480592
That stings extra hard the more I think about it.
We're so fucked.

>>213482674
So same as me but with a gf and a productive decent life behind him.

>>213474968
Jews

>>213475506
>Most got married so they could have guiltless sex and were so horny they would jump into marriage with anyone they could get.
Is this a documented fact? Is there one American film you would list where this is a significant plot point?

>>213475919
You don't. It used to be you'd have a friend group, your friends would know other friends, and if people thought you'd be a good match with a friend of a friend of a friend then they'd recommend you start dating. Now nobody has friends, everyone lives alone or with a pet, and nobody trusts anybody.

>>213475919
>be me
>never had trouble socializing at all
>move to a new city where I don’t know anyone
>seems absolutely impossible to even make friends, let alone find a girl
If you aren’t meeting people through work or school, it’s a whole different game. I am well groomed and not a total autist, but if I approach someone, they look at me like they expect me to stuff them into a van.
Boomers are the only exception. They’re perfectly happy to chat with strangers.

>>213475919
>where do you meet women, or join a social group where you can regularly meet new women?
Work retail. I worked in a bookstore and there were a coven of femoids that were competing to impress me amongst one another, they'd bring in fresh baked cookies to me, while I'm working a shift, books in hand from backstock carts onto shelves. My female bosses hated me for it.

Brick and mortar suck worse than they used to, but still a good option because the women come to you. Other jobs like groundskeeping, food service, housecall jobs like delivering furniture/appliances or servicing HVAC are also options. Installing cable.