Thread 213568493

Why do assholes get all the girls and the nice guys get nothing

You're not wrong.

>>213568503
I never suspected that I would have been...

>>213568493 (OP)
why do retarded schizo spammers keep posting the same cancer and get banned and slid all the time?

What a dishonest post. Nice guys do get the girl. The girl just has to get run through by a mile of cock first

>>213568612
TRVKE

Did you notice how people stopped pushing the
>nice guys finish last
meme when incelism and andrew tate became relevant?
suddenly women DO like nice men

>>213568612
TRVST

>>213568493 (OP)
But thats wrong. Nice guys always get the girl

in 3 years time your mom who you leach off will be dead, and you will be homeless, trying to post from the library, filled with despair you can't get a working VPN. Noone will remember you existed here, you'll simply vanish one day and it's for the best.

>>213568685
>incelism and andrew tate
neither of those things are relevant to men raised by a pair of heterosexual parents

>>213568722
What's making you so mad and seething?

>>213568722

That’s pretty unnecessary anon. It’s pretty clear this kid is on the spectrum, and likely developmentally disabled. It certainly fits the pathologies of their obsessive compulsions and particular fixation with childish adolescent content like cartoons and clowns and scat / asses / gay sex jokes. You’re basically arguing with a 12 year old, with no ability to socialize or understand / empathize others. The fact the they spend all their time posting here points to the likelihood of home care (no work / school) maybe busy absent parents who just hand them a couple phones to keep busy. If they were getting help, this behavior (and the site of posting) would be noticed and be part of counselling, to try to direct it toward something more productive and acceptable. We do the same with developmental challenged kids who can’t stop masturbating. They just don’t know it’s wrong. It is breddy sad, desu. I’ve seen other anons try to encourage him to contain to generals, etc, but it seems any attention sets him off; again a sign of general neglect. Medication may, perhaps, legitimately help. But he needs support for mental / autistic disability and that costs. Wishing anyone harm is harsh.

Or, maybe it really is just a sharty troll / raid, or mod / Jannie. They’re also legit fucked in the head and should be shot.

>>213568493 (OP)
This is a question that’s been around for a long time, and it taps into a lot of frustration and misunderstanding about dating dynamics. The idea that “assholes get all the girls” and “nice guys get nothing” is a generalization — and like most generalizations, it misses some key nuances.

Let’s break this down:
1. Confidence vs. Niceness

Often, what gets interpreted as “asshole behavior” is actually confidence or assertiveness — traits that are genuinely attractive to many people, especially early on. If someone is bold, self-assured, and knows what they want, it can come off as compelling. A “nice guy” who is passive, overly agreeable, or lacking in confidence may not create that same magnetic pull, even if he’s a better person overall.

2. Attraction Isn’t About Fairness

Romantic attraction isn’t a reward system based on being good or bad. It’s driven by a complex mix of biology, psychology, and individual preferences. Being “nice” doesn’t guarantee romantic interest — especially if niceness is used transactionally (e.g., “I was nice, so I deserve attention now”).

3. Some ‘Nice Guys’ Aren’t Actually Nice

Sometimes, self-proclaimed “nice guys” are actually resentful, entitled, or manipulative, expecting romance in return for basic decency. That’s not genuine kindness — and people can sense that.

4. Early Dating vs. Long-Term Value

Someone might be drawn to excitement, danger, or mystery early on (traits often associated with “bad boys”), but that doesn’t always last. Over time, people generally look for respect, emotional intelligence, and reliability in a partner — qualities truly kind people usually have.

If you're looking to attract someone while being a genuinely good person:

Develop confidence without arrogance.

Communicate clearly and don’t be afraid to show interest.

Be assertive about your needs and boundaries.

Stay kind — but not as a tactic, as a way of life.

>>213568879
>incels BTFO by chatgpt... again
Ooohhhhhhh based

How are incels still a thing? Go do some pushups and lay off the crab in the bucket forums little nigga

>>213568493 (OP)
Flanders is the quintessential nice guy and Maude was hot. Ipso facto you’re a fag

>>213569077
Flanders had 12 pack abs though.

>>213568602
/tv/ is a nigger and it's dey culcha. Top 5 worst board for staying on topic.

>>213568876
Where do you think you are? Why should I have any sympathy for this freak. I am not posting these things idly, I genuinely believe if he was wiped off the earth everyone would be better off. Don't excuse this behavior, lambast, abuse, and berate him at every opportunity and his autistic monkey brain might finally realize he is the problem and is actively bringing a decline in quality. If he is aware of what's going on, that's clearly worse, and shouldn't be met with anything but it's

Bands get funded. Big deal!

>>213568493 (OP)
implying Thrillhouse doesn't slay pussy

>>213568493 (OP)
When the FUCK is the spammer going to get dealt with?
The shit he spams daily:
-"m*torcycle cl*b aka MC content"
-screenshots of simpsons/family guy with his trigger phrases mspainted in
-jigs*w/saw movies (JigC)
-Obsession with hiding his filenames with a similar schema above (HomeR, ChapE, like "JigC")
-"bask*n r*berts", a corruption of the ice-cream chain name. (constantly uses "erts" as a suffix)
-obsession with "tr*st f*nd b*nd", and calling people "fundies" (?)
-telling people to "cram"
-calling people "poofter"
-spamming yolandi/die antwoord/chappie

its gotten really fucking tiresome watching him post dozens of threads every day.

>>213569289
your obsession with inheritance and funding comes from your non-life, wishing your single mother who supports you with an abysmal paycheck gave you an even easier ride. The fact you were never gainfully employed is your own fault. Don't you feel bad for your poor mother? That you'll never do anything but be a financial, spiritual, and physical burden to her?

>>213569393
im not op but u seem to be on here as much as him so ur probs spiritually devoid too

>>213569483
His posting range covers the entirety of the day. I see other posts as vehemently targeting as mine, and I am glad for it. The only way to deal with this faggot is to ruin any potential traction his spam threads might have for tourists or casual lurkers by being as aggressively mean as possible

>>213569483
If you're not OP then why are you sucking him off?

>>213569603
Someone's been mindcrammed. Why would you let it effect you?

>>213568721
Me on the left with a stiffy, she sucked me off right after this pic was taken, shit was SO cash!

>>213569335
His schizophrenia is more funny than all the box office autist threads

>>213569625
you braindead retarded faggots subhuman ape, you have in your time slid upwards of 1000 threads with infinite more quality than anything you will ever be able to produce, with genuine, real conversation. Even now you have 4 or 5 threads up, you post upwards of 30 a day, and that's just my estimation there is no way of knowing for sure. You are tanking the quality of this board with your mindless, school child prattle, that again, only you think is funny. Don't you genuinely feel bad for your mother? Are you capable of empathy or any coherent thoughts? I've tanked this one thread enough, and I will let it sink so you can talk to yourself until a janny inevitably comes and cleans it up. The only thing that can end this cycle is you

>>213568493 (OP)
So-called "assholes" actually project sexual energy from themselves towards the girl and thus turn her on, whereas so-called "nice guys" bottle it up and end up seeming asexual.
I put "assholes" in quotes because often to shy inexperienced guys, any guy who is sexual towards women will seem like an asshole even if he is actually a decent guy. Seeing him as an asshole comes from jealousy.

>>213568876
I didn't read all that but fuck him. Fuck excusing this kind of behavior. It's shit and he knows it's shit.

>>213568493 (OP)

Women figure that if you're nice to them then it means they're too good for you and if you treat them like shit it means that they aren't good enough for you.

>>213568879
Posting GPT answers is actually worse than spamming forced memes

>>213569023
Posts like this might be even worse though

>>213569603
The board is pretty clear of the spam for about 5 or 6 hours, with a few that linger through. It’s really a janitor / mod issue. They all know about it (it came out in the sharty log hacks); he was spamming up other boards too. All this shitposting could be banned immediately, no benefit of the doubt. Other boards like /co/ ruthless killed all his posts, often before he could even samefag. but /tv/ mods don’t care, even protect it; maybe have some other interest in keeping it up (don’t forget they killed the poster count around the same time as this spam arrived). In any case, the hours that the posts slide (because there’s no legit engagement without the samefagging) it’s not a bad board, some ok threads, but clearly the worst blue one. It is cancer killing /tv/.

>>213568493 (OP)
you already made this thread

>>213568493 (OP)
biology
take it up with god

>>213569806
A porn thread was just deleted, so it's a clear case of it being outright ignored. Some times the reports work, other times no. The only thing to do, really, is sabotage and sage them hoping it doesn't lure in innocent users

>>213569783
Samefag

Rock.

>>213569805
>Nooo you just have to wallow in your self pity forever because... You just have to okay!!!!

>>213568493 (OP)
one asks and the other takes

>>213568879
>but that doesn’t always last. Over time, people generally look for respect, emotional intelligence, and reliability in a partner — qualities truly kind people usually have.
I'M READY TO SETTLE DOWN.
ask why women get raped, killed and turned into single moms by their boyfriends so often if they actually like nice guys

>>213569077
According to simpsons lore, he was an asshole before turning into a christcuck

>>213570324
the latter happened to OPs mom, which is why he's such a pathetic degenerate. A father figure might of done him some good, he's one of the rare types where domestic abuse would be warranted

>>213570324
Tell me youre a cringe incel without telling me youre a cinge incel

>>213569287
>I am not posting these things idly
you objectively are, mate

>>213570437
Posting them idly would imply I don't actively wish it to be the case, not just my inability to do so

If you trace all human motivation to its root, it is sex. This is why more sexually dimorphic men are more sexually attractive.

>>213568493 (OP)
>be virgin at 30
>but girls always flirt and think I'm cute
>I'm just too autistic and don't drive so if I ever think about asking a girl out I know I can't do anything cause I can't take her anywhere
>decide to develop personality of an asshole
>It actually works and have about 5 girls texting me at once and face timing at night too
>meet a cute girl at work
>instantly attracted to me cause I act like an asshole and ignore the fuck out of her
>we start talking a little too much and my act starts to come down and I actually like her
>she somehow senses this
>distances herself from me, ghosts me, etc
>out of nowhere she starts dating some nice guy simp faggot at work over me
>every girl at work thinks he's actually gay and shit so he's not even sought after from anyone
>Nothing I do can ever get me a gf
>but this faggot simp virgin got to kiss her
she isn't into "nice" guys either, I know that much. All she does is smoke weed, vape, and want to get blackout drunk and I'm supposed to believe she is into this faggot. I really don't get it, and I'm at the point of becoming a shut in incel and wanting to beat every fucking girl I see for being a stupid two faced fucking bitch whore

>>213570465
you posted idle, passive remarks. what the fuck is "actively wish" ? you mean you are closing your eyes and focusing on the result real hard
>actively wish it to be the case
lol dont forget to sprinkle fairy dust on top

>>213570534
why are you defending this reprobate? Im 90% sure this post is a janny >>213570072
moreso because the thread was immediately deleted after while the other fucking 7 remain
do you not care this shit is driving away good users and sliding legitimate threads?

>>213568493 (OP)
Nelson is a talented artist.

>>213570534
You worthless fucking pedant retard

I'm a zoomer and I'm gonna be 30 soon. I was raised predominantly by my mother and so by the time I hit puberty I was too meek and schlubby to talk to girls. I took me until I was 17 to realize I could use my diaphragm when I spoke to not sound like a mouse. I had one girlfriend, but it took me ten months to get her to like me, and after half a semester we broke up and because I had undiagnosed mental illness I ended up embarrassing myself trying to get her back. In college I had a bunch of girls interested in me but I was so mindbroken by my own ineptitude that I pushed them all away. So I basically became asexual by the time I graduated despite my libido being extremely high and constantly needing to jerk off. I'm disgusted by sex now because I have a slight gut and skinny arms, so I can't even self-insert into porn because the men all look 10x more masculine than me. I had delusions that I'd at least be buff by now, or maybe have a stable career as a streamer or youtuber. Instead I'm just stuck in my childhood bedroom, wearing the same clothes and wondering if I did something to deserve this.

>>213570811
not your blog. Surprised at the humanity and genuineness of this post, maybe it's why the staff feels sorry for you. I don't. if this is the case just do it already

>>213570811
How did you used to speak then? Like whispering all the time?

stop posting this stupid fucking thread every day. this isn't tv. this is either some mosssd mental illness shit or you're just a faggot. Either way, shut the fuck up. go to god damn /r9k/. Better yet, kill yourself. NOW. I want to see you hanging by this coming weekend. If you post another copy of this thread I will come to your house and lynch you. Bitch.

>>213570942
Jokes on you, I don't live in a house.

>>213568721
Being crippled doesn't mean you're nice, that guy is probably a huge asshole

>>213570973
fine, synagogue.

>>213571046
This. Total chad jock d-bag. Racist, calls the asian kids chinks, gives girls titty twisters. Everyone's too scared of him and his bros to do anything.

>>213571046
That's a bit far fetched.