Thread 213967760

Why do girls only date jerks instead of nice guys like us?

>>213967760 (OP)
This unironically looks like a Jeet show

>>213967760 (OP)
Maybe you’re not as nice as you think. Maybe you need to become even nicer. Maybe you need to start nicemaxxing with me and the boys

>>213967760 (OP)
What exactly do "nice guys" think being nice means and why that is so special? Most people aren't assholes unless you give them a reason to

>>213967760 (OP)
jerks ask them out, get turned down, either ask out again or move on to next one.
nice guy agonizes over asking out girl, does so in a pussy way

>>213967760 (OP)
Assholes are less neurotic.

because the real nice guys they want to date don't bother to ask them out. they have more important things to do than sit around and ask why girls wont go out with them.

>>213967929
>>213968354
>you're single because....you don't actually ask women out

is it really that simple?

>>213968384
It never feels like I have time to with other stuff going around. some girls are even starting to get angry with be because I dont

>grow up consooming media
>all media spreads this meme that women are mysterious creatures with a code of logic that is unknowable to immature boys but totally makes sense once you crack the code as a grown man
>grow up and start interacting with girls
>there is no code to break, they're all stupid schizos who make decisions purely based on emotion and ego and their behavior is extremely predictable because they will always choose the stupidest most selfish decision possible

Is there a more consistently stupid and reality defying meme tv and television pushes?

>>213968540
it's incredibly important for normies to be delusional about women to prevent societal collapse
>i have to work my ass off for decades just so that an aggressively awful person will agree to live with me
i don't think men would agree to that deal if they understood it

>>213968540
>>213968882
I think you guys just have low emotional intelligence. Growing up is realizing men and women are both mostly NPCs and letting go of your bitterness toward them. Yes most of them are stupid and impulsive. Accept what you can't change and focus on what you can.

>>213967760 (OP)
They actually go and talk to them and ask them out instead of just sulking in the corner trying to avoid eye contact.

>>213968943
incredibly npc response, like you didn't even read the posts. are you female?

>>213967760 (OP)
Men of our generation grew up in a highly feminized world. Many of us were raised by single mothers (and credit where credit is due, they did raise us to the best of their abilities, flawed though they may have been). More than three quarters of public school teachers are women. The qualities that were inherently male were punished and suppressed. How many of us were put on behavioral medication? How many of us were reprimanded for being “disruptive” or energetic? We were taught to have respect for everyone except ourselves. We were taught to make room for everyone else and be grateful for whatever was left. How many of us had bitter old women for teachers who clearly gave preferential treatment to girls? Girls were told they could be anything and were just as capable as any man. Boys were told to sit still and shut up. So now we have a generation of women who are more highly educated than any before and a generation of men who have dropped out of higher education more than any generation before. When asked why they dropped out of college, many young men answered “It felt like no one wanted me there.” So now we have women asking where all the men are. Well, you gave them explicit instructions not to be abrasive, not to be ambitious, and not to be disagreeable. You want my advice? Do the opposite of whatever a woman tells you to do. They will respect you more for it.

>>213968540
so did you never watch mean girls, 10 things i hate about you, superbad?

>>213967760 (OP)
nice guys don’t have a personality, oh your nice? what else do you do? oh you’re just nice. girls want someone with life experience, they want someone who can navigate their way through life no matter what obstacle is ahead of them. you wouldn’t just date a girl who’s only personality is that she’s into you, that would get boring so fast

>>213969232
I agree that being raised by a single mother can be feminizing but most people didn't give a shit about their teachers. A young man needs a father figure or a masculine role model to learn how to be a man, otherwise they feel depressed and anxious and turn to drugs

>>213967760 (OP)
In highschool I found that the more of an asshole I was, the more friends and girls I got. It just seemed like the more I pushed and the worst I acted, the better things turned out. I hit on a girl, she was shy and demurred away, so I functionally sexually assaulted her in the hallway, fondled her and made her kiss me. She became my girlfriend and gave me my first blowjob.

But the same was true for guys too. The more I shat on my friends and bullied them, publicly embarrassing and teasing them, the bigger my friend circle got.

I always chalked it up to confidence and people gravitating toward a dominant personality, but I've always wondered if people are just generally masochistic and seek out others who mistreat them.

>>213967760 (OP)
you need confidence

saw a like 20 year old guy in the tram 2 weeks ago and he just asked out 2 girls on the tram (the tram was packed). he got turned down but he wasn't phased at all.

I guess thats what one calls a gigachad

>>213967760 (OP)
>Why do girls only date jerks instead of nice guys like us
Go to Philippines get mail order bride
Or pay and have sex with prostitute

>>213969593
How do you have confidence when you're very sensitive? Do you just pretend to not have emotions?
>>213969640
My first girlfriend was filipina and she was fucking crazy. Her mom was crazy too and regularly made fun of me and her

>>213969640
>sea monkey
>doesn't "love drama"
lmao

>>213969423
Kids spend more of their lives at school than at home with their families. The behavioral conditioning they receive there is huge

>>213969679
can't tell you. I would never do something like that guy in public. People like that probably see it as a game. The goal is to win (date) and if you lose its like losing an aram in LoL (of no consequence, who cares?)

>>213969640
if you don’t want someone who doesn’t think why don’t you date a fucking retard?

Women always want to be friends with me. There has been two women that actually wanted me, one I felt nothing towards and the other was a really mean person.

>>213969739
that’s funny because their fathers spend more time working than actually being around

>>213967760 (OP)
I've never really interacted with girls so I guess I never gave them the chance to give me a chance to be fair. But then I also know women only want men with higher status than them so it was never really worth bothering with it since I'm a very low status man.

>>213968943
>all that shitpost
Gee thanks for the "nothing" response.

Girls are always excited to go on a date with me, but they lose interest right after. And the dates actually go well.

Nice = weak. Weak = unattractive. Women are attracted to dominance and power, and repulsed by submissiveness and weakness. They would rather date a convicted rapist and murderer than a man they perceive weak.

>>213967760 (OP)
I watched Sex and the City as a kid and never had issues understanding girls. Honestly that show was a godsend but most men discard it as just being wine aunt power fantasy

>>213969898
I think I'm just going to be alone and never have kids

>>213969898
Nice does not equal weak. There's a massive difference in the dating market between an awkward nice guy who's a pushover and a confident/charismamaxxed nice guy who can protect you.

Why are you spamming? Isn’t tv and movies basically 80% of “weird beta guys get hot women?”

I think there's like 2 people in my life that I have never felt annoyed by.

>>213969679
Exposure therapy. If you’re so afraid of rejection, go get rejected. Maybe you’ll feel humiliated and awful. You know what you’ll feel after that? Fine. You’ll feel just fine. Because the worst thing that could happen happened and you’re still alive. Then the next time you get rejected you’ll say to yourself “her loss, moving on.”

>>213969980
>Nice does not equal weak.
In the female mind (i.e. the vagina), it does.

>>213970069
This has not been my experience.

I have serious case of autism and I've been on 4 dates in the past year.

>>213968540
>all media spreads this meme that women are mysterious creatures with a code of logic that is unknowable to immature boys but totally makes sense once you crack the code as a grown man
The only reason you ever believed this is because you spent your formative years watching TV instead of meeting girls. Normal men never thought that real life was supposed to be like fiction on TV, that was you. Now you're an adult male who fell behind, incapable of forming connections with your peers. That's 100% a you problem, no one else's.

>>213970036
Yeah, that might help a little. It won't change the fact that my DNA makes me extra sensitive and I will always be this way no matter how much exposure therapy I do. It's just how I am. I'm barely able to get up and go to work every day because of anxiety, and my anxiety is still bad even after working over a year

>be unattractive
>act a little strange
>dislike socializing
>overthink everything because society drilled into the heads of two generations of men to respect and worship women which means not making them uncomfortable which means never approaching them and even barely looking at them
that's all it takes to die a virgin nowadays.

>>213967760 (OP)
>jewish man humiliating goyim, the career

I am the most logical and redpill member of my school's Behavior Achievers afterschool program. The other guys all look up to me because of how much I know about women, even if some of them are fatter than I am.
I am also a leading poster on /tv/ so you can see that I know a lot about the world.
Women, you see, are like children and they get tingles when you neg them and they also only like tall men with money who are very fit.
I have proved this by looking at stuff on the internet. It is clear to me, from my jizz-reeking battlestation that every woman fucks chads behind their provider husband's back
and also black guys

>>213969898
what I don't understand is if women's primary goal is to select someone who's capable of providing and protecting, why do they often fall in love with ex convicts who don't have money to provide and are probably low IQ and violent and could snap and beat her at any moment?

It's simple. Woman want an assertive man. That's it. Not a "bad" guy but an assertive guy. Bad guys usually have this trait which is where the attraction comes from but you can be a "nice guy" while being assertive too but many men are not

>>213971115
women are schizo and random. male attraction for women is very easy and simple but a lot of decent looking women will be with obese broke guys. you can make blanket statements about male attraction but i do not understand women at all. too many cases of otherwise kind and loving women with gross and weird ugly men for me to just think women are all chad only.

>>213967816
They are nice in the sense they don't make a move and asert themselves over the girl and think men that do are "jerks" ir "assholes"

>>213970986
>if women's primary goal is to select someone who's capable of providing and protecting
It's not.
>why do they often fall in love with ex convicts who don't have money to provide and are probably low IQ and violent and could snap and beat her at any moment?
Because that is what women are attracted to.

>>213969459
> I've always wondered if people are just generally masochistic and seek out others who mistreat them
It's probably more comfortable for them since that's all they know. Shit's sad, I don't even get mad anymore, I just pity them and what society has become. I think another part of it is being an asshole is more entertaining.

>>213968943
>Growing up is realizing men and women are both mostly NPCs
NPCs with gray matter > those without.

>>213970221
Cool
What are you doing here, then?