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Any INFP kinos recently?

>>214005517 (OP)
Nah, go back to vidya.

>>214005517 (OP)
>infp female
>perfect flawless cinnamon roll everyone loves and the ideal woman and wife

>infp male
>everyone hates you
>die alone a virgin if unattractive and can't rely solely on looks, talent, or fame
it really do be like that.

>>214005635
just become the female

>>214005635
Why are we cursed?

>>214005635
oh this shit's like horoscopes for autistic neets

>>214005722
if only it were so simple.

>>214005635
What's the ISTP version of this?

Any good ENTP kinos?

>>214005763
>You're an XBNP!
>Guess who else was an XBNP?
>EINSTEIN! GHANDI!
>Now you you can special despite having accomplished nothing!
>(Just like everybody else!)

>>214005798
would that it were so simple

>>214005858
infp is basically
>you feel emotions harder and are generally just a worthless lazy cunt nobody likes
>go be an artist alone you mopey bitch, oh wait you don't have any talent either? then die.

>>214005847
The Great Debaters and Matrix

I was INTP when I was younger and I'm INFP now

>>214005959
I was infp as a kid but somehow ended up being ENTP as an adult. At some point I stopped giving a shit and it turned me into a complete asshole. Funnily enough it got me pussy too

INFJ kinos?

ENFJ here, I believe in all of you.

>>214006466
What's it like being an extrovert?

>>214006554
It’s weird, isolation feels like I’m going insane, it’s difficult to be alone. I have to chit chat with people even if it’s just about nonsense or small talk in order to feel regulated and stable. I get a huge kick out of public speaking and get a kind of high when it’s over. Intimate conversations are the absolute best and I can talk for hours, but small group conversations feel difficult to navigate as I try not to suck up all the air in the room and gab about whatever. I try to actively regulate my own speaking time to try not to talk over other people or talk too much. I do like alone time now and again, but only if I’m stressed out or exhausted.

>>214005763
Horoscope is based on when you were born which is retarded.
Meyeyers briggs just tests what your ideal situations are / who your ideal self is. It actually have questions to answer so there data

>>214006466
How do you deal with intense feelings?

>>214006691
Kind of envy it though always having something to talk about, regardless whether others are interested or not. It always feel like it's a chore to me.

>>214006779
Some roastie and her mom came up with it in the 1940s so the military would pretend to not be assigning jobs arbitrarily, they'd be assigning them based on someone's "personality type" instead. It has no foundation in clinical psychiatry

Who /INFJ/ here?

It's supposedly the rarest type. Maybe that explains why I feel so alone.

>>214005517 (OP)
INFP: Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind
>For the idealist lost in their own melancholic inner world. It's about the weight of memory and the futile search for a perfect connection.
INTP: Primer
>For the analyst who wants a problem to solve, not a story to watch. It demands you deconstruct its logic and rewards spotting the flaws in the system.
INFJ: Amélie
>For the quiet observer who feels compelled to fix everyone. It follows a character manipulating destinies from the background, driven by an unseen, idealistic pattern.
INTJ: There Will Be Blood
>For the strategist who views the world as a system to be conquered. It's about the relentless, long-term execution of a singular, ambitious vision.
ISFP: Drive
>For the silent actor with a strong, unspoken moral code. It expresses everything through curated aesthetics and sudden, decisive physical action.
ISTP: Blade Runner
>For the detached technician who just wants to do his job. It follows a pragmatic operator forced to question the nature of his tools and his reality.
ISFJ: The Remains of the Day
>For the loyalist completely bound by duty and tradition. It depicts a life spent meticulously maintaining a system at the expense of self.
ISTJ: No Country for Old Men
>For the pragmatist who sees the world breaking its own rules. It follows a man of principle trying to apply an old code to a new, chaotic landscape.

I’m an INFP male and in order to survive you need to harden your heart and try to deaden your sense of empathy or your sensitivity will ruin your life. Simply accept the fact that you will never be loved unconditionally and people do not feel as intensely as you do. Build yourself a metaphorical suit of armor to protect yourself emotionally or the world will quickly devour you. For a man, oversensitivity is maladaptive. Myers Briggs tests are very flawed as a personality metric anyway so don’t force yourself into a box for no reason.

>>214005821
have u seen the movie drive?
female version is probably a butch lesbian welder

>>214005847
tons e.g.
Les Vacances de Monsieur Hulot
The Day of the Jackal
Three Days of the Condor
The Warriors
Slacker
etc.

>>214005517 (OP)
Sex with my wife (I am an ENTP-A male)

To all my INFPs former INFP here, the Myers brigs is an incomplete study. I finished up Jung's red book and what people need to do is work on their weaknesses. The closer we are to the mid line the better. I/E S/N F/T J/P is optimal for everyone.

Literzlly horoscope for ***males***. Mcfucking kys

If you aren't INTP or INTJ you are literally retarded and should outsourse your cognitive functions to someone functional

>>214007785
>>214006005
the last heterosexual ENTP's were probably emperors and ottoman sultans
you are either an ENFPs in denial or an INTJs too smart from your own good

>>214007389
>tfw driver

>>214007406
Everything you said is worse for the INFJ and worse still when combined with 4w5, but from what I've read about all this, the silver lining is that INFP female and INFJ male may be a perfect match. Or INFJ x INFJ.

>>214007896
its not the same at all though retard, horoscope can be dismissed as completely meaningless. based on when i was born? cosmic vibes in the universe? no.
but the MBTI comes from a personality test. you get what you put in, if you lie about how you really are when you answer the questions, or answer how you wish you were, rather than being truthful. then thats on you, and you got a shitty result. but if you answer truthfully, you'll get a damn well defined category for your personality. that doesnt mean, become attached and fixated on that type, letting it become your identity. but its definitely not useless enough to dismiss on the grounds that its horoscope tier.

>>214008653
>but if you answer truthfully, you'll get a damn well defined category for your personality. that doesnt mean, become attached and fixated on that type, letting it become your identity
for example
when fags go to this level of obsession >>214008459 they are worthy of mocking.
this guy doesnt just do the MBTI test to find out he's INFJ. he also tries to find "ideal matches" based on types and he does other tests too to get this "4w5".
these people deserve mockery, theyre retarded in their obsession. but me? because i enjoyed reading about my type, the INTP, historical figures in the past that are speculated to be like that, learning from them, learning weaknesses, and strengths of my type? i'm not a horoscope retard thats just simple logic to improve.

>>214007896
INTJ the ultimate incel

>>214008746
>the INTP
look at my type

look at my posts:
>>214007389 (of course i posted this sperg ai shit)
>>214008653
>>214008746

look at the example movie >>214007389
>INTP: Primer
>For the analyst who wants a problem to solve, not a story to watch. It demands you deconstruct its logic and rewards spotting the flaws in the system.

i am totally "that guy", just from my posts ITT. if i want to find similar, like minded people like myself. looking for other INTPs is a good way to do it (lot of them are pussies unfortunately)

>>214006866
It’s a blessing and a curse in its own ways. Some people are hard to talk to because they’re just suspicious that I’m trying to sell them something or they’re just not interested in talking. When that happens I feel like an idiot or like a freak. Also the world is an isolating place nowadays so I’m forced to spend more time alone which makes me depressed.
>>214006833
Depends on the feeling. I have clinical depression, and when it creeps in I get away from people and hide in my room with distractions (it used to be drinking but I quit drinking so it’s normally smoking and long movies). I hate it when people see me sad so I try to avoid them until I’m feeling better. Anger I bottle up and become very curt and restrained, I don’t lash out since I hate conflict I just quietly seethe most of the time. Grief is much the same as depression though it usually involves a lot more crying in the shower or in the car. When I’m in relationships I can and usually will reach out to a trusted friend or my partner, but when I’m single it’s rough and I usually just ride it out knowing well enough now that the waves of depression come and go.

>>214005517 (OP)
This is just star signs for the autistic

>>214008960
kys retard

>>214005872
would that t'were so simple

>>214008977
You're the retard

>>214009443
he is right though, even if he's starting from the wrong assumptions :3

Throw me some ENFP kinos.

While astronomy is bunk, our bodies are 70% water and the moon has control over the tides. To say that gravity doesn't dictate our lives is like saying the fundamental force that keeps us from flying off the earth doesn't matter.

>>214009544
Willie Wonka and the Chocolate Factory

>>214005517 (OP)
INFP Media:
>Evangelion (up to end of evangelion)
>Caroline
>Dead Poets Society
>Lord of the Rings
>Over the Garden Wall
>Inside Out
>Spider man Trilogy (sam raimi)
>Welcome to the NHK
>Steven Universe
>Corpse Bride
>Perfect Blue
>Totoro
>Forest Gump
>Joker (2019)
>Bocchi
>Edward Scissor hands
>Mulholland Drive
>Nightmare before Christmas
>Sleeping Beauty.

>>214009544
>accumulates information
>decides based on own taste
>recommend
quite impossibru

>>214005517 (OP)
I gravitate between INFP and INTP what does that mean?

>>214010096
this test consults typologies mister/ma'am, it does not work with percentages
seek out a professional to administer you MBTI Form J.
last time I checked the test cost 40 dollars, the administration probably 100 or more
u r welcome

>>214010096
what this anon said is good advice >>214010172
but honestly the issue probably stems from misunderstanding the questions because of autism or wording.
a better way to take the test, if you want to put effort in, rather than paying someone else to do this exact thing ill explain is. take each question then copy paste it into an LLM and ask it like "can you make this make sense by painting two scenarios i could choose from an autistic virgin 40 year old"
and then it will make it a lot clearer to you, maybe? that way you can try to answer more definitively

>>214008935
Why do you think the depression creeps in when you're alone? My father and brother are workaholics, and often feel the same if they have nothing to do. But I never really understood why. Do you feel irrationally "useless" or something? I'm just the total flipside so I'm curious.

I'm far more introverted and have eventually earned some level of contentment being alone, but I struggle desperately around busy places in public. I once went 5 straight days without speaking out loud in my apartment during covid. All the best, I hope you find a goal/purpose to drive you from the depression.

None beat the stereotypical INFP ever made

>>214007389
This is wrong, NCFOM is THE anti-ISTJ movie. You could say that Chigger is ISTJ personified, even going so far as to enforce his perceived order of the world onto others-the J of his nerd astrology bs taken to its extreme end, and he gets his shit pushed in by his inability to keep track of the cogs and levers and buttons and whatnot operating his presupposed order of the world or put simply by chaos.

>>214010812
based on a still yeah but in real time she was so dedicated to chewing the scenery she killed my democratic election

>>214010716
>Why do you think the depression creeps in when you're alone?
in the west the depression only creeps in when youre alone, our culture runs on guilt. so if no ones watching you still feel worthless for not grinding.
japan on the other hand runs on shame, so theyre fine alone rotting but crushed when they step outside.

>>214010716
Well I know it’s the flavor of the month but trauma mostly. Lots and lots of bad shit happened when I was young and just kept happening. But yes, it’s just a creeping void. It hits like a flash “everything that you are is worthless, you don’t matter, there will be nothing more than this.” Just creeps in when I’m exhausted and not busy enough to keep my head out of the dark. During Covid the whole time I just suffered horrible sleep paralysis, I would just be stuck staring at a dark corner of my room, falling deeper and deeper into it.

I’m in grad school now, I’m hoping this is enough of an adventure or feels like a proper enough step forward to prove to my inner voices that I’m worthwhile. It’s usually why most of my relationships fail too, I tell myself I don’t deserve this person or they don’t deserve to deal with my depression so I just push them away.

Fellow INFPs, you need to embrace who you are and just be mellow and nice to everyone. You need protection. Work out and take care of yourself. You need to look good. It's important. You don't have much else going for you.

Date and then marry a genuinely nice girl with a good job. It's the only chance you have.

>>214005635
What if you’re an INFP femboy?

>>214005635
>infp female
I can promise you the description for this is completely wrong. 90% of my clients I see for mental health are INFP retards who want to please everyone in the world and crumble like a leaf as soon as someone is upset with them for any reason.

>>214011309
being attractive is tutorial mode for anyone.

>>214006691

it's funny, i wouldn't say i enjoy public speaking but i've never had a problem with it at all. it never made me nervous but i certainly never got a high off of it. on the other hand, i absolutely despise mindless small talk, probably because i'm so terrible at it. dealing with people one on one, one after another, is fatiguing in a way i don't experience from anything else. is there a way to become more extroverted? i think i would be a lot happier and more successful if i were.

>>214011392
Maybe, I could only suggest just trial and error and practice. Find a relevant 12 step group to whatever issues you may feel you have, they’re free and you’ll meet people who want to talk (or else they wouldn’t be there). It’ll be painful at first but stay after the meeting is over and remember a few good shares you heard in the room and chat about that with the individual, make note of something you related to and why. Good place to start a more serious conversation with a stranger. Practice that enough and you can get the feel for having more natural conversations generally.

>>214011285

what the fuck is this? i never paid much mind to these tests but every fucking time i take them, and it's been sporadically over the last ten years, i get INFP. all i do is work a job i hate and go to the gym. i highly doubt i'll get married at my age. why the fuck am i like this? is there a way to change your personality?

>>214011269
>died of too many tabs
Ho-How did they know?

Only infp know these feels.

>When you get a new toothbrush and have to throw the old one out
>When you get new couches and you have to throw the old ones out on the curb and you watch as the garbagemen throw it into the back of the garbage truck (﹏)

>>214011180
Fuck dude, that's brutal. I suppose when you experience that level of shit as a child your inner need to impress yourself gets stamped out. I'm not a psychologist, but I found what helped a bit from me was separating myself into a "thinker-me" and a "do-er me". Also a lot of my issues were linked to assumed expectations that did not have to exist in the first place (many still do).

I'm actually in grad school too (started during covid). I've never started a real relationship at almost 29 since if it becomes too real (sex or whatever), then all the times I said I was fine alone become real and will hit like a wall. It's like looking into the sun for me. If I had to leave you with anything is that treat life (grad school or whatever else), like a constant state of becoming. We never actually "get" anywhere/anything, that's just an issue of how our language phrases things.

>>214011526
My first friend was a crack in the wall of my bathtub

>>214011526

this is fucking ridiculous. i do the same thing. i imagine material things like this to have feelings and i feel sad throwing them out.

>>214011445
>is there a way to change your personality?
Its not a personality test. Its to help you understand your preferred orientation to the inner and outer world via, Intuition, Thinking, Feeling, and Sensation as the 4 cognitive functions and whether you use them in an introverted or extroverted fashion. The test is not what it is used for commonly now a days, which is
>FIND OUT YOUR PERSONALITY TYPE IN 10 MINUTES OR LESS!!!!!

>>214011609
Yeah I’m trying to do that. I don’t fully buy Nietzche but I do like his phrase “a man is a bridge, he is an act of becoming.” In the novel Stoner (which if you like reading I highly recommend), he talks about love as a mutual act of becoming, each recognizing in the other their mutual state of becoming which is so often not seen. I can get there sometimes, but fuck it’s just rough at other times. And it’s my own prejudice, but I keep thinking “I should be old enough now to not need reassurance from other people” or “I should be old enough to have this figured out by now,” but that kind of thinking doesn’t really solve anything.

As an INTP I think ENTP is the most powerful. All of my strengths and none of my flaws.

>>214011799
ENTPs rub most everyone the wrong way. Think of the worst lawyer stereotype you can think of. They’re always right, you’re always wrong, they will always dunk on you. They’re loud enough and smart enough to become successful, and some people like they’re dedication towards being right and fighting to be right, but for a lot of other people it’s fucking exhausting.

>>214007241
To be an INFJ is to be alone…

>>214007899
Fuck you.
Your argument is flawed.
t.ENTP

>self diagnosed autism, depression, adhd,
>:(
>self diagnosed personality type
>:)

>>214012268
You can take credible tests for this online

>>214011861
true meanwhile people think about the INTP
>i love that guy because he always listens
even though we may think youre a retard internally, no point expressing it. look for the creative optimistic take.

I don't understand why it's so difficult, I can talk to someone even online and get that connection feeling while talking about extremely mundane things and it's the most euphoric thing, it's not a honeymoon thing because it stays. but even if I don't throw myself at them it doesn't last. There was a girl at a bar like 10 months ago that grabbed my hand and stared into my eyes for what felt like hours because I was spacing out and it's the most intense human connection I've felt in years. I don't care if it's a guy or a girl I just want that feeling. I'm turning to the Bible because faith feels like the only thing you get to hold onto in life and I need something to pour my love into besides creative outlets. There's nothing bad going on but it always feels like drowning and isolation. sorry for my dumb retard faggot blog

>>214012268
>he doesn't have his autism papers
NGMI

>>214013247
i have not had a conversation outside of my family that was longer than 5 minutes in over 20 years

>>214013247
You just got to keep going man. Find somewhere that you’ll interact with more people on a more regular basis. Take a class in something that interests you. Volunteer somewhere. Join a fitness class. Fuck anything man. Just don’t give up. There are people out there just as lonely as you who want that connection too, and once the veil is cracked through again you’ll remember what you are and why you love. What you can’t do is stay inside, it’s going to be rough your first few outings but you’ll get there man. As for God, well, I’d find a church that has people who actually talk to each other. I joined a zen temple and they talk to each other and to the master during the ceremonies. Eastern rite Catholic and orthodox services also have fellowship after mass and every time I’ve attended that someone has reached out to me to start a conversation. Or try a 12 step program, CoDA is nice since basically anyone can claim to be co-dependent you don’t need to be a card carrying addict.

being entp is great.
it's pretty easy to talk to women and make friends.
what sucks is that it's easy to push them away as well. especially with women.
i can't even count how many times a woman has called me annoying and cut off all contact.
i guess i'm selfish, but fuck it, why should i change? i've yet to hear a good reason for it that doesn't impact me in the long run.
if there was like an exchange for alteration of behavior, sure. but just change because it would make people feel better?
i don't get it. i mean, i get it conceptually, but not practically.

>>214010403
That was uncalled for, anon. For shame.

INFP kinos? Nosferatu had one.

>A guardian angel,
>a spirit of comfort – spirit of any
>celestial sphere – anything – hear my call.

>Come to me.

>>214013622
>i guess i'm selfish, but fuck it, why should i change? i've yet to hear a good reason for it that doesn't impact me in the long run.
you already described why you should change.
>what sucks is that it's easy to push them away as well.
same reason you cant be like "fuck everyone else" as a neighbor in a neighborhood. sure you can only care about how your lawn looks, how youre presented, your cars, etc. but if your neighborhood around you is shitty, and you dominate everyone around you, its not like you really won anything.
a better outlook would be, even if you are superior to everyone, make them superior to you.
libertarians are the same way "i wanna get mine" and their end goal is being in some castle as a lord while they dont really care that everyone else has become a slave, and thus, your neighboors shitty. no one likes anyone. everyones distrustful. if youre not trying to dominate someone in conversation youre being weak, etc. fucked up and stressful place to live in.