>>712575917>>712576368Not either of those anons, the second anon has a kernel of truth in a whole lot of shit.
>attractivePeople like all types, so its not so much about being blessed to be some sort of adonis, but rather at least try and take care of yourself - your body, your skin etc. The anon who's showering before a date with clean and washed hair and skin is far more likely to be perceived as attractive than if you roll out of bed smelling of booze, cigs, or weed, forget to throw on deodorant, and stuff your pockets full of spaghetti to spill. You don't need to be some stereotype of perfection, but just try put in a little effort especially when you're trying to ask that cute girl out, and especially when you are spending time with her. There is a HUGE industry here in trying to get you to buy huge amounts of stuff to "improve" yourself, but don't get bogged down that way. There is some minutia depending on personal physical characteristics, but you come across as a lot more charming and attractive if you look like you've put in even a tiny bit of effort for a special event. Note that you want to balance this with still looking "normal' - just like you want a woman who still likes you when you're not dressed up if you like to sit around all day playing vidya, the same way a woman doesn't want a dude who only thinks she's hot with tons of makeup, push-up bras, and club-girl thottery clothing.
>CharmingThis is the biggest thing and the easiest - and hardest -one to change. You can spend all your time LIFT BRO and go from fat to a human toe but women will be no more attractive to you. However, if she has a good time talking with you, then that's going to do 90% of the work for you
>PoorThere are tons of poor people fucking. Many of them even fuck rick people, but mostly each other. I'll move on from the idiocracy joke area and say poor is not the problem, stupid w/ $, spendthrift etc. can be but only for long term relationships