>>712828134change from what? wtf is this argument, and actually in my life experience I knew girls who suffered a lot, had dysfunctional families, parents who were either absent or abusive, were often starving or injured due to neglect and abuse, and they were all total annoying cunts and massive whores who skipped school constantly, while girls who grew up in a good household, loving parents, had nice clothes, fed good food, their parents took them to vacations, museums etc, were all nice and polite girls who had good grades in school, so I don't think this "suffering builds character" shit makes any sense, from what I've seen through my life suffering just makes you into a cunt, while comfort will give you a better headspace to be patient and nice to others, I think retards like you should read some david hume instead of saying this kind of retarded flagellant shit, being a good person is about developing good habits of feeling, which is vastly easier if you're comfortable, it's a lot easier to get into bad habits of feeling if you're suffering, the buddha said the same, "you can't meditate on an empty stomach" if your goal is to be a good person then first your needs to be met, which includes having food, shelter, comfort, a good relationship with your family and friends, then you can cultivate yourself to be a good person, a starving dirty rat will be a starving dirty rat forever