Thread 715417659

Do you reveal you're a gamer when dating or is that a death sentence?

>>715417659 (OP)
>dating

>>715417659 (OP)
Women will take more measures to sniff out nerds or geeks than they do serial killers.

Do with this information what you will.

>>715417659 (OP)
I don't date. I also don't play videogaymes.

>>715417659 (OP)
>dating

>>715417659 (OP)
>dating
What is this, the 90's? Dating died with internet hook up sites.

>>715417659 (OP)
I'm a 32 year old virgin. How do you date?

>>715417659 (OP)
>dating

>>715419685
Month-day-year, because I'm American.

>>715419685
I don't know.

>>715417659 (OP)
I reveal that when I'm bout to cum inside her

>>715417659 (OP)
Whats the point of dating someone who doesnt play video games? What do they even do?

>>715419791
they mostly browse for other, richer men

>>715417659 (OP)
I don't like to talk about video games with women so I just say no and change the subject to music or something.

>>715417659 (OP)
Be attractive enough and you can show her your living dex on the first date and she will still let you fuck her raw.

>>715419712
Took me a second.
>>715419737
Man, I love sleeping.

>>715417659 (OP)
i'm extremely vocal about my hobbies all the time
that way everyone that don't like them leaves me the fuck alone
i'm also married so i don't have that problem

>>715417659 (OP)
I reveal that I enjoy my women tied up. Most women leave right away but some of them stay.

It's amazing how fast the light leaves their eyes when they figure out you're not a normal fag, like being into sportsball is a requirement even though they don't care about that anymore than nerdshit, fucking wild.

>>715417768
Hey, that's just not true. Women put in a lot of effort to sniff out serial killers.
Mostly so they can fuck them and tell all their friends to fuck them too.

>>715417659 (OP)
I do still play certain games, but I can't stand discussing it with people IRL. It feels like it's equivalent to coming out as gay. Immediate stigma.

>>715417659 (OP)
revealing that I have enough disposable income to make a new 6000$ pc every 2-3 years makes me quite attractive in the dating scene.
I dont of course as that only attracts vultures who want to restrict how you spend your money.

>>715417659 (OP)
>he doesn't open with "I'm a gamer" everytime
ngmi

>>715417659 (OP)
Told my current GF when we were dating that its one of my hobbies. She likes to watch me play horror games. Going through RE4 remake right now.
The hard part is explaining D&D/CoC and Warhammer. But surprisingly they are all alright with them.

>>715421058
most people are able to have 6k disposable income in a year. most would rather spend it on a vacation or two, a slightly nicer car, nights out, etc. saying "i spend 6k every 2-3 years on a bunch of fans and microchips that will take time, energy, and attention away from you" is not really that attractive.

No because they'll think I'm a heckin racist chud.

>>715417659 (OP)
Yes to both. I dated for marriage, so if a girl was going to have a problem with my primary hobby, we weren't going anywhere anyway. It took a long time to find a girl that was both cool with it and actually attractive, mostly because she's 11 years younger.

>>715417659 (OP)
the left over men here don’t date and never will.

Just tell her up front, if she likes you she won't give a fuck. She'll even join you and tank all your ranked stats but occasionally play comfy old school snes through the night with you.
I told her on our 1st date, she said she did too and told me she played some gay ass shit like harvest moon and animal crossing but it was a start.

>>715417659 (OP)
>reveal you're a gamer when dating
How old are you? Most young women play game these or at least see it as a norm these days.

>>715417659 (OP)
I generally don't bother trying to date someone that doesn't align with my interests in some way.
I don't even call myself a "gamer" either. I just don't think it's healthy to hide something like periodically playing games just to have mediocre sex for 40 seconds.

>>715417659 (OP)
>be on a shitty tinderdate
>girl is pretty cute but >>>colored hair and septum
>fuck it i havent gotten laid in over 3 years ill take anything
>we got to some hipster coffee place
>''so anon what are your hobbies? do you draw maybe play videogames?
>better give some normalfag tier answer ''haha yeah i play some GTA online and Halo 5 what about you"
>she tells me she has over 1000 hours on Sims 4
i never noped harder out of a date than that

>>715422089
>i never noped harder out of a date than that
w-why? what's wrong with sims 4?

>>715422185
Anon trust me
out of all red flags a female can have like
>piercings
>fat
>black ex
>tattoos
>heavy social media pressence
>popular with the boys
>even having a fucking OF
nothing spells ''crazy'' more than a woman who has more than 50 hours on the Sims
god help you if you see the modlist

>>715421646
You sick FUCK.

>>715422436
anon literally every woman has at least 50 hours on sims

>>715422436
i am now mordbidly curious anon

>>715422089
I've gone 26 years how are you fags so desperate after only 3.

>>715422485
I apologize for nothing, she is the greatest thing that ever happened to me.

>>715422542
I remember when normalfags would consider a few weeks without sex was like horror. That was before porn was as easily accessible as it is now and the internet took the world by force. I guess now they're coping with going longer and longer without sex now that everything's so different than how it used to be.

>>715422516
50 hours is what id call a healthy amount of Sims 4 played
once those numbers get into the 3 digits get the fuck out of there
>>715422538
nothing womanpills you harder than seeing a avergae woman's sims 4 modlist, they really are sadists and sexual predators on levels us men can only dream off

>>715422485
Mad ass zoomer OR unwanted woman in her 30s, call it

>>715417659 (OP)
why would you not
the only young women these days who have a problem with video games are either lame as fuck or out of your league anyway

>>715422693
>>once those numbers get into the 3 digits get the fuck out of here
literally elbows too pointy shit
post your games with your most played hours and i'll decide if it's a red flag, faggot.

>>715422712
it's an anon making a joke.

>>715417659 (OP)
Women don't give a shit. If they like you at all, you can tell them you have chronic farts and $10 in your bank account and they will still be down because their attraction is not earned.

They don't think like men, you can't win them over. If you play video games and that turns her away, she was already turned away she just hadn't shown yo yet.

>>715422657
How is it like for the parents when their daughter brings home a much older man. Just curious in case I ever end up in that situation.

>>715417659 (OP)
Don't reveal anything
Just be funny bro

>>715422693
i am even mor ecurious
are there any examples? forum posts or some such?

>>715417659 (OP)
Don't be ugly and she won't mind about you playing video games.

>>715417659 (OP)
If you care what women think then you've already lost.
Don't like that I play video games? Then get out and go make your own money bitch

>>715422884
I couldn't tell you. We only met because I'm friends with her dad, my experience is a totally different situation. It probably helps that I'm pretty juvenile and she's mature, people are usually surprised by how big the gap is.

>>715417659 (OP)
If you're a gamer or a guy with any weird hobbies, unironically just date a guy. They will be more caring and loving towards you than any woman.

>>715422693
God you're such a fucking annoying redditfag, shut up

No wonder you can't get pussy

>>715422436
>Porn mods
>A shitton of individual food item mods for cooking
S-so scary
I actually ask my female friends for their modlists when I feel the urge to replay 4 because they're usually pretty thorough, and then I just download everything except the food/cooking mods

>>715422089
>woman playing sims 4 instead of sims 2
that's the real red flag here

>>715417659 (OP)
I do and I will stop the dating when the woman isn't gaming herself.

t.Father of 2, playing Elite Dangerous with his GF right now

>>715423693
They play it to make fanfiction of their life with fucking the local chad

>>715423693
>woman playing sims 4 instead of sims 2
Those are men anon, only trannies put the effort into getting that ancient game to run

>>715421058
Wow anon!
You're able to save 250 every month! That sure is a lot!
Good thing you keep that a secret or the golddiggers would drown you in pussy!

>>715420282
heh

>he doesn't open with "six million jews? where did they even find them lol"
You're never gonna make it

>>715417659 (OP)
My current GF and I started online. She DM'd me because she liked the porn I retweeted and wanted to ship our WoW characters together. Started talking a lot for a few months bouncing between her sending me nudes and going on 'tism rants about her current favorite flight sim escapades. Pretty sweet gig I've found myself in. You should try it. Just be yourself and wait for the right one.

>>715417659 (OP)
Using gamer as a descriptive label for yourself under any circumstances is a pretty self destructive thing to do

just date other dudes
it's not gay if they're girly little twinks

>>715423040
enter at your own risk
https://www.reddit.com/r/TheSims4Mods/

>>715417659 (OP)
Sometimes I miss my ex-wife. She never played vidya before we met because she said the controls are confusing, but she used to love watching me play. We'd sit and smoke weed and drink beer together while I played through DX:HR, DA:O, GTA, whatever else I was playing at that time, and she was genuinely entertained. I finally got her playing Diablo 3 with me because the controls are so easy she couldn't possibly fuck that up, and she got to enjoy mouse clicking a bunch of cunts and leveling up. I feel like I'll never find that comfy dynamic again.

Are there males who don't play videogames at all? Like what are your hobbies? Watching football and drink beer all the time? Sports don't take up that much time.

>>715424515
Hell yeah, time to stare directly into the heart of darkness.

>>715424515
Women being prone to install sex mods into the glorified Barbie house simulators will never not be funny.

>>715424135
fucking lol, this reads like one of those dwarf fortress playthrough stories

>>715417659 (OP)
I can put up with most aspects of nu-4chan but I really despise the normeis that flaunt their sex-having.
I have never been on the receiving end of a girl's affection that wasn't a family member. Dating and fucking is an urban myth.

>>715424515
>https://www.reddit.com/r/TheSims4Mods/
>https://www.reddit.com/r/TheSims4Mods/comments/1lqdgs0/wdym_she_laid_an_egg_how_tf_she_lay_an_egg/
yeah


yeah

>>715425092
I've been on 4chan since '07 and I've always been a sex haver. Literally and unironically just have sex.

>>715417659 (OP)
Yeah. If its a dealbreaker and you aren't willing to give it up, there's no point continuing. Its all a farce with a guaranteed break-up, if you just hide it.
Unless you're just looking for casual sex and not a relationship. Then by all means, hide it, since the relationship doesn't matter to you.

>>715425170
I've made several shitposts ITT but, all bullshit aside, this is the well adjusted answer to the question.

>>715425094
>No oviposition fetish gf
sad life

>>715425317
Probably a blessing, you don't want to end up having to drive your gf to the hospital because she managed to get her bad dragon silicon sculptures stuck in what she insists on calling her "egg basket"

>>715419790
*plap plap plap* URRGHHHHH GAMER PRIDE WORLD WIDE! *splat*

>>715424515
it's amazing how women will shame you for liking big titty anime girls and then proceed to install most vile shit imaginable
what drives this behaviour

>>715423051
This and there is nothing wrong with this. Nobody wants an ugly partner.

>>715425092
I know multiple people irl who use 4chan and have girlfriends. They are all literally this meme.

>>715421058
you're an itoddler, aren't you?

>>715421829
holy fucking tits, pls post more based anon

>>715425269
The depraved mind of women never fails to amuse me. But I can get behind that. Without their valiant efforts in writing endless amounts of smut since the dawn of time, we wouldn't have lewd chatbots.

>>715425690
My best friend fell for this. He was a sperg much like me, but then he met fat chicks. His current gf already cheated on him once and he took her back. He just can't take being alone anymore, I bet.

>>715425641
this pic never fails to make them mad because its true

>>715425690
ah ok that explains everything. Now the pieces all fit together

>>715417659 (OP)
She revealed she was a gamer, showed me her steam library then a month later broke up with me from the mental ward after have having another schizophrenic relapse. Why must gamers be mentally ill, I loved her so much.

>>715417659 (OP)
>dating

>>715422436
reminds me of that clip of a black chick reacting to a sim murdering another sim in shock

>>715417659 (OP)
it's a death sentence. literally nobody in a relationship plays video games

>>715417659 (OP)
>dating
If you didn't secure your virgin gf and turned her into your wife, you missed your chance.
It's unironically over for you

>>715425641
Subconscious desire ingrained in them from the paleolithic era where survival for a woman meant not fighting back as a man subdued and raped her until she was pregnant.

>>715417659 (OP)
>dating

>>715420016
KEK I'm currently working on my pkmn ultra Sun/Moon living dex

>>715417659 (OP)
>dating

>>715423531
your friends are whores anon and you're the nerd they wont fuck.

>>715417659 (OP)
my gf ended up with me because we played the same shitty nintendo games, initially bonded over music but she told me that i was the one when we started discussing about the wii animal crossing and de blob of all things. thank you de blob.

>>715422693
>spoiler
That sounds like a challenge

>>715417659 (OP)
I wouldn't go on a date with somebody I wasn't already friends with, so they'd already know.

>>715426037
Well yeah I fucked the friend who doesn't play Sims 4

>>715421646
Uuuooooh

>>715425425
That's so fucking hot

>>715417659 (OP)
>Do you reveal you're a gamer when dating
may as well get it out of the way. just dont admit to playing anything actually cringe or autistic.
hardest part isnt admitting that you play games, but the girl asking you what you play.
Think about it before the date, you want games that are easy to describe, sound fun when you describe them and that they possibly have heard of.

You dont want to say you play Hearts of Iron 4 and try to explain "you play as nazi germany and micromanage blah blah blah" cuz that shit dries up a vagina very quickly.
chicks love co-op lobby horror games or survival crafting games

My girlfriend plays Luma Island, Infinity Nikki, Stardew Valley, Dave the Diver - those kinda games.

>>715424443
>My current GF and I started online. She DM'd me because she liked the porn I retweeted and wanted to ship our WoW characters together
This won't end well for you mate

/v/:
>DUDE WOMEN CAN SNIFF OUT AUTISTS BETTER THAN CRIMINALS ISN'T THAT WACKY?! FUCKING FEMOIDS
also /v/:
>MMMMMM YES PLEASE POST MORE OF THIS TATTOOED ALTGIRL WITH A BULLRING GOD I WOULD FUCK HER SOOOOOOO HARD I WOULD FUCK HER BRAINS OUT

>>715417659 (OP)
"Gamer" shouldn't be one's identity.

>>715423218
>I'm friends with her dad

>>715426305
/v/:
>/v/ is one person
also /v/:
>implying /v/ is one person

>>715424443
Sounds like a match made in heaven.

>>715426305
i look like this and say this

>>715426302
Such is life I guess? We've lived together for two years and are pretty comfortable with each other now. Even done a bucket list vacation last summer. Nothing's perfect but so far neither of us have had any major signs of restlessness that I'm aware of.

Plus she's a cum obsessed freak in bed which is pretty fun.

>>715421829
POST MORE NAO

>>715417659 (OP)
>>dating

>>715426452
why larp on an anonymous berry picking forum?

>>715426452
I'm legitimately sorry for you

>>715417659 (OP)
yes, if you start out a relationship hiding who you are and being ashamed of your hobbies you will be miserable

>>715417659 (OP)
You do it after you’ve fucked her and she’s basically puddy in your hands. Girls will do literally anything for you if you fuck the absolute shit out of them. I’ve even had schizo sociopath emotionally damaged bpd cheater type bitches buying me shit after good sex.

>>715425641
UGH
YOU GUYS NEVER GET IT
THIS MAKES PERFECT SENSE
Women are SOCIAL CREATURES. You think men are? HARDLY. Women BREATHE social contracts that men merely take note of. ANYTHING out of a woman’s mouth is playing what she sees as the ideal game to do TWO THINGS. The first is to SIGNAL SHE IS AN ALLY TO OTHER WOMEN. Supporting the “current thing”, calling a 4/10 a 10/10, talking down on an unpopular person. THESE ARE NOT OPINIONS SHE NECESSARILY HOLDS. Theses are SIGNALS TO OTHER WOMEN SHE IS STABLE AND WORTH BEING SOCIALLY HITCHED TO. The second goal is to ADVANCE HER POSITION. Men attack directly, women indirectly. A woman gets what she wants through almost purely indirect means. Having an enemy fired, starting a rumor, etc.
ALL WOMEN in essentially all cultures know that porn vidya is NOT approved as a thing to signal support of, that said, this has, and this is the secret here, ZERO BEARING on their opinion of porn vidya. Replace every mention of the word “said” with “signalled” in your minds description of what a woman does. She signalled that she did not approve of this war. She signalled that this man’s advances are not acceptable. That is what is going on. Women do not say things because they think that thing, they say things because they want the effect of people hearing that they said the thing, in a way they’re using language in a purer form than men are. Men merely use language as a means to an end to communicate thoughts, women consistently use language as exactly what it is, a tool to shape ones position via how it is RECEIVED by those around them. Men talk with their own mouths in mind, women talk with the ears of their listener in mind.

>>715426515
Have you ever tried it?
It releases a lot of stress. You can come up with all kinds of scenarios.

>>715423051
>shy
kek everytime

>>715426585
I can't reveal who am

>>715426305
yo this guy got goomba'd

>>715426751
What's the best board to larp in? I wanna get into that, I'm gonna rogermaxx

>>715426810
then you're not ready for dating. You need to be at peace with yourself before adding someone new to your life

>>715426875
Grim

The idea of dating is just outright alien to me. Like I genuinely don't understand normalfags on any level.

>>715421829
>tattoos
Ruined

>>715417659 (OP)
>Do you reveal you're a gamer when dating or is that a death sentence?
>Do you reveal you're a gamer
>you're a gamer
>you're
Holy illiterate retard

>>715426982
>pic
B O G G E D

>>715426982
Ryan Bogling, no....

>>715427301
what

All that work to stick your penis in a vagina

>>715426707
This guy knows how to make them squirt

>>715420016
This!!!
Loss weight and fix up your body with regular exercise, she won’t care if you showed her you NDS collection
Hell, she may try out some later

>>715427301
???

Gaming is so normied these days how is it even a thing to bring up? Its like hey I WATCH movies do you WATCH movies??
I could see girls not wanted guys who are overly obsessed with unproductive hobbies. Then again my ex GF was a weeb gamer and obsessed with Minecraft and lots of anime games.

But let's be real here, no one on /v/ plays games they just shitpost and fap.

>>715417659 (OP)
Kill Bill would've been better as an anime fully instead of just that one scene. Tarantino no balls.

The reason for the gaming being a turn off psyop, is they're all looking for workaholic simps to use

>>715427619
>ikea furniture

Poor faggots like you should never give advice

>>715427742
ultaviolence doesnt hit the same when its just a drawing

>>715427767
My sister unironically told her husband she's willing to stay at home and raise her kids if he's willing to pay her.

>>715427812
>comixfag giving taste advice
Ironic

>>715427812
>Poor
Did you see some of the games? Some costs like 150$ minimum if he happened to buy them after 2020 shit. I don’t understand where did “poor” come from

>>715423051
The musician one doesn't track. I don't know what it is about musicians but legions of women will spread their legs for a music guy, especially if he's a singer. Parents will even throw their young daughters at the motherfuckers for some reason. Music just makes everyone turn their brains of off some reason.

>>715417659 (OP)
>dating

>>715428046
music is emotional, women are emotional, probably something similar to the suspension bridge effect

>>715427875
>her kids
nice cuck meme

>>715425612
GAMERS RISE UUUU-OAHHHH!!

>>715417659 (OP)
I call them a nigger as soon as I meet them and tell them to kill themself or get on my level, so we're on the same page
hasn't worked out yet but it will, just need to grind more

>>715427871
It's more stylish action

Does not matter. Physical attraction is 90% of the picture. Money can fill in the rest. Any girl who says otherwise is lying. Believe what women do not what they say.

>>715428223
Are ya winning dad?

>>715425773
>>715426473
Go to /b/ and click the boob thread, same pic

>>715426515
>>715426751
I'm not particularly invested in convincing you guys, but I find anonymity to be really liberating for candid honesty. Maybe its different person to person with wherever they're at in their lives, but I guess I don't get the chance to talk to a lot of people about shit in full honesty out in the real world. Telling strangers I have a girlfriend I'm excited about for the first time in my life, who has a cum kink and roleplays size kink shit with my Zandalari troll in WoW is something I could tell no person in real life, but here I can just dump it on you guys before I go to bed.

Dating?

>>715426525
I'm not entirely sure why. I'm having fun.

>>715417659 (OP)
>tfw no gf

D A T I N G

>>715417659 (OP)
I would say yes, cause this is supposed to be something you do to kill some free time, like a hobby, not a big part of your personality.

>>715428575
I already know how mad this image makes me yet I still opened it and now I'm mad again. How can this be happening to me?

>>715417659 (OP)
I was just upfront about it with my girlfriend. She doesn't give a shit. I play Rimworld and commit warcrimes in front of her on the regular.

Just don't be autistic about it. Explain what you like in a way that your audience can enjoy too, and shut up about it when it's boring to others. You can play games a lot without it being your entire personality.

I'm turning 34 this year though so maybe it's a bigger deal when you're younger - people tend to be more insecure and judgmental, but I think the best option is to be open about what you like and to be open to trying things your girlfriend/whatever likes too.

>>715426515
>larp
>live action role play
>on the internet
I hate you retards.

>>715428575
I did something like this, she just found a carbon copy of me and they've been together for 15 years.

>>715417659 (OP)
last girl i tried to date was into gaming as well

>>715428575
Fake as fuck btw, no one would not check what a cute girl wrote in their yearbook.

How do I find a gf if I'm like 80% nonverbal
like my brain just does not process the idea of me talking unless either i rehearse what i'm going to say in my mind like 30 seconds in advance, or i go full stream of consciousness on an autistic hyperfixation

>>715429361
Every man is like this and has to learn how to speak.
You exercise and drill it like any other activity. Best way is to get a public facing job.
You might think that some men clearly have some sort of talent or advantage, but that's not the case. They've just trained much harder and longer than you.

But it won't help you find a gf.

>>715429782
>Best way is to get a public facing job.
I've had two such jobs and it didn't help. I can memorise conversational patterns for the things I need to say on the job. That doesn't teach anything about how to actually speak naturally.

There was a Kat Dennings lookalike who was into me in school, but she sucked to make plans with and I was too autistic to realize she liked me.

>>715429129
He said tomboy. yeah yeah
>ZOMG TOMBOYS ARE TEH BEST XD
We get it. But in real life tom boys are a bit homely. I would definitely date a girl like that and have. But it's not like I'd be jumping at the fucking chance and quickly check what she wrote.

>>715429782
>But it won't help you find a gf.
If you hit the baseline of being able to chat her up and ask questions to keep the conversation going, throwing in some tidbits from yourself, it will be enough, but you will need to make up for the rest with your physicality. Women like silent men IF they're physically attracted to them. If you're ugly, you need way more than the baseline social skills.

>>715417659 (OP)
Fuck she's so cute. Even at the time I wished she was a little younger for this role but it still worked for me.

>>715428575
This reminds me too much of what happened to me, except I never got this blatant a note.

>>715417659 (OP)
>dating
Only women and chads date now. I haven't been on a date since 2003 and not for lack of trying either.

>>715420282
Based. For me I do the same thing since its just a trust based exercise in the end and even more commonly accepted nowadays. Also just because they can be on board with it doesn't make them submissive it just shows they are a team player which is a huge step towards the wife points.

>>715430008
He said he found her cute and surely you'd check if she sat there writing multiple sentences. Doesn't add up.

>>715430091
According to two girls I used to be friends with I was like a 7-8/10 a couple years ago, only thing thats really changed since then is I'm a bit out of shape
I guess I should hit the gym or something

>>715430146
No people don't understand what the pool is like. Last man standing happens a lot at dating spots now just focus on conversation and steering topics your way since too many do that coy bs. What matters is after you have an in and the amount of stuff you can discuss. On those matters if all you know are games and she has no clue of course its going to be a disaster and they will find you boring. How much of the other shit you know most would consider mundane or unimportant is what they find interesting. But yeah even if you are but ugly don't simp cause that guarantees friend zone. Even as an ugly bastard being suggestive and flirty is important since the ones that aren't disgusted you have a real chance and you just figure out why the hell is that the case.

>>715430379
>He said he found her cute
Men find most women cute dude. Especially ones that pay attention to them. It's not some special circumstance. He obviously didn't think she was interested.

>>715430527
Nah.

>>715430091
Not what I meant.

You'll never date if you're this sort of introvert and the only way to get a gf will be to perform some sort of heroic act and have a woman witness it.

You can try to date but you'll just find it repulsive and find the women who also date equally repulsive. It's an activity exclusive to extroverts.

>>715417659 (OP)
>job interview with 2 qt3.14 girl
>ask me what's my hobby
>hmmmm.... computers i'd say
>oh... Are you a geek anon?
>n-no, I don't play video games anymore but I'm interested in hardware stuff
I knew they were about to internally mock me if i would've said yes
This was cringe as hell but still got the job

>>715430606
Should have said yes

>>715417659 (OP)
Of course
Imagine dating a woman who hates your hobbies
Unless you are just going for casual sex, in which case there is literally no point in "revealing" anything

>>715430606
>>715430640
Should have yelled IM GOING TO FUCKING RAPE YOU and then continued the conversation normally.

>>715430464
All you need to do is walk to your local city and dating spots and see what couples look like to figure out 'number values'. Reality is that you have to work hard at this shit and go through a few failures. Then the right one comes at you and you have wisdom to navigate it. If you don't know just ask or look up. Objective pieces get written on the net all the time / books and movies that inspire women. Boring as fuck but useful in the end and conversation starters. If you can't do that just think about embracing being a dad figure can get you over the mark.

>>715430464
men get called 7/10
>"wow that's nice"
women get called 7/10
>they go ham on you and destroy your car

>>715430640
They would've asked me what game and I would've answered that ackshually I spend my time installing mods on Skyrim than playing it but that would be way more mock worthy
>>715430708
I'm not indian though that doesn't work

>>715417659 (OP)
I made it very clear I'm a nerd from the very beginning
I'm mostly happy in a 8 year marriage with a little one otw
A damn shame modern gaming doesn't seem worth the pursuit anymore

>>715430740
Giving a logic based numbering system to women is a mistake

>>715430606
>be forced into a group exercise at work
>"ok anon what are your main interests?"
>"cute anime girls"
>"okay. apart from that?"
>"nothing. just cute anime girls"

>>715417659 (OP)
I would yeah. If she finds it cringe and gets "the ick" it would have never worked out in the first place. Though I never dated and don't know if it's ever going to happen

>>715430767
This. It's ok to be a gamer but when the medium is far and few between games you can wholly appreciate you best have had another hobby in these past few years.

>>715430817
I'd buy you beers for the whole night if you did that while I'm there

>>715423218
Based thoughbeit
godspeed anon

>>715430832
The biggest problem is that people get discouraged and mentally say 'deal breaker' but how do you know the opposite side will ever have an interest if you don't share your passion. Once you have got an affirmative answer then you can weigh a proper decision to continue but guess what, you are playing the biggest RNG system in your life and there are almost 0% chance of perfect rolls. And if you ever did do you have the confidence to carry on that responsibility and challenges of a beauty desired by everyone.

>>715430842
Nah, no other hobby to fall back on... It actually really sucks because I cashed most of my interest chips into games, with any leftover interest in nerdy tv, and movies from the 70s-00s

>>715424717
No
Something like 95% of men engage with video games

>>715423218
>I'm friends with her dad
How deep does this rabbit hole go?
Did you make a deal with her dad to send him pics and videos of her?

>>715431014
You can just pick up a new hobby anytime anon.

>>715417659 (OP)
me and my boyfriend play games together duh

>>715431070
Like what

>>715423218
>We only met because I'm friends with her dad
>It probably helps that I'm pretty juvenile and she's mature
i had a really similar situation except she was 7 years younger and i fumbled her horribly
i still shoot the shit with her dad though, he's a cool guy

>>715431130
Whatever in the literal fuck you want to
The reality is being lazy is your favorite hobby and videogames are an easy route to being lazy

You aren't going to magically fall in love with something day one that requires actual work and effort to get good at. If you spend that time shitting on yourself instead of just getting immersed in it you'll literally never have another hobby

It's never too late

>>715431070
True. Problem is, nothing else really interests me, besides travel, and making my own beer/wine/liquors, but I'm too lazy/ not interested enough to justify the investment of money AND time.
I appreciate it, though

>>715428124
Reminder this infograph is from a bank commercial trying to sell you loans by FOMO.
LITERALLY jewish trickery.

>>715417659 (OP)
My name's James... And I like to game.

>>715428575
too many forced fake reactions on this one

apparently my hobbies give massive serial killer red flags
if that's the case why can't i get laid

>>715431294
Women don't love potential serial killers, they love actual murderers
You can make a girl think you're a serial killer all you like, it's the actual act of being a killer that they find attractive

>>715431294
My hobbies involved history and learning fun trivia.
Apparently that gives off massive gay vibes and after watching some new modern day trivia game shows where half the contestants are men talking about what they'd do with their husbands after winning... Well shit man

I just liked learning about life

>>715417659 (OP)
depends on your tastes/the girl, I think I was able to meet someone BECAUSE of games
>t.bonded with my autismfu because of SMT and Ace Attorney

She like anime, so we equal, actually she really enjoy see me play Silent Hill 2 remake and told her about the lore, she even play it with me (easy mode of course) and like to shoot the nurses in the face because they look like "whores" lol. I thing a found a keeper

>>715425654
There's a wide gap between ugly and that specimen. Even the biggest slampigs in the world got to fuck a chad curious about slampigs and now think that all they deserve is chad.
While on the other hand supermodel Stacey isn't fucking a magnitudinous gentleman out of curiosity.

>>715431397
Anyone can pick up a social media/dating platform and find a relationship with someone whose as mentally deranged/fucked up you are.

The reality is if I'm someone who can barely take care of myself, why do I want to end up dating myself? It's only going to result in abject failure And I've had more than enough bipolar exes.

>>715419712
extremely underrated post

>>715431294
what hobbies anon

>>715431624
hiking/camping, mystery novels (incl. writing, haven't published anything but I have a few short stories), tabletop rpgs and obviously vidya (mostly rpgs)
i can see how the first two could be seen like that but i dont see whats "serial killer vibes" about ttrpgs and videogames

>>715431824
Anon I literally talk about murdering people and threatens to saw my ex’s head off if she cheated on me, told the girl I dated after her about it and she stayed for a year. I’ve done this to a wide assortment of girls of all walks of life. Nerds, hoodrats, gold diggers, schizos, religious girls. I don’t think your hobbies are the problem, it’s gotta be something else.

>>715432000
Have you considered anger management?

>>715417659 (OP)
Yes, I played deltarune if from it my gf then she sucked my dick

>>715432085
The fuck you talking about?
Anger management is for when you don't express any of this openly and take it out on inanimate objects and people and stuff.
Expressing constant anger is the most healthy cathartic way to deal with being surrounded by useless shit.

>>715432215
Uh huh you sound very happy.

>>715432000
no, its specifically the hobbies
like "yeah anon you're nice but your hobbies give big serial killer vibes" kind of comments, or only mentioning it directly after hobbies come up in conversation

>>715431824
>mystery novels (incl. writing, haven't published anything but I have a few short stories)
cool shit anon, i wanted to write but unfortunately no time
>dont see whats "serial killer vibes"
anon that's just femoid delusion, pay zero attention to that

>>715423051
this

>>715432000
>>715432215
You're just an edgelord faggot.
What a waste of trips.

>>715424717
normalfags play video games all the time, I have a friend that has over 4 thousand hours across like 3 fifa games

>>715432248
I actually am.
Self expression is very important to being happy.
If there's something upsetting you in your life, don't be quiet about it.

>>715432085
I’m in therapy now. My therapist said the abuse from when I was little left me with trust issues, the inability to process hurt without resorting to violence and inability to regulate my emotions. I’m slowly making progress. I’m not really that bad until I feel like someone has betrayed me. On average I’m very respectful, but once someone blatantly disrespects me I go way too far. I’m working on it though. I have been looking at anger management groups also, but haven’t found any decent ones in my area

>>715432327
That’s not me. I’m >>715432496

>losing attraction to my gf
>don’t even feel like fucking her
>had to fuck 2 escorts to get it out of my system
>my dick only gets hard when she’s crying or sad in my arms


Wtf is wrong with me?

>>715432496
Drink lots of water. Whenever you get angry pee on the toilet.

>>715432541
oh ok sorry anon
good to know you're getting better

>get no attention from women my age
>older women at work always trying to touch my arms

STOP

>>715432847
i think you might just have to accept your fate anon

>>715417659 (OP)
Literal death sentence.
Shut the fuck up about gaming when meeting girls, do your best to act like a normie. Cute boys are actually better in that regard since they might at least have a passing interest in gaming. But still contain your power level to play it safe.

>>715417659 (OP)
>dating

>>715432886
>talk about things you like :) its not cool to hate things :)
>eww you like this? thats disgusting get away from me
obliterate normalfags

>>715417659 (OP)
Never drop the big G on the first date, but later you kinda have to

>>715433014
You'll get to a point where you realize that there's enough negativity in the world and you're better off trying to spread positivity.

>>715432847
Beggars can't be choosers, cougar meat-Anon.

>>715417659 (OP)
Most girls who've liked/dated me played video-games and have a good enough impression of them, that they'll even worry about distracting me from multiplayer stuff if I mention I'm playing while we chat.
Last girl I dated would sometimes be practicing violin or singing, while I listened while gaming. I've never been asked out by someone who didn't take the time to get to know me, which means neither of us would have even had the thought that gaming should be hidden or lied about when "What're you doing?" is asked.
Most of them appreciate a fun plot no matter what medium it's told through, so even if they don't like the idea of learning mechanics to get through a plot, they appreciate the plot element.

>>715422516
this is stronger incel propaganda than anything else in the universe

>>715433102
But only about things I like. Don't be positive about things I hate like gaming.

What is a girl?

>>715433136
What are you talking about, these days every other girl has at least played one of those girl games once. If not sims then stardew valley or genshin or something

>>715417659 (OP)
It's only a death sentence if you have nothing in common in the first place, she's not attracted to you (in which case, why bother with the bitch) and/or she's a close-minded normalfag retard. Just be comfortable being yourself and looking for women like you that like you for who you are, not for the image you project or some gay shit like that (which most men fall for multiple times). I have no qualms telling a chick I'm into nerdy shit like graduate and research level mathematics and theoretical physics, C/C++ programming (especially in regards to physics engines), alternative and progressive metal and baddass sexy chicks in my vidya along with weird settings with cool vibes.

The worst thing she can do is thing you're weird, in which case she's just a retarded bint. No need to bother with a relationship that will fail or end up like your average boomer's marriage, where they hate each other so much. Plus, you're bound to find one woman who will accept you as you are if you put the effort to find one.


Or you could be an actual degenerate that deserves to be mocked, but you'd know that beforehand.

>>715417659 (OP)
>dating

>>715433138
Part of that is also filtering out the negative people in your life.

>>715417659 (OP)
>dating

>>715432779
>>715432703
Appreciate it anons. All the best to you as well.

>>715428124
peak of life satisfaction is never a phase, what the actual fuck

yeah im a gooner bitch you got a problem with that?
then feel this open palm

>>715433265
And that's how you ended up on 4chan.org, the most positive space on the Internet

>>715433346
See >>715431235
It literally is some marketing stunt to basically normalize selling loans via FOMO. It's probably all nonsense to be honest.

Literally the first thing they want to know is your job and how much you make. If that doesn't clue you in, I dont know what will.

>>715433374
It's why I have a 40 thousand-line MD5 filter list.

>>715433374
You joke but it actually is.
Everything else is soul crushing toxic positivity or posturing.

>>715428124
>first relationship after first kiss and losing virginity
???

>>715433523
(((they))) want you to think slutting it up is the new normal

>>715417659 (OP)
Yeah, I'm too tired anons. If she's not ok with it then the sooner she leaves the better it's going to be for me to maybe find someone else...

>>715433465
For some reason a guy I know was set up on a date with an abuse survivor and that was one of her few talking points. I'd say I'm puzzled but it's not exactly rare for families to not be objective about the help a member needs, or swinging the other way be way too harsh in their methods. Tricky world.

>>715433523
>people will advance from bad to worse

>>715419790
IM A GAMMMMMMMMEEEEEEEEERRRRRRRRRR

ive a crush on a coworker approximately 12 years younger than me. we're Asian but she dates white men. is it over for me

>>715433837
How old are you?

>>715428575
Shes getting fucked by another guy, love is not real

>>715417659 (OP)
>dating

>>715433909
36
also theres lots of things to say
>shes smart funny and cute
>im not that rich, im 6 months in to my only fulltime job in 5 years and i absolutely hate it if my boss wasnt nice and i wasnt getting paid pretty ok
>we're both in the creative dept

>>715417659 (OP)
>gamer
>dating

these are mutually exclusive, dating women is chad only

>>715434028
Let me get her number.

>>715434070
dude i hate all of you.
she's friends with some of our other coworkers and one time I noticed a friend buy a monster energy drink, so I said wow they sell these white ones?
guy said "hey, you know what femanon told me? she said i drink white monsters, she dates them"

im smitten, help

>>715433910
>>715434043
>west coast wakes up
>immediate blackpilling

I don't date because I'm unwilling to compromise on things i want out of a partner/my free time. I could settle for something lesser, but why would I? Maybe I'd end up happier, but maybe I wouldn't and I consider myself content/happy enough now.

There's just doesn't seem to be a convincing reason to try to alter my lifestyle for something that has a low likelihood of me ending up happier than I currently am.

I basically want a cute innocent anime girl that's a bit bratty but tsundere. I can not physically settle for less.

>>715434336
sorry bro, i am evropa

the us of a blackpill is nothing compared to ours

>>715434343
>>715434436

Modern dating is just prostitution with more steps, more drama and more money spent on the whore. You aren't missing much by not engaging in it. Sure dudes say holding a their girl is the best thing ever, then literally 10 minutes later that same faggot will go on about how much he hates her hobbies, her friends and rant like a bitch about how she won't do the dishes or clean like a woman actually in love with her man would. I imagine it's the same for women when talking about their dudes.

All in all, it's just people coping with past relationship trauma by taking up more trauma and living out an eternity of bad, poorly thought out decisions and then inevitably breaking up or learning to hate each other. I've got better things to do with my time and I've just starting mocking retards that go into relationships blindly and getting burned in the process so they stop bothering me about being a thoughtless fuckwit.

>>715423051
Women are way more willing to date an ugly guy than men do with females, you retard.

>>715434810
>her hobbies
Travel, ???

>>715434810
>All in all, it's just people coping with past relationship trauma
Told you to get a virgin gf. There was a reason for it..

>>715417659 (OP)
>dating

I typically bring it up as a part of my hobbies pretty early on. Also helps that I am interested in other things besides gaming and can hold a conversation about a wide variety of things. My thing has always been I will have my hobbies and as long as you don't put down mine, I will not put down yours.

Generally works pretty well and anyone that is like "ew, video games is a waste of time" or some shit, I just move on. Not going to change who I am just for pussy. Also helps that I am in my 30s and date people in my 30s and you get less BS than if you date younger. My GF is a more casual gamer but likes stuff like Animal Crossing and JRPGs.

Dating is such a gay process. You either find THE ONE by pure chance or you don't.
Stop trying to find love with whores trying to sell themselves to the highest bidder

>>715417768
Meh, I don't get that impression. Generally it's not THE dealbreaker, they'll find some other reason not to be into you before that. Girls who have been into me have either said they don't understand games but think it's cool that I play or have tried to get into it themselves to appease me

>>715417659 (OP)
>dating
>2025
ngmi

>>715434873
Horseback riding.


>>715434901
I agree. It's why I don't bother with a woman unless I know she's a virgin. Frankly, a lot of older relationship advice is still very sage. Why bother with a woman whose heart (and hymen) already belongs to another guy? You're just a backup plan to her.

>>715420282
>some of them stay.
Yeah because they're tied up, duh

>>715435037
>on. Also helps that I am interested in other things besides gaming and can hold a conversation about a wide variety of things.
How

Never dated, me never had a gf, never anyone's type.

>>715434836
That is such a blatant fucking lie

>>715435076
>Horseback riding
Lmao yjk

>>715435180
Based Archwizard of infinite power

>>715435057
>You either find THE ONE by pure chance or you don't.
>he fell for the romcoms
lmao he's like a girl

>>715435335
Cope.
You are dating literal whores who were unable to bond with men in natural ways

>>715417659 (OP)
Nope. I also pretend to be liberal

>>715422542
You stop caring after 4 years.
t. 8 years with no sex

>>715435335
Nah, it's the men who believe in romantic love and "the one" spiel. Women conveniently fall in love with guys who are of the same social class or higher.

>>715435456
Hope you're also fine with pretending to be OK with it when she inevitably fucks other men

>>715435243
I was even funnier when she dumped him and was with another guy within the week, to which he cried like a little bitch over a dumb whore. To this day, I realize that a lot of men are this pathetic when it comes to women and look down on them for it.

>>715435057
Dating is gay, but not because you find the ONE or you don't (there's multiple degrees of compatibility between people and you can find multiple women that will be good wives, but to differing degrees. So long as she's at least a good wife, you'll be happy. Most women aren't though). It's gay because it's not really geared towards knowing people, but gaming them to gain their affection and otherwise gives incentives towards short-term gains versus long-term ones.

If you're intentional about it, you won't fall into that trap, but most people are retarded so unironically arranged-marriages would be better for them because all they end up doing is falling for the same shit over and over again and then realizing they aren't happy with their lover/spouse and instead of communicating it, they just let things fester until it turns into a fight, divorce, cheating or something else.

Essentially, dating can work, but you have to be not retarded, which is a tall task for your average highly emotionally driven and logically lacking normalfaggot.

>>715435675
I don't exactly care what a girl does after one night stand with me

>>715417659 (OP)
>Dating
I do sex tourism in Asia twice a year, that's my dating

>>715423051
The shy one is always funny.

Haven't been on a date in 5 years. And I'm not going to in the forseeable future.

>>715423921
You must be fun at parties

No woman for whom that's a dealbreaker would ever be attracted to me.

>>715435752
t. Kratos

>>715425852
>Go my whole life believing in the chivalry thing, that women are innocent and sweet creatures
>Find out they jill off to the most batshit insane things that make my ryona fetish I was formally ashamed of seem tame in comparison
What the fuck is wrong with them?

>>715435929
Tell me about it.
I'm an introverted nice guy. Can this work for me as well?

>>715436241
>>Go my whole life believing in the chivalry thing, that women are innocent and sweet creatures
You're not the only one. Media, boomer parents and society fucked up a whole generation of men with this idealized brain shit

>>715436109
you must be bare ugly ya moist yute

>>715436273
As long as you're white you should be okay. Go for it.

>>715436241
i went my whole life thinking my grandparents were one of the only good relationships i saw irl
once they died i hear 2 of my aunts out of 5 might not even be my grandpas
at least he died before he could ever know

>>715433126
>HELLO I WANK OFF MY SON'S WONKY PENIS SO IT MIGHT GO STRAIGHT THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME

>>715436273
Yes, Asian chicks love nerdy white guys, especially in SEA

>>715434276
>guy said "hey, you know what femanon told me? she said i drink white monsters, she dates them"
I hope for your sake that you're just having a laugh and that didn't actually happen

>>715436553
genuinely sad

If you were ever rejected for being a gamer, it's probably not because you play video games.

>>715436672
she's funny like that. and well she does prefer white men. ive no idea why exactly. but shes quite witty and her humor can be in the gutter, but shes also super smart

>>715436460
>>715436653
Do I have to pay them or how does this work? How would I even go about finding them?

>>715432886
I don't have anything else to talk about

>>715436869
Getting rejected implies I'd ever man up and ask a girl out in the first place

>>715436891
I'm not a pro in this but their are plenty of youtube channels on the subject. You do want to becareful because scams do exist.

>>715436950
I feel that, only time I've gone out with a girl is when she suggested hanging out. I don't make the first move. No point.

I'm not interested in women beyond their womb's capacity to carry my offspring.

>work with a bunch of proper posh, upper class women
>they're beautiful, genuinely lovely, smart and way out of my league
I just can't bring myself to start dating when I know no one I stand a chance with will compare to my coworkers.

>>715437662
I feel that.
>Male nurse
>Fellow female nurses and ancilliares are either fucking disgusting whores, utterly hopeless human beings or just incredibly fucking banal and petty
>Female doctors are much more refined, actually fucking feminine, caring and respectful of others
Not gonna deny there are some who break the mold on both sides, but good fucking lord.

>never had a gf
>friends try to set me up with someone
>have a few drinks to settle my nerves
>end up having one too many and am pretty drunk
>when she shows up I talk about Dwarf Fortress nonstop for about 2 hours

Surprisingly, I never saw her again. am 34 now, and that was the closest thing I have come to a date

>>715437787
What a coincidence I'm also in the medical field, though just as an admin role.

>>715417659 (OP)
Why should I date? Genuine question. I only see high cost, lots of risk, and little to no benefit.

>>715437921
>when she shows up I talk about Dwarf Fortress nonstop for about 2 hours

>>715437787
>work at medical supplier
>coworkers are either old 60 y/o office ladies or young quickly replaced troubled youths we rotate through often

>>715437921
Absolute Chad

>>715417659 (OP)
She looks like she would call a Somalian child a nigger

>>715437654
And that's why you won't have any.

I don't care about a gf, I just want fs.

>>715436869
IME tomboyish chicks are usually more accepting of vidya

>>715432847
>tfw never gotten any attention at all
even my old as fuck dog gets more female attention than i do

It's not the first thing I'd bring up but it's certainly not a dealbreaker. I'm autistically into smash to the point that I go to tournaments. I had a gf that wanted to learn the game and play with me. Every other girl I've dated just doesn't care about gaming and lets me do my own thing while she does hers for a while.

>>715438195
I've successfully kept up the facade thru two, 3~ year relationships and am currently meeting a girl in the same field with similar goals.

>>715436923
That's actually perfect because people generally don't want to listen to other people's shit, especially so when dating: They want to talk about their own interests and themselves.
So just casually ask what they're doing or what they find fun, make small talk along those lines and act interested and you're 80% to making a good impression.

>>715438234
IME asian girls are way more accepting of vidya. Every asian girl I know either plays games or dates a gamer, and the two I've dated wanted to play with me. White chicks have usually played Mariokart at a party but otherwise never touch games other than maybe like Stardew Valley

>>715437921
haha, don't do that. but good try bud.

>>715438515
That's also true because barring one, all the girls who have been into me have been Asian

>>715438019
to end your loneliness, or something like that. But I agree. Price is too high and the benefits seem fleeting (in my limited experience)

If you're actually the kind of person that wants/pursues romantic relationships you should get off 4chan. This isn't the place for you. It's a community for weird autists who don't have any interest in that crap. You're a tourist and you'll just make everyone more miserable by staying here. Go back to Facebook or whatever normals use now.

>>715417659 (OP)
Whether or not you reveal you're a gamer on a date is a personal decision, but it's generally a good idea to be upfront about your hobbies. It's not necessary to make it a major topic on the first date, but don't hide it if it comes up naturally in conversation. Being genuine and letting your date see your authentic self is more important than trying to project a certain image.

>>715438591
>to end your loneliness
The internet exists, who the fuck is getting lonely? I can come here and find weirdos to talk to whenever I want. How is getting lonely an actual problem for anyone?

>>715434873
never date a girl who says she wants to travel
thats code for
>i am not done with the cock carousel and i want to ride it on your dime

>>715438669
>but it's generally a good idea to be upfront about your hobbies
True but also despair
My hobbies are vidya and guns, so good luck with the girls, me

>>715436241
They like dominant men and any related to dominance (aka violence)
Simple.

And men are always the worst when it comes to degeneracy, don't pretend otherwise.

>>715438591
The irony of this is that as a man, once you achieve a healthy personality and sense of security in order to begin dating, you no longer feel the impulse to date.
It's convinced me that it's an activity only pursued by the unhealthy.

>>715438706
Humans need irl contact with people

>>715438848
I'm into painting and thrift shopping. I'm lucky I have "girly" hobbies because I always have something to do with my gf

>>715439005
Nah, skill issue.

>>715438630
I have a gf but I'm here because I can't talk about vidya autistically all day and say gamer words with her. I have to hide my powerlevel around her

>>715417659 (OP)
>dating
Was never really my thing. I don't mean going on dates per se. I mean going on dates to get to know someone. I did that with one or two girls. Ultimately, most of my relationships were with people I already knew well. We'd basically skip that whole getting to know each other bit.

>>715428046
Guitar man is skilled with his fingers

>>715417768
>Women will take more measures to sniff out nerds or geeks than they do serial killers.
That's because all serial killers are nerds or geeks. Outliers exist sure, but if you delete the whole geek/nerd pool you're more safe.

>>715417659 (OP)
I mostly kept it out of my dating profile, though sometimes I'll mention that I formerly did game development.
I haven't hid my gaming hobby from the girl I met there, but I also don't see much reason to talk about it unless it's pretty relevant. She also games a bit but we're more likely to talk about other stuff

>>715438880
Yeah, figured that out after my last relationship. I do miss sex and romantic stuff. Prior to that experience I thought just getting gf briefly would motivate mate to pursue more women in general. But it didn't, instead I had the realization that I'm pretty much a solo player and I don't like dealing with the drama other people (women) create around me.

>>715439156
So you're an autist pretending to be a normalfag? Why? I pretend to be one for work because I need to eat and buy games, but why would you willingly suppress yourself for most of your life?

>>715417768
Instructions unclear.
GF won't stop masturbating over the bodies buried in my cupboard.

>>715439357
That's a dumb meme.
You can easily tell how dextrous someone is by watching how they lock or unlock a door.

>>715437921
Not bad.

>>715428124
25! Almost there!

>>715428046
Its mostly singer songwriters that demand attention that are big with the laddies.
I'm a guitar autist and I impress other people who play guitar, which I like mind you, but girls will always go for the basic level sing fag.

Hell, being too much into your instrument is a turn off for most.
Its like women who say they like some one geeky, but they just liked that one marvel movie a bit

>>715417659 (OP)
If the bitch doesn't like gaming it was a bad relationship. Just find out early.

>>715417659 (OP)
What's the point in putting up a facade for someone?
Being around and appeasing someone that'd hate the things you enjoy sounds awful, to be honest.

>>715428836
warp (wireless action role play) doesn't roll off the tongue

>>715437921
I honestly don't blame you, anon.

If she had been able to mimic your zeal, she'd have been a keeper.

I don't care to dating. I chase girls for years, never get it, is bad. I want play games and make games now. Is hard but i trying. I am virgin and never worked. I am 31 years old.

>>715440013
You do you buddy

>>715432254
They SAY that but they actually just mean "i get lame serial killer vibes from you".
Women are not smart, they have trouble elaborating details

I think I'm too far gone.

I werk 60-84 hour weeks. If I can't talk about recent horse girl memes, Project Moon Cafes in Korea, welcome backy phrases from rougelikes with someone.

Why would I waste my time?
It was simply never going to work to begin with.

>>715433189
Yeah and look at the choice pool for women. Coincidence?

>>715440401
>84 hours
Fucking wageslave definitive edition

>>715424135
nothing different from factorio or arma 3 milsim autism

besides they're having fun playing video games, which /v/ can't even do sometimes

>>715435076
>Horseback riding
More like horseontheback riding

>>715440401
Holy shit.
Godspeed anon, hope you make tons of money and can retire at age 45 or something.

>>715424515
What gets me isn't the gooner mods about getting fucked with your head stuffed in a toilet or the violent ones.
Its the ones about roleplaying pregnant women with deadbeat boyfriends that don't stick around to be a father. Actually I dont even know if thats a mod or just a normal part of the game.

>>715439786
It only makes sense when it has a greater goal in mind, like cooling your autism to make sure you have money to survive and when it's not 24/7. I will never understand how men are so pathetic as to think that putting on an act is how you are supposed to get pussy. It just creates drama when her expectations don't meet reality.

Women are rightfully shit on for being retarded, childish, crazy and generally useless at doing their fucking end of their work (especially in the house), but men are just as gay and retarded for trying to woo these retards with bullshit and getting surprised that their girl doesn't like them for them, but for what he can give her. Relationships are all sorts of fucked nowadays.

>>715438630
I want, but It's really too late for me.

>>715438234
>>715438515
I've seen a stereotypical Stacy be fully engaged with some guy talking about COD and Halo.
The point is women don't really care about one little hobby if she's overall attracted.

>>715440924
The Sims is a dark and foul doll house and women can't get enough of it. I can analyze it, but I don't because it depresses me.

back on my teenage years a dated a girl that only played sonic and tekken, she got all the emblems in Sonic 06 on the PS3

>>715437921
kek

>>715440275
>Women are not smart, they have trouble elaborating details
i feel that

>>715417659 (OP)
>dating
impossible on my end, when every woman except family find me repulsive
not to mention I'm in a country where the average men's height is 6 feet and I'm 5,7

>>715435132
Not that anon but by doing other things besides gaming. Read some books, get a kayak, learn to cook, just do other shit besides sit there gaming. Gaming is only a filter is that is all you do all night long. There are girls that don't mind gaming though, but I hope you enjoy playing shitty MMORPGs and guild drama.

>>715417659 (OP)
Women hate to have to compete for your attention. Women expect you to treat them as though they are the most important thing in the world to you. If you are with your girl, and you start playing video games, she sees as competition for your attention and it is defeating her. She will resent the video game because of that, and she will resent you for choosing the video game over her. While you are immersed in your game, she is soul-crushingly bored. While you are playing video games, she begins to see you as not a man but just a boy, a manbabby. She begins to think about the men she has interacted with, ie - her boss, her co-worker, her ex, the cute cashier at the store, her girlfriend's boyfriend, her girlfriend's boyfriend's best friend, etc. She starts to compare you, ie - the boy, to those men. That puts her on the path to cheating on you or leaving you.

Yes, the ladies hate men who play video games that much. If you have video games listed as a hobby on your dating profile, it's a death sentence.

>>715441608
>Read some books, get a kayak, learn to cook,
Only reading is fun and that has a high ceiling because few books are good

>>715441116
Maybe
My curse is that I'm reasonably handsome but a total sperg
So women are interested until I open my mouth and start sperging out about shit nobody cares about

>>715441608
Kind of limited on hobbies if you're an apartmentfag. Would've loved to do kayaking and more outdoor stuff, but I got no space for stuff

>>715422089
Please tell me this is a LARP
t.35 year old wizard.

>>715434836
This is provably false

>>715429129
Mate, if you're stupid enough not catch the hints and signs she's into you. You're definitely stupid enough not to check your year book messages.

>>715422436
My sister used to play the Sims 1 a lot. She is probably older then everyone itt though.

>>715417659 (OP)
Women are fine with you saying you play games (at this point nearly every male does) but you need to either have other hobbies or lie about them. If you only play games and watch youtube her pussy will become dryer than the Sahara desert. Obviously, it depends upon the girl. If she plays a lot of games then whatever, but if she is some normalfag chick a better response would be like:
>Oh, yeah, hobbies? I like to read (try to have some knowledge of a few books prepared), play some games, hang out with my friends, hunt for some cool breakfast spots, catch some football on the weekends. Boardgames are a lot of fun too with some chill people, you should try it some time if you haven't.
Obviously don't say you train MMA every day if you're some lardass or twig, but even if gaming is your primary hobby just throwing it into a list that seems like you're a well rounded person will get you far. I mean, my gf basically only played phone games when we met and now she plays games like every day. Most of the time they are more casual stuff, but we still played Split Fiction and It takes Two together and she tells her friends about what a great experience both were to play with her boyfriend.

>>715441881
How do you even bother dating after getting truth pilled by this?

>>715441959
like many things we ignore it and keep pushing

>>715441881
>0% most attractive
This has to be fake. I mean I don't doubt that women are more picky than men, but still.

>>715441959
by not dating with dating apps

>>715441675
I think only a very immature insecure woman would be stupid enough to think she can just distract you all day.

>>715442061
It's probably rounding down

>>715442061
Really Anon. You're that naive?

>>715442129
Yeah, I figured, but even if it were 0.4% it feels too low even then.
>>715442187
Maybe...

>>715441675
you're a fucking retard anon
shallow vapid fatherless whores aren't the entire female population just most of them these days depending on where you're from
the kind of woman you're talking about are just looking for narcissistic BPD whores, it doesnt matter what you do outside of your time with her, unless it is a net benefit to her she will see it as competition for her. even your job, that's competition unless you spend exorbitant amounts of money on her constantly. if she's a shut-in gamer with this personality type, if you're playing vidya and it's not with her, that's competition. etc
this isn't a hobby specific thing. this is a narcissism / borderline personality disorder thing.

>>715441783
I have a buddy who when living in an apartment just kept the kayak tied to the top of his car all the time. But he actually did use it a lot. Could also rent them from outfitters instead of bringing your own

>>715422436
you think after she got home she recreated you as a sim? Somewhere on a hard drive a little digital homunculus in your image is trapped. Like a piece of your soul

>>715441959
dating apps intrinsically filter down to the worst people imaginable
just don't use them

>>715442061
This is the breakdown by individual rating

>>715442301
I love how you provided source.

>>715442301
damn, fucking grim.I was right to become a video game addict, game was stacked against me from the start

>>715440750
This is my plan.
I either turn into somebody who abuses sickcations to get a break from having no life. Or I retire early in bumheck cheap nowheres, and live off ramen cups until I die of a sodium induced heart attack, surrounded by my little projects and a cat that eats me. The keeper I am.

I haven't bothered trying to date again, after doing it the "normal way" in my early 20s. But from that time, the one outing I remember enjoying was a conversation that led into bullshitting about whacko conspiracy theories, and weird workout routines.

Maybe find you someone who can appreciate that the sinking of the Titantic was a tenpenny insurance scheme. Or that there's a possibility of being abducted by aliens or bigfoot while benchpressing innawoods and grilling your meats at 2 in the morning.

That girl ghosted me 2 months later after some more back and forth. Got one last text sometime later, stating that she'd just got out of a breakup or something. So sorry, need time for myself, that stuff.

But I did the jumping through the hoops and entertaining cats segment before. Organizing the meetups, driving an hour+ one way, leading conversations and activities to get them to talk, etc.

Maybe it's the mark of a self-absorbed workaholic, but the one thing I learnt from all that is that I enjoyed it only when I got to be myself.

>>715442396
This study is widely known and has likely only gotten worse since it was conducted
https://web.archive.org/web/20120723173702/http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-looks-and-online-dating/

>>715441881
I think this is waht it's cited for the idea that woman will date an "ugly man" more often than the opposite.
While men are more even handed they'll select for the higher end of the average. Meanwhile women will dip below it, however in this context that's literally 84% of the graph.
That being said a really hot guy will almost always pair up with a really hot woman, meanwhile a hot woman is way more willing to pair up with an uglier guy so long as he has other attractive qualities like status, money, or charisma.

>>715438448
I pray the kid turns out alright despite of their parents.

>>715417659 (OP)
>dating
anon... I...

I have a gf that is addicted to maple. She literally have zero money because her paycheck goes to the game. At least she’s not vain.

>>715417768
True.

>>715442720
Read the article and note the graph on attractiveness vs messaging instead of spouting your head canon. For men, it's linear up until they reach the top attractive females then it falls off and they don't message as much. For women, it's exponential: they hardly message the lower and medium range and mostly go for the top attractiveness.

>>715431054
I paid the bro code violation with a broken nose, and some time after that he got over it. He's 20 years older than me, so it's not such a bizarre situation.

>>715417659 (OP)
>dating

>>715441675
https://youtu.be/iqPwI0ju4W8

>>715422282
>>715443347
>grievance bot posters fucking changing pixels so they can spam the same picture over and over again

>>715441675
https://youtu.be/iqPwI0ju4W8

>>715444317
I didn't see the first Pic get posted. My bad. Also, you faggot retard.

>>715438708
>this year I really want to
>tRaVeL mOrE

>>715417768
Violence is the only real thing in this world

>>715438708
At the very least, it shows the girl is interested in everywhere but where you are

>>715420282
based bondagebro, also videogames

>>715443347
The problem with this is that blind people can successfully navigate a route to a destination 9/10 times, otherwise they wouldn't do it, and a "high" success rate for ESPers is like 10%. That may subtlety be the creator's intended joke, though.

>>715417659 (OP)
My taste in games are too deep and advanced to be relatable to some dweeb who thinks he's a "longtime gamer" because he's played Diablo 3 and Overwatch.

>>715444935
No you libtard that isn’t the joke walk the plank

I have a profile in a dating app for "serious relationships" mention vidya as my hobby and job.
So far I mostly got matches from fatties, fujos, hags, single moms or some combination of the above. There was one exception, pretty cute girl who played Genshin, but she ghosted me after a couple of dates.
I'm tempted to remove all mention of vidya from my profile and see where it gets me. For science.

>>715425269
Getting them with the ol pump n dump

gabe newell

>>715428046
>I don't know what it is about musicians but legions of women will spread their legs for a music guy
Can corroborate but there is a catch, they never come back the day after or answer calls. It's like they get one big after concert dopamine hit and when it wears down they are in a state of "slight regret".

>>715445447
How old and how ugly are you?

>>715445649
Or you're a bad lay.

>>715445447
>after a couple of dates.
What I learned from online dating is that you should try to nut in her on the second or third so you don't end up empty-handed when she eventually ghosts you

>>715445851
Based on my pillow talk track record I shouldn't be that bad. It's more of a scene thing, most rock/pop/metal audiences sadly are libtards who admit they like to emulate groupie culture and fuck each other every other week. It is what it is and friends througghout the years expressed having similar problems, Yes including pretty guy lead singers swimming in girls. Most of the guys who score a permanent one are usually late 30s biker types who scored some crazy bitch he can have in check half of the time(at least).

Here's what we got ITT
> I showed up for a date drunk
> My hobby is "horse girl" gacha
> I hate women so much it's unreal
And then you guys will say "videogames" are holding you back.

I didn’t tell my girlfriend. I just hooked up my Xbox and started playing. She’s probably annoyed by it but probably figures it could be worse. I could be away from home cheating on her or something. I really don’t care what her opinion is of the hobbies I have. I work and cut the grass . I’m gonna play my damn games

>>715417659 (OP)
Yeah obviously. I wouldn't date a girl who doesn't play games anyways.

>>715444626
Sorta. Suffering is the only objective thing, and also the only objectively good thing in life.

>>715446909
the only objectively good thing in life is sleep. I flew in my dreams again last night. I'd sleep 24/7 if I could, God's sleepiest man

>>715417768
When I brought a girl home from college during the summer to my childhood bedroom she made fun of the video game posters in my bedroom but then in the morning after sleeping in bed together she said the posters were cute and that I should keep them up.

>>715447070
that's a keeper

>>715441881
Dating apps don't represent real world you retard

>>715419791
Whats wrong with u incels jesus christ

>>715447173
well she also told me i had a small penis so it wasnt all good.

>>715447283
its ok tho she doesn't even have one, what a loser

>>715417659 (OP)
Theres only a few ways it'll turn out.
>BEE yourself, she hates it and leaves
>BEE yourself, she plays games too and is cool with it
>BEE yourself, she's indifferent

or
>Lie, keep the normie gf and hide your hobby
>Lie, keep the nerdy gf but never play games with her
>Lie, keep the indifferent gf and never play games in front of her

As you can see, being honest loses 1/3 of the time while lying has a 100% success ratio. You do with those odds what you like. From my experience though, women don't care about a vidya hobby unless its the only thing you do. If you do other normie activities like lifting, socializing, hiking, traveling, etc. she won't care, but if you're a basement dwelling super vidya nerd who needs click click dings to keep your serotonin pathways running she'll run to the hills (as she should)

>>715447510
>(as she should)
no that's normie thinking

>>715447197
>anon's main hobby is video games, he wants someone who also plays video games, and posts that on a board for video games
>"fUcKiNg InCeL"
???

>>715447057
Sleep is way too close to death for my comfort and wastes far too much time I could be using funposting and playing vidya.

>>715447510
>As you can see, being honest loses 1/3 of the time while lying has a 100% success ratio.
>Being stuck in a loveless relationship based upon a lie where you have to hide your interests out of fear is "Winning"
>Filtering out an unhappy relationship early on so both of you can find a partner that better fits your individual needs is "Losing"
Why do normgroids think like this?

>>715445661
32, 184 cm / 92 kg (so overweight, but not obese), no physical deformations of any kind. I know I'm not ugly at least, since I've had dated girls which don't fall into the above categories during my uni years.
I don't have any good photos though which is likely why I don't have much success.

Stop dreaming. Wake up!

>>715419790
>>715433818
kek

>>715444516
>ESL churka trying to get uppity

>>715448354
that looks like a prostitute

>>715417659 (OP)
They're gonna find out either way. If you're just whoring around looking for easy fucks then feel free to lie about who you are. But if you're genuinely looking for someone you want to spend time with, it's probably best to be honest about what you like to do.

>>715448658
It’s probably just some influencer that was paid to promote Fortnite.

>>715448286
lose weight fatty

>>715442850
Kid will be fine. My parents were like that, I know my ex-nanny better than my mother.

>>715448920
Already trying to, my guy. Thanks for encouragement though.

It would be inadvisable to do otherwise. Why would I waste my time dating, much less being in a relationship with, someone who hated one of my hobbies? Its one thing to not necessarily share all the same hobbies - though I grant its much better if you do with something like gaming - but if you had to hide it for fear of being thought badly, that's a waste; clearly, not the right person. If you're the type of anon who prefers to stay in, comfy with your vidya, why would you want a woman who's an extrovert who constantly needs other people, who wants to constantly be going out and doing things, because she gets drained just staying in for instance? This is one of those things that compatibility matter. Its one thing to be slightly different to introduce the other to new experiences, its another for them to have contempt for your lifestyle or yours theirs; I've seen so many relationships fail because
>You're always at home, reading, playing video games, watching TV or playing with your models / crafts etc...
>You're always dragging me to constant activities and they're so fucking vapid, no I don't like clubbing or going somewhere new with 5 of your friends every free night
sort of things and it works the same for both sexes - there are girls who are homebodies who want stay home and cook, play vidya, have their little hobbies, or just watch TV and dudes who constantly hit the town with the bros or wants to drag her to whatever events when all it does is make her feet hurt. Compatibility is key - its ideal to have some common interests and also those that are just exclusive to one partner or the other, but if the latter are major lifestyle preferences or the other partner is contemptuous about it, its not a good long term match if the couple can't evolve on those issues.

I literally look like an oblivion character.

>>715449206
ah the hero of Kvatch

>>715438852
>And men are always the worst when it comes to degeneracy, don't pretend otherwise.
Bullshit. The average man wouldn't engage in a fraction of the sick shit the average woman does on the regular if given the choice.

>>715417659 (OP)
>dating

>>715438852
The worst men are worse when it comes to imagined degeneracy.
But the average woman is much worse than the average man, and they are especially much worse in acting out their degeneracies IRL.

What if video games saved my life.

>>715417659 (OP)
>dating

>>715447057
Based sleeper

>>715425269
stop you're gonna make me like women

>>715438630
Sad, but true. Used to be different though, since this site used to be full of creative types, now it's shit.
Planning to graduate from this site this summer.

>>715425094
they're just like us fr fr

>>715421829
Lucky bastard, I envy you (in a positive way).

>>715417659 (OP)
Not really. I don't treat gaming as lifestyle, so I don't really have to hide it since I mostly lift weights and read books.

>>715447057
my dead cat visits me in my sleep frequently so I know what you mean

>>715417659 (OP)
Being gamer is a mainstream thing now. She most likely is also playing video games herself.

>>715417659 (OP)
This is too big of a hobby for me to even consider hiding. I would want a girlfriend who was into games on some level, even if its just "i bought a switch to play animal crossing and pokemon, i loved the 3ds" or "ohhh i love klonoa hes so cute, havent played his games though" or "haha solid snake is funny" i know a girl like and i know more are out there.

>>715419791
Legitimately? Watch netflix, makeup tutorials, or watch other people play video games.

>>715419791
My sister browses Instagram all day and when she's not doing that she watches the Harry Potter movies on repeat