Thread 719783819

Why did you choose gaming over love?

>>719783819 (OP)
i haven't felt love for anyone since i was 14. it was gaming or hardcore boozing and games are cheaper.

Um, shit, thats a hard question. I guess I juat came to accept it from social isolation. Along with nevwr getting better and being the man I wanted to be I feel that women deserve better men. I am not that better man. Will I regret it? Yeah, but I just didnt have a lot of the social contact and outlets to find someone. I was alone, time passed, I said fuck it.

>>719783819 (OP)
We must... be better men...

Also, getting shoved out of a community that had a strong social scene fucksd up a lot too. Because thats all I really had, and it got me around people and women. When I lost that,ive been alone since, and ive got so bad off theres no way I could think a woman would find me appealing. A lot of ships sailed off thar dodnt have too, just shit happened. I was hopeful at one poin5, and was really trying to get my shit together but it never worked out.

>>719783819 (OP)
Women are disgusting leeches and men don't want me

All I have are my gaymes

i'm not attractive
im very skinny and tall
i am asocial
I have zero sexual appeal to women so I don't even bother at all lol

>>719784240
Guy gets his own ass beat = my fault. I still dont get it.

>>719783819 (OP)
Good. Women aren't entitled to our love.

>>719784264
>and men don't want me
men don want your bussy?

>>719783819 (OP)
This can't be real, tried to find the source but it's paywalled

>>719784461
I don't have a bussy, I have a hairy sweaty wrinkly asshole

i have an incurable balanitis and my penis is small anyways

>depressed over wizardry and being used as practice boyfriend at 22
>eat to cope
>workout
>eat more than I burn
>make no progress
>spiral

At least I have vidya to feel closer to neutral

>>719783819 (OP)
gaming chose me

>>719784825
>incurable balanitis
What? How?

>>719784895
i dont know i've been trying to get rid of it for 3 years and i guess it's impossible

Women don't want to fuck me so I play videogames.
>But now they want it!
Don't care about used up roast beef with emotional and physical baggage.
Videogames are my rapture.

>>719784461
I think the problem is I'm too straightacting so they don't know how badly I want to ride them

And obviously I can't say anything because I have crippling social anxiety like everyone who posts here

>>719783819 (OP)
Life pretty much chose for me.
It used to bother me a lot, but after the pandemic happened I just kind of made peace with it.
Life is way more enjoyable when you don’t try to force things outside of your own means and just focus on what you’re already good at.

>>719783819 (OP)
Those are post-minors, you creep!

>>719783819 (OP)
>be in highschool
>6'3 football player
>hear some girl likes me
>ask her out
>date and fuck for a few weeks
>sex is nice but dealing with woman moments fucking sucks
>break up
>repeat a few times throughout highschool and college

im now an obese schizoid 32 year old and havent touched a woman in over a decade. dealing with women just isnt worth it. i couldnt imagine living with one 24/7. every time i feel like some woman companionship i boot up vrchat and get some furry tranny to shake their boobs in my virtual face. if you have an ounce of charisma and charm its so fucking easy to become the alpha male king of the losers in vr, everyone you are competing against is a a drooling retard nasally nerd stereotype who would cry about their pocket protector after getting swirlied

>>719783819 (OP)
these are the effects of tinder and social media

>>719785348
Really depressing if true. You destroyed your own potential with mental illness.

>>719785348
Same here, but I'm in my late 30s and it's been almost 18 years since I've had sex.

>>719783819 (OP)
Mate, I'm the one swiping left on dating apps because nobody nearby me looks remotely appealing to be with one way or another.

>>719785694
omg same

>>719785559
im not a neet, im just not married. i make ~$200k a year as a travel auditor+landlord. if i fell for the marriage meme and was trapped with a kid i unironically would have blown my brains out by now

>>719786065
so youre just never gonna get kids and have all your efforts gone when you die?

>>719783819 (OP)
Love is fake and will hurt you eventually. Games are fun.
Thank you mom for teaching me by example that women aren't worthy of any trust.

>>719783819 (OP)
>Why did you choose gaming over love?

But i love gaming, also no women ever gave me even a second look/ cant force women to love me.

>>719783819 (OP)
This graph seems doctored...

>>719783819 (OP)
I am incapable of being loved romantically by a woman, the best I receive is the love of family and friends.

>>719786217
im going to spend all my money on myself lmao. my "efforts" go towards enjoying my own life

Im 35 and I've had sex only once and it was, I'm not even joking, by accident.

I don't really mind being alone at this point. I hate women anyway lol

My looksmatch is a fat whale and I'm not keen on pretending I'm a whaler.

>>719786567
Was it one of those cases where you run naked and you slip on a banana peel and as you fall there is a woman on the ground and your dick accidentally ends up inserting itself in her vagina?

>>719783819 (OP)
What is there to love about modern women?

>>719783819 (OP)
If society wanted me to have a family it should have given me a family that was actually functional and could have shown me the benefits of one. Instead I got the exact opposite that taught me to despise family, marriage, and ultimately people.

>>719783998
What happened at and after 14?

>>719786235
>Thank you mom for teaching me by example that women aren't worthy of any trust.

Elaborate. What the hell happened?

>>719783819 (OP)
I didn't choose to be a male introvert but since I am one love was never in my cards.

>>719786796
One night stand

>>719786567
How was it by accident? What happened?

>>719786812
Introverts can definitely find love.

>>719786696
When I was 16 I convinced my first gf to let me put my cock up her arse and she said okay and she slipped it in but she was sneaky and put it in her fanny. I did literally 4 pumps and came in 6 seconds. And that was my entire sexual experience since 2006

>>719783819 (OP)
path of least resistance

>>719786861
k*k

My gf and I play games together. I got her into fighting games and she hit masters in granblue a month ago. We're really excited to play 2xko together.

We're getting married in a few months. Also we had sex last night

>>719783819 (OP)
love =/= sex.
I don't hate woman it's just that as they say most women are in for business not love. And by most I really mean 90% of the women you ever meet.

>>719786834
What?

>>719783819 (OP)
I chose nothing
I was sent my own way

>>719784825
Same. Doesn't go back all the way hard anymore.
>>719784895
It just happened out of nowhere for me. Nothing I've done gets rid of it. God cursed me with a second phimosis in my late 20s

>>719783819 (OP)
But video games are worse than ever! Those kids aren't playing shit.

>>719783819 (OP)
Choose? I have no other outlet to experience romance. Real life is too difficult and not worth my time.

>>719783819 (OP)
First girl I was interested in thought I was a stalker, I was just retarded and autistic. I gave up after that for a while. A few years ago I tried tinder and bumble but couldnt land a date in months.

>>719783819 (OP)
It's not our choice. Women chose for us.

>>719783819 (OP)
After the fun and naive high-school period, women realize that they'd rather share the upper 10% of men than date FUCKING LOSERS, a.k.a.the remaining 90% of men.
Basically we're in the Conan the Barbarian world...but progressive n'shiet

>>719783819 (OP)
Women need to take accountability for creating this environment, men had no hand in it
Also the declining birth rate, feminisms hatred of men and antinatalist views have destroyed the west

>>719787162
im sorry to hear bro. i personally get a rash and lessions but i can retract my foreskin. i cant really jerk off in a normal way anymore because it gets inflamed so i got a pocket pussy and that seems to be okay. have you tried protopic? it seems to allieviate the symtpoms at least for me

>>719784853
>eat more than I burn
There’s your problem, you’re trying to burn the calories instead of converting them to muscle

>>719783819 (OP)
Enjoy the demographic collapse.

>>719786843
>Introverts can definitely find love.
How? You obviously aren't going to be putting the charms on a girl, and you can't use wealth to make yourself more appealing since extroverts will get the good jobs instead of you. Being a male introvert means never having things that other people want.

I've been in a relationship for the past 12 years of my life with an actually loving person that I share vidya with, actually. We own a house and a dog, got stable paychecks and spend pretty much every second we can together. It's pretty great.
That part is. The part where it doesn't actually cure your depression and you realize you will never be able to cope, thinking salvation can be found in someone else despite that being a fundamental cope, not so much.

Still, we have fried chicken nights and played through the entire campaign of Frosthaven board game so I got that going for me which is nice.

>>719783819 (OP)
Orders of magnitude cheaper. Assuming you're a PC gamer, let's look at a 5-year timespan

>Typical PC (5y): $5,225
>Typical relationship (5y): $26,100
let's break down the numbers
>$2,000 rig upfront (this will last you 5 years easy if you build it right)
>Games $300/yr, Subscriptions $120/yr, Peripherals $150/yr, Electricity $75/yr
>Total 5y = $5,225
Now let's look at the girlfriend numbers
>Dates: 2/mo @ $80 = $1,920/yr
>Vacations: 1/yr, your share $1,500
>Gifts: $600/yr
>Misc (events/coffee/rideshares): $1,200/yr
>Total 5y = $26,100
You could buy a nice gaming PC and finance the same one for 3 of your bros, and you'd still be paying less than you would over a 5-year span with a woman. Getting with a woman in the current year is fiscally irresponsible. The math doesn't lie. Save your money, buy a Fleshlight.

>>719787401
That is solely on women

>>719784264
Sounds like the men were disgusting leeches too in the end

>>719783819 (OP)
Boomers and GenX reaped all the benefits of a golden age created for them by their immediate ancestors, and deliberately made all the changes to create a nightmare scenario for their immediate descendants.
Of course the study focuses on "male virginity" because they fear to reveal the true epidemic, childless women. Instead of being wives and mothers, they've "encouraged" girls to be whores and career women. Romance in this modern world is now a case of rare luck in a boy finding a good girl, not an opportunity that most can pursue, because girls have been led down the path to ruin, and boys have been vilified.

There is no gradual coming back from this. Civilization will collapse unless there is an immediate turnaround in the behavior of women.

>>719787242
This. Women choose for all men.

>>719787306
No men definitely had a hand in it. They stupidly gave women freedom and the right to vote.