Thread 33248500 - /adv/ [Archived: 688 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/20/2025, 1:59:44 PM No.33248500
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how the FUCK are you supposed to meet women in your mid 20s without a social circle, having graduated university, no club/bars, no dating apps. Should men in such situations just go back to uni and roll the dice again?
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 2:03:44 PM No.33248509
You don't.
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 2:09:04 PM No.33248526
>>33248500 (OP)
>thousands of dollars to maybe talk to some women
Hahahahahahahaha
Download the apps. It’s not trashy anymore everyone does it. Word of warning though, some women on those could actually be dangerous or crazy. So of course if you lack other social skills you may find yourself in a whole world of pain by failing to recognize people who are no good for you trying to date online.

Quick test, bring up three topics in the reply, you should be able to discuss three women friendly topics on demand.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 2:14:28 PM No.33248541
>>33248526
What does “women friendly” entail?
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 2:16:35 PM No.33248547
>>33248541
Good question. Three off the top of my head
1. Travel
2. Her hobbies
3. Her complaints about misc (which will 100% happen and validating them will help)
Keep these three and you should be good!
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 2:24:30 PM No.33248570
>>33248526
Forgot to add don’t meet for coffee. Its a shitty trope that ends too soon.

If you go the online route, a steakhouse will be more appropriate. As I said, it’s not trashy anymore. This is legitimately normal and nice restaurants are coming back as a thing to do.

You could even suggest a movie after the dinner but not be prepared with tickets to that would make you appear too forward.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 2:34:43 PM No.33248595
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>>33248500 (OP)
>how the FUCK are you supposed to meet women
There's a general for that, and anyway it's been asked countless times before. The fact that you are unable to use the archive, and are therefore an IQ 75 subhuman moron, means that you will never solve your problem and are doomed to resort to prostitutes and chinkies.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 2:38:25 PM No.33248603
>>33248595
>proceeds to misuse the advice board like a retard
Posters like this make me miss the I won’t read guy. Become a janny or stfu.

You don’t even do it for free, you aren’t even a janny. Its an even lower rung on the misc complaints poster totem pole.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 3:20:09 PM No.33248718
>>33248547
NTA but what about the weather?
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 3:21:39 PM No.33248719
>>33248603
that is the I won't read guy... retard

you have zero pattern recognition ability
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 3:27:53 PM No.33248747
>>33248718
I’m not a chatbot kek
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 3:37:37 PM No.33248802
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>>33248526
>Download the apps. It’s not trashy anymore everyone does it.

k I'll just:

>pay X dollars for premium to even get on there
>get filtered by the vast majority of women since most of them set a height filter
>get swiped left by the remaining women for no reason which adds negative elo and essentially means your profile is never actually seen
>realise you can't just use any decent photos that you or your friends took, they have to be PROFESSIONALLY taken accounting for lighting and all that shit, costs about $150
>have to write some unfunny, inauthentic bio to score points
>all the women's profiles are tropes and stock characters
>have to always lead, pitch dates, engage in shitty meaningless conversation

all for the sole purpose of scoring picrel.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 3:40:02 PM No.33248817
alright. start with your avatar and... *giggle* username, or should i just call you Anon?
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 3:58:06 PM No.33248900
>>33248500 (OP)
Engineer from a top tier school , very successful investments ; however still maidenless
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 4:03:11 PM No.33248911
>>33248802
What are you talking about. You don’t have to pay to use dating apps. They work for me consistently on the free versions.

You’re just trying to shoot down any chance. Theres nothing more to do. You may be addicted to misery.
MKG !!DMb/fPChADG
6/20/2025, 4:09:24 PM No.33248932
>>33248500 (OP)
Did you learn anything or develop any social skills in the years before now?
You've been using the "meeting people" equivalent of training wheels this entire time and now you've been dropped in the woods with a mountain bike.

Getting more training wheels won't help if you don't actually git gud.

Be brave.
Try new things.

>>33248802
Don't shoot down every idea before you try it.
Try. Fail. Learn. Try again. Fail better.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 4:27:37 PM No.33249028
>>33248932
>Don't shoot down every idea before you try it.
Did I sound like I didn't try it? Dumbass.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 4:30:32 PM No.33249048
>>33248570
This is the most reddit post I've seen on here in ages. Holy fuck kill yourself.
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 5:05:11 PM No.33249244
>>33248719
>the I won't read guy
I love how my nickname for him continues living on through other anons.

>zero pattern recognition ability
He loves subhumans, lol, dunno why.
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 5:19:25 PM No.33249303
>>33248500 (OP)
>mid 20s
>how to find in your criteria
Easy. Motorcycle. The passive interactions no matter what you pick will grant opportunities never before had.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 5:58:55 PM No.33249477
>>33248526
>Download the apps.
>No social circle
Isn't that already a red flag for most women? How much luck are you going to have without pictures of you in social places with friends, let alone talk about how you don't meet up with anyone?
OP should be asking how do to make friends before meeting girlfriends
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 6:16:29 PM No.33249577
>>33248719
No that's the Check the archives guy. I won't read guy is different.
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 6:20:40 PM No.33249604
>>33248526
I spent half a grand on dating apps and never been on a date in my life I’m 30. Started dating apps at 16.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 6:30:38 PM No.33249674
>>33249604
>Dating apps have been relevant for 14+ years
Where does the time to man
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 6:36:32 PM No.33249720
>>33249604
500 bucks over 15 whole years isn't that much money anon.

15 years means you are doing something wrong or self sabotaging. That's the only common denomination.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 6:38:00 PM No.33249725
>>33249720
I only spent the money during 2 years I was a free user.
And I tried changing my pictures and bio and how I message they always ghost me no date.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 6:58:44 PM No.33249823
>>33249477
not OP but my problem is that i just like doing my own thing (sitting in my room alone on screens while drunk/high) all the time without being bothered by other people, yet at the same time i'm painfully lonely and hate that
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MKG !!DMb/fPChADG
6/20/2025, 7:12:14 PM No.33249898
>>33249028
>Did I sound like I didn't try it?
Yes. You listed a bunch of things you couldn't possibly know while presenting them as fact and the rest was false conclusions based on wrong assumptions.
And even if you *had* tried, that's step one. The third step is learn, not make up excuses. The fourth step is trying again.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 7:51:21 PM No.33250072
>>33249725
Have you had a second or third perspective on your efforts?
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 7:58:44 PM No.33250104
>>33248718
The weather is the most boring topic you can possibly bring up. That's something you talk about with old people when you have no other small talk to make. Try to avoid it unless it's legitimately crazy weather like a hurricane or something.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 8:38:22 PM No.33250269
>>33250104
What if I want to date a GILF?
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 8:59:32 PM No.33250353
>>33250072
I ask the only women that will talk to me at work about it and they tell me those women are rude and I need to do better.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 9:04:23 PM No.33250361
>>33248719
>He used the retard image that the I Wont Read Guy uses! I see a pattern here!
lmao
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 9:05:25 PM No.33250365
>>33250269
Then talk about the weather in her Depends
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 10:26:20 PM No.33250625
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>>33250365
Take off your knickers
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 10:37:21 PM No.33250675
>>33250365
>>33250625
kek
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 10:50:48 PM No.33250717
>>33248526
nigga what are you even talking about

all of the apps are trash. they're just a vehicle to extract your cash that's it. the only time they remotely worked well was like the first year they came out. back when they came out and I was in college I could use tinder, put up two shitty pics of myself in the bathroom and have no issue getting matches.

now with a great paying job, good clothes and nice photos it's a ghost town, it's a joke lmao. not to mention they can just outright ban you with no recourse at any time and you'll be locked out of that as an option unless you jump through a ton of hoops.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 11:11:41 PM No.33250817
>>33248547
>ntfj nazis and racists swipe left fuck ICE!
>my favorite food is sushi ;))
>make sure you can keep up with the trips i like to take with my growing list of exes that pay for them it is my lifestyle pls understan
FUCK what culture has done to women.

inb4
>she's a little fat but her sovl!!
i dropped 100 pounds after i learned self control
>i mean she's a little spooky but her profile doesn't look like that
dick and the lock to my liquor cabinet sawed off when i wake up
>she's into sports and god anon and she's pretty!
you fucking know better
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 11:29:46 PM No.33250903
>>33250353
>I ask the only woman
Well that would be the root of the issue, you don't ask a fish how to hunt like a fisherman. You go to long John silver.

Ask some of your bros for profile help, if you got none of those straight up ask a chad lookin dude he will get an ego pump from you asking him for advice so it's not super weird.
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 12:16:32 AM No.33251169
>>33250817
for real

>she's a little fat but her sovl!!
yeah turns out if you don't eat you lose weight, lost 45 lbs since jan just eating 1500 calories and exercising a couple times a week. i look a fuck ton better, no reason a chick can't do the same. not lowering my standards for someone with no self control.
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 12:22:26 AM No.33251202
>>33248500 (OP)
That's just it...you're not supposed to not have a social circle. You weren't supposed to graduate college with zero friends, you're not supposed to not go anywhere or not do anything ever. And if this is you for whatever reason, you're not supposed to not then stubbornly still refuse to use dating apps. You're quite literally who online dating was originally made for.
And if you couldn't meet women in uni the first time around, what makes you think you magically will now? Especially since you'll now be older and very obviously just there to creep on the girls?
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 12:23:27 AM No.33251210
>>33248603
What part of what he said was wrong though?
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 1:29:00 AM No.33251512
>>33251202
>not supposed to not
kill yourself double negative fag
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 2:57:42 AM No.33251897
>>33251512
How about you focus on the larger message of the post retard? IE
>you're supposed to have friends, fag
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 3:34:52 AM No.33252053
>>33248500 (OP)
you are supposed to have a social circle first
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 3:37:18 AM No.33252062
if you dont have friends to protect you from crazy women you are as good as ded. do not obtain a gf when she is the only one who provides feedback to you, you are gambling with your life.
friends are the most important thing
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 3:37:21 AM No.33252063
>"How do I meet women without doing anything that could actually help me meet a woman?"
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 3:48:31 AM No.33252103
>>33248500 (OP)
how do you make it to your mid 20s without at least 2 friends?
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 6:01:15 AM No.33252564
>>33248500 (OP)

Just fuck an escort, much easier and you won't waste your time and valuable emotional energy on some ungrateful woman.
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 6:09:37 AM No.33252590
how the FUCK are you supposed to make money without working or investing or starting a buisness!?
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 6:11:27 AM No.33252598
>>33252062
>if you dont have friends to protect you from crazy women you are as good as ded. do not obtain a gf when she is the only one who provides feedback to you, you are gambling with your life.
>friends are the most important thing

This and women frens can detect other women's bullshit.
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 11:34:33 PM No.33255790
>>33252564
believe it or not, some people don't want to fuck prostitutes
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 2:40:37 AM No.33256509
>>33255790
even if I wanted to they charge extra to have their feet touched even if it’s not sexual.
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 8:34:57 PM No.33259403
>>33250717
>>33249604
>>33248802
I've seen normal guys meet decent enough women on dating apps. The one thing they all have in common is they have a great smile and they're not ugly, but they're hardly models either. They're just average guys who can smile and dress decently.

The last time I was on I was chubby with a bloated face and even then I still got some matches and a few hookups with average looking women. I since took a break and have completely revamped my body (and my face) via lifting and recomp so I'll get on soon and see how it is again.

But all that to say, if it's not working for you there's a good chance it has more to do with your profile and presentation than it does with YOU. Go ask a female friend for help and if you don't have any then ask a guy friend who has success on the apps and if you don't have any then pay someone on the internet to help you.
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 9:12:51 PM No.33259560
>>33259403
no offense, but that was my experience every time i've used dating apps since. didn't matter what was on my profile, it was like i didn't exist. it did nothing but just sit on my psyche like an anvil and so i dropped all of them. i had decent photos of myself smiling, some enjoying my hobbies (which of course got me temp banned because god forbird I have a single photo with a gun in it but chicks can), filled out my bio with thought, didn't matter.

doesn't help that in my area it's basically <1000 people on tinder within 40 miles, most of them at my age range are one of the following: incredibly obese, multiple kids, 3-5 dogs/cats (jesus christ) or a woman that's my age but somehow looks 15 years older or women that would make some cause or politics their entire life's purpose. tried bumble, same sort of garbage. Hinge was probably the weirdest and worst at the same time. It literally would just show me woman so far out of my league they probably wouldn't even look at me irl. i didn't understand it; like maybe 1/10 of the people on there were people that would potentially be within my league.

dating apps just don't work for everyone, myself included that's why i dropped them entirely and don't plan to go back. it's just a waste of time and makes me feel shit about myself when i know i'm not.
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 9:28:13 PM No.33259653
>>33259403
I had women over the years change my bio for me but I never helps. Only fat fucks ever respond to me.
Anonymous
6/23/2025, 3:00:29 PM No.33263262
>>33248500 (OP)
Create a social circle you stupid fuck
What are your hobbies? Do you like hiking? It's easy and fun, join a hiking group, meet people, organize pub nights, make friends, eventually someone will bring their sister/female friend and you'll ask them to set you up.
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Anonymous
6/23/2025, 6:24:02 PM No.33264107
>>33263262
how tf do you do that? I go to local gigs and no ones interested in talking really or they have their own friends already and everything outdoorsy is all old people, ive done jiujitsu and it was meh, volunteered on tonnes of nature reserves, done running groups and walking etc and its just the same shit really
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Anonymous
6/23/2025, 6:31:36 PM No.33264126
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>>33248500 (OP)
>graduating university without a social circle

bro even if you enrolled again and went full Schooler (RIP) it sounds like you would just walk in the same steps you took, ignoring everyone and graduating with 0 friends or gf

also why do you refuse dating apps and bars/clubs and every other ideal option for someone your age & social situation

>>33264107
>etc and its just the same shit really
see what I mean? you're walking the same path you walked in university and presumably high school as well.

what was so "meh" about jiu jitsu? You don't have to meet a hot girl right there and then, it's mostly guys obviously but that's how you start to build a social circle. Guys have sisters and cousins and friends of friends who happen to be girls, etc.
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Anonymous
6/23/2025, 6:35:13 PM No.33264135
>>33264126
ive got a gf, I just dont have any dude friends, I want bros idgaf about women, also jiu jitsu kinda blowed because there was no striking and I dont like the idea of getting a strangers sweat in my eyes n shit, ended up leaving when one dude ended up with ring worm fuck that so now I lift instead. I really like local gigs though, last time I spoke to one guy but then he ended up going back to his friends. I had friends in highschool and uni but in uni they all moved away and now I aint got no bros
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Anonymous
6/23/2025, 6:40:18 PM No.33264149
>>33264135
>ive got a gf,
>dgaf about women

>>33248500 (OP)
>how the FUCK are you supposed to meet women
what

are you not OP?

anyways
>jiu jitsu kinda blowed because there was no striking and I dont like the idea of getting a strangers sweat in my eyes n shit, ended up leaving when one dude ended up with ring worm fuck that so now I lift instead.
Yeah that's jiu jitsu alright, there's boxing and muay thai and MMA or even kung fu or whatever.

> I really like local gigs though, last time I spoke to one guy but then he ended up going back to his friends.
Yeah gigs are moreso where friends go to hang out togethere and less so where people make new friends.

you ever consider picking up a guitar or drum sticks?
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Anonymous
6/23/2025, 6:45:50 PM No.33264162
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>>33264149
yeah im literally looking at join my band sites on another tab because ive been playing lead and rhythm for a few years, the only catch though is that im a greasy metal enjoyer and play 95% death metal which isn't great for my band joining prospects, but I like any hard rock bullshit, grunge, id settle for shoegaze as well or whatever indie stuff, I like quite a few things. Thing ive noticed with local bands I see they were all friends prior, on these ads most people dont reply or just end up ghosting you, maybe they're socially anxious idk.

no im not op I just came in in hijacked his thread with my own bullshit because theres enough ''how do I make frieeeeends/ gf'' threads
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Anonymous
6/23/2025, 6:56:39 PM No.33264183
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>>33248500 (OP)
All the good looking women who would make great wives and mothers are taken in high school and college the latest. Whatever remains is taken shortly after they enter the workforce. There exist very few good looking (7 and above) women that are single and have a good heart, are modest, raised in a decent family, soft spoken and pretty. The window of opportunity when they are single is very very narrow. These are the 2% of women, the highest stock of females this wonderful creation can offer. If you don't frequent their circles or the events they attend you have no chance of meeting them. Women also don't go anywhere alone, so whatever hobbies women have or events they attend it is done with their husband or boyfriend and if they are single with their groups of friends.

tldr; there simply aren't enough single good looking young white women to go around for everybody, they are rare and exist mostly in very niche places where men without social circles (loners) can't get in to
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Anonymous
6/23/2025, 7:06:25 PM No.33264215
>>33264183
I try to goto social events but all the young pale white women are “taken” don’t know if they are or just lie to me.
I’m also 30 and afraid of being accused of being a predator. Because 23 is considered barely legal even though 16 is legal.
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Anonymous
6/23/2025, 7:07:44 PM No.33264219
The goyim cattle are constantly socializing about inane bullshit nobody cares about, especially the women. If you still want to have anything to do with these retarded jewish golems after coronahoax you are a moron.
The social contract has been voided and it's never coming in this life, they can only fool the younger and next generations now.
Anonymous
6/23/2025, 7:09:34 PM No.33264222
>>33249477
women who obsess over red flags are a red flag
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Anonymous
6/23/2025, 7:14:55 PM No.33264239
>>33264162
>Thing ive noticed with local bands I see they were all friends
Oh that never lasts lol

There isn't a single band I can think of whose original members lasted more than an album or two. A lot of them don't even make it to the first EP.
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 1:07:30 AM No.33265222
I think the funniest advice is to just get women friends, as if it's easy to just go to the friend store and request women friends. Not to mention even if you try to, it's going to take a good year or more to build a proper rapport with someone new. I also just have nothing in common with pretty much any woman I would see as a friend.
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Anonymous
6/24/2025, 2:31:00 AM No.33265558
>>33248526
>>33248500 (OP)
You can audit classes and not pay for them
>>33264215
I’m also 30 and afraid of being accused of being a predator. Because 23 is considered barely legal even though 16 is legal.
No one in the real world cares as long as they’re legal. You aren’t going to be labeled a “predator” for dating a 20 year old. Only old Karens and wokies might care but who cares about their opinion?
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Anonymous
6/24/2025, 2:32:51 AM No.33265564
>>33248500 (OP)
If you live near a college or university, I would suggest spending some free time at their library once the fall semester starts.
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 2:33:52 AM No.33265565
>>33265558
At my college anybody could just walk into a class and sit in the lecture.
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 2:37:51 AM No.33265573
>>33264215
Why is barely legal an issue? Its legal
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 2:39:24 AM No.33265575
>>33248526
>crazy
Pretty much every women 27+ on dating apps is a major BPD case, oddly enough the ones with kids are the safe ones but of course they come with the major turn off of being a mother
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 2:49:13 AM No.33265607
>>33248570
lol, this is retarded advice. the entire premise of a coffee date is to be cheap and low commitment so either of you can dip if you don't want to see each other any longer.
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 2:51:21 AM No.33265614
>>33248802
>get filtered by the vast majority of women since most of them set a height filter
Trust me dude, being tall doesn't make it any easier; I'm between 6'3 and 6'4 and still only get likes from obese slappers or BBW's. Western women are just fucked, every bio is something along the lines of >cook for me >pay for me to go on holiday, >love my annoying as fuck dog >you must love taylor swift. I'm a good looking bloke and a gymbro but dating apps are a shitshow, spoke to my friends and they've said it's the same for them, women are bombarded on dating apps, they have so much choice that they don't know where to start.

Tinder definitely has the worst selection of women, Boo has the best but none ever reply and Hinge is somewhere in the middle.
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Anonymous
6/24/2025, 2:52:21 AM No.33265620
>>33248802
My hinge experience was just chicks very clearly out of my league; literally these people would probably not even glance at me on the street let alone talk to me. Took like a week of swiping left off and on to get people that might actually talk to me (none ever did anyway).
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 2:55:54 AM No.33265637
>>33265614
I had a tinder account for a couple of days before deleting. Thought I'd get a hookup or two at least. The got about 15 likes, and all of them were obese single moms with the most disgusting pictures of themselves and their homes.
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 2:58:07 AM No.33265648
>>33259403
>via lifting
Unironically women are less interested in me since becoming /fit/, I'm tall and muscular now, before I was tall and skinny. I get likes from women who just want to fuck/ONS but none that want a long term relationship. Gymcel is a real phenomenon, regular women who want to settle down are intimidated by you, only women who want to be casually railed will be interested in you.
Replies: >>33272528 >>33275186 >>33280366
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 4:43:08 AM No.33265878
>>33248500 (OP)
Easy, ride a motorcycle
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 5:14:02 AM No.33265968
>>33248500 (OP)
dating apps
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 4:44:16 PM No.33267395
>>33265558
I’ve had death threats sent to me and my family because I said 18-24 year olds are attractive
Replies: >>33272559
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 4:45:44 PM No.33267402
>>33265614
I’m 6’8 and only get fat or racemixed likes :(
Replies: >>33267631 >>33268248
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 5:44:13 PM No.33267631
>>33267402
I used to be getting hot girls on tinder in 2016 and now its 100% fat girls. Not sure if this is a consequence of turning 30 or if the apps themselves have just become shit.
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 5:49:13 PM No.33267681
>>33248526
>you should be able to discuss three women friendly topics on demand.
What gets you horny, how you relax on a rainy day, and any specialty dishes you're good at cooking.
Replies: >>33267929 >>33279708
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 6:22:42 PM No.33267898
Going back to college just to build a social circle sounds like a pretty expensive route.

Instead, try joining run clubs or hobby-based groups that match your interests. Keep your life full and engaging—when you focus on things you enjoy, women often become a natural byproduct rather than something you’re constantly stressing about.

I’ve struggled with depression for a long time—kind of like Jim Carrey in Yes Man, who always says “no” to things. But I had to push myself to get comfortable with being uncomfortable.
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 6:27:33 PM No.33267929
>>33267681
>what gets you horny

you are going to give them the ick so fast
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 7:23:38 PM No.33268248
>>33267402
>6’8
What is it like? It honestly sounds like a pain in the ass
Replies: >>33268863
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 9:41:32 PM No.33268863
>>33268248
Pale white young women won’t even make eye contact with me. Can’t sit up in any vehicle. Pants are always too short after I wash them once. And women in general treat me like shit. I’ve been harassed and bullied by women my whole life and I can’t fight back or I’ll goto prison(they lie about stuff).
I offered to pay a skank to lick her feet once and she turned out to be a scammer so I can’t even pay for what I dream of.
Replies: >>33268885
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 9:45:27 PM No.33268879
>>33248500 (OP)
It's already over, I'm afraid. All the good women are taken by the time they are 23 years old. The remainder are fat, stupid, and mean bpd bitches. Why would they be single otherwise? No exceptions.
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 9:46:38 PM No.33268885
>>33268863
Uhhhh r9k bros, whats this? I thought women digged tall men?
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 9:49:45 PM No.33268900
8e300912-6b73-4671-9ae1-03345c08f407_1_201_a
8e300912-6b73-4671-9ae1-03345c08f407_1_201_a
md5: a37399fb1cfc47e0fb88bf03cf36ae95🔍
>>33248595
75 IQ people famous for never reproducing.
Replies: >>33272033
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 10:21:50 PM No.33269053
>>33248500 (OP)
schooler ur a fag
work btw
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 10:23:48 PM No.33269058
>>33248570
>steakhouse
Yeah fuckin right. What am I, the fuckin money tree?
Replies: >>33272354
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 12:56:47 AM No.33270136
>>33248500 (OP)
The truth is there is nowhere to meet people in the current year. There are very few single women walking on the streets anymore, they all drive but the main problem is most women are in relationships already starting with high school and college. They will tell you to go to bars and pubs but it doesn't seem to work anymore, in the past sure maybe but not anymore.

Then they tell you hobbies, to get hobbies and sign up for shit, but most women don't have hobbies (their hobby is socializing over the internet and in real life) not to mention the countless other guys that get into hobbies to meet women.
If you don't meet a girl in high school or college it's over in 2025, there is nowhere to meet women anymore, unless you cold approach in places where young women hang out. And let me tell you alone as a 30/40+ year old male, it's not going to go well. You would at least need a wingman but even then the odds are stacked against you not just because of the age difference.
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 8:18:09 AM No.33272033
>>33268900
kek
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 8:19:49 AM No.33272037
>>33265222
>it's going to take a good year or more to build a proper rapport with someone new
breh, it literally takes weeks. if you click, you click, it'll be like you've known them forever
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 9:17:39 AM No.33272192
>>33248500 (OP)
Go online and find clubs for things that you enjoy doing.There's so many online clubs that post meet ups for events you enjoy doing. Like i enjoy hiking and camping. I met two grate friends who i dated doing this. It did not work out because Of me but there still very good close friends now and this is all thanks to apps and sites offering free to use services. Sadly if the easy options are all gone your gonna have to put in some leg work and do it to find them.. Hope this helps ya some
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 9:24:58 AM No.33272215
>>33248500 (OP)
Dating apps. If you don't look good enough for them it's pointless to try and meet women anyway.
Women are disgusted by sub8s
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 10:22:57 AM No.33272334
>>33248500 (OP)
Do you really want to waste your time, energy and effort on a woman who will treat you like a walking ATM, and person you need to text every day, and every moment thinking of ways to make her happy. Fuck that.
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 10:27:43 AM No.33272343
>>33248570
If you go on a date with a girl to a restaurant assuming every a week, that's $50 every week... $2600 a year.
Replies: >>33272358
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 10:37:15 AM No.33272354
>>33269058
>longhorn is high class expensive shit
What is your net worth? In the double digits?
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 10:40:33 AM No.33272358
>>33272343
If you are doing this you either have good game or you aren't being selective enough.
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 10:52:17 AM No.33272381
>>33248500 (OP)
by making yourself useful to a community
although in your 20s you shouldnt need any of that
be of service to everyone and women will notice you like flies on shit
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 10:57:34 AM No.33272394
>>33248900
church
mosque
oven
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 10:59:17 AM No.33272399
>>33249303
that's called establishing value in redpill homocircles
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 11:07:14 AM No.33272419
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md5: 5bbf01c3033f735480d32807f5b7128c🔍
>>33249823
>my problem is that i just like doing my own thing (sitting in my room alone on screens while drunk/high) all the time without being bothered by other people, yet at the same time i'm painfully lonely and hate that
what value do you bring to the female species?
women are simple creatures
behold briffault's law

now there is a catch
you can read the fag in this thread boasting about improving himself in order to score
that's essentially female
it's women who make themselves attractive in order to score
men make themselves useful
but here is the secret: useful to everyone, not to dirty wet holes they need to fuck like babies trying to return inside mommy's womb
if a boy turns himself into whatever will make him get his dick wet, he's a whore and a girl in spirit
as a male you are created (by women, btw) to be of service to the community
what makes you an asset is what you can do for everyone, not how high you jump through the hoops females set for you
it also works inside for you as a male; pursue what you are made for, what you are good at, how you can be good to the WHOLE, not to the hole
then once you found that and do that consistently, women will come to you like flies on shit
and you will even regret falling for just one hole instead of keeping on focusing on the whole
interestingly, fags who try to impress women cant stick to just one either as they cant be useful to even one
they're inside a narcissism pursuit, fursuit, just like tranbnies
they basically fuck themselves
Replies: >>33279730
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 11:12:28 AM No.33272434
he never scored tumblr_lnvlt3giMd1qa48wxo1_500
he never scored tumblr_lnvlt3giMd1qa48wxo1_500
md5: 318a3581ff7cc923e568f3572d048e1b🔍
>>33249898
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 11:18:52 AM No.33272444
>>33250817
>FUCK what culture has done to women.
(((culture)))
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 11:21:23 AM No.33272449
>>33251512
it works though
>you're not supposed to not go anywhere or not do anything ever.
emphasis on "you're not", instead of "you are" supposed to
because that's what he means
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 11:22:26 AM No.33272453
>>33252062
just have several crazy women and pick the most stable one
it's hard though because the crazier the more sexual
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 11:49:54 AM No.33272490
>>33259560
>Hinge was probably the weirdest and worst at the same time. It literally would just show me woman so far out of my league they probably wouldn't even look at me irl. i didn't understand it; like maybe 1/10 of the people on there were people that would potentially be within my league.
stealth prostitution, obvious fit for these observations
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 11:59:46 AM No.33272511
>>33264183
fun pasta but think, boyos
this is inverted thinking
reproduction isnt about finding the right woman, it's about making yourself the right man
not improving yourself in order to fuck, that's lowbrained sub-animal thinking
but improving yourself in order to live a better life, not just for yourself but also so you can be of service to others
both dimensions work together: living just for yourself is a dead end, whereas being useful to others mingles back and forth with self improvement
now anon above could say yeah i do all that and no luck
then you gotta grab them by the pussy i guess, metaphorically
prove to one that you're ready, willing and of key benefit to her
also anons, dont sell yourselves short
demand reciprocity: if you give attention, demand to receive just as much or more
your attention is precious as a male: it keeps the world turning
Replies: >>33279739
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 12:01:10 PM No.33272516
>>33264222
they're empty vessels
fruitless wombs
windbags looking for filler cream
Replies: >>33275121
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 12:06:04 PM No.33272528
>>33265648
>regular women who want to settle down are intimidated by you
because they know they dont measure up
fitness proves discipline, the very thing they lack or they wouldnt be trawling like bottom feeder fishes on dating apps
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 12:20:59 PM No.33272559
>>33267395
roastpocalypse
ignore and move on
Replies: >>33272750
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 1:48:23 PM No.33272750
>>33272559
But how do I get a gf if everyone thinks I’m a pedophile creep ? They won’t even talk to me.
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 1:08:56 AM No.33275121
>>33272516
yes
the problem is, even if you try to ignore them, every girl who is half decent will inevitably have one of these bitches as a friend, who they will then listen to unquestioningly
you WILL eventually catch false accusations if you let these horrid cunts influence your girl in any way
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 1:21:24 AM No.33275186
>>33265648
Damn, is this why I only ever seem to get casual sex from dating apps? It's like no girl even wants to try to date me, I didn't have any shirtless pics but it's obvious I lift with a shirt on.
Replies: >>33278401
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 6:34:36 PM No.33278401
>>33275186
no woman is gonna marry someone because he got muscles
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 12:50:53 AM No.33279708
>>33267681
last two are good
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 12:56:24 AM No.33279730
>>33272419
based incelmonk shit
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 12:59:13 AM No.33279739
>>33272511
this is good advice but i don't have a dad so take it with a heap of salt
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 2:07:39 AM No.33280091
box of help
box of help
md5: 810cffa8f90921afd004c425bbd2dc10🔍
bros be like
>I REFUSE to go to bars
>I REFUSE to go to pubs
>I REFUSE to go to clubs
>I REFUSE to go to pool halls
>I REFUSE to go bowling alleys
>I REFUSE to go to music festival
>I REFUSE to listen to music
>I REFUSE to look on dating apps
>I REFUSE to have social media
>I REFUSE to have a smart phone
>I REFUSE to leave my house

and then act like it's someone else's problem they can't get a girl
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 3:09:31 AM No.33280366
>>33265648
I know what you mean. I was clinically obese, got sick of it and ended up shredded after 3 years of lifting and dieting.

Women definitely are intimidated of me now, but I'm also getting the most attention I've ever gotten in my life. I definitely have noticed that sexually aggressive women are much more likely to hit on me, but at the same time if I'm willing to make the first move, women in general are just more interested in me and more open to talking.

I'm going to be really careful with my dating profile, probably just one shirtless pic on the beach playing volleyball or something. Because otherwise if I go too aggressive with showing off my body, I'll probably get ONS/hoes like you mentioned