So I started dating this girl a while ago.
Everything has been running smoothly, except the fact that every time we're intimate, she's told me she wants me to take away her "power" from the dynamic for her to get aroused. I assumed it wouldn't be a problem, and at first it was fun, but it's become a pain in the ass lately.
I tried doing it physically, but she said it was no good since she knows I'll be able to physically overpower her anyway, so it must be psychological. I've tried everything I can think of, and I've only gotten so far, but she enjoys to be in the lead. The only times I've managed to get somewhere was when I made her uncomfortable by finding out a few things about herself.
I'm getting tired of the dynamic being always the same and I want to try something new for once to see if it works, but I ran out of ideas at the moment. If any of you have any experience on something like this, I'm all ears.

>>33263378 (OP)
Collect her hands behind her back together and hold them while in doggy. Other hand holds the love handle, or pulls her hair, or caresses her body. Force her face into the pillow so she can scream.

It's not hard, but your post doesn't have much information, either.

>>33263415
>your post doesn't have much information, either.
My mistake. I'm talking specifically about foreplay here.
As I said, before any physical encounter happens, she needs to be turned on psychologically, and she starts by default in a leading position that I have to take away from her. This can only be done by talking.

>>33263473
Maybe say something along the lines how you're about to use her? Use her...holes? That you look at her like a piece of meat? Does she mean that?

>>33264036
No, she would say that's cringe and laugh at it.

>>33263378 (OP)
Do you lift? If not, you have to lift. Dominance is an energy, it's not something you can talk your way into.

>>33263378 (OP)
>she's told me she wants me to take away her "power" from the dynamic for her to get aroused.
is the pussy that good?

I would be turning 360 degrees and powerwalking away so fast away from that, any chick that turns sexuality into a WWE match or like one of those traps from the Saw franchise where it was less exploding gore and more psychological torture, is certified coocoo bananas

like girl I just wanna have sex and hold you, I'm not looking to chokeslam you through a flaming table or play machiavellian mind games spreading false rumors about what your father told me

>>33264118
Ok, you're describing all this very abstract. Give an example of what it is she wants you to say? I have a hard time imagining the situation and therefore the problem.

Make her insecure. Point out her flaws. Say that she's lucky that you even chose her. Tell her that she's a dumb little girl who knows nothing [insert example of her retardation]. Tell her the whole act she requires to get off just indicates how broken and small she is, how pathetic. Use a ton of examples of times she's acted cringe, or how she's told you about times she got rejected, how stupid it was of her to tell you that.

>>33263473
Ask her directly? Damn dude none of this is explained

>>33263378 (OP)
Presumably she herself must know what she wants. Have you asked her for examples of things that have worked for her in the past?

I'm wondering if she might actually have a humiliation or degradation fetish, for example. Next time, ask why you should even bother fucking her, given that the other women you're fucking are so much hotter than she is. Go into a great deal of detail about the ways in which these (fictional!) women are so much hotter than her. "You have nothing to offer me; nothing. I won't do a single fucking thing to you unless you beg me."

>>33264121
I do.
>>33264140
>is the pussy that good?
It is.
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>>33264292
This is what I was expecting, yeah, this might actually work.

>>33263378 (OP)
I won't read yet another here we go again thread recounting a blow by blow saga about some romantic interaction posted by a subhuman autistic retard who has to have a formula for eeeeverything and needs other people to do his thinking for him.

>>33265390