Thread 33272863

Is it better to have a normie GF, or to date someone you can relate to? Why?

>>33272863 (OP)
Good question anon, I wonder too

>>33272863 (OP)
date someone you can relate to... fucking obviously

are you retarded? you must be if you're posting trannycore art to go with your autistic blogposts

>>33272863 (OP)
I married the femcel archetype, female autist nerdy chick. My life is complete.

>>33272863 (OP)
What the Fuck is a copy paste Latina!?

>>33272863 (OP)
I married a preppy girl and got her into nerdy shit, we go to farmers markets and anime cons and do it all happily together.

No matter who you find, you'll find ways to share your time happily.

>>33272954
congratulations

>>33272991
I guess it refers that most latina girls are pretty similar. Lack of personality, I guess.

>femcels
no such thing

>>33272863 (OP)
I think I'm on the minority here, but I prefer to date people that are different to me.
Dated a latina once and it was so much fun.
Regardless, it's not about hobbies or something like that, the person that loves you and cares for you the same way you do is always going to be the person you'll want to share your live with.

>>33273041
They exist, but they are unfuckable goblins.
If a woman can't get a guy to do her she must be the most chopped up thing imaginable. They are also mentally unwell and unstable, the worse gf option you can choose.

>>33272863 (OP)
I haven’t ever felt a connection with normie girls. My /pol/tard gf is Godsent

It really depends on what you value in a relationship, my dear anon. But let me warn you: both types of women come with trade-offs.

A "normie" girlfriend can offer emotional stability, broader social skills, and a grounding presence. If you're someone who overthinks, isolates, or lives too much online (like most idiots on this basket-weaving forum), this kind of partner can balance you out. The downside is that you might feel like you're hiding parts of yourself or can't go deep on topics you care about. Over time, that gap might breed frustration or loneliness, even if the surface-level bond is smooth, so keep that in mind.

On the other hand, dating someone you can truly relate to (whether in terms of humor, beliefs, background, or interests) can feel incredibly validating. You “get” each other. You don't have to explain every shitty reference or why certain things matter to you. Conversations are more fluid. But there’s a risk too: if you're both caught in the same flaws (e.g., social awkwardness, cynicism, isolation), you might reinforce each other's weaknesses instead of growing out of them. It can become an echo chamber (again, like this Godforsaken hellhole). So keep that shit in mind.

tl;dr --> It’s not about "normie vs. non-normie." It’s about mutual respect, growth, and being seen. Choose the person who helps you become more whole, not more fragmented.

>>33273082
>most helpful post is AI

>>33273082
Thats good and all but some guys only pull men because the women, normie or otherwise never even considered you than anything but like a family figure. Can't get anything out of being a replacement Dad or brother to women.

>>33273115
The things one discovers...

>>33273137
If women consistently treat you like a brother or dad figure, it might not just be bad luck. Something in your presentation, boundaries, or overall energy is giving off that faggy-ass vibe. Although you can work on that. But don't do it in order to fake a personality, but to reclaim your dignity and stop settling for emotional scraps.

You don’t escape this shit by trying to be more relatable or less normie. You escape it by drawing clearer lines, being less available for one-sided emotional labor, investing in yourself in a way that demands respect and signals you're not just an NPC, background character in their story, etc. In short, you won’t be seen as a man until you and only you see yourself as one, and then act accordingly.

nah, not my type. i prefer a caring or gentle dom gf.

normie is a safer bet even if it feels uncomfortable at first. anything that isn't "trad" or "copy-paste latina" (with some exceptions) will ultimately lead to your downfall. You have to get adjusted to regular society again or fall into the BPD trap

>>33272863 (OP)
Its better to be a normie, at least the good parts of being a normie.
People who are happy and successful never describe themselves as "not normie" so become happy and successful and you'll inevitably describe yourself as "normie" or not worry about it anyway.
So lose some fat, lift some weights, get a better haircut, stop dressing like a rebellious tween, whatever.

>>33272863 (OP)
In the end they're all normies, if they have a "personality" that's on your picrel chart then it's jut a mask for mental illness
Just find a normal-ass girl who wants to be your wife, have your babies, and make you casseroles. I promise you, any of those UWU personalities you're attracted to or "relate" to get old quick and then you'll have to deal with a boring-ass bitch who is also mentally ill.

personally there's a few things but the most important thing a caring girl that cares about other people but I would rather have someone I could relate to and have the same interests as me (ie anime, video games, science etc).

>>33272863 (OP)
>relate to a woman
You will never relate to a woman, and you should never expect a woman to be able or willing to understand you or help you. You have male friends for that, women are not your peers. Just pick whichever is most attractive.
>picrel
Those are just skins, but all women are the same. I knew a few who looked and acted just like the femcel stereotype and they weren't even virgins.

>>33273040
Hey you asshole. Fucking retract that! Latinas are all very different and have many subcultures! You dicks always fucking do this to us!

>>33272991
>The term "copy-paste Latina" comes from a TikTok trend that emerged around October 2022, describing a specific aesthetic associated with some Latina women. It typically refers to a glamorous makeup style and appearance characterized by long, straight, dark hair, bold makeup with thick brows, long false lashes, winged eyeliner, full lips with brown lip-liner, and often gold jewelry, reminiscent of Mexican-American chola culture or figures like Becky G. The phrase suggests a uniform look that can be "copied and pasted" across individuals, implying a lack of originality or diversity in style.
Basically this anon

>>33273040
Latinas probably have the most personality of any female race

>>33275229
youre joking right

>>33275451
How is he fucking joking you asshole?

Except for the tranny, all are lean and pass.

>>33275229
But it's the same "personality" that all the other ones have.