Anonymous
6/27/2025, 3:51:57 PM No.33282538
There's this girl I get along great but she has a boyfriend, should I leave it or do more soft surgical attacks?
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Thread 33282538 - /adv/ [Archived: 691 hours ago]
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 5:06:44 PM No.33282793
>>33282538 (OP)
WHERE DID YOU GET PICREL
also leave it, not worth the risk that he might hurt you for flirting w her, and you don't want that on your conscience. what if another guy did that to your gf?
WHERE DID YOU GET PICREL
also leave it, not worth the risk that he might hurt you for flirting w her, and you don't want that on your conscience. what if another guy did that to your gf?
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 5:49:35 PM No.33282978
>>33282793
>what if another guy did that to your gf?
True, all girls I vibe with seem to be taken though, guess I have good taste.
>what if another guy did that to your gf?
True, all girls I vibe with seem to be taken though, guess I have good taste.
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 5:53:31 PM No.33282995
>>33282978
you didn't answer my question...........
you didn't answer my question...........
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 6:18:54 PM No.33283061
>>33282538 (OP)
You should leave it. Forget the 'soft surgical attacks'. And also be blunt in what you meant to say: manipulation. You'd skulk around waiting for her to argue with BF so you can whisper sweet reassurances into her ear. Probably driving a wedge between them and convincing her to villainize her BF. Weasel shit, basically. Calling it 'soft surgical attacks' doesn't make it any less weasel-like.
And you shouldn't act like a fucking weasel because you are better than that. If you go ahead with he weasel tactics, you win weasel prizes. What's the weasel prize? A snake. You win a snake-bitch.
Aka you win a girl who can be talked out of loyalty. That's your big grand prize. Yes she would have left her man for (you) and you'll feel a big ego high for a while. Then it wears off. Then you remember she's the type of girl who gives her ear to other men whenever the chips are down. And you will hate her for it. You'll be the next cuck in line. Another weasel will do to you what you did to that other guy.
You should leave it. Forget the 'soft surgical attacks'. And also be blunt in what you meant to say: manipulation. You'd skulk around waiting for her to argue with BF so you can whisper sweet reassurances into her ear. Probably driving a wedge between them and convincing her to villainize her BF. Weasel shit, basically. Calling it 'soft surgical attacks' doesn't make it any less weasel-like.
And you shouldn't act like a fucking weasel because you are better than that. If you go ahead with he weasel tactics, you win weasel prizes. What's the weasel prize? A snake. You win a snake-bitch.
Aka you win a girl who can be talked out of loyalty. That's your big grand prize. Yes she would have left her man for (you) and you'll feel a big ego high for a while. Then it wears off. Then you remember she's the type of girl who gives her ear to other men whenever the chips are down. And you will hate her for it. You'll be the next cuck in line. Another weasel will do to you what you did to that other guy.
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 6:42:49 PM No.33283150
>>33282538 (OP)
Depends on how well you match and how good of a relationship they have. If you feel there is a good connection, you can imply your interest. Just don't prod more than that. If he sucks as a mate, she might ramp up the heat on his ass until she finds a reason to dump him.
It is a weasel thing to do as above anons said, but I don't see it how it could lead to her becoming a serial monkey-brancher.
Depends on how well you match and how good of a relationship they have. If you feel there is a good connection, you can imply your interest. Just don't prod more than that. If he sucks as a mate, she might ramp up the heat on his ass until she finds a reason to dump him.
It is a weasel thing to do as above anons said, but I don't see it how it could lead to her becoming a serial monkey-brancher.
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 6:46:46 PM No.33283163
>>33283150
>I don't see it how it could lead to her becoming a serial monkey-brancher.
Because humans have a nasty habit of repeating patterns of behaviour. Especially the ones that give them short term gain. She will remember that monkey-branching worked for her before. And when things get tough between OP and the girl he weaseled and simped for, she's gonna look to that sweet monkeybranch again. The only reason why OP may not see that as reality is if he is delusional and thinks that he is a special exception and he is a special person. No one is special. Reality is when you date a monkeybrancher, you get monkeybranching prizes.
>I don't see it how it could lead to her becoming a serial monkey-brancher.
Because humans have a nasty habit of repeating patterns of behaviour. Especially the ones that give them short term gain. She will remember that monkey-branching worked for her before. And when things get tough between OP and the girl he weaseled and simped for, she's gonna look to that sweet monkeybranch again. The only reason why OP may not see that as reality is if he is delusional and thinks that he is a special exception and he is a special person. No one is special. Reality is when you date a monkeybrancher, you get monkeybranching prizes.
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 7:20:14 PM No.33283267
>>33282995
'True' confirmed the implied negativity in the question, which appears rhetorical.
'True' confirmed the implied negativity in the question, which appears rhetorical.
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 7:47:39 PM No.33283387
>>33283267
true, i should've guessed that
true, i should've guessed that
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 10:49:29 PM No.33283979
>>33282538 (OP)
If she's willing to leave him for you, she'll be willing to leave you for someone else. So, basically, if you succeed, you shouldn't want her.
If she's willing to leave him for you, she'll be willing to leave you for someone else. So, basically, if you succeed, you shouldn't want her.
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 2:40:23 AM No.33284653
>>33282538 (OP)
Having a female platonic friend you get along with well is lovely actually.
But judging by what you said that's not what you're interested in, so safe both of you the trouble and don't try any shit.
Having a female platonic friend you get along with well is lovely actually.
But judging by what you said that's not what you're interested in, so safe both of you the trouble and don't try any shit.
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 5:05:15 AM No.33285063
>Should I desecrate the bro code and steal another guy's girl like a piece of shit, or should I recognized there're billions of fish in the sea and find my own?
Men are supposed to be one, giant team, always sticking together. It's women who should suffer lives plagued by infighting.
Men are supposed to be one, giant team, always sticking together. It's women who should suffer lives plagued by infighting.
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 7:17:22 AM No.33285562
>>33285063
Wtf are you talking about? All guys do is compete with one another and size up other guys. Constant chimp dominance status assessments in every interaction.
Wtf are you talking about? All guys do is compete with one another and size up other guys. Constant chimp dominance status assessments in every interaction.
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 7:20:10 AM No.33285570
>>33282538 (OP)
The game isn't over until she's married.
The game isn't over until she's married.
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 2:45:56 AM No.33288829
>>33285562
That's just bread and circus for the plebs.
That's just bread and circus for the plebs.
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 2:48:09 AM No.33288839
>>33282538 (OP)
Would you really want to be with someone that you know is a cheater? You can always wait until she's single, but that is a losing game in most cases. Go find someone single. You won't regret it, and she'll be there if she ever breaks it off with that guy. Never commit to a girl who got with you by cheating on her ex, and yes, emotional cheating is still cheating.
Would you really want to be with someone that you know is a cheater? You can always wait until she's single, but that is a losing game in most cases. Go find someone single. You won't regret it, and she'll be there if she ever breaks it off with that guy. Never commit to a girl who got with you by cheating on her ex, and yes, emotional cheating is still cheating.
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 12:33:10 PM No.33289960
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 1:23:56 PM No.33290099
>>33282538 (OP)
Think about it, either current guy is a placeholder bf or you're her plan B that she only monkeybranches to if certain conditions are fulfilled. This is not long term material girl.
Think about it, either current guy is a placeholder bf or you're her plan B that she only monkeybranches to if certain conditions are fulfilled. This is not long term material girl.