Thread 33296685

met a woman on a dating app. we went on one date and she said she had fun, but she cancelled our second date hours before. i assumed she was no longer interested but then she randomly sent me her phone number. i texted her saying we should go out again and she said definitely. should i attempt to schedule another date with her? i was thinking saturday because she works during the week, but it'll be two weeks since our first date and i wont want to lose the momentum. should I just go for it?

>>33296685 (OP)
STOP APPROACHING WOMEN. STOP USING ONLINE APPS. STOP GIVING WOMEN ATTENTION

Stop Asking Women On Dates, stop texting them thinking you are interesting because you are not. The reason you are getting ghosted is because you text and try to be funny, try to make her laugh or sound interesting. If you do manage to go to the next step and are actually meeting up and then get ghosted, stop taking women on dates. That stuff doesn't work anymore in the current year.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pyEdsrfTd6Q
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gK1w1cAKS7o

Most importantly stop approaching women, at least for a while. They are already seething and this will only get worse and worse as they get less and less attention from men.
If men can't display a modicum of power over society, this world and women, then I guess they don't hold much power at all.

Don't stress about her and let her schedule and reach out. Go play some Umihara Kawase or Coropata instead

>>33296685 (OP)
Nah, she cancelled - unless she gave a valid reason and apologised then she isn't worth any more time and energy

Let her do the heavy lifting for date 2 - if she wants it she can let you know, suggest something fun and make an effort. If she doesn't then you have your answer

Don't lower your standards, flakey people don't deserve effort

>>33296759
>Let her do the heavy lifting for date 2 - if she wants it she can let you know
i know people say this but i dont think she's going to text me. i think giving me her number is the most she's going to do, and i still want to see her again even if that's the case.

>>33296793
What do you want from her? If you are desperate to fuck her then you are right it probably wont happen without you shamelessly trying and ignoring her blatant fuckery

But if you ever want to have a good relationship with her then you have to be stronger than her and need her less than she needs you. Your best bet is to let her set up the date even if thats only a 1% chance. Its zero if you cuck out.

>>33296832
i think her deciding to send me her number and responding to my text was an indicator of interest.
>But if you ever want to have a good relationship with her then you have to be stronger than her and need her less than she needs you
this sounds like redpill/PUA shit. im not interested in pretending not to care to look cool. im not in high school anymore. the odds of her ever texting me are zero because she's a female on a dating app with thousands of options at her disposal, i dont think waiting for her or any woman to magically cherry pick me is a good idea because it will never happen.

>>33296864
Sounds like you've made your mind up

Text her, ask her out and see how it goes. Not sure what else you want to hear

>>33296685 (OP)
LOL. Serves you right. And also, I won't read app-addled threads. They're totally delusional and you're a cowardly, subhuman retard for avoiding irl approaches.