Loving my butter body gf - /adv/ (#33329599) [Archived: 339 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/7/2025, 11:02:18 PM No.33329599
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I got really lucky and met a 10/10 looking 18 year old girl, she is everything I want as far as values and behavior towards me (m24). However, when the night came after our engagement (1 month into our relationship after much begging from her) I saw her naked.

Her breasts are deflated and seem to start from 6cm lower than you would expect and are nearly 2 feet long. I have since Googled soggy breasts and hers are more severe than any examples I could find for an otherwise healthy body.

Besides that she has hip dips and is slightly overweight, which I don't mind, but I have 0% attraction to her due to the boob issue. I am not a huge boob guy in fact small or big I usually don't care but I guess something inside me is like "don't so this to your descendants anon" and has made me push away her physical advances.

If you saw her and I with our clothes on you would say I am a 7 and give her a 9 or 10. However without clothes and it would look like a 60 year old mother of 6 stole a cheerleader's head.

I really love her but find her naked body so disgusting, I have been trying to stare at images of soggy boobs and learn to love them but I just can't...

I brought this up as gently and lovingly as I could 1 month ago and she about killed herself.
We are engaged and both our families love each other, she is willing to meet my emotional needs, and yet... I am thinking of saying "it's not you it's me." Which is true.

I am sure someone will find her beautiful but I feel like I am cheating her of a great life if she married me and I secretly gagged at her grandma boobs. I was hopeful she would let me pay for a boob lift but after talking to her and seeing her breakdown it seems like she is happy and finds what she calls "her sad dog ears" beautiful.

What would you do in my position? Move on and give up all the other pros for some shallow desires. Or pay for psycho therapy until I love saggy 2 foot rope tits??
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 11:03:41 PM No.33329611
>>33329599 (OP)
Act like everything is normal and then one day disappear and skip town.
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 11:07:30 PM No.33329743
>>33329599 (OP)
>I brought this up as gently and lovingly as I could 1 month ago and she about killed herself.
are you actually retarded and fucked in the head? Is this your first relationship. Christ man. She is absolutely going to leave you, tell you that you were mean, she met a nicer guy, and youre going to spend the next three years thinking about how you miss her saggy (not soggy you retard) breasts. Hope you unfuck your head. Fumbling an 18 year old is not some casual thing you recover from. Get it together. Watch videos on how to keep a relationship. You are severely autistic.
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 11:22:34 PM No.33329860
>>33329743
Both saggy and soggy are informal terms people use for long tits.

I actually had a 6 year relationship before where the physical attraction was there but we had different values (she was into egirl shit and very stuff pls had a ton of guy friends)

I get your point though, these is a lot to be lost here I just would hate to look at my granddaughters and realize I cursed them with some very abnormal traits.

I have always been lucky with girls despite about average looks and I recently became very wealthy so I don't think I couldn't replace her it's just I never thought I would consider breaking up with someone for something they couldn't control.

I opened up to my parents about this and they said even if she got surgery attraction is deeper and I would likely never feel it for her, even though they both like her they think this will hurt even more if we get married and try to work through it.

Also what's the difference if she is 18 on paper but looks 60 in the flesh?
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 11:30:51 PM No.33329908
>>33329599 (OP)
2/10 bait. Do better.
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 11:37:11 PM No.33329949
>>33329908

Some details have been changed for anonymity but this is all true. I will post some pics In a bit but I have nothing of her shirtless ofc.
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 11:49:13 PM No.33330009
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>>33329908
Her with clothes (she looks hot)
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 11:56:43 PM No.33330035
>>33329599 (OP)
your mind is fried by porn
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 11:59:36 PM No.33330048
>>33330035
I agree it definitely is, that is a huge factor.

I also have a huge dating history and I after 10 or so sexual partners I have never felt this way about a female body. Maybe this is an appeal to irrelevant authority, oh well.

Sounds like the consensus here is to get over my shallowness and count my blessings.
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 12:08:42 AM No.33330073
>>33329599 (OP)
>nearly 2 feet long
rofl

how do they feel?
if you're not a boob guy, just don't look at them
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 12:14:44 AM No.33330096
>>33330073
They feel like ball sacks without balls inside just the mammary glands. The skin is a bit scrunched together like older person with think skin and I work about being rough with them because they are long and large but the surface area of attachment is actually kinda small.

Like starving to ticks I am worried playing with them will cause them to detach...
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 12:15:52 AM No.33330102
>>33330073
Sorry at the airport *thin skin

*I worry about being rough
.
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 12:17:31 AM No.33330115
Can't you get her to keep her bra on?

also, why do you give in to her emotional episodes? she's 18, what else is she gonna do? just move on with you life
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 12:20:19 AM No.33330130
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I never thought I would care so much about boobs but these thing have take up dozens of hours of brain time for me and I am constantly going back and forth on wether it is deal breaker or not.

They are grade 3 but a foot longer
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 12:28:10 AM No.33330190
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>>33330115
>>33330115
That's an idea.

Any ideas of how to bring this up and not give in to the emotional episode or risk suicide? Last time I said "I already think you are very beautiful, but there are some things I would like to work on with you." This was after a very nice diner and in a fancy hotel.

I'm just thinking if this is her at 18 what will 60 be like
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 12:38:55 AM No.33330258
I am just being a huge autistist just forget this all.
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 1:41:07 AM No.33330517
>>33330009
>maxidress
>no face

totally unable to determine hotness try again
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 7:55:26 AM No.33332560
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>>33330517
Not doxxing myself and her lol
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 7:59:49 AM No.33332573
>>33329599 (OP)
The larp is still obvious
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 8:09:30 AM No.33332606
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>>33332573

Is this a good thing or bad thing, say hypothetically if I was in this position would it be a good one or a bad one?
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 8:14:07 AM No.33332616
>>33329599 (OP)
Did she used to be fat then lost a lot of weight?
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 8:18:22 AM No.33332633
>>33329860
She should lose weight and also does she drink a lot? I dunno what values you have, but looking 60 before even reaching your 20s shows she's lazy, irresponsible and entitled. Physical attraction is a big deal, though in ideal circumstances you shouldn't have seen her naked before marriage, but just the fact she is fat is a huge red flag.

>>33330009
From the photo alone, besides her tight skin, I can see she is misshapen. Shoulders wider than her hips, that hints at a masculine character structure and her sitting down you see all the fat bulging. You have low standards man, so either make it quick and break up or encourage her to be healthy and be patient. Hope you didn't have sex yet because then the break up will be traumatic as hell for her.
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 8:21:19 AM No.33332637
>>33332616
Yes!

But she lost it around 15ish so I thought the skin would heal.
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 8:22:54 AM No.33332648
>>33330009
>here's your tradwife anon
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 8:24:29 AM No.33332656
>>33332633
Fuck, fuck, fuck everything you said was true and yeah we did it, I knew what I was getting into I will try to talk to her again with a bunch of love but more focusing on actions we will take. She does have very wide shoulders and is slightly misshapen. I am hoping it is due to her childhood obesity and not genetic so that if we have kids they have a shot and being beautiful without needing operations.

I don't mind the extra flab and hip dips but the shoulders, back and boobs worry me so much.

She has a good heart and soul and I hope what you are saying isn't 100% about her character but I have started to notice more and more fat positive sayings slip out of her mouth.
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 8:27:49 AM No.33332670
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>>33332648
No joke she is willing to be a tradwife and she has a lot of positives besides a few physical issues, I just don't know how to balance my grossed-out-ness and my care for her and my children's future.
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Zach
7/8/2025, 8:41:11 AM No.33332703
You can be a bit more in a positive way autistic, but just don't go too far into being a Eugene which is where I am at.
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 8:58:02 AM No.33332746
>>33332703
thanks, gl to u 2
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 9:10:17 AM No.33332775
>>33332656
Sex complicates things more than necessary, patience is a virtue for a reason. That's the reason she is friendly and "tradwife material", because she was morbidly obese and has low self-esteem. She is basically a girl so her affection to you is pure but at the same time she is simply not attractive, which is crucial. See it like that, her virtue comes from a position of weakness which nullifies it as virtue. If she would be a bombshell supermodel with modesty and humility and all the tradwife traits you want, that would be virtue from a position of strength.

I don't say throw her away, plus you are engaged, only after one month, which shows the immaturity of both of you. I hope she was not a virgin when you started having sex, now that would make things difficult.

Her fat positivity comments can be seen as her coping for you not finding her attractive. She already lost a lot of weight and she can lose more, but her flabby skin would still be there.

I tell you all this because I was in a similar situation but my ex girlfriend was a supermodel with her looks and virtuous, she just had autistic and masculine traits that made her unbearable, so I broke it off, and it was the best choice.
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 9:14:02 AM No.33332787
>>33329599 (OP)
this is why you fuck before marrying
I've met girls like this
I've fucked them out of courtesy and never called them again
I'm not a tit guy, like OP, I've had gfs that were flat as a board
but saggy tits don't look like bad tits, they look like sick tits, totally unappealing
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Zach
7/8/2025, 9:17:35 AM No.33332798
>>33332787
Okay then, despite it being a new wave thing, I still think it's a good idea to wait until marriage... Though too often hot women think I'm gay for that despite not recognizing I have bonners about them trying to keep it in to be logical... -_- Sex before marriage is a good idea. It helps make sure you have a son or daughter at the right time. It makes sure you are responsible too.
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 9:19:51 AM No.33332806
>>33332798
you're the fortune cookie guy, opinion discarded
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 9:20:12 AM No.33332807
>>33332775
Thanks for the wisdom and advice, You are right on all counts.

Its as if you met us or saw the relationship form, I guess I will wait and see and work on myself but keeping in mind she is playing from weakness right now I will plan what's next.

She was a virgin.

I took a lot from her and I owe her a lot to make up for it and just dumping her and calling her ugly would be evil.

I can play the victim and say she begged to have sex and she pushed for the engagement, but I know I was in charge given my age. She just wanted security and to be wanted and that's why she rushed so it could be something formal and strong.

I will admit I wanted to see what she looked like before getting to serious, but I really just couldn't and still can't process I have finally met a girl I am not attracted to. I have had low standards of years but I never saw a girl besides my mom and grandma that I felt negative attraction to. IU did and still do think something is wrong with me and one day I will snap and she will be attractive.

Maybe it is doable? I know it would be way easier if she lost some weight and let me pay for a boob lift to repair her case study sever ptosis (her bra completely hides it).

I know she is just coping, and I know she is really deeply attached to me and if I gave an ultimatum of her losing weight and going along with surgeries she likely would but that is not healthy and not a relationship either of us should be in.

I don' want to throw her away but I am so sad she has to be like this. I thought I found the one but if only she had the body of my ex with that beautiful heart and mind of hers.
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 9:21:57 AM No.33332810
>>33332787
I am even partial to flat or strange tits but it honestly grosses me out when I lift her above me but even a full arm length like a father with a baby her chest is still touching me...
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 9:22:58 AM No.33332813
>>33332806
What is this?
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 9:25:12 AM No.33332816
>>33329599 (OP)
If you are attracted to the person inside the packaging, you come to find the packaging attractiv. If the packaging is such an obstacle, the attraction to the person can't be that strong.

Or save up to buy her a boob job
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 9:32:18 AM No.33332830
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>>33332807
I can play the victim and say she begged to have sex and she pushed for the engagement, but I know I was in charge given my age. She just wanted security and to be wanted and that's why she rushed so it could be something formal and strong.
That's a bad sign. Yes, you were not man enough to tell her to fuck off, but her clinginess is bad, pushing for engagement and marriage, a grave decision, and her not caring about how you wanna got about it, is insane. Now she has you in the guilt spiral and it was likely planned by her since she thought she couldn't hook a man otherwise.

At least my ex never guilt tripped me about any sacrifices she made. Which makes sense when you consider love always gives and never takes.
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 9:47:08 AM No.33332864
>>33330009
that's a tranny
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 10:02:39 AM No.33332909
>>33332637
Well, excess skin after weight loss can be fixed with surgery. Tummy tucks, arm lifts, thigh lifts, breast lifts, etc.
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 10:12:50 AM No.33332927
>>33332775
>she just had autistic and masculine traits that made her unbearable

can you give an example?
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 2:00:06 PM No.33333336
How do you worthless fucks get girlfriends at all?
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 2:03:19 PM No.33333356
Why do Americans hate cute young girls so much?

Post moar ugly old ladies, you granny loving faggots. Muricans like their women old and disgusting. Your 14 year old daughters want sex with 30 year old men and you act like faggots all day.

What do you think about 11 year olds being legal in France? Why do faggos still call hot teens with huge boobs "kids"?
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 3:44:52 AM No.33336964
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Op here,

I'm still so conflicted over all of this, I feel like there's a stone in my mouth. She's noticed that I've not been as affectionate. When I'm at work or at the store I've noticed that I'm looking at other women just almost scientifically or medically to compare and I just don't understand how she is so different and why I find most girls my or her age way more appealing than her.

I'm so upset at myself for letting it get this far and not just stopping it at the beginning. I went along with everything and just had fun and now I have really messed up a girl for life.

I can't just look at her and say: " yes, you've done everything I've asked and you have all the right beliefs and traits, but because of the way you look this isn't going to work out." So I'm just here drifting in this relationship now. I feel so bad taking so much from her and leaving her so damaged, this really is a horrible crime and sin that I'm going to have to live with for the rest of my life. I'm so sorry to her.
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 4:05:39 AM No.33337042
>>33336964
Get her a boob job, you fucking boob
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 4:08:12 AM No.33337049
>>33329599 (OP)
>hip dips
this is a total non issue caused by literally having a pelvis. it sounds to me like your too hooked up on social media apps and beauty trends
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 4:09:04 AM No.33337054
>>33337049
Hip dips are something only women could come up with. What bullshit.
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 4:16:52 AM No.33337095
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>>33337049
May that is not the right term this is what I mean:

And I like I said I don't mind them or the slight pudginess. What worries me is the very long boobs and if that is genetic or purely weight loss, like there's no way some girls are programmed to have grandma boobs right? This is all due to a bad lifestyle, right?!
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 4:20:26 AM No.33337117
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>>33337042
How would you bring up the topic without being a boob to her?
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 4:21:28 AM No.33337121
>>33337095
This google search result is like 100% accurate to what she looks like naked.
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 4:24:20 AM No.33337135
>>33332909
It could be, if the person with it saw it as a problem the issue is I have seen all around the bell curve and she hasn't so I know what avg/normal is and she doesn't. I am glad she loves and accepts herself and I don't want to destroy this confidence she has but I also would like to be attracted to my future wife :/

Maybe there is something deeper at play here because I usually don't get hung up on physical stuff but this has been so difficult to put out of my mind.
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 5:59:50 AM No.33337513
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>>33337095
yeah idk that looks like a congenital problem. I get they call the depression "hip dips" but it's purely devious to equate it to pic rel. probably a ploy to fuel the medical industrial complex.
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 6:12:26 AM No.33337578
>>33337513
Can anyone here diagnose this, everything online is vague and the image search said it was for a BBL/Cellulite removal. What else could this be?

Doesn't seem to be dysplasia.
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 6:26:02 AM No.33337672
>>33337578
Well I am learning more about biology and human anatomy than I ever expected, it seems like she has an extremely flared iliac crest in her hips plus genetics that don't distribute fat evenly.

I wonder if it would look better if she was thin? Or maybe it would be more obvious, sadly I cant find much images of women with these features who are healthy weight.
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 6:32:17 AM No.33337703
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>>33337095
>>33337513
My guess is if she was 100% fit she would look like this?
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 7:23:42 PM No.33340146
>>33329599 (OP)
>>33336964

Grass is always greenest where you water it. however saggy tits a negative health marker, its probably her biggest insecurity.

Very tricky situation you're in, no one's perfect. its a good situation, I wouldn't just blow it up for no reason. yknow, its just one aspect. if you can't handle it I'm not blaming you but like this nigga says. she can just wear a bra>>33330115

I would keep it to myself, but then again, I'm not in your situation, I had a similar one, she was 18/19, and she was a bit overweight, but aside from that she was great. Looking back on it now. I should have adopted the grass is greenest where you water it mentality or made a big stink about it. She's an immature girl, great in some regards, but you're not having a conversation that doesn't nuke her ego and strain your relationship
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 7:29:31 PM No.33340162
You're mentally ill
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 7:11:45 AM No.33342501
>>33330009
>is
>>33330035
>>33332560
>>33332606
>>33332670
Straight up, as a former /fit/fag I can tell just from her arms alone and the choice of clothing that something is off >>33332633 couldn't have put it better, but with the eye to know, I know.
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 7:59:07 AM No.33342576
>>33342501
I don't know if I answered the earlier question but she doesn't smoke or drink or even caffeine.


She believes in traditional womanhood and has a lot of my traditional beliefs when it comes to culture and such things.

Those are answers to the previous reply if I didn't respond to them.


Yeah, something is definitely off. By your first reply, are you saying that she is hot in that picture?

I haven't brought up any of this to her yet and I'm not too sure how to go about it, in the past when I've hinted at things like that, she's mentioned that she's at a healthy BMI and that she's not obese and so she's happy considering that she's healthy. I'm not too sure how to make the argument that she's not healthy and that it's not just me wanting her to be hotter.
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 8:00:45 AM No.33342579
>>33340146
I guess my biggest concern at this point, if I have daughters, are they going to have saggy tits too or if they maintain a normal weight during childhood Will they be able to be normal women?
Anonymous
7/10/2025, 8:01:56 AM No.33342581
>>33340162
Thanks for using the correct form of you're.

I'm by mental ill because I'm mistaken about her?

I know I probably am, but I don't think it's crazy to be concerned by very saggy tits at a young age.
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 8:02:57 AM No.33342582
>>33342581
* Am I mentally ill because I'm mistaken about the situation?
Anonymous
7/10/2025, 10:20:36 AM No.33342729
>>33329599 (OP)
I have the exact same problem with my girlfriend. Her body is such a turn off to me in the exact same way as you describe but it's not like I'm in good shape so it feels churlish for it to be a big issue yet I struggle to stay hard. And she fucking stinks down there
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 10:24:42 AM No.33342735
suggest a breast reduction
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 10:28:59 AM No.33342739
>>33337135
I mean to be fair, 2 foot boobs are fucking insane.
>>33342735 Brings up a good point. You could try framing it in a way that you don't have to tell her her long ass tits are gross.
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 11:01:08 AM No.33342788
I must thank you anon.
Thanks to you I have overcome my insecurities about my own body.
I realize that the porn I've been watching is not real and your post has been the bitchslap I needed
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 11:59:34 AM No.33342886
>>33329599 (OP)
I think if you've posted this long about it, the fact is you'd have a tough time getting another woman so you're just sticking with her out of comfort. I would've gotten out of there. You can't stick with a partner who you find disgusting, it's nature's way of telling you to get out of there.
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 12:44:07 PM No.33342940
>>33342739
And also get in better shape. I donโ€™t wanna say lose weight because sheโ€™s seems skinny fat to me.
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 1:09:50 PM No.33342999
>>33329599 (OP)
>soggy breasts
OMFG, I am laughing so hard!
>hip dips are bad
So youโ€™ve never, ever seen a non-obese woman naked before?!
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 1:10:51 PM No.33343000
>>33329860
>Both saggy and soggy are informal terms people use for long tits.
No. Theyโ€™re not.
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 1:15:54 PM No.33343010
IMG_6500
IMG_6500
md5: c098ea17c2b3dcc22999f9178a6f4975๐Ÿ”
>>33329860
>very lucky with women, but think the TikTok meme of hip dips is real
>multiple GFs including a 6 year relationship that ended before current GF, but I am only 24 years old
>got engaged after ONE MONTH but now the families are so close and invested that I canโ€™t break up with here after another week
>im also rich, now
>my parents think I can never find her attractive rather than point out Iโ€™m being shallow AG
This shit is so fake Iโ€™m half convinced you donโ€™t have parents.
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 1:22:05 PM No.33343020
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md5: 4f8f5e3297e3a751656c1bca4207d5ea๐Ÿ”
>>33330009
>insists heโ€™s great with women
>insists heโ€™s engaged to a 10/10
>posts picture of a 5/10-6/10 that looks like she was dressed by a blind orangutan with anger issues
This LARP gets so bad I think OP is a comedian
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 1:23:08 PM No.33343024
>>33330096
OP confirmed to have never touched tits
Anonymous
7/10/2025, 1:25:30 PM No.33343030
>>33332670
>>33332606
>>33332560
>class this 10/10
OP is havin a giggle
Anonymous
7/10/2025, 5:29:59 PM No.33343674
>>33342735
How would you present the topic?

>>33342729
I'm not sure if you are serious, but if you are, what are you doing about the situation and what are your long term plans?

>>33342739
They really are, completely insane. So much so it's hard for me to imagine if they were normal. So, part of me even asks if post op it would even be better. It's hard for me to visualize.
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 5:31:21 PM No.33343680
>>33342788
You're welcome, is it because I'm being unrealistic and absorbed by the industry with my mindset?
Wdmvd
>>33342886
What if it's just fat phobia though? What if if she was a normal BMI I would be really attracted it to her?

>>33342940
From what I've understood, you can't out exercise a bad diet. Not saying that exercise would be bad but ultimately is probably calorie intake.

>>33342999
I was using the wrong term earlier after another anon pointed it out. I found the correct term for what I would describe is extreme flared iliac crests.

>>33343000
If you don't have the seconds to Google that this is actually true then then I don't want to discuss the words soggy and saggy with you.
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 6:06:42 PM No.33343785
>>33343010
When you put it like that it does sound really fake and gay, and I am OP.

All I can say is ages and timeline has been changed to muddle details so I don't doxx myself.

Also I am not rich rich, I am just going from making 95k at my current job to 140k at the one I am starting soon. So much better off.

>>33343020
This did make me giggle but I actually like her outfits. Really, 6/10? I think that's fair for her body but the face is 10/10.
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 7:44:27 PM No.33344153
>>33342576
No, I'm saying she's not my type, something about her body type screams that something is misshapen, I'm sure she's lovely as a person, but the general body shape is off
Anonymous
7/10/2025, 8:18:30 PM No.33344267
>>33343785
Sorry, anon, but the other anon is being very generous at a 5/6. I don't enjoy hating people on a scale but she doesn't look good.
Anonymous
7/10/2025, 8:23:02 PM No.33344284
>>33336964
>I can't just look at her and say: " yes, you've done everything I've asked and you have all the right beliefs and traits, but because of the way you look this isn't going to work out."
Why not?

She's not damaged, she played you.
She knows what she looks like, and waited till she thought you would feel trapped. She's playing you now.
Anonymous
7/10/2025, 10:06:57 PM No.33344627
long titties
long titties
md5: cbdfd62c65fa71a05940453dbf53e185๐Ÿ”
>>33343674
>They really are, completely insane. So much so it's hard for me to imagine if they were normal. So, part of me even asks if post op it would even be better. It's hard for me to visualize.
If you're afraid of confronting her directly about it, try watching episodes of South Park with her that feature picrel. I'd recommend season 5, "Proper Condom Use" and season 4, "Fourth Grade". This may get her to realize her tits aren't normal without you having to say anything.
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 10:10:02 PM No.33344638
>>33344627
Just to add on to this, watch "Fourth Grade" first since it has characters being visibly disgusted by her tits including Chef vomiting. Make sure you laugh really loud at that part.
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 11:40:02 PM No.33344936
>>33332606
thats a man
Anonymous
7/11/2025, 2:12:46 AM No.33345422
>>33332670
She looks like she never did any physical labour and eats like shit, the amiss idea of a trad wife.
Might be on the line of in shape for the american BMI, but we would call her fat in Italy.
Honestly, if I were you I would be honest with her, you can't change your attraction and your resentment of doing something you hate will only grow. She's still young, if she wants help after you leave her you can give it to her. But you'll never be in actual good terms for a few years.
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Anonymous
7/11/2025, 5:36:39 AM No.33346221
>nearly 2 feet long breasts
>secretly gagged at her grandma boobs
>sad dog ears
>psycho therapy until I love saggy 2 foot rope tits??
>saggy 2 foot rope tits
>saggy (not soggy you retard) breasts

kek this thread, thanks for the laughs everybody
well you took her virginity. so you either eat the cake now or get stoned to death. (in terms of kharmic and dharmic universal cosmological laws)
if shes got the correct values and character, thats already rare. her tits will inflate more and more with every child, probably same with her "hip-dips".
if you decide to stay, you better learn FAST how to architect and care for YOUR woman. you entangled with her and she with you.
>>33332775
good post
>autistic and masculine traits
hormonal imbalances, that can be easily rectyfied/solved. sad
>>33337703
no that is not healthy either. you have wrong perceptions, prob tainted by media
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Anonymous
7/11/2025, 9:28:24 PM No.33349176
>>33344638
>>33344627
Great idea thanks!
Anonymous
7/11/2025, 9:34:13 PM No.33349193
>>33346221
>no that is not healthy either.
Why?

>If shes got the correct values and character, thats already rare.
It really is so rare and after being with a lot of people I know I will never see someone with values like this again. I just need to rest for a while and see what happens :/

>her tits will inflate more and more with every child, probably same with her "hip-dips".
I can barely stand the way it is now, I don't think I can take that...
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Anonymous
7/11/2025, 9:37:35 PM No.33349204
wewewe
wewewe
md5: ec21bc5f1bcd37954acb27734a169358๐Ÿ”
OP here, again.

I think this shows that she is pretty in other ways a bit better without the face.
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Anonymous
7/11/2025, 9:44:23 PM No.33349214
wewewe
wewewe
md5: 3aab2e88bd8a0f77a051b08403df3b63๐Ÿ”
>>33345422
I hope this is not true, there is no way I would go back to her after all this, I wish we hadn't met and done all we have, but we have.
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Anonymous
7/11/2025, 9:46:48 PM No.33349224
>>33344627
This thread Holy shit lmao
Anonymous
7/11/2025, 9:54:11 PM No.33349246
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1750516232280715
md5: 693b9ab3512f1a94f15c5d05a177aaa9๐Ÿ”
>>33332927
>can you give an example?
She has a pathological and misplaced sense of pride, you'd usually see in men, so hardened in certain opinions and thought patterns it is repulsive and autistic. Also, always has the tendency to be submissive in things that do not matter but rebellious in things that are crucial. Kind of an upside-down character. Femine where it doesn't matter, masculine when she shouldn't be. In the first months I thought she will naturally learn, and even with advice and instructions all of my teaching her was useless. She cannot help herself and I had to break up before I killed her. This kind of behavior drives you nuts. Never had a girl like this before.

>>33346221
>hormonal imbalances, that can be easily rectyfied/solved. sad
I don't think so, read post above.

>>33345422
Anon is right. Skin looks young but not healthy. Not trad wife. Once you marry he I am sure she will inflate quickly.
Anonymous
7/11/2025, 9:57:08 PM No.33349255
>>33349204
>>33349214
You cannot rationalize attraction. Once you get into this trajectory you it is over. Pay her father double the bride price for deflowering her before marriage and ride away into the sunset. This is the most painful yet best course of action.
Anonymous
7/11/2025, 11:12:51 PM No.33349512
>>33349204
OP, I'm telling you, showing her Ms Choksondik from South Park might make her realize what she needs to fix.
Anonymous
7/11/2025, 11:26:03 PM No.33349555
>>33343785
>imma lie some more and reveal I have NO FUCKING IDEA that less than 0.3% of 24 year old men make 120k a year or more
Fuck, kid, give it up
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Anonymous
7/11/2025, 11:32:41 PM No.33349568
IMG_2095
IMG_2095
md5: a40e27db5d74c007a8e8d3be7dcf8eef๐Ÿ”
>>33343680
>If you don't have the seconds to Google that this is actually true
lol
>go to google and bing
>search for soggy tits
>Did You Mean Saggy?
lol
>boolean force for soggy tits only
>Nothing Found
lmao, even.
You are, what? 16? And misheard the word.
I mean, you have no idea how tits look or feel.
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Anonymous
7/11/2025, 11:35:14 PM No.33349571
>>33349204
For fucks sake if you love her and continue to defend her just buy her some new tits and marry her and be happy forever.
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Anonymous
7/12/2025, 12:48:13 AM No.33349806
>>33349555
Well for one I'm not actually 24, I said I changed the ages and some details to make this more Anonymous.
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Anonymous
7/12/2025, 12:49:22 AM No.33349807
>>33349568
Google AI search results said they are both terms.

Even if soggy tits aren't real, they are now. I've seen them
Anonymous
7/12/2025, 12:51:20 AM No.33349814
>>33349571
Are the kids going to have saggy tits too?
Anonymous
7/12/2025, 1:33:09 AM No.33350005
>>33349806
>I lied about everything
we know
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Anonymous
7/12/2025, 2:01:44 AM No.33350115
>>33350005
Dude if you're mad and don't believe me that's okay, I have bigger issues. I deflowered some girl I am thinking of leaving and introduced her to relatives and my dying grandma as my fiancรฉ. She's wearing a 3k ring and thinks everything's fine and I am going to have to break her heart at some point. I wish this was fake, I wish I was living at my parents basement instead of this shit.
Anonymous
7/12/2025, 2:13:48 AM No.33350135
>>33329611
Best advice here.
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Anonymous
7/12/2025, 2:17:26 AM No.33350141
>>33329599 (OP)
I think you should just cherish what you already have. Good luck finding another partner if this one fails. You'll get over it with time anon trust the process.
Anonymous
7/12/2025, 2:19:18 AM No.33350145
>>33330009
>that dress lol
She could certainly use some fashion sense if nothing else.
Anonymous
7/12/2025, 2:23:30 AM No.33350154
>>33350135
probs sadly :(
Anonymous
7/12/2025, 2:36:07 AM No.33350188
>>33336964
You're breaking her heart OP, gotta fix things now.
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Anonymous
7/12/2025, 2:45:54 AM No.33350214
>>33350188
:( okay
Anonymous
7/12/2025, 2:49:31 AM No.33350224
If you dump her, youโ€™ll never know love and your tainted retard genes will never pass on. Itโ€™s a win-win scenario.

A tradwife like her isnโ€™t likely to find happiness in life, but sheโ€™ll probably find a better man to give her life meaning through childbirth. Maybe heโ€™d be smart enough to fuck her while sheโ€™s wearing a sports bra and get a boob job once sheโ€™s done having kids?
Anonymous
7/12/2025, 5:35:43 PM No.33352734
>>33349193
>why?
do i really have to? ok
bad hairline
overall weird face structure, protruding chin
bad eating habits, bad or weird genetic makeup as unusual and survival-detrimental fat distribution
overall deformed body, no discipline
probably american

>It really is so rare and after being with a lot of people I know I will never see someone with values like this again.
well then theres your answer OP. she is probalby loyal too and will die for you if you tell her to.
you stay and architect her body.

>I just need to rest for a while and see what happens :/
you need to get, sorry, your head out of your ass and grasp your luck with both hands as long as shes still there. and apologise like the other anon mentioned
>>33349204
is her hair really that blonde? natural or is it artificially coloured? if natural, thats really a beauty

if all alchemistic attempts at rectifiying her boobs fail, you still can put a sack-cloth over her body when having sex, like the amish people do. under the guise of "God is watching" or something.
Anonymous
7/12/2025, 5:45:08 PM No.33352755
>>33337095
>like there's no way some girls are programmed to have grandma boobs right? This is all due to a bad lifestyle, right?!
You googled pictures of saggy breasts but not causes when you're mainly worried about the latter?