>>33366633 (OP)Alpha forums and other shit that tries to emulate Chad behaviour are usually full of men who compensate for their lack of masculinity. I wouldn’t care about it OP. Masculinity is about one thing and one thing only: Capability.
Aka, ‘having what it takes’. To do what? Anything at all. Doesn’t matter if it’s fighting, learning, building, destroying, creating, hunting, running, lifting, protecting, providing, whatever. It’s about being capable to do what you set out to do, seeing it through, and finishing the job come hell or high water. That’s the quintessence of male efficiency. Having the power to think of something to do, then making it happen in real life. You think it, then say it, then go and do it, and that’s what makes you a man.
If you aren’t capable to do the thing you want, that’s fine. That doesn’t make you less of a man. Because all it means is being capable of becoming capable over time, over learning, over suffering, over growing, over repitition and practice until eventually you slay the problem and you finish what you started. Still makes you capable. Don’t matter if you can do it today, or if it takes you decades. Long as it’s done, it’s proof you had it in you to do it.
There’s lots of ‘true tests’ of masculinity. The biggest one is suffering. Real suffering, not the mental neurotic kind. The type that happens whether you want it or not, like a death in the family or a sudden catastrophe or crisis. You get to find out what kind of man you are when Hell approaches. Because then you are forced to answer the question: “What should I do? What can I do?” then you’ll know.
Ignore any closet gays who try to convince you its about looking or dressing a certain way. That’s vanity. Vanity is a girl’s domain.
