How do I text women?
What do I text women about? Can't think of anything because autistic.
How do I build rapport with a woman?

>>33367596 (OP)
If any female was ever interested in you, you wouldn't be asking this question.
Like in fishing, to get the female gender one does not jumps into the water and chases around them like a maniac.
It's all about getting them to bite into your bait. Once they bite, you won't waste time thinking about things like "what to say" or "how should I behave".
Many experienced men will be my witness when I say; "When a girl is into you, you can say the most stupid things and she will laugh and look at you with shining eyes."

>>33367596 (OP)
Are you joking that you're autistic, or are you literally autistic?

>>33367704
I don't want to fish like a beta cuck. I want to tame mares like Chad. I will spot a mare I want, I want to know how to approach her, how to position myself, how to be seen, how to chase and grab. I won't be a cuck waiting to be chosen.

>>33367777
Complex trauma + socialization failure. My mind is spent on worrying about things, I rarely find things funny for their sake, I am moved by emotional stuff, I'm excited about adventure. Whenever I talk with people the tone is heavy and gloomy. My tastes are what you expect from elitism on this site, rather than what's trending right now.

I want to hit it off with girls who are laidback. I want to learn from them. They are usually put off by the heaviness, the depth, and the lack of humor, it makes them tense, but It's the only thing I know.

>>33367596 (OP)
How old are you?

>>33367850
30. I want to date women in their 20s. From talking to a few it seems texting is important, at least if they're attracted to a guy. I don't know how to make myself look attractive, only that the kind of girls i want to date don't find seriousness attractive.

>>33367864
Well they're in their 20s and aware of their SMV. They expect you to be good looking and constantly entertain them like a circus monkey, otherwise they will just go the next guy who is willing to put in more effort. Welcome to the world of dating.

>>33367894
That's exactly what I asked...

>>33367923
Idk bro, maybe look into jestermaxing
But let me tell you, it will not make you happy longterm if you have to put on a persona in order to attract someone
And when you meet them irl they will immediatly notice the discprepancy between your text game and your irl behevior and get the ick
Maybe it would be a better strategy to look for someone who is more compatible with you in the first place

>>33367596 (OP)
You do know what to talk about. Problem is you don't want to talk about it. You are too focused on wanting to know what they, the women, want to hear you talk about.

So then you don't talk at all and don't know what to talk about. Because you wanted predetermined instructions and scripts to follow to get you the outcome you want.

That's the problem, friend. That doesn't work and never works. You should just talk about whatever the fuck you wanna talk about, without caring about how the woman will think about it. Just talk about your actual fascinations and shit you sperg about. No matter how weird or stupid you think that is, do it anyway.

Because women don't actually care what you are fascinated by. You could talk about Warhammer or whatever, or talk about the most epic adventures and coolest shit, does not matter. They don't care.

What they care about is whether or not you are fascinated. So long as you are fascinated by something, anything, then to them, you become fascinating. It shows you have the capacity for passion. That's what women really look for.

>>33368027
That's because I don't want conversations like
>"Hey do you like movies I love master and commander"
>"Yeah"
>"whats your favorite movie, maybe I've watched it"
>"idk"
>"Do you listen to music? I'm into prog rock lately, what are you listening?"
>"you've probably not heard about them"
>"I play a few instruments you know, flute is tricky to play you see"
>"Uhuh"
>"I love animals, I had a lot of birds growing up and I take pictures of them"
>"really"
>"What do you do for fun?"
>"not much"
>"I kinda know a lot about plants as well, do you have something that makes you passionate?"
>"not really"
>"tell me hows your day"
>"not much"
>"what would you like to do after you graduate"
>"work i guess"
>"I haven't seen you in a while, are you free to meet up?"
>"idk"

And so on.

>>33368250
If you're getting conversations like that, she doesn't like you and nothing you say will logically convince her to like you.

>>33368312
And she doesn't like me because...?

>>33368250
hose conversations show the person is boring as fuck. Not you. You are supposed to ditch girls like that bro. Im not a chick but if you spoke to me like that, I’d be enthralled and eager to reply back with actual messages because you’d have asked some interesting shit and brought up decent topics.

Do you vet the chicks before talking to them? What type of chicks you shooting for? Visual wise, what do they typically look like, in their fashion sense and all?

>>33368312
>>33368315
Or putting it another way, I hate texting. I want to talk to these girls face to face. By texting, or lack of texting, or wrong texting, the girls make some idea of me that they don't like. I want them to give me the chance of talking to them face to face. If I just ask them plainly "hey lets meet up" without any flair, I get ghosted.

They don't like me, they don't know me. You say I can't do anything to make them like me, but what they don't like is not me, and they DO lower their defense when texting with other retards. There IS a way to build rapport but I don't know it. Don't con men make a living off building confidence in strangers?

All I know is that women are unable to be interested in genuine nerdy shit. You need to be attractive, that is the only way to lure them in. You also need to show interest in them, and they will take notice. From there, I think it is rather easy. The most difficult/impossible part is being attractive, for a lot of men.

>>33367596 (OP)
Don't text them. Just use text to setup meetings. If they give you some shitty corporate-speak rejection then type it into ChatGPT and ask it to come up with a witty comeback.

>>33368338
They look like this.

>>33368338
The only young women I've talked to who weren't like that were always someone's girlfriend.

>>33367596 (OP)
I won't read texting-analysis threads. Because OP is a perpetually-online subhuman moron, you know that the simple advice "talk to them" is completely over his head and could not be acted upon, ever. He wants a solution that involves magical rituals in his basement and the woman of his dreams literally drops into his corpulent lap. Nothing can be done about this.

>>33368315
How the fuck would anyone here know? We aren't her. There's a million different reasons and most of them are illogical. Attraction isn't a conscious or logical choice.