hi, i'm Mr. Professor, just ask me anything you want to, i will guide you through all battle of life

do i reject arranged marriage and try dating -> marriage on my own? i just want even the slightest lick of control over my own life. if i got arranged someone, id probably purposfully sabotage it just to start anew.

>>33394943
so you are seated in an arranged marriage, and you want to control your life, and you plan and feel like you would reject the marriage after it has been operated.

Anon, i'm sorry to hear that you have been taken out your own decision and got controlled over and has to put your parents' opinion higher than your own. this feels painful and frustrated to hear, it looks like you don't have freedom and disrespected, and locked in a position where you don't feel like going

but look, Anon, your parents' opinion and decision matter, and if you satisfy them, things will go okay and smooth, that you make peace with your parents and make them happy, and satisfy their demand and command.

and as what i observed, if you fight against the marriage, you will lose both battlefields and both familes and lost a lot of relationships, because if you disappoint your parents, your family will treat you badly and this would lead you to fighting with your whole family, and you definitely wouldn't want that to happen, and to that family, it would happen the same, and the two family would be put in a fight, that the two familes have broken the promise that they made, so if you willing to make this decision, you will fight with your own family, and your family will fight with the friend family, a lot of arguments and hatred and disappointment and fights will happen for sure, and it would lead you to desperation and frustration, even depression.

but if you accept the marriage, you would satisfy your parents' command and demand and needs, and satisfy their promise with the friend family before. so if you accept this option, everything would go to peace. you would have a peaceful relationship with your parents and your parents would have an easy going relationship with the friend family

and if you place yourself in the marriage and had problems or arguments with your wife, just know that i'm here for you. because Mr. Professor will be here frequently to consult everybody

>>33394939 (OP)
I would have a lot more faith in Mr Professor if he had a better mastery of basic English.

>>33394939 (OP)
should I try and fuck my coworker
pros
>sex
>she's younger and fit
>likes nerdy stuff
>likes me already
>will probably happen if I resume flirting
cons
>trouble maintaining long lasting relationships with women
>she will stick around at this workplace for a while, so will I (niche and far from big cities)
>may create drama & negative gossip if I dump her
>meh face

>>33394939 (OP)
Ok mr professor.
I'm a Senior Engineer looking for a career change to something less stressful.

I'd take a paycut, I don't care. I just need less work and less pressure

>>33395277
Yes, you should make a move and be in a relationship with her

I'm here to support you if you had any argument or conflict with that woman, i will consult and guide you on the way of comunnicating. just feel free to make a move with her, because it will bring a lot of good value to your life.

i wish you the best in life, good health and all the best things in your relationship

>>33395369
sounds like you are tired of your current position and situation in which you feel like it drained your energy and give you negative mental pressure

if you want something easy and easy paying, then i'm thinking about skin care and cosmetics for women, since women can easily pay for skin care as daily life, it's simple yet so essential to people, so anyone can get access to your local company. i'm thinking about a spa or cosmetics, health care since it's

1. very easy
2. close to nature, since you get to get in touch with natural resources to provide healthcare service
3. rewarding, since you make relationship with people, and social interaction will get you to be a normal human again