Thread 33409896

Why do people that have no business telling me what to do still impose themselves unto me? Causing significant repercussions for themselves when I retaliate?

Are they just narcissistic? How do I stop somebody breaking a boundary that I don't fully mentally grasp?

>>33409896 (OP)
>Causing significant repercussions for themselves when I retaliate?
What do you do in retaliation?

>How do I stop somebody breaking a boundary that I don't fully mentally grasp?
Telling them "I'm not looking for advice"

>>33409896 (OP)
Accountability truly is a females kryptonite. Wow.

>>33409915
>Not looking for advice
>Whines all day on /advice/ . . ?
>Responds to every poster except . . . that one.
>Screeches and explodes
lol

>>33409915
>What do you do in retaliation?

So you understand that the behaviour results in a negative consequence for me, and yourself as well, so you admit that you're at best breaking a piece of yourself in an attempt to harm me.

Did it not occur to you that maybe I am just trying to be happy in life? Imagine if I walked past you and slapped your books out of your hands at school and walked away, how would that make you feel? Why do I have to live every second worried my peace of mind is going to be ruined?

>Telling them "I'm not looking for advice"

I'm an adult, I don't have to tell anybody anything.

>>33409950
>Why do I have to live every second worried my peace of mind is going to be ruined?
I agree, it's painful.
>I'm an adult, I don't have to tell anybody anything.
You don't have to, yes. If you don't want to talk to them, are you able to avoid them?

>>33409967
>able to avoid them

I avoid the people in life who I really don't want to be around, usually really stupid violent men who are drunk or get angry because I am smarter than them and I am clearly better educated, healthier and in a better place in life than them.

It's the whole situation that in my daily life, I am worried about like, the fact my parents are getting old and dying, my own health, how good I am at cooking, how I need to clean my apartment, am I hungry, am I cold, I am only human and I don't handle "working out" problems with other human beings well, I just want to be left alone.

>>33409990
>I avoid the people in life who I really don't want to be around
That's good

>I am worried about like, the fact my parents are getting old and dying, my own health, how good I am at cooking, how I need to clean my apartment, am I hungry, am I cold,
Definitely exhausting, I agree

>and I don't handle "working out" problems with other human beings well, I just want to be left alone.
Is it your family you're having problems with? Or maybe you're being forced to work a job, and it's your coworkers and boss?

>>33410057
>Is it your family you're having problems with?

Yes I have a few family problems one being I am not in contact with many of them, but I just carry on in life and try to be happy. My last job I was recommended to apply because of a family member, I had problems at the job and none of the co-workers I had know that I was following a family (parents) "instructions" to work there, so it was messy when I had a problem during a shift and I showed me dis-satisfaction by resigning.

I don't think that has much to do with me fighting with people all of the time, this happened years ago.

>>33409896 (OP)
>Why do people that have no business telling me what to do still impose themselves unto me?
Because youre posting on a board full of retarded faggots who suffer from dunning kruger syndrome.

>>33410146
I'm not the kind of person who actively insults others, maybe on 4chan but not IRL

>>33409896 (OP)
I won't read venting threads. One just knows that OP is not here to get actual advice, he just wants to unload on you.