Thread 33460002

Will my boyfriend get insecure if I tell him I want him to use a dildo on me?
I know how weird men get when it comes to their dicks so I feel like I'm walking on eggshells here, but at the same time a girl has needs ya know. If I had to guess I'd say his dick is below average if I was generous and small if I was realistic. It's fine, but sometimes, especially when I'm ovulating, I just want to feel full and while he does know how to pleasure me with his hands and mouth, I have an itch that needs scratching.
So my idea was easing him into using sex toys like vibrators, or butt plugs during sex and buying a bunch of different dildos ranging in different sizes and tell him to try them on me to get his feet wet, so to speak.
Sounds slimy, I know, but I don't want to outright come at him with a request to nail me with a big dildo without understanding that I'm not trying to replace him or anything or that he himself is inadequate.
Is my strategy good?

>>33460002 (OP)
that sounds good and for your last step you should make him use a cock sleeve

>>33460002 (OP)
Why do you need a boyfriend when you have a dildo?

>>33460044
Because I love him? A dildo can't hold me and kiss me and whisper sweet nothings into my ear unfortunately.

>>33460002 (OP)
Got a funny feeling you're trans.

Can’t say for all men, but personally I would absolutely love to use a dildo on my wife.

I might be an exception though. I’m really large so something like this won’t make me insecure. Also, I really like being submissive in bed and serving her every need

>>33460002 (OP)
Skill issue. Let him mount you and put your legs up in the air (or as close to your head as possible). This shortens and compacts the vaginal canal. He also needs to go balls deep - there’s an hidden few inches below the shaft, and the wider base and pines usually pushes women over the edge. Also tell him to slap you in the face for doubting him.

I have a 7.5” dick and this position even hurts me because I usually hit the IUD urethra-first. Even with this size (Magnum condom), I’ve had girls complain about hitting their cervix. It would ordinarily be a distraction but I don’t listen to women.

That being said, I sometimes finger a bitch mid-sex because it gives you a recovery break while keeping her cummong, and you can basically hit deeper spots you didn’t know existed. Here’s a fun tip: when he’s fingering yiu, tell him to rub your stomach and meet the other fingers. Every time I do it, women look at me like a god (OoO) <- like that

>>33460107
*pines = pubes

>>33460077
Kys, normie.

>>33460002 (OP)
>>33460009
I'm a man, if I ask to use a cock sleeve on my girl, will she loose respect for me and even seek out another man if she likes the bigger size?

>>33460002 (OP)
Moid hands typed this post.

>>33460107
>I usually hit the IUD

>>33460107
>I usually hit the IUD urethra-first.
IUDs are annoying as fuck, you can feel the little wires trying to stab your dick

>>33460441
They're threads, not wires.

>>33460002 (OP)
>Will my boyfriend get insecure if I tell him I want him to use a dildo on me?
Yes if it's instead of his penis, no if it's in addition to his penis.

Tell him you want to be DPd and you want him to fuck your ass after the dildo fucking makes you cum.

top bait

>>33460002 (OP)
Made-up silliness. I won't read it.

That's what happens when you don't marry a virgin women.

>>33460451
Whatever the fuck it is, it’s literally a cock block. The tip of my dick was raw and it looked like I had some crazy disease. 0/10 would only recommend to short dick havers. Don’t hate me because of my beautiful penis.

>>33460002 (OP)
If a girlfriend asked me for this I would understand but I would probably also ask for mff threesomes if we are each seeking maximum sexual fulfillment at the expense of the others ego.

>>33460002 (OP)
If you're serious, don't make it about the dildo. Make it about adding toys in general. Start with a buttplug. Then get one of those remote vibrators and let him use it on you when you're out and about. Then start bringing in dildos and let him DP you. If you make it about expanding the sexual experience for both of you, it'll be fine.
> but sometimes, especially when I'm ovulating, I just want to feel full
You'll be full as fuck with his dick up your ass and that dildo stuffing your cunt. If you're willing to take it to a a point where he gets pleasure out of it too, getting to act out some shit like the remote or DP, you'll do great. It can't just be about you.

>your dick isn't big enough for me
I think if someone said this to me I would be forcing a chair up her cunt the next moment. Holy shit. Brutal.

>>33463638
Yeah but do you have a micropenis? It might be different if you're average or larger, but if you're small and you know it, can you really blame your girlfriend?

Femanon here.

Unfortunately you can not control the way people react, and thinking that there is a way to control how others react to you telling the truth is unrealistic.

Me and my boyfriend also have a toy he uses on me whenever he is too tired to have sex (he works long shifts and sometimes he’s even too tired for me to get on top). Or if he already came and I want to go again he will use it on me. It’s nothing massive. It’s like 4 inches and very little girth but I don’t think I have a very long vagina so it works great for me.

You’re just going to have to express your sexual needs. Your relationship is going to suffer if you don’t fix your sexual situation. There will be resentment and frustration . If you aren’t ready to have some difficult conversations maybe a relationship isn’t the best thing for you

Good luck femanon

>>33463672
Same femanon btw

I just also wanted to mention, how would you feel if your boyfriend said “can you use this pocket pussy on me? When I have morning wood I really just have an itch to have something super tight around my cock”

Doesn’t feel good , does it? There are helpful things to say to someone and unhelpful things to say. Respectfully, I would never ever tell the person I am dating that their dick is small. Even if it is the truth or not.

I’m hoping you are not a whore and you actually date to marry. If you do date to marry, why would you want the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with that their penis is small?? Now all he’s going to have is that voice in the back of his head telling him that forever. I’m sure you’d feel the same way if he said something about you naked

>>33463678
maybe it's just because I have a very tight grip, but I wouldn't think twice if he told me he wanted to use a fleshlight. I don't derive my sexual confidence from how tight my vagina is. No offense, obviously.
>why would you want the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with that their penis is small??
what did you mean by that?

>>33463690
My bad, my eyes are a little strained

Why would you want the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with know that their penis is small to you ? He will never forget that , that is how you truly think of him.

>>33463678
>Respectfully, I would never ever tell the person I am dating that their dick is small. Even if it is the truth or not.
Not OP, but holy shit, please for the love of god, if you think a mans penis is small, just say it.
Men can tell you think so 99% of the time and it's painfully obvious when women dance around saying it to their faces and use vague adjectives to describe it.
As a guy you learn to take the cold hard truth on the chin. So it's patronizing and makes it seem like you think we aren't mentally strong enough to handle the truth and that hurts a hell of a lot more than coming to terms with reality.
Men who get upset by hearing a factual statement probably aren't worth keeping anyway.

>>33463698
Hell nah. Never. How is it helpful or useful in anyway to tell someone you care about that you aren’t satisfied with a part of them that they can not change?

>>33463694
Oh. Well I think that as long as you don't say it with contempt it should be fine? Like, it'd be weird to say it unsolicited out of the blue, but if he asked me if I thought it was small, what am I supposed to do, lie?
My boobs are small, I have no gripe with that, but I would be extremely weirded out if, when asked, my boyfriend would say they're big, or give me some empty platitude like "they're perfect" or "they fit you're body". Idk, that's just me though.

>>33463705
>How is it helpful or useful in anyway
Because it's the truth. Also, not to call you out, but it's funny how you assume small = dissatisfied. Saying your bf's dick is small is just a factual statement, there is no inherent malice attached to that. But even if you WERE dissatisfied I can guarantee you most men would like to know, because it's very likely that they have a sneaking suspicion already.

>>33463678
It's so frustrating when women can't be honest about that kind of stuff.
Just look at all the replies to >>33458893

Tbh it would bother me . Make me wanna end the relationship.

You'll probably have to psyop him into it

>>33460002 (OP)
Yes he will be insecure

>>33460002 (OP)
my gf got mad when i bought her dildo bigger than my dick and she was more loose during normal sex(worse for me and her) for couple days after using it
she never tried deepthroating it (thats why i bought it)