My question (I should probably ask this in other places too) for other females do you also not get any physical pleasure from vaginal penetration?

My question for the males which I think is my main ask from this since you know I am straight, do you mind that I don't get physical pleasure from it ?
Basically thoughts on my anatomy sexuality? Read
I get """" intellectual """ lmao pleasure from it since i recognise that it makes the male happy, plus it is really intimate and vulnerable (kinda scare FML) . Othe than that l, I masturbate a lot but only clitoraly and only in a specific way lol, I have to be fully clothed with a pantyliner and lay on my stomach on top of my hand while it is being held by the other (lmao yes this is how I goon FML). So idk can you moids touch my clit during sex or is it too much work?? Other than that I kinda get physical pleasure from anal sex but shit is disgusting like lets be honest anal is basically borderline having a scat kink kek. Like I like my anus getting railed the same way I like getting my anus burned by spicy food ewww human sexuality is so gross. Also you know don't want to do it much cause you know.

Doc said I have vaginismus along with other stuff, he gave me some weird shit to stuff inside me but yeah j haven't. Will do when I get a bf. But I always had this and never ever felt any physical pleasure from getting my vag penetrated so I don't think it is the vaginismus

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>>33488234 (OP)
MANY women report that vaginal sex is not orgasmic or particularly pleasurable on a purely physical level. As long as you'e capable of clitoral pleasure (and your partner can give it to you) and as long as you can get emotional pleasure from the intimacy of piv, you are well within the bounds of normality - in fact better off than many.

>>33488501
I mean are you a male

>>33488234 (OP)
there is a female version of viagra it is REALLY hard to come by, prescription, while men's dick meds are practically over the counter because of course men make the laws.

>>33488518
No

>>33488234 (OP)
Well, this was obviously posted by a man.

If a woman has vaginismus then sex is not merely dull, it is agonisingly painful. Treating vaginismus can take years, so it's obviously not a good idea to wait till you have a bf. And women generally do get a great deal of pleasure from penetration, though many women are not able to actually have an orgasm that the way. The way to make it feel good is to make you are extremely turned on before you start - possibly no more than a few seconds away from orgasm.

And in cowgirl position a girl can rub her own clit during sex.

If you were not a man, you would know all this.

>>33489525
Ain't reading all that cause I am female

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>>33488234 (OP)
I do mind and I think it's your own fault for being lazy/not delving deep enough into your own body to figure out how it works. Here's a pro tip - Learn kegels/reverse kegels (tighten and relax your vag muscles). Then you'll be able to get a feel for it, and pleasure from it also.
In other words - you're just a lazy cunt.
>I kinda get physical pleasure from anal
That's stimuli to your posterior fornix. Google posterior/anterior fornix and do some fucking exercises for you vag you lazy fucking cow!

>>33488234 (OP)
Maybe vaginismus makes it impossible, but coming from a straight sexhaving male I suggest you try training yourself to orgasm from penetration. You'll obviously like it if you can achieve that and any man worth a shit will want to make you feel good too instead of feeling like sex is just something you put up with so he can coom. Try experimenting with insertable vibrators. When I started having sex I sort of had to retrain my cock and how I masturbated because what I was doing to get off by myself wasn't conducive to climaxing from penetration or handjobs/blowjobs.

>do other females also not get any physical pleasure from vaginal penetration?
Never dated a girl with vaginismus so again maybe you're the unlucky exception but I have made women cum with fingers, dildos and my benis. Sometimes there was accompanying clit stimulation, sometimes it was 100% penetration. It is definitely possible. One big thing for women to get off is having the right headspace. I have an ex who could only orgasm when she was restrained and blindfolded. That loss of control helped calm down her mind and focus only on pleasure instead of overthinking about everything. That might help you too. Obviously you would need a partner so it's something to keep in mind for when you find somebody.

>>33489348
Actually it's because the female viagra almost doesn't work, and works much better as a date rape drug.

>>33492337
oh cool, what's it called?

>>33492248
this anon is right but I'd be more than happy to train OP myself if she had other qualities I'm looking for in a gf (she doesn't, but if she did).

>>33492248
calling bullshit on the twisty one, there's no way they can do that.

>>33492390
sildenafil

>>33488501
>>33489455
Well the males here seem annoyed
>>33492248
Stop being an assholeto me, no the muscle doesn't do anything
>>33492265
I mean dildos don't do anything infact feel worse

>>33492428
They can. She can separately control 3 different sections of the vag (with enough practice). The entry (near the lips), the midpart (near the gspot), the deep part (near the fornices).
She can also separately control the sides of these parts. I.E. contract up+down or left+right of either of the 3 sections. If she contracts the Z axis of the back and front parts, while contracting the sides of the middle part - she can "twist" the dick.
>>33492435
>Stop being an assholeto me
Shut the fuck up you fucking retard. You're one of the 99/100 other retards out there. Fucking read and learn or stay retarded.

>>33492440
I told you doing the muscle thing doesn't give pleasure

>>33492477
Yes? And did you google the fornices as suggested?

>>33492482
Explain

>>33492487
Posterior Fonix, Anterior fornix, Gspot, clit - these are all erogenous zones. Everyone knows the last two but not the first two. Mostly because it take a bigger dick to reach them OR the female being able to contract her vagina muscles in such a way that helps a smaller dick to reach them. They are located on either side of the cervix, one on the back (posterior), one on the front (anterior). These "pockets" can stretch, and as they do - give great pleasure.
Some women really prefer anal, and it's likely due to posterior fornix stimulation.

Now one point of the vag muscle exercises is being able to "guide" the man towards these spots. So take note of the depth and where these spots are for you. There's variation, like with everything so you have to figure this out yourself. Get a long dildo or something, there's no nicer way to put it.
Picrel.

If you've never explored these spots (and no1 else has on you) it's gonna take some work, or a very experienced man to get there without pounding your cervix.

>>33492440
you know what? I just tried out doing something analogous with my dick and I kind of can, so maybe you're right. crazy shit.

>>33492431
that's the same as male viagra you retard, isn't there a special one for women?

>>33492508
what's the best toy for doing this, one of those n-joy wands?

>>33492511
Do you work on your dick flexing?
Pro tip:
Let's say you're deep in her anterior fornix doggy style - if you can flex hard enough you'll "slide through" her cervix and into her posterior fornix in one smooth motion.
So it goes like this - you thrust into her anterior fornix, FLEX, slide into her posterior fornix, thrust out. Repeat. It's nutty.
>>33492517
Dunno. Don't spare the lube.

>>33492512
oops ur right. Flibanserin (Addyi)

>>33488234 (OP)
Everyone has their own particular ways to feel good. Would I mind if you didn't feel pleasure from fucking? Somewhat, being that I want my partner to feel good. But if there's a specific way that it needs to be done, then I'll do what my partner needs of me.

>>33489525
>Obviously posted by a man
Of course it is, there are no women here. Never have been, won't be, kindly fuck off, faggot.

>>33492523
guess I'll have to start working on it more now, being prehensile there would be amazing. what I did wasn't quite what you said, it was more just flexing the left or right side of the BC muscle in combination with some other muscles; it didn't occur to me that I could isolate the left or right side but it feels like I can. I used to be able to flex the BC, IC, and PC all separately but I haven't done that in a while.

>>33492536
I mean can you touch my clit while sex
>>33492508
I have tried those and yeah nothing inside or doing stuff with my muscles helps honestly only makes it worse.

>>33492562
>I have tried those and yeah nothing inside or doing stuff with my muscles helps honestly only makes it worse.
Might wanna find someone who knows these things (could be a woman) to give ya some hands on treatment. There's only so much to suggest over text.
>>33492543
Good luck! I couldn't wiggle sideways ever, but a strong upward flex goes a long way.

>>33492562
>I mean can you touch my clit while sex
Yes, of course. Rubbing or licking clits during sex definitely isn't out of the question for me. It's a skill that any man should have to help their partner feel good. It may be hard work but if your woman is worth it, then the drive to do that hard work will be there and will pay off in a good orgasm.

Is this the same chick that keeps bumping her own threads where she seethes about not having a high IQ aryan boyfriend?

>>33488234 (OP)
I feel like in 2025 you'd have trouble NOT finding a guy that will rub your clit during sex and eat you out.
Better question would be if you would date a guy that didn't let you suck his dick or give him handjobs?

>>33488234 (OP)
If you don't like it with a chad on ovulation day, you have some health issue.
Touch yourself while being railed, if you are ashamed of it work on that.

>>33492248
I never understood anal.
I mean for the receiver you can get stimulation from anus/vagina/prostate, but the giver it's the same as any hole.
Isn't it?

I thought that until I fucked some hung and thick guys turned out I'm just a size queen. And no dildos aren't the same. I really had no clue. You should try a hung guy.

I’m a man

Sex doesn’t feel good for me. I don’t like sex, it feels like nothing at all

>>33493673
I don't believe that like how

>>33493725
He's just aggro reacting to my post above him

>>33493725
it feels like nothing. When my gf and I have sex I don’t know my penis is inside, I have to visually look. I almost never even cum

>>33493746
Never heard of that, all men seem to be hypersexual

>>33488234 (OP)
>can you moids touch my clit during sex or is it too much work
My issue is that my bf never does it right no matter how many times I show him

>>33493746
You may have a very small penis.

>>33493065
>I never understood anal.
As a guy, I don't get it either. The vagina objectively feels better. But it's a psychological thing for some guys - about dominance and ownership; they need to feel "I control all of your holes".

>>33493750
>>33493792
I just have no sensation with a condom. It make sex not appealing. I never initiate sex because it doesn’t feel like anything and the cleanup is not worth it

Vaginal sex has never done much for me. It's like someone poking me in the armpit, it isn't numb or anything - I can feel it clearly, how deep it goes, etc, but it just isn't pleasurable.

After 10 years of fucking and thinking any woman claiming to have vaginal orgasms must be lying, I was actually able to get myself off with a thin g-wand and started doing it regularly. The thing is, my g-spot needs circular rubbing like my clit, the in-out sporadic poking and uncomfortable friction of PiV are problems for me.

>>33493854
this is what you get for being chronic masturbator

>>33493860
why would “chronically” masturbating with dildos do that?

>>33488234 (OP)
Idk anon, i dont think your wrong for feeling that way. If your bf loves you i think he would accomadate. Also, its not hard to stimulate the clit during intercourse if the guy knows what hes doing. Same thing with oral. I heard that its better than good when the guy is expierenced. I also think it would be hot if you forced the guy to pleasure you in the specific way you desire. Love & sex go hand in hand. If only one person is getting pleasure from sex, then to me, thats not real love.

>>33493818
No one has much sensation with a condom.

>>33493860
Why do you think that? I got my first dildo after 8 years of taking dick.

>Woman doesn't enjoy PIV, but gets pleasure from knowing her partner enjoys it
>Man doesn't enjoy PIV unless his gf enjoys it too
What do you do in that scenario? Is that just a unsolvable stalemate?

Do women even like men?
I don't know why this thread did it in particular, but I feel so empty and disposable in the eyes of women.
Like I have no use as a bread winner, protector, pleasant company, eye candy, and not apparently not even a living dildo, because all of those things she can easily get elsewhere in much higher potency. Why even bother with me? They'll just stay single while holding out for the best possible option to come around and just date that guy.
Men are not needed, and the ones that are wanted are modeled after that one guy in greek mythology that all the female goddesses were vying for.
Reading threads like this robbs me of energy.

>>33493878
well it feels like nothing, so I don’t like sex

>>33493871
Answer this.
Do you close your thighs when you masturbate and cum?

>>33493915
That's sexual incompatibility.
A valid reason for ending a relationship not many are willing to discuss.

>>33493854
Like I said earlier you just haven't fucked thick good dick. Cuz you have a bad personality.

>>33493977
If this is directed at >>33493854, no, why? Am I meant to? I've never heard of anyone doing that.

>>33494016
Why do you think I have a bad personality? Moreover, my boyfriend's dick was rather large and the dildos I got and orgasmed with were much smaller than him. I doubt upgrading rather than downgrading in size would help with friction and poor maneuverability.

>>33493935
I am still attracted to males

>>33494565
>Am I meant to
YWNBAW

>>33495462
>ur a gooner
>ur a bitch and ur man has a tiny pp
>ur a troon
This is even stupider than arguing with holes. If you have actual input related to the topic at hand, share it, otherwise fuck off and stop wasting people's time.

>>33492562
Prone bone w/clitoral reacharound