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It comes from the same place where they expect a "prince" to come save them from themselves. I.e. their own happiness & contentment is expected to come from someone else rather than themselves.
This manifests in a way when they become displeased with themselves (hate themselves) - but expect others to save them (as if it's owed to them). When that doesn't happen, it's the potential saviors who are to blame for the pain self inflicted.
Same with cocks, same with orgasms, same with happiness & whatnot.
What's funny - when it comes to female orgasms - those who have best control of their vag muscles (are able to contract and relax them at will) experience more+better orgasms and better enjoyment of sex, regardless of partner size. But guess who's to blame for their ineptitude?