Thread 33502878

I started wagecucking at a good job early in life and lent money to quite a few friends when they asked for it

They never returned the money several years later and I am too much of a pussy to ask them anyway

The money isnt the issue though. They are all happily married early and moved on with their lives while I am still single and spiralling downwards steadily with not much hope of coming back. I feel a sense of bitterness that my life didnt turn out well even though I helped a lot of people. I feel sense of betrayal ( not sure against who, maybe the world ). Wish I could stop thinking this way

reach out and catch-up with your friends, retard
ask them to pay for dinner to pay you back or something

isolating yourself and getting mad other people because YOU aren't communicating, is a bad move

>>33502878 (OP)
Don't lend money without first making an agreement on when you expect it back. Hound them about it once that date comes.
It's a fact of life that if you're quiet about it for long enough, most people will quietly assume you've let it slide.

If you're really hurting without it, try asking for it back. Otherwise forget about it

>>33502878 (OP)
I won't read blogs on an advice board.

>>33502878 (OP)
Pick a number - say $100. If it's less than that, writwe it off. If more, send a note "Remember the $500 I lent you a while ago? I really could use it back now."