>>33524707 (OP)
The fact that you think there's "one simple trick" or some "magic bullet" that will grant you this girl shoes that you absolutely have zero business even fantasizing about her bro. You need to get your shit together, figure out your life's purpose *outside* of women, then learn how to speak to them. Getting women it about finding one who's happy to come along on the ride to the place you're already going. Not to make her the center of your life like you're some simp or peasant worshiping a goddess.
Special Point: despite *saying* they want what I just mentioned it, they absolutely hate it and lose all respect for you when you do. One simple test: if you're afraid to say "no" to a girl or afraid to lose her, you're not doing it properly. You've lost.