Thread 33551971

I’m 23 and I want to make new friends. I’ve had a pretty close group of friends for a few years now since I was about 16-17. I’ve thought about it for a while and realized I don’t see them as actually good friends anymore. Our morals don’t align at all, I question them a lot of the time as people, and I think I started being friends with them since I was desperate for friends and had almost none in high school (they’re majority black and I’m white if that means anything too). My main question now is where would I find new friends? Even if it’s not “friends” at least just people I don’t mind being around. I don’t care to find friends online and my current job is majority women coworkers since it’s retail. Been thinking about picking up a sport so maybe there I could? Just very unsure.

1My friends have always been from school or work. You could join a club or a hobby group. The older you get the longer it takes to make friends and at 23 you're hitting the age where it takes probably a year for someone to become what you can classify as a friend.

Don't write off being friends with your female coworkers but don't make the mistake of assuming they'll fuck you. A lot of women are annoying as fuck but some are pretty cool. And the thing about hanging out with women is they know other women, women you don't work with, and women who may wanna suck your willy. You should have male friends as well though and if you don't make them now it will only get harder the older you get.

>>33552025
I appreciate the advice, you’re definitely right about it getting harder as time goes on. Funny enough, I actually used to primarily have female friends back in high school. Had some pretty cool ones, but I realized I definitely needed guy friends which is why I ended up with the group of friends I have now. I get along with the boyfriend of one of the girls I work with so maybe that turns into something. The club/hobby thing is a good idea and I’ll pair the with the sports thing I said.

>>33551971 (OP)
>How do I make new friends?
You can't. Your inability to check the archives for answers to this almost daily question proves that you are a subhuman moron with an IQ lower than that of pond slime, and no-one wants such "people" around.

>>33552162
idk you sound like a fag no matter your iq so i think i’ll just wait for some advice, thanks tho

>>33551971 (OP)
https://youtu.be/lqZehFAwoTM?t=32

It's over as soon as you turn 18 and leave the school system without a well established social circle. You go to work, but you won't make any friends, just coworkers. You join a sports club, same deal. It's over, because everyone already has their social circles locked in since childhood. You'll be nothing more than a coworker, destined to be alone for life. Social life and relationships are like trains you have to catch at the quay, a race against time that takes place during adolescence. And by extension, logically of course, no social life and no women.
But normies don't understand this because they are clueless normies who think you can walk into a bar full of strangers and magically form a social life like in The Sims. Only women can start from scratch and create a social life and get a boyfriend from scratch because of their status as women.

Whether you're 30 or not it doesn't change anything, maybe for the normies, but for you and me Chud, a year is like any other, the sands of time flowing towards nothingness, nothing more.. nothing less.

>>33552162
>Your inability to check the archives for answers to this almost daily question proves
Can you tell me how to do this effectively? I want to filter either for long replies or many replies, but can't seem to do it on 4plebs

>>33555080
dude

>>33551971 (OP)
As you guess, you don't make friends. You make acquaintances and over time some evolve into friends.

Look around you. Chat with neighbors, coworkers, local shopkeepers. Join a club, a team, a gym, a church. Do volunteer work. Take a random evening class. Go to concerts, clubs, museums, cons, coffeehouses, whatever.