Thread 33573441

ITT We ask the opposite gender anything. (Almost anything! - see below).

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Previously on ATOGA: >>33570358

>>33573441 (OP)
Hello women
Why the fuck are you 4chan

>>33573448
Because it's entertaining???

>>33573448
ON 4CHAN*

men, stop pretending to be women

>>33573448
>Why the fuck are you 4chan
WE ARE 4CHAN!

[Reposting cause I got no replies]
Hi Atoga, M here.

So, I'm invited to a family event thing, and in this family event thing comes my cousin. So, my cousin is a bit younger than me, and he's on special needs, and he has a private tutor who's this really cute girl who's a few years older than me.

This girl is treated like family by my uncle and aunt and she often comes during family events such as the one I'm going to. She's REALLY cute but I never got the chance to talk to her. Would it be inappropriate to ask for her number out during this event?

I am wary of women but avoid displays of overt hostility.

>>33573461
Not my problem.

>>33573460
YES it would be inappropriate

>>33573460
yes

>>33573466
>>33573465
Why tho

>>33573465
>>33573466
I kinda expected this answer, but can you at least tell me WHY it would be inappropriate? We're not related and we're of similiar age.

>>33573458
I’m a scared little boy pretending to be a man.

What is it with this meme of blaming the entire collective opposite gender for your own bad choices and ineptitude? Is it funny?

first for the femtards

Come tomorrow my computer will be built and I will never go outside again

>>33573474
Just more convenient than taking responsibility.

>>33573458
How else am I gonna get (You)s?

Men
Can you get horny on command ?

>>33573472
you would be jeopardizing your special needs cousin's tutor's relationship with your family just to get your dick wet

>>33573448
To tease moids

>>33573474
Yeah you women gotta stop the patriarchy or whatever for your failures already

>>33573472
You’ve literally never talked to her before
And what >>33573482 said

>>33573483
Teasing moids is my favorite hobby too

>>33573482
How would that be jeopardizing? If I hypothetically dated this girl, how would that change her work as a private tutor for my cousin?

>>33573481
it depends on how who gives the command and how authoritative they are
generally yes

>>33573474
But moids really did ruin my life

>>33573481
What makes you think I am not horny at nearly all times?
Noob...

Godlike nails.

>>33573478
I don't see how.

>>33573498
Tf is this hand

>>33573492
>>33573483
What do you mean with teasing moids
Like us men we already shit on each other here all the time. What exactly do you mean with teasing

>>33573448
Because I can

>>33573472
You're unreasonably putting her in a very awkward position, and worse yet, at a family function.

>>33573489
Because you would fuck it up and make it uncomfortable for her to be around the family
Your aunt and uncle would be fucking pissed

>>33573498
Poop under the nails

>>33573498
I don't like them

>>33573481
No, we're always horny. Except for that twenty minutes or so of post nut clarity.

>>33573498
ugly
>>33573481
No. Easily, but not on command.

>>33573500
Pure attraction.

>>33573493
Lol, I was thinking of this exact same thing.

Either gender
If you’ve lost your virginity, how was your first time?
If you haven’t, does it matter for you if your partner is a virgin?

>>33573508
thats deliberate, so when i scratch you it gets infected and kills you

>>33573498
I'll give the fake talons a pass because I really like the colours.

>>33573505
>>33573506
Hm, I see your point now.

It's a shame. She is REALLY cute.

>>33573516
Lmao that pic

>>33573519
is she even single

>>33573516
F
It was good

>>33573516
>If you haven’t, does it matter for you if your partner is a virgin?
M. No, IF it ever happens (it won't) I assume she won't be.

>>33573516
M
>how was your first time?
Bad

>>33573516
f, unhinged

>>33573516
M
Ugh it was okay, not romantic at all really I was 15 and she was my friend and ugh she asked if I wanted to be FWB. She had a lot of experience and I didn't tell her I was a virgin. We just fucked and fucked and fucked until she said she wanted to fuck other people. Also I was constantly joking around the whole time and making her laugh while we were having sex.

>>33573520
Can I get one these for my diet, please?

>>33573519
Don't listen to the women. Do it. Who cares if you fuck it up. No one outside you and her will know if you were to fuck it up. People get into relationships all the time because they have met through a relative

>>33573516
M
Funky with slightly bit difficult communication.

>>33573525
Why

>>33573530
Just date me and I'll eat all the food off your plate.

>>33573492
What happened? And you better not be fucking with me.

>>33573516
F
It doesn’t matter if he has experience, it’s probably good if he does

>>33573527
What happened that your first time was "unhinged"??

>>33573516
m it was nice. I wouldn't do it again though, kek

>>33573516
M
It was awkward, uncomfortable, generally unpleasant. It was also special and I’ll never forget it.

>>33573538
I was sleeping with a guy that had a crush on me to get back at my bf, I was on my period, I made out with another guy that was there right after and then went to the circus.

>>33573517
Gross you disgusting thing

>>33573544
>then went to the circus.
Sounds more like you are the circus.

good morning atoga i still love my chadlet bf

>>33573543
Why

>>33573544
JH coded post.

>>33573544
Thats not unhinged. You're just a cheating whore.

I think for the first time I have heard a woman say their type and it basically was a description of me, should I take this as a sign there is anyone that would want me? Ex's said I have the vibes of a dad, seemed like a negative. Also being an engineer(not high pay) was a turn off to people when trying to date since the stereotype is having zero social life or anti fun or something.

>>33573517
I bet your hands are not pretty enough to warrant that.

>>33573535
Sexually assualted me

>>33573448
>you 4chan
We are legion.

>>33573553
Oh fuck off.

>>33573544
wife material

>>33573483
>>33573488
Only femcels and worthless rape victims say "moids"

>>33573549
Yes, the irony is not lost on me.
>>33573554
Which is unhinged.

>>33573521
How am I supposed to know?

>>33573531
Nah, not doing anything is the most reasonable thing to do. Plus I doubt I'd get to have a private moment with her at the event to even ask it.

>>33573562
Moid is a term of endearment

I need him

>>33573564
>irony
I wouldn't realyl call it ironic.

>>33573565
Ok I only wanted to stir up drama. Youre right in not asking her because there are many other cute women that you could ask instead without causing family drama

>>33573569
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AtKZKl7Bgu0

>>33573558
Your life isn't ruined, you can go to therapy and feel better.

>>33573570
I don't really care what you would call it.

>>33573516
f, my first time was mutually awkward, we fucked for like 40 minutes, got bored, and ended up calling it quits and getting fast food.

>>33573576
Damn, you are in a great mood today, eh.

>>33573498
My ring is too big now.
Sparkly bitchessss slayyyy

>>33573581
>white finger hair
Hag spotted

>>33573558
I'm sorry that happened to you. That is unfortunately a not uncommon one.

>>33573581
married? what would charlie say?

>>33573580
I actually am. But I have no interest in going over how being a slut is bad with anons.

>>33573580
Stop talking to a waking circus lmao

>>33573582
You're just going to get the dox spammer with such a reply. lol

>>33573481
>Can you get horny on command ?
When I was younger, pretty much, yeah. Assuming I wasn't incredibly sleep-deprived or ill.

>>33573560
No. :)

>>33573585
Being a slut is good, and fun. Whore out anons! Dump those titties

>>33573584
That's my left.

>>33573585
>I actually am.
Mhm, sure.

>>33573586
I wasn't going to talk much more, since she was so uninterested.

>>33573516
I've lied to people for decades that I'm not a virgin but I really am and nearly everyone around me is not. I have no idea is I could hold an erection or even be intimate without being extremely awkward, I cannot succeed in getting dates(since highschool) or hookups or sex or friends so not like I'll find out.

>>33573585
Being a slut isn't the bad thing here. Nothing wrong if fucking around. Whats bad that you're a cheater. You really are retarded

Men:
Would you want her?

Women:
Would you wanna be her?

I've been seeing this girl for only a month or so but I'm having a hard time sending her a 'breakup' message. Am I cooked?

In person it has been all smiles so I don't think she will see this coming. The main reason I'm worried is that she lives alone and doesn't really seem to have any close friends and I feel terrible about the whole thing, but it feels worse to drag it out when I know it's not going to work long-term. Femanons, any advice on literally anything would be appreciated

>>33573598
M
I don't know anything about her.

>>33573598
>would you want to be brown
No, lol

>>33573598
>Would you want her?
Yes I want Casca

>>33573598
>>33573601
This

>>33573598
F
No I want to be me

>>33573598
my boobs are bigger and my thighs are smaller but i can fix that

>>33573598
M
Nah I like pale girls

>>33573598
M
Not inherently, she looks fine though

>>33573598
>Would you want her?
I don't know anything about her.

>>33573601
>>33573603
>insecure white girls
lol

>>33573598
M. Would.

How do you tell a foid there's no recovering a past relationship after she's trashed herself without harming her?

Let me ask the question in a second way

Foids, what do you need said from an ex you're trying to get back with if he knows he can't love you again because of what you've become without it making things worse?

I was sad that I don’t get horny anymore but I started ovulating and now I’m just miserable but horny I hate being alone

>>33573613
just break up and be alone babes. that girl does not need you and will happily skip off to chad when you're gone!

need a fit blonde gf so bad to mog people at the beach together...

>>33573611
*women's okcupid responses chart*

>>33573516
M
It was good but I got a bit of whiplash from being pornsick and seeing what actual intimacy looked like it was so distracting that I didn't know how to act

>>33573613
Found this pic of you. Try growing a pair of balls.

>>33573615
Hate being alone enough to chat with a maleanon in private?

>>33573598
Ugly face, no.

>>33573615
>now I’m just miserable but horny I hate being alone
Highly relatable.

>>33573613
Retardedly loaded question aside, what is wrong with just saying "I am not interested in you anymore"?

>>33573598
she's physically attractive in her unique way but women who take selfies like that for internet redflags her for me. I'm not "wanting" in any way

>>33573598
M
I'd fuck her yeah, but too brown for me to have a relationship with

>>33573613
>an ex you're trying to get back with
Can't relate

>>33573615
Sext with somebody.

>>33573617
men how do i make my back look like this

>>33573613
why's she digging through the trash like that

>>33573626
Anglo pink-toned girls are so fucking ugly it's unreal.

>>33573626
That's stupid.

>>33573516
M
it was horrible, turned me off sex and still havent recovered
>does it matter for you if your partner is a virgin?
it would be preferable of course, but its not realistic in this world

>>33573629
If you come over, I can teach you.
You wouldn't be the first student.

>>33573613
Tell them to neck themselves or move on.

>>33573621
>>33573628
Sexting will only make me feel worse

>>33573599
>>33573613
femcel demoralization propaganda

>>33573629
a little bit of steroids

>>33573629
do exercises that work your back muscles and dont be fat

>>33573626
Very sexy nails.

>>33573636
Then you have the wrong mindset.
Find somebody to sext with and want to move on IRL.

>>33573489
A good rule of thumb is, don't hit on women in their place of work, and don't ask out a co-worker. In this case, your family is the institution that employs her, and the family event is her work-place.

The reason you shouldn't hit on a woman at work is because if she's not interested she can't get away from you or tell you to get lost without causing problems at work.

The reasons you don't hit on co-workers are 1) if she's not interested, the two of you still have to work side by side, and now it's awkward, and 2) if she initially says yes and then the two of you have a really bitter break-up later, the two of you then have to work side by side while going through that.

You don't work in your family, but she does, and you spend a lot of time there, so it's the same principle. Basically, if things go bad between you and her, either the two of you will have to keep on seeing each other while it's bad, or she'll have to quit her job and leave your brother without support.

>>33573629

>>33564424

>>33573635
>neck themselves
Only femcels say that.

I love her legs and tummy

Yes would impregnate
>>33573598

>>33573640
I did and he ghosted me

>>33573643
you wish jeet.
im pale as fuck with blue eyes

>>33573629
Rows and pullups
A lot of rows and pullups

And dont be fat

This chick probably lifts for good couple years though

I will not succumb to your Snowbunny Mind Control. I want my kids to look like me. Fuck off, white devil whores.

>>33573648
Find another one, one who is a better fit.
Sobbing over lost chances is ok for a bit, but it won't help you having a nice time in the future.

>>33573640
you should see her mom

>>33573448
It's the only social media I use

>>33573645
I'm only a femcel at heart in a lonely broken nans body. Femcels are just hyper sensitive autists who cannot handle social interactions outside expectations nor within expectations. Like a cat that wants rubs but scratches you as soon as you do.

>>33573649
this is my aestetic for today but my coveralls are pink

>>33573656
poser

>>33573641
>The reason you shouldn't hit on a woman at work is because if she's not interested she can't get away from you or tell you to get lost without causing problems at work.
OOOOH NOOOO THAT GUY WHO IS NOT ATTRACTIVE GAVE ME A COMPLIMENT AND NOW I CAN'T TELL HIM TO THROW HIMSELF IN FRONT OF TRAFFIC WITHOUT GETTING IN TROUBLE!!!11!!11 HELP THIS IS LITERALLY RAPE!!11

>>33573652
I’m tired of looking

>>33573599
Just rip off the band aid. The longer you wait the worse it will be.

>wake up
>Brvtal morning wood
>No femanon to put my pp between her thighs or buttocks to make it calm down
Life is suffering

>>33573653
Her character is so repulsive, the looks can never make up for it.

>>33573655
>broken nans
Funny.

>>33573660
Unless you got 60+, you got no excuse imo.
Put up a profile somewhere you feel good about and then work it.

>>33573529
Sounds like mega fun to laugh during sex.

>>33573644
>her back
Holy shit. Is this how footfags feel when they see feet?

>>33573658
?

>>33573665
It definitely was lol.

>>33573620
>>33573624
>>33573635
I won't be like that.
>>33573627
It'd be a lot easier if she was like that.
>>33573630
I don't know. She told me once a long time ago, and be mindful that it was rare for her to be open and honest- "I'm afraid of never finding someone else who loves me as much as you do."

Best part of girls back is when she has developed good spinal erectors (the 2 long muscles that run around lower back that flex when you arch ass up)
Backshots time!

>>33573651
unrelated by why the term snowbunny? it's such a cute endearing term but it has a negative connotation right?

>>33573659
Imagine you're working customer service, and your number one work priority is being polite to customers; if you're ever rude, you'll be fired on the spot. Now imagine one of the customers is a gay man who is hitting on you, and refuses to take the hint and leave you alone.

Is that a comfortable situation for you?

>>33573670
>I'm afraid of never finding someone else who loves me as much as you do
So she just wants you because you are the only one that made her feel wanted? Lol.

>>33573672
Nothing negative about wanting to be a single mom with a niglet!

>>33573663
We all know just sandwiching it between our thighs/butt isn't enough for you

>>33573669
I can imagine. Where you from anon

>>33573679
California wbu?

>>33573677
I get that you're racist but it isn't really relevant to the question I asked

>>33573516
F. Assuming we're counting mouth stuff as losing virginities, I was a junior in highschool and just got with my bf at the the time. To celebrate us being official, I dragged him outside during lunch to blow him. It was awkward but I was too high on having a hot bf to care at the time.

the most disappointing thing about atoga is not the hate or stupidity
but the talks that just suddenly stop
that is honestly the thing that makes me the most depressed in here
and yeah i realize nobody here has any obligations but that does not change how i feel about it ok

>>33573678
I have been found out...

But realistically, i hope shes attracted to me so when she feels im like that she does help me out

>>33573685
Try being more engaging and entertaining.

>>33573684
High school slut!
>Wish that were me getting blown

>>33573688
you know thats not it

>>33573681
Nice, well... Not that nice considering how screwed USA is right now, specially LA and commiefornia. I'm from latin america hehe, how old are you?

>>33573685
are you trolling? i usually get bored and suddenly stop responding to weird negativity / bad vibes / argumentative anons that twist everything you say

>>33573691
The whole point of coming here is so you can abandon conversations you don't want to continue on a whim. Imagine trying to have a one on one conversation with someone that can't take a hint that they are boring you.

>>33573689
Junior high school is middle school.
She was gargling balls at 12 years old.

>>33573685
ghosting and rejection will always hurt

>>33573685
You guys really should be asking more heartfelt questions instead of spamming bullshit and allowing the trolls to gain reactions. Because we can't hold conversation on one topic for forever.

>>33573664
60+ what ?

>>33573689
I mean, I was ironically the prude of my friend group. Spending time with girls who shoplifted and sex with all kinds of people probs didn't do me any favors growing up. Retroactively, I realize I just liked being with the popular kids as the token non-white.

>>33573691
you're right. it's because you're short, and we can tell from the way you type

>>33573692
Haha yeah it's kinda crazy here, idk if it will get better but my family has lived here for generations.
Do you like it where you live in Latin America?
I'm 28 lol, what about you?

>>33573695
You are retarded. Being a junior in highschool means you're three years into highschool.

>>33573696
>inb4 "rejection is worse than rape" anon claims this thread is traumatizing him daily

>>33573695
Learn to read it says junior in high-school

>>33573695
>>33573699
Thats crazy

We have a term for that in Poland
There was even a movie about underage girls who hanged out around shopping centers blowing strangers for expensive clothing

>>33573707
See >>33573704. I was 17.

>>33573705
following the analogy, he comes crawling back every night to get raped by crowds of faceless women and then vehemently maintains he hates hates hates that they do it

>>33573707
What movie?

>>33573702
I don't know why but people who I trust have always told me that when they reach the states there's always a black cloud hanging over it. Huh! Nice, someone sorta close to my age, im 33 though. K like it over here, specially if you have money you live well enough. Have you ever vacationed around latin america?

>>33573712
this sounds like a degenerate hentai comic

>>33573712
>comes crawling back every night to get raped by crowds of faceless women and then vehemently maintains he hates hates hates that they do it
I've read this doujin...

MANONS
DO YOU HAVE TIGHT HIP FLEXORS??

>>33573720
Yes i do
>>33573713
Galerianki

>>33573595
I’ve done that too

>>33573693
>>33573694
>>33573700
not the type i meant
>>33573696
i dont classify it as such

BWC alert.

>>33573727
WHERE?

>>33573707
In Japan they call it enjo kousai.

>>33573728
At my home

>>33573685
Weird, I'm the opposite. I like the one and done, short exchanges. I enjoy the engaging, personal conversations I infrequently have here, but having the person say "alright thanks for the conversation, bye" feels too real and conclusive.

>>33573720
Tighter than a snare drum.

>>33573727
pass

>>33573714
>I don't know why but people who I trust have always told me that when they reach the states there's always a black cloud hanging over it.
Yeah a lot of them are lied to about what it's really like here, an idealized version that doesn't exist so that makes sense.
>Nice, someone sorta close to my age, im 33 though.
Nice
>K like it over here, specially if you have money you live well enough.
Yeah that is what I always hear, I hope life is going well for you.
>Have you ever vacationed around latin america?
I did visit Mexico a couple times as a kid, I've always wanted to visit more countries in Latin America though and explore the outdoors, I've really been wanting to visit the Amazon I think that would be incredible.

>>33573727
Post face

>>33573731
i might be selfish in how i feel
but you are definitely selfish too

>>33573516
Technically still a virgin but I fooled around with a girl who lived with me for a semester. It was fun but we both resisted different aspects of sex not wanting to fully commit due to knowing our other incompatibilities with one another. We are both still virgins and chat, though we live on different continents.

Like the other anon said there was a lot of laughter which I think is probably something I want to experience more of.

Idk if she has to be a virgin, but I'd prefer someone who's only had sex in relationships at a minimum. I don't know if I'm finding a 27yo virgin chick lol

My GF feels sore after I finger her. She says the area around the outside of her pussy feels like it's chafed. She is very hairy down there and I use lots of lube. And I do mean lots of lube. I think I might be accidently pulling her hair as I rub her pussy. Am I just bad, does she need to trim her hair, or is there something else I can try? I like her the way she is

>>33573730
this bitch
she has MILES of dick spooled neatly away in storage rooms while others starve

Honestly i wish he got me pregnant and ruined my life

>>33573720
Yes very tight

>>33573736
Oh, for sure. Either way, we're expecting a lot from a platform and people that owe us less than nothing.

Women:

Do big tits run in your family?

>>33573744
expectations or not it still is sad when somebody acts that way

>>33573730
AM OMW

>>33573746
F. Not particularly. I'm definitely the flat black sheep, though.

>>33573746
Hah no

>>33573740
aint that the dream
loml consumed by passion in the heat of the moment and welding himself to you permanently

People itt often assume that there are MTFs here but desu I think we're more likely to get FTMs.

>>33573740
This is when I fuck femanon I'm going to cum inside without permission. Letting me stick my dick in her cunt is literally consent to be bred.

>>33573734
Yeah, life is good, thank you for the warm wishes and I wish you also the best. Hope you're making bank and having a good time. People know usa is screwed but they go for the money, since a paycheck can feed their village for a month or something.

Huuuuh you wanna go to the Amazon? Man that would be a cool trip, but yeah imagine the creepy crawlers and the bugs bigger than your head. You like any hobby? Other boards you frequent besides adv?

>>33573746
Yes

Men are retreating from relationships, from institutional demands, from collective obligation. Not by cowardice, nor nihilism, nor weakness but by sacred refusal to collude with a world that has hollowed out the feminine into parody and severed eros from its mythic root.
This retreat is not a conscious movement toward soul, for most men have not heard of soul. It is not a deliberate descent into myth, for most don't remember the myths. And yet it happens, everywhere.
Men retreat not in search of the feminine within but in search of refuge. They turn away from real relationships, work, education, not because they hate women, but because the outer feminine devoid of beauty, of function, of soul has become unrecognizable and if given a choice between emptiness and the parody, they choose emptiness. They choose nothing rather than violate what remains of their inner integrity.
But it is there in the void that the great possibility stirs.
Even if they do not name her, do not know her, have never met her, still within that emptiness the anima awaits.
She does not need to be reimagined, reengineered, or "updated". She does not ask to be made familiar to the modern psyche. She need only be seen, once. As she is in the dark, without distortion, without irony, without demand.

This act of remembering is enough.

Because where culture collapses, myth re-emerges and where men descend into the silence beneath language, soul prepares its next eruption. The anima was never meant to be found in daylight; she is born in shadow, dwells in dream and speaks first through absence.
So let it be said: true virtue is born in darkness.
And when men meet her there not as escape, not as fantasy, but as a reawakening they will return. Not as obedient citizens of a broken world, but as bearers of the fire, as visionaries, warriors, poets, and builders, not of new systems but of meaningful life.

This is not disappearance, it's gestation.

>>33573750
>black
N-

>>33573720
Yes I sit at a desk for 8-10 hours a day. I stretch and workout but it still sucks.

>>33573746
Yes but I don't have big tits.

>>33573746
Yes
But that gene skipped me

>>33573740
Honestly same. I could be a mother right now and would've babytrapped his rich, hot ass. Literal dream scenario minus the onesidedness.

>>33573764
I realized afterwards that it was going to be used as a race joke.

>>33573771
I did this.

>>33573770
>>33573769
>>33573750
Hmmmm

I'm #noticing something...

wow. there's zero questions in this thread worth answering other than 'why are you on 4chan.' what an absolute flop of a thread so far.

Does dopamine detox work? I feel ADHD though I am not, and tired. I'm thinking about not using the Internet for two weeks to see how my brain reacts.

>>33573757
>Yeah, life is good, thank you for the warm wishes and I wish you also the best.
I'm glad to hear that, and thank you.
>Hope you're making bank and having a good time.
Well I'm having a good time hahaha, the cost of living is just too high here.
>People know usa is screwed but they go for the money, since a paycheck can feed their village for a month or something.
Yeah definitely
>Huuuuh you wanna go to the Amazon?
Yes I think it would be the coolest.
>Man that would be a cool trip, but yeah imagine the creepy crawlers and the bugs bigger than your head.
I'm already mentally preparing to be eaten alive by bugs lol.
Would you go into the Amazon wilderness for fun?
>You like any hobby? Other boards you frequent besides adv?
Yeah I hike and swim, I like to go to concerts with friends and go to raves, I am also really into vintage clothing.
I go on /fa/ pretty regularly.
What about you? And I was wondering if you want to exchange contacts?

>>33573779
Nope
>>33573777
Wooow, you sure turned things around with your quality post

>>33573777
Yep.

>>33573776
That femcels are often pale neets who don't eat much and thus never developed big tits?
You're like a decade late.

>>33573777
You ask a question then

>>33573685
It is like real life interactions m8.
You speak to a rando and once people have said all they need normally they stop.

>>33573777
Nice trips, lucky faggot.
I am keeping my weaponized ultra horny questions to myself for now. But I might start firing from all cylinders in about half an hour after dinner.

Does anyone else find it funny that people from communities all over the internet came together to sign a petition based solely on their shared desire to piss off Jason Hall?

>>33573782
>Nope
Any better ideas? I don't loose anything just trying...

>>33573684
F I did something similar in middle school

>>33573791
Nobody knows who that is.

>>33573793
>better ideas
Yeah, there is no solution and no short cuts. You simply have to learn to do the dumb shit and endure hating every moment of it.

>>33573791
Who tf is that and how do I sign the petition?

>>33573723
It is too common and very painful to hold in. I want to let the people I lied to that still talk to me know but it hurts to much to bring up.

>>33573516
F
I want my partner to be a virgin.

Favorite weapon in Doom?

Girls, what is your idea of good dirty talk from a guy?

>>33573803
Any honest compliments really. I don't know if that counts...

Men are retreating from relationships, from institutional demands, from collective obligation. Not by cowardice, nor nihilism, nor weakness but by sacred refusal to collude with a world that has hollowed out the feminine into parody and severed eros from its mythic root.
This retreat is not a conscious movement toward soul, for most men have not heard of soul. It is not a deliberate descent into myth, for most don't remember the myths. And yet it happens, everywhere.
Men retreat not in search of the feminine within but in search of refuge. They turn away from real relationships, work, education, not because they hate women, but because the outer feminine devoid of beauty, of function, of soul has become unrecognizable and if given a choice between emptiness and the parody, they choose emptiness. They choose nothing rather than violate what remains of their inner integrity.
But it is there in the void that the great possibility stirs.
Even if they do not name her, do not know her, have never met her, still within that emptiness the anima awaits.
She does not need to be reimagined, reengineered, or "updated". She does not ask to be made familiar to the modern psyche. She need only be seen, once. As she is in the dark, without distortion, without irony, without demand.

This act of remembering is enough.

Because where culture collapses, myth re-emerges and where men descend into the silence beneath language, soul prepares its next eruption. The anima was never meant to be found in daylight; she is born in shadow, dwells in dream and speaks first through absence.
So let it be said: true virtue is born in darkness.
And when men meet her there not as escape, not as fantasy, but as a reawakening they will return. Not as obedient citizens of a broken world, but as bearers of the fire, as visionaries, warriors, poets, and builders, not of new systems but of meaningful life.

This is not disappearance, it's gestation.

>>33573481
Nope. Need some form of stimulation that does not involve genitals. A cuddle and a tease (that is not a tease) work miracles.
>>33573483
>>33573488
Ouch.

>>33573803
Compliments, raunchy descriptions of how I feel to him, what he wants me to do to him, and what he want to do to me.

>>33573448
I have a lot of free time right now
Also I enjoy talking to men, sue me

>>33573481
Yes
A flirty smile or pose will suffice

>>33573798
>who is that
Streamer/fake game dev/nepobaby/compulsive liar/confident retard. Goes by PirateSoftware.
>how do I sign
Live in the EU and time travel back a few months to when it was still open.

>>33573738
Could her skin be reacting badly to the lube?

>>33573818
Literally who?

>>33573814
>sue me
I'll take you up on the offer and sue you for very perverted sex games!

>>33573738
You just don't make her horny enough, so you have to rub too hard and long. Try being more teasy.

>>33573818
>Goes by PirateSoftware.
Could have just used the name people have maybe actually heard before, but no, you little autist had to act like a special little snowflake.

>>33573516
>If you haven’t, does it matter for you if your partner is a virgin?
Still a virgin, and no, it does not matter one bit. However, i would prefer for my partner to be a bit more experienced than me, or inclined to being dominant (that is leading).

>>33573814
>I enjoy talking to men
Thank you for your service.

>>33573801
F
The original?
Plasma gun.
Overall, obviously super shotgun.

good morning everyone time for some coffee

>>33573822
I actually rarely talk about sex, or it's more of a clinical approach. It's something I'd like to work on with the right guy
>>33573826
Thank you for obliging me!

>>33573781
How's vintage clothing? Like armour and stuff? (lmao in just kidding but honestly, that's something that should come back in terms of /fa/).
Oh no, I don't like humid places, I live in one. Sure! Drop your email and we can link up through there.

>>33573818
why do you guys hate him so much? he seems pretty chill. the mic thing is funny tho i'll give you that. heard his real voice at the streamer awards and laughed

>>33573799
More than anything I tend to avoid trying but being autistic still gets in the way.

>>33573829
Good morning saar

>>33573448
same reason as u bb

>>33573801
M
Just the regular shotgun. It's reliable for what it is, even if it doesn't deal crazy damage.

>>33573779
Just cut the distractions and do whatever you have to do in small bites. Like clock 1m and stop 30sec then you up that to 3/1, 15/5. Don't try and do two things at the same time also

>>33573829
I swear caffeine has no effect on me. I can drink a can of Celsius at 9pm and sleep just fine.

>>33573835
It's been unavoidable. The closest person I am to online and at all told me that they are strongly considering suicide and I don't feel Ok feeling like we were closer because I had lied about having relationships and relationship troubles that ended up being similar to theirs. If we both lied that just makes it worse.

>>33573813
>Compliments
Hot. I bet I could get you going just by saying “dinner was so great, you always do an amazing job in the kitchen” huh?

>>33573448
I can be horny at strange men without putting myself in danger or having it impact my social situation.

>>33573831
>How's vintage clothing?
I absolutely love it haha, it just fits incredibly well idk what modern designers are thinking.
>Like armour and stuff?
Haha I wish
>(lmao in just kidding but honestly, that's something that should come back in terms of /fa/).
It would be incredibly fun, we do have rennaisance fairs to do that here though.
>Oh no, I don't like humid places, I live in one.
Haha fair enough
>Sure! Drop your email and we can link up through there.
Anthony_trollope@protonmail.com
Not my name but the name of an old author lol.

I’ve started seeing a friends with benefits less because of life and stuff. Last time we met up , she suddenly brought up times she’s had sex with other men while we haven’t talked (like 2 months). She’s never really done that before, and we were talking about what was going on during that time. She didn’t say it like in a straight voice, more so in like a joking “haha isn’t that crazy” voice. But it wasn’t a one off line either. Why?

>>33573846
Unironically, yes. I must be retarded.

>>33573851
No, don’t be down on yourself, it’s unique and really cute. It’s something that makes you special.

>>33573841
Yeah but I have no motivation and I feel like shit. Maybe I'm brainrotted. Maybe this needs a more radical approach...

I have this constant desmotivation and brainfog. I don't even feel lonely or depressed. I just feel empty. I am on meds that are supposed to help. I think it's my lifestyle? Maybe being chronically online and drinking alcohol really fucked my brain up.

>>33573833
Arrogance and incompetence are a perfect combination for making people dislike you. Particularly when you try to fuck over a popular initiative based on your flawed understanding of an entire industry that you claim to be an authority on.

>>33573660
How old are you in the first place?

>>33573850
Your absence had consequences. People aren't just toys you can put away at your convenience.

>>33573856
25

>>33573847
That's me, I'm the strange men!

>>33573853
I know what you're doing, and it won't work.

>>33573850
You should go get tested

>>33573860
And that's why we love you.

>>33573727
Handpost for attention

>>33573854
Also big doses of caffeine. I am addicted but it does not make me feel as good as before...

I'm 20yo. Am I cooked?

>>33573861
I figured. You’re too smart for compliment bombing to work. Such a sharp girl.

>>33573854
Motivation comes after you start. Try cutting whatever is distracting you and doing whatever you need to do for a minute. And then you repeat

>>33573738
Could be a reaction to the lube/condom too. But also, are you callused and rough handed?

>>33573746
Not on my mom's side.
>>33573754
Also true because birdy transed for a minute, also had another detrans ftm poster.

>>33573863
Speak for yourself, trannoid

>>33573867
Hilarious.

Women, it just started raining outside.
Hope you are getting wet safely instead.

>>33573843
This (your opinion) is a pet peeve of mine.
Caffeine DOES effect you, but people like you are just retards who are like
>reeee, nobody takes caffeine addiction seriously!
But coming at the same wrong take just from the other side.
Of course you can fall asleep after drinking a lot of caffeine. And you're sleeping 'fine', but I assure you it is negatively impacting your sleep quality.
Just not by a margin that really makes THAT much of a difference because caffeine isn't a very strong drug. So weak in fact that a lot of people barely notice it - including the people who drink it all the time. Morning coffee is about 90% habit and waiting and moving around with respect to 'waking up', not the caffeine.
But people who obsessively anti-caffeine post, or in your case minimize it's effect on yourself, both just wildly overestimate the effect it has. It's not like it's only a step below shooting meth.

>>33573859
Well, idk what to tell you, except commiserate on the fact that dating these days is a torture.

>>33573772
Are you black?

>>33573698
60+ years, you dooly.

Is it bad to ask a date a bunch of “are you Pro- something political or social” questions?

>>33573879
It’s not a torture for every one
>>33573881
Please be nice to me

>>33573855
can you be less vague and more specific

>>33573882
Give examples.

>>33573837
DO NOT REDEEM GOOGLE CARDS SAAR
>>33573843
same, I drink so much coffee caffeine doesn't work anymore

>>33573882
Usually yes, but in your case no.

>>33573867
>>33573876
Imagine enjoying a night in with JH when you just suddenly tell her "You know, I love how well you handled <some thing> earlier."
JH: "W-what?"
And you go down the list of all the things you love about her and how you noticed all the little things she did so well that she didn't know you picked up on and she gets flustered and turns beet red and puts her book down with her hands in her face happy crying while you get up to embrace her before leaning in to whisper in her ear even more compliments.

>>33573882
In the social zeitgeist absolutely.
If you don't you will end up 9/10 times with generic social media/university spawn of evil.
So it's lose-lose, the solution is not to date.

>>33573882
Don't be autistic and ask "what do you think about X?" instead...
You do nknow not every human interaction needs to be an online debate?

>>33573884
See it like me giving you a headpat.

>>33573882
It's taboo, yes, but it gets to the point a lot faster and you waste less time overall.

What is the correct response to
>I love you more!

My womb is barren

>>33573884
And yet it is. And we are talking about dating, not hookups/casual meetings for sex.

>>33573887
SAAE PLIS REDEEM CODE FOR SHE

>>33573891
See the thing is this advice is only good for you as a gutless nihilist with no genuine beliefs or convictions other than "don't be judgmental...."
And you're the sort of person anyone with any convictions no matter what they are wants to avoid.

>>33573895
I love you most

>>33573895
>yeah, probably

>>33573899
lmao

>>33573895
"No, let me show you!"

>>33573896
sorry

>>33573895
making out / escalating

>>33573886
are you pro Palestine?

Are you pro - AI?

Are you pro height surgery?

>>33573878
I was just making a comment. I only did the Celsius thing once and haven’t had caffeine in months I don’t think.

>>33573896
no need for condoms then

>>33573899
>>33573890
You sound like that mental nutcase christcuck.

>>33573896
i'm jealous

>>33573907
No. We need a third option to conquer both Israel and Palestine and build a Jerusalem theme park.
Yes. Why would I be mad that we figured out a better way to use computers?
No, I oppose all forms of human ritual mutilation even ear piercing.

>>33573882
that would give me the ick that's for sure

>>33573907
And what are the answers to those that you think would be okay?

>>33573896
Do you still want me to push down on it and gently massage it when we're together?

>>33573897
I wish it wasn’t so hard because I know when it’s love it’s so easy. It’s the finding it that’s so hard

>>33573879
It's only a torture for non-Chads. Female creatures are happy to be cumrags for Chads in hopes of getting commitment.

>>33573913
>AI
>better
lol, lmao

>>33573911
YOU sound like this REALLY SPECIFIC and TOTALLY DUMB AND WRONG ATHEISTKEK@@@@@@@@!!!!!!!!
Hah. Got you. Detected your post. Knew it was you, dumbass.

>>33573882
>Is it bad to ask a date a bunch of “are you Pro- something political or social” questions?
Its a good thing to clear out before commiting to a relationship. Atleast if you align on those, chances are you will have some durability in that relationship. Unless you are just in it for the sex, dont even montion it.

Issue is that you need to ask such questions in a civil, off-hand manner, without assumptions or pre-conceived notions. Also, you need to be able to actually talk about those political and social issues like a normal human being - with no hostility or adversity. After all, you are conversing, and wanting to see another's stance, not prove something.

The last thing you want is to realise that your partner is on the opposite side.

>>33573895
I don't want to tell her that I love her more because it sounds like I may underestimate her love, let's just say that we love each other the same, to the max

>>33573887
I guess people get accustomed to the taste eventually but last time I had regular coffee I couldn’t finish due to how bad it tastes.

>>33573920
Found ya.

Men would you date a woman who would only have very sickly small babies due to her health issues

>>33573919
Pretty sure my computer didn't generate system-level boilerplate code for me before LLMs or give me lucid bullet point summaries of literally anything I ask it with less than three conditionals. It's really not my fault you're a fucking moron.

>>33573598
M
Yh

>>33573928
Yes but I would not have babies with her.

>>33573928
Maybe we should adopt them then

>>33573927
Hah. You're the one who posted yesterday about the carp right? Yeah, I figured. I matched your posting style in my head. Sometimes, you just know. Welcome back kid.
What I'm doing right now to indulge my mental illness is totally different from namefag drama, I swear!

>>33573936
>the carp
No, I know nothing about fish.

>>33573933
Why not

>>33573928
Yeah, because we're not having any children anyway.

>>33573720
Which ones are the hip flexors?

feeling very blackpilled about existence generally today. any foids want to try and cheer me up?

>>33573460
>>33573470
It wouldn't. Women tend to sabotage each other however they can and are overriden with jealousy.
Reason why healthy relationships die is because there's "this friend" that's single within their friendgroup that tricks them into ruining it.
Go for it man.

State gender
What advice can you give a guy who's about to go on a date for the first time in in like 3 years? It's a brunch date, and the woman is a lady I married several years ago.

>>33573516
M, it was a bit awkward and amazing. It was special for us both, because after months of work she'd finally been able to take me fully without pain. She had a really bad case of vaginismus, so initially just getting a finger in was a struggle.

I’m so horny it’s scary

>>33573882
>Is it bad to ask a date a bunch of “are you Pro- something political or social” questions?
If it's a first date, that's an unbelievably bad idea. First dates need to be kept light and fun. The moment you start talking about politics, people start getting up upset.

I think circle lenses can look really hot. Especially the ones where it looks like very dilated pupils.

Women, would you occasionally wear circle lenses for me if I were your bf?

>>33573895
"I love you better".

>>33573951
I'm so horny, it's crazy.
But I have not found the right thing to jerk off to yet.

>>33573923
>partner is one the opposite side
Not the worst thing. My girl is Christian somewhat conservative , I’m agnostic liberal leaning left.
We work together because I’m stereotypically masculine even if don’t enjoy the patriarchy or support it, it’s just my natural personality. Also, we leave a lot of political discussions to the Side. But we’re also willing to disagree on things and let bygones be bygones. Like I was able to get her to be more accepting of gay people even if she’s far from getting to the left issue of it.
Our biggest disagreement is how much she wants religion to be a part of our life and I was able to compromise on going to church like 3 times a year (she goes with her friends) , and sometimes stopping by for brunch

>>33573882
Torture.

>>33573949
F, cherish what you have you lucky bastard

>>33573516
m
>If you haven’t, does it matter for you if your partner is a virgin?
no, not much of a consideration. i suppose the less experience they have, the more similar our first time together will be? but i think there are plenty of SICK females that get off to taking a guy's virginity, at least this is my impression talking to some women as a virgin at 30

>>33573926
yeah, I didn't love it either at first but now I do

>>33573953
Yeah easy

>>33573957
>Our biggest disagreement is how much she wants religion to be a part of our life and I was able to compromise on going to church like 3 times a year (she goes with her friends) , and sometimes stopping by for brunch
Nta
That is not a discrepancy I could live with.

>>33573895
>i love you
>i love you more
>i love you most
>i love you moster
>i love you mostests
>i love you mosterest
>i love you mosterestesterwtfbbq
That's how I imagine it going.

>>33573940
Because they would be sickly...

Chose your gf: Size queen or queen sized?

>>33573907
Good questions. Again, the point is not "good answer/bad answer", the point is what your stance is, what your date's/partner's is, and whether they align. And the most important thing is just how much do those stances matter. If they affect you, directly or not - sure. If they dont, why even bother asking them?

>>33573947
What are some things you're feeling blackpilled about?

Why do MANY men pretend to care about sexual past but fold once they find love? It’d almost like it was posturing to appear alpha.Every male friend I know who cared seemingly stopped caring once they met their SO

>>33573928
Depends on if she necessarily wants children or if she can be happy without.

>>33573928
I don't want kids so that's not an issue for me.

>>33573882
>are you a pro-wrestler?

>>33573953
i wear them most days

>>33573972
Thats just how it goes. Men fold the moment pussy is on the menu.

>>33573972
female mind control spores
their will is no longer their own

>>33573962
Would you want me to do something in return?
There's other things I find hot, but the circle lenses is something I only just noticed. Do you have any?

>>33573977
Just casually? Don't they put a atrain on your eyes?

>>33573917
>love
Now what do you mean by that(?), because i am fairly certain we have different understandings of what love is. And do mind that a lot of people mistake attraction/infatuation/passion for love.

If you want a whole, complete love, then you need: long-term commitment, passion, intimacy. That is the best thing there is, and it doesnt happen instantly, and it requires time to build.

>>33573951
Imagine if someone asked you on a date

>>33573972
Meanwhile I don't really care about sexual past and am alone. Maybe your posturing male friends were on to something.

Girls, do you think society would be better off if no-fault divorce was banned? Divorce would be allowed but only in cases of infidelity, abandonment, or abuse.

>>33573918
>It's only a torture for non-Chads
Before we even start discussing this, please give a definition for/of Chad.

>>33573985
Why force people to be with people they don't want to be with? Is that your only hope of ever getting someone to stay?

>>33573985
No.
I'm kind of a fan of freedom, you might say.

>>33573871
My hands aren't calloused
>>33573819
That happened once with water based pH balanced lube, but it doesn't happen all the time with said lube. She said her outside skin feels like it burned rather than chafed, inside was fine oddly.
>>33573823
>too long
I spend a while doing it because I like fingering her. Is 30 minutes too long?

>>33573972
I’ve asked about in any the only women who are open to it are conservative women, former promiscuous women who are going too hard to become “reformed sluts”, or women who’ve been in relationships but haven’t had casual sex.
The average women who has had casual sex automatically gives you a red flag for asking about it.

Also, there’s ways to go about it without appearing like a tool. Like a female friend brought up “I bet you’re a manwhore “ when we were joking. It sounds funny, but on paper she’s trying to see if I’m actually a slut based off my answer.

>>33573885
Which part would you like specifics on?

>>33573989
>30 minutes too long?
??? When I masturbate it takes like 4 mins. You can play with her pussy for 30 mins but then you have to PLAY, not rub the shit out of it.
Try vigorously rubbing the tip of your dick for 30mins straight and then tell me it's not sore the next day.

>>33573981
they're dailies from reputable korean brands, so they are thinner and made from more porous material compared to cosplay lenses and such

>>33573987
Because it destroys families and hurts children.

>>33573988
I think marriage should be viewed as a contractual agreement where you have to uphold your obligations you agreed to? Like any other contract.

>>33573981
Hm… I would be happy if you let me dress you up. Fashion, not weird sex stuff

>>33573997
Unhappy people together destroy families and hurt children

>>33573978
Imagine meeting a 10/10 women who you’re compatible with and then going “ah shucks, she’s fucked 50 guys and a couple of my friends, guess we can’t date now”. That would be a fuck up.

>>33574000
Then get over it. You loved each other at one point. Quit being selfish and do it again.

>>33573985
No, but I do think that adultery should be criminalised again

>>33573985
No. People should be free

>>33573803
Uh, maybe like something coy/shy.
"Stop looking at me like that, it’s making me ___."

>>33573989
nta could be a simple friction burn or microtear. also not to be too alarming but sometimes burning (even just on the outside) is an early symptom of bv or a yeast infection, both are common and easily treatable of course

>>33574003
How? With the amount of men cheating we would need the McDonalds of justice system

>>33573880
Mixed.
>>33573889
I expected that to end very sexually.

>>33573474
women arrogate men

>>33573998
I don't know why you say "weird sex stuff" lol, since doing things for your partner is pretty hot imo.
Like wearing a suit for a dinner and then keep it on for playing in bed.
But if you meant, having me wear things while we're just outside and doing sonething together, then yeah that'd be fine.
My ideas for dressing my gf up are pretty much all just in private, but I would help her find stuff for wearing outside.

>>33574007
>burning (even just on the outside) is an early symptom of bluevalkarie
not surprising

>>33573972
They fear competition, and resent being compared to someone else. Some are just narcissistic and cannot abide with the fact that *they* are not the first. Some others want an easy target to control/manipulate/saddle.
And they stop caring about that because they get what they wanted.

>>33573996
Oh so they double as prescription lenses?
Do you order Korean makeup and skin care products in general?

>>33573801
Idk
Arbalest

>>33574013
I have to be specific because it’s 4chan. I’m into fashion so having another person to dress up would be really fun

It's crazy how slow the days trickle by when you're really excited about something.

>>33574018
yes to both yes i am asian :p

>>33573957
Compromise is good, so long as both sides uphold the agreement/arrangement, and anything that might disturb it is discussed prior. Good going anon.
I am a non-practicing christian.I dont go to church or do all fo those rituals, but i do understand that some people need that.
Depending on a church, a trip there can be nice. Sometimes just to sit in the quiet atmosphere can be very relaxing, especially if you are there on your own volition/interest/curiosity and have no strings attached. So even if you are an atheist, it can be a pleasant experience.

>>33574011
>arrogate
I have never heard that word before. I didn't know it was a real word.

>>33574021
Does this go both ways, you'd want him to dress you up to?
I just came across some really weird lenses, but they seem extreme.

>>33573989
Yeah could be simple friction from the hair and the movement. Like taking a blanket to the top of your head for 30 minutes, your scalp will be sore.

>>33574028
I didn't really make that connection!
Do you have any looks you are into? Have you ever gone to any of the Asian fashion capitals?

>>33573982
Yea but it’s not hard for me to commit to someone i love. It’s work but it doesn’t feel hard

>>33573983
They won’t I look very ugly today

>>33573985
Then you should criminalize financial abuse, unpaid labor, and quantify emotional abuse.

>>33574038
Wouldn,t date be perfect for just staying in bed together? Cuddling and having fun, getting the stress out?

>>33573997
>Because it destroys families and hurts children
So does abuse, lack of care, indifference.
And what if they dont have children? Or kids are 16-18 and over? Or got married because they were lovey-dovey and not serious about it?
>>33574002
You cannot force it. It always does more harm than good.

>>33574038
Don't be so mean to yourself.

>>33574042
Please stop replying to the braindead tradcuck.

I'm horny!

>>33574032
I think he could suggest stuff and I would adjust it if needed

>>33574047
t. Mother of three kids who acknowledges her husband is a great guy but feels like "something is missing" so she wants to separate and doesn't understand why people view her as a piece of shit

>>33574039
Based.
I know a girl who stays with her bf who cheats on her constantly but she can't afford to leave and move out despite working full time so she just lives with it and accepts that she thinks she's a worthless person.

>>33574050
You are all that?
Wow.

Where do I meet clingy gf

>>33573959
I will!

>>33574048
M-marine?

>>33574045
I’m not

>>33574053
Take regular gf, dry on high with no dryer sheet.

>>33574042
>So does abuse, lack of care
That would be fault, which is an adequate reason for divorce.

>>33574009
I'm not an animal with nothing but sex breed rut rut fuck FUCK FUCK on the brain, you know. Unlike some. Naturally with you the sex will be a part of it, but the emphasis here was more on the unexpected viscerality of your physiological reaction to having your brain get broken by your own rampant praisekink

>>33574049
You got a very strong sense of how you want to look, I take it?
I'm sure you look great in it.
What would you wear on your first dinner date at a nice restaurant after we're official?

>>33574058
It would be cool to be vtuber, but nah. Also, I'm male, hence the horniness.

>>33574063
I should probs bring this up with my therapist if even joke hypothetical compliments do something for me.

>>33574030
You’re gonna have to compromise the further extreme you are in the poltical spectrum. Far left and far right can’t always use a “score 100%• purity test in real life unless they’re cool with being single forever

>>33574036
Yes, but how do you know you actually genuinely love them? Love is a nebulous thing. For half-a-year they may be inseparable, then decide to marry because "my one true love", and then couple of month later its "i hate the bastard he oggles other women and flirted with a receptionist!" and "she is just not that interesting to me anymore, i mean, she is like 6/10 at best" or "idk man, i just dont feel attracted to her". What then? I've seen it happen.
The issue is that "love at first sight" doesnt exist. Not because its love, but because its an attraction. Usually wears off in a week or two, provided there is no reinforcement to it. Same with "butterflies" - it is anxiety, not love.
Not to say that "love at first sight" cannot happen. For that to be true both need to be ultr-compatible, because they will take steps and actions that will reinforce the bond. But that can happen only when both are 100% commited to it, fully aligned. And that is a rare thing.

Men are retreating from relationships, from institutional demands, from collective obligation. Not by cowardice, nor nihilism, nor weakness but by sacred refusal to collude with a world that has hollowed out the feminine into parody and severed eros from its mythic root.
This retreat is not a conscious movement toward soul, for most men have not heard of soul. It is not a deliberate descent into myth, for most don't remember the myths. And yet it happens, everywhere.
Men retreat not in search of the feminine within but in search of refuge. They turn away from real relationships, work, education, not because they hate women, but because the outer feminine devoid of beauty, of function, of soul has become unrecognizable and if given a choice between emptiness and the parody, they choose emptiness. They choose nothing rather than violate what remains of their inner integrity.
But it is there in the void that the great possibility stirs.
Even if they do not name her, do not know her, have never met her, still within that emptiness the anima awaits.
She does not need to be reimagined, reengineered, or "updated". She does not ask to be made familiar to the modern psyche. She need only be seen, once. As she is in the dark, without distortion, without irony, without demand.

This act of remembering is enough.

Because where culture collapses, myth re-emerges and where men descend into the silence beneath language, soul prepares its next eruption. The anima was never meant to be found in daylight; she is born in shadow, dwells in dream and speaks first through absence.
So let it be said: true virtue is born in darkness.
And when men meet her there not as escape, not as fantasy, but as a reawakening they will return. Not as obedient citizens of a broken world, but as bearers of the fire, as visionaries, warriors, poets, and builders, not of new systems but of meaningful life.

This is not disappearance, it's gestation.

>>33574070
>For half-a-year they may be inseparable, then decide to marry
People who marry after half a year are incredibly low IQ.
Nta

>>33574070
I wasn’t talking about love at first sight I don’t believe in that

>>33574062
Here is the issue. Unless it is a physical abuse, it is kinda hard to prove/evidence. And in some instances, even physical abuse is (unless its something very obsious and impossible to miss).

>>33573971
abstract stuff. the status quo, maybe? life's directionless, i guess. not my life, which has plenty of direction, but in general. most of us are pieces of other people's machines, which is fine and probably normal but these people's machines don't have a lot of purpose or vision it seems, and that bothers me. sorry, wish i could put it in less abstract terms but yeah

>>33574071
mmmmmmmm ai slop, my favorite!

>>33574060
You're always a cutie

>>33574068
>score 100% purity test
I think those are the most extreme cases, and they are not that numerous.
Score of 50 and above is usually the thing they go for. After all, they do love to indoctrinate.

>>33574079
I’m not

>>33574073
Yup.
>>33574074
Ok, what were you taking about?

>receive package
>"pull here to open"
>"pull here" does not open it at all
Why do women do this?

Why do liberals say "folks" a lot?

>>33574085
Hahahahhahaha
Fell for it

Women, I still think about how good this random girl at a store once smelled. I don't remember the smell, just that it was nice. That was like 10 or 15 years ago.
Do you know you have this effect on guys?
Also, what do you (women...) like guys to smell like?

>>33574090
Labubu lobotomy

>>33574083
You are though,

>>33574087
because saying "guys" is sexist

>>33574087
i like saying folks cuz i like leaning into the germanic words of english more, if i can help it. not a liberal tho

>>33574085
I read that as "pull her".

>>33574095
They always say "black folks" and "white folks"

>>33574094
Why not say "people"? Why is it always "folks"?

>>33573972
This is actually REALLY funny, because what you have is a bunch of 'alpha male' dudes who blabber on about caring about it, but don't actually give a shit beyond using it as a power dynamic thing to neg women. They'll still 100% sleep with or date a girl who's slept with lots of guys given the option.
And then you have the chudjak guys who want to be like the alpha guys they follow and are like
>no, I actually DO take bodycount really seriously
and add it onto the pile of other reasons they're already not getting laid.

>>33574091
English?

Men, would you have a rich 70 year sugar mommy? She wants you to eat her out at least three or four times a month.

>>33574097
oh, yeah i guess i just use folks (generic), like addressing a group or set of people literally near me rather than abstract groups. its always trannies with me and never transfolx

>>33574090
>Do you know you have this effect on guys?
I definitely don't have that effect.
>Also, what do you (women...) like guys to smell like?
I've had a similar experience to you. A guy was using a very specific body wash, it smelt amazing, and I've been trying to figure out what it was ever since. I think it's the combination of their natural smell + body wash that smells so good.

>>33574087
We absolutely do not.

>>33574064
Yeah, but I think a simple lace cocktail dress would be nice for that occasion

If Apple doesn’t keep the ultramarine color for iPhones then it might be a while till I upgrade

>>33574097
>Why not say "people"? Why is it always "folks"?
at some point in the past it felt like it was less stilted to say than people and once it caught on it just stuck, i guess. i always thought it sounded corny and inauthentic but i feel that way about most things they do.

>>33574107
Femanons look like this ?

>>33573972
well most people think dating is finding the right one rather than building a meaningful thing across time, and you can do that with anyone, so of course once they discover that they release it's a dumb thing to care about

>>33574100
No thanks, I'm a PC gamer

>>33574110
Only the Eastern European or Indian ones. That's a really dated dress.

>>33574110
Haha yes

>>33574100
No, that'd be really weird.
I have and make more than enough money.
I want somebody who can actually keep up with me.

>>33574107
That looks quite pretty.
I'm usually not one to dress pretty, but love putting on my suit for a nice occasion like that.

>>33574034
i like the way koreans approach fashion, even with alternative styles they tend to have a more moderate or polished approach that i prefer. i have been to harajuku and really loved seeing all the more flamboyant styles people wear and especially gyarus. what about you?

>>33574103
I feel like it has to be more than that though, bodywash smell ever seems to stick around in my case, it just ceases to be as soon as I exit the shower.

>>33574093
I don’t like when you lie

>>33574112
She can buy you a high end gaming PC with new speakers and keyboard too.

>>33573972
Men learn to cope and settle, it also helps if they themselves have sexual past

women do you like man musk?

Have doctors ever given you false advice? There's something they told me to do but it doesn't feel right for my body... I should trust my body instead, right?

>>33574123
No, go take a shower michael

>>33573972
1. Past a certain threshold a woman's pros will outweigh her thottish past. e.g. I didn't care that the last 3 times I heard a girl referenced in conversation was because she had fucked someone else they were talking about because she was a 10/10 in looks to me
2. Acceptability of body count scales with a woman's age (e.g. body count of 5 at age 20 vs body count of 5 at 30)
3. Autists stop obsessing over facts and statistics once their dick is inside a woman's mouth
4. With maturity, even in religious circles, you realize that chastity before marriage is an ideal but not necessarily required

>>33574117
>what about you?
Been to Japan several times and was always amazed at how Japanese women managed to look fashionable in even seemingly basic outfits.
I guess nice skirts during warm days go a long way to making somebody look nice.
Don't think it's necessary to dress nice, but I can't deny it looking nice when people do.

>>33574125
Except for maybe once at the dentist, wouldn't say so.
But they have disspelled fears before they even have finished all examinations, which then later confirmed their expectations lf what I have.

>>33574123
No. I'm pretty sure most of that advice comes from other men, and pickme women. I like stuff that smells clean and fresh, not musky.

>>33574122
This, the last time I cared about body count I wasn’t getting laid. GRANTED, there are people who do get laid who care about it, like rappers. Every rapper has a song taking about not “siding a slut”. But then you check their dating history and it’s usually models who’ve been gangbanged by the entire industry so that’s also a lie.

Choose which 2035 job you will have, /atoga/.
>Twitch streamer
>Onlyfans whore
>GoFundMe e-begger
>AI scammer
>Gig economy hustler (Doordash, Uber, Taskrabbit, etc)
>Crypto bro / pro sports better
>Zogbot who gets sent to fight in Iran

>>33574129
>chastity before marriage is an ideal
Oh gosh no.
Imagine waiting several years to have sex with your partner only to find out shit does not work properly together.
Absolute horror.

>>33574128
>not calling him Elon

>>33574135
that's why dancing exists as a mating ritual though

Men are retreating from relationships, from institutional demands, from collective obligation. Not by cowardice, nor nihilism, nor weakness but by sacred refusal to collude with a world that has hollowed out the feminine into parody and severed eros from its mythic root.
This retreat is not a conscious movement toward soul, for most men have not heard of soul. It is not a deliberate descent into myth, for most don't remember the myths. And yet it happens, everywhere.
Men retreat not in search of the feminine within but in search of refuge. They turn away from real relationships, work, education, not because they hate women, but because the outer feminine devoid of beauty, of function, of soul has become unrecognizable and if given a choice between emptiness and the parody, they choose emptiness. They choose nothing rather than violate what remains of their inner integrity.
But it is there in the void that the great possibility stirs.
Even if they do not name her, do not know her, have never met her, still within that emptiness the anima awaits.
She does not need to be reimagined, reengineered, or "updated". She does not ask to be made familiar to the modern psyche. She need only be seen, once. As she is in the dark, without distortion, without irony, without demand.

This act of remembering is enough.

Because where culture collapses, myth re-emerges and where men descend into the silence beneath language, soul prepares its next eruption. The anima was never meant to be found in daylight; she is born in shadow, dwells in dream and speaks first through absence.
So let it be said: true virtue is born in darkness.
And when men meet her there not as escape, not as fantasy, but as a reawakening they will return. Not as obedient citizens of a broken world, but as bearers of the fire, as visionaries, warriors, poets, and builders, not of new systems but of meaningful life.

This is not disappearance, it's gestation.

>>33574134
I'm not in the USA.

>>33574138
What an absolutely shite non-alternative.

>>33574134
I choose "polymarketbro who made 100k off my parlay of no peace in Gaza or Ukraine by the end of 2025"

Girls, what do you think should be done about trannies?

>>33574135
If that worked for several years already, then the problem isn't sexual history

>>33574142
What an absolute non-argument.

>>33574134
Option H: Defense contractor supplying the zogbots in Iran.

>>33574129
Also , I don’t mind promiscuous women, in fact every relationship I’ve had has been with the football teams favorite.
But what u do hate is people guilt tripping people into thinking that promiscuous women are the greatest at sex and preferring someone with similar experience to yourself, or a virgin (if you’re a virgin) , will just lead to a dead bedroom.
Being promiscuous doesn’t mean you’re great at sex. It just means you e had a lot of sex.

>>33574134
Podcast host talking about why these hoes ain't shit.

>>33574149
>>33574148
Absolute idiots.

>>33574143
nicely played

>>33574100
No it would be super weird

>>33574154
says a cuck

>>33574151
Also the dumb assumption that “if you’re an adult virgin, it means you have a low libido, so you should avoid virgin or low experience women”. I have a high libido but I’m autistic and struggle socially, so I just masturbate constantly. I wouldn’t create a dead bedroom if I got a partner.

>>33574144
I think you should leave them alone. It would be a lot easier to work on coming up with solutions to the issues you actually pretend to care about like women's sports, bathrooms, or whatever if the waters weren't muddied by the obvious fact that 90% of the people complaining are only doing it because they think they're weird and grossed out by them.

Men are the romantic gender. Foid romance = What can he materially provide to me.

>>33574162
yeah that's life, so what?

Just cut me up some camembert.

>>33574157
There it is!
The tradcuck's favourite fetish!

>>33574161
Weird, gross people do gross me out. Especially because trannies are much more likely to be violent or to rape children.

>>33574166
do you think it can ever work between a camembert man and a ricotta girl..nvm im being stupid forget i said anythnig :(

>>33574165
Well life sucks then

>>33574154
still not seeing an argument

>>33574134
Soccer mom

Men, how do you feel about these :
>SO being close, regular hangout with their exes
>SO being regular hangout friends with former FWBS or hookups
>SO asking you to help with the cooking and cleaning
>SO showing a decent amount of skin , maybe sometimes even dressing skimpy, when going out
>SO dancing with other men at parties/clubs, maybe even grinding on them
>SOs best friend being a man

>>33574171
I delight in both at the appropriate time.
But this even I am the C-man.

>>33574178
mostly i think it'd be nice having a SO

>>33574168
I'm not even American, stop projecting

>>33574182
Read properly.

>>33574178
if it's been +10 years, maybe. It's highly situational.
I'd rather she not.
I love cooking so yes and I think I'd participate in cleaning to some extent
I want her to feel beautiful so sure, but within reason
No.
I'm fine with that

but mostly what >>33574180 said

In this current economy, having my own apartment at my age (let’s just say I’m under 25) has completely altered my social life. My apartment has become the designated hangout spot for multiple friends, including women, and I’ve finally gotten laid because of it.
All it cost was quickly moving out my parents house for an apartment that is eating my paycheck. Cha Ching.

>>33574178
>SO asking you to help with the cooking and cleaning
>SO showing a decent amount of skin , maybe sometimes even dressing skimpy, when going out
Acceptable
>SOs best friend being a man
If it's me

>>33574172
yeah we all knew that already

>>33574158
>I wouldn’t create a dead bedroom if I got a partner.
Masturbation is very different from actual sex. Masturbation is low effort, easy, selfish. You don't know what it would be like when you have a sex partner - *especially* if you're sexually incompatible and don't enjoy the same sorts of things in bed. You perspective is clearly one of a virgin.

>>33574178
>>SO being close, regular hangout with their exes
>SO being regular hangout friends with former FWBS or hookups
I genuinely yet have to meet such a person.
This is a very foreign concept to me.

I think her LDR bf told her to stop hanging out with me...

>>33574191
Take it to the letter threads.

What characteristics should my ai gf have?

>>33574178
>no
>absolutely no
>fine
>only when with me
>definitely no
>no

>>33574178
>SO being close, regular hangout with their exes
Could be fine but depends on the situation
>SO being regular hangout friends with former FWBS or hookups
That's a no
>SO asking you to help with the cooking and cleaning
I'd be happy to help with both
>SO showing a decent amount of skin , maybe sometimes even dressing skimpy, when going out
Fine within reason
>SO dancing with other men at parties/clubs, maybe even grinding on them
Big no
>SOs best friend being a man
That's fine

Also what >>33574180 said.

>>33574196
Her primary trait should be that she is actually MY gf, and only with you reluctantly.

>>33574189
NTA but male virgin, how common is sexually incompatibility? And what makes someone sexual incompatible. Like say if a man is willing to answer his woman’s needs, is open minded to a certain extent, is a very unselfish lover, and is willing to learn. What are the chances and in what situations would he be incompatible with someone sexually?

>>33574196
ISO 9001 compliance. Also ISO 3103.

>>33574135
>shit does not work properly together.
Where there's a will, there's a way

>>33574100
No

I need to bounce on it

>>33574204
That's not how it works.

>>33574203
>Also ISO 3103
You want her to be british?

>>33574206
I like trampolines too.

>>33574206
No, my camembert is for eating, not pouncing.
I am having some ice cream now.

>>33574178
Cooking and cleaning fine, that's normal. Asking me to regularly look into the eyes of a man who has had his dick inside you might be too much

>>33574206
you would only hurt yourself, clumsy femcel

>>33574100
there are a couple of 70 year old women i could be attracted to but they're also ones who would never do sugar mommying

Femanons would you date one pump man or guy with the 1 inch punisher?

>>33574202
>sexually incompatibility
It's almost non-existent unless you have serious medical issues, it's almost always personality incompatibility and an unwillingness to adapt and compromise.

Do you think Pam Bondi is hot?

>>33574216
One pump, yes. Shrimp dick, no.

>>33574206
Crazy style?

I hate how pro sports appeals to men's tribalism so much and gives it such a useless outlet. I tell myself and other people that I don't really give a fuck about it, but I always find myself checking in on how the "local" teams are doing and start getting invested in it whenever they are playing good.

>>33574217
You have no idea what you're talking about. lmao

>>33574218
too stupid for me. at least tulsi's a savvy operator.

>>33574218
No

>>33574222
enough trolling, doomcuck

>>33574218
She's in the "if she has a rockin' bod and was very forward I would" category

It's funny how movies and tv shows made it seem like guys cumming early will be a problem when most girls aren't hot enough for that. The girls most guys end up sleeping with aren't the ones they jerk off to.

>>33574214
I know what I’m doing

I wonder if my future flat chested wife posts in these threads

>>33574226
You are mentally ill.

>>33574229
Most guys depicted in media older than maybe 10 years weren't chronically masturbating porn addicts because that wasn't the norm in society.

>>33574229
You're actually a virgin, aren't you?

>>33574206
Femcel style?

>>33574231
proofs?

>>33574231
you literally dont
the ovulation delirium has you crazed and incoherent
you need to ask your friends to chain you in the basement for a few days until it passes so you dont do something you regret

>>33574229
Yea I’ve never made a guy cum in my life, but I came every time I had sex. I thought it would be the opposite

>>33574214
>femcel
What a weird incorrect assumption.

>>33574242
Wtf...

>>33574242
Wack pussy femanon?

>>33574235
And girls weren't as repulsive or fat.

>>33574229
TV shows and movies don't depict American-size women

>>33574242
What kind of weak fucks were they, not taking what they desire?

>>33574242
Weird but hot.

>>33574242
i cant imagine the damage this does to your psyche

>>33574253
It's very modern though. Isn't that what feminists would say is ideal? We gotta move the orgasm gap the other way. She's doing her part!

>>33574242
aw, poor fem, i'd cum in ya

>>33574242
You have never felt complete, that's sad...

>>33574256
Tradcuck, you really need to calm down.

>>33574242
JH?

>>33574242
I can be another guy who can't cum in you

>>33574253
She could have given 1 guy a second chance, but she instead switched guys like socks.

i- i just love my atoga friends!

>>33574260
kek

>>33574260
Pffft you asshole. lol

>>33574265
Fuck off. Women cannot love men.

Men that don't cum easily should honestly just kill themselves.

My biggest fear is my SO not actually b enjoying our sex that much but acting like she is to stroke my ego.meanwhile she’s slowly growing to resent me but I can’t tell I’m not getting her over the top with sex because she doesn’t tell me.

>>33574263
>incel and his cuck fetish again

>>33574275
What cuck fetish? She literally said several guys couldn't cum with her lmao
Fucking retard

>>33574265
Yeah, I love you freaks too. Here I can meet the other people on earth who are also weird and bad at being human.

>>33574274
You will just have to trust your partner on some things.

>>33574242
Holy shit. We’ve found the feminists MARY! All praise be to you!!!

>>33574123
>women do you like man musk?
It's not "musk", it stinks. Go and wash.

>>33573995
>play, not rub the shit out of it
That's exactly what I do. I try to go pretty slow, but it can be hard with her moving around so much and her squeezing my hand with her legs. No her clit is not what hurts. The outside area around her pussy hurts
>vigorously rubbing the tip of your dick for 30 minutes straight and then tell me it's not sore the next day
It doesn't get sore

>>33574221
Caring about things is... le BAD

>>33574221
>useless
Still better than harmful

>>33574221
I bet you’re also the type of person that thinks working out is actually a gateway to the red pill for men

>>33574263
did you want her to move on or beg for you back? plus - a ons with someone in the circle isnt terrible

>>33574284
>>33574282
Unhinged replies.

>>33574272
No, and your pussy is going to be sore

What's up with when a girl calls your name but really drags out the last letter? Friend of mine starting doing that recently, sometimes when she doesn't even want anything, purely just so I can respond to it

>>33574297
Fuck off.

>>33574202
>Like say if a man is willing to answer his woman’s needs, is open minded to a certain extent, is a very unselfish lover, and is willing to learn. What are the chances and in what situations would he be incompatible with someone sexually?
AYRT. It's not just about being a giver and good communicator (which definitely help! Lots of men are not like that at all), but just about what things you both actually get enjoyment out of. What if she hates giving blow jobs, or the kind of blow job technique that you like? What if you're too big for her and it makes certain very deep positions impossible? What if she gets chronic UTIs, so penetrative sex is completely off the table? What if she really gets turned on by dirty talk, but you're not good at it? What if you really want her to come, but she very rarely comes and is fine with that? What if she likes lots of mouth kissing, but you don't want to kiss during sex? The sex can still happen in all these scenarios, sure, and with sexually compatible people these these "problems" might actually be a bonus! That's what sexual compatibility is.

>>33574303
And maybe the most important factor of it all, how often you want to have sex.

>>33574260
I've made every man I've been with cum. The last guy I was with even said he never came so much in his life, that's how good the sex was. So fuck you.

>>33574307
The last guy I had secks with came twice and never got soft- just kept going.

>>33574246
Yea
>>33574250
They would just give up after a while
>>33574253
It hurt my feelings a lot