Thread 33671601

I'll be 30 one year from now, if I can't find anyone by then I'll interpret it as a sign from God trying to tell me I will be alone forever and I'll just kill myself. I'm also not gonna make an effort to find a girlfriend at all because I'm terrified of rejection, I'll just wait patiently and hope she makes the first move.

>>33671601 (OP)
might as well end it now

>>33671605
I still have a little bit of hope, I created this thread for support not for you kissless NEETs to criticize me, fuck you!

>>33671601 (OP)
>I'm also not gonna make an effort to find a girlfriend at all
>wtf why have I never had a gf oh well better just kill myself lol
Bait used to be believable, yet the sad thing is this faggot OP probably really means it.

Kek
OP s too much of a pussy to risk being rejected
Very low chance he actually khs

>>33671616
As an introvert what else can I do? I'm not gonna approach girls out of nowhere just to be rejected 90% of the time. I could create an account on dating apps but only sluts use those things and I want a decent girlfriend. All I can fucking do is wait and hope God throws someone nice at me next year.

>>33671685
>I'm not gonna approach girls out of nowhere
No one has ever suggested you do this.
Why didn't you ever try your luck with a girl you already know?
>but I am...LE INTROVERT
Yeah great, introvert doesn't mean you don't know or talk to any women.

>>33671601 (OP)
>>33671685
based "I refuse to talk to women, I only want women to approach me, and also no sex-having sluts I only want a sexy virgin girlfriend to come sit on my lap in the middle of the bus as a complete stranger" retard

also how are introverts even real lmao
>what if.... the girl says "No thank you" AAAAAAAAAH I'M GOING INSANE

>>33671771
Right now I only have contact with 1 girl and although I like her she probably has a boyfriend since she uses a ring on her right ring finger. All my other friends are male.

And none of your guy friends have any girls they could introduce you to?
Also why do you specifically need a girlfriend? Why not just a bunch of friends

>I'm also not gonna make an effort to find a girlfriend
Then why make this thread when you don't want advice?

>>33671601 (OP)
I'm 36 and haven't been in a real relationship

>>33672444
That's why I'm so scared of... I don't wanna be alone forever...

>>33671601 (OP)
I won't read calendar of doom threads.

>>33671811
>>what if.... the girl says "No thank you" AAAAAAAAAH I'M GOING INSANE
lol this is literally me though

I'm gonna die alone, I know that, I'll never find anyone, this is how pathetic I am, absolutely no one likes me…

>>33671601 (OP)
so long loser

>>33671605
BASED AF

>>33674155
bit uh drastic my guy

>>33671601 (OP)
Killing yourself over women or a lack thereof is gay. Also, you guys think dying alone is this horrible thing, but when I was in college I witnessed an old dude who lived across from my unit dying alone in his apartment. He died peacefully in his comfortable bed with his dog by his side, which I think beats dying because you got got by a drone in one of the wars going on right now somewhere, so there's way worse shit out there than dying alone.

>>33674155
same, but it is what it is.

>>33674953

not everyone is a mentally ill retard? Imagine having the flu and no wife/husband to take care of you. Jesus fucking Christ what a pathetic existence

>>33674937
>>33675021
No one fucking likes me, my friends don’t even add me to their online groups or ask me to hang out with them, I'm fucking pathetic.

Jesus christ I'm 37 and I've been always alone
You have to put some effort yourself, otherwise you don't get a chance

>>33676476
I'm don't wanna be like you, your life is a fucking nightmare to me, but I'm also too much of a coward to try anything. I'm fucking fated to be alone and to kill myself, God does not like me…

>>33671601 (OP)
this thread is the worst
who's going to believe you'll find the balls to kys when you can't even find the courage to ask a woman out
my /adv: fuck you op

>>33676652
Killing oneself is much easier than approaching a woman out of nowhere.

>>33676607
Dude if you’re this fucking deep into your own despair then do it. Everyone telling you how you can overcome this and what you should do to move past it and you still INSIST UPON YOURSELF AND YOUR SELF HATRED.

Like no one can save you if you don’t want to be saved. You wanna die? Cool, do it and stop yapping about it.

>>33671685
>only sluts use those things
this is how i can tell you're a kissless neet. the vast majority of bumble and hinge users are normal. i don't know anyone who uses tinder anymore but i assume it has devolved a bit

>>33671601 (OP)

You live in the most comfortable era in human history, you can just flood yourself with endless dopamine from various sources, live on your own terms without a woman and her issues dragging you down, go out and do anything you desire yet you would like to kill yourself over some unrealistic teenage idea of "gf". This honeymoon stage ends quickly and you end up with baggage and lost freedom you once had as a single man.

It's possibly the best era ever to live as a single man, it blows my mind why would a wizard or wizard apprentice kill himself. These men with girlfriends you see often end up with broken lives, divorced and paying child support. Be grateful of what you have, it's a luxury.

>>33676652
No one thinks he's going to kill himself, but his attention seeking statement of such is just proof of his whiny mentality on full display which of course is his bigger problem.
>I want this, I want it so bad that I'd rather DIE BY MY OWN HAND if I don't have it
>well no, I will not do the slightest thing on my end to get any closer to that happening, why would I do that that's crazy talk lol
It's not that OP is like this because he can't a gf (as he'd have us all believe). Rather he can't get a gf because he's like this.
>my /adv: fuck you op
100% agreed anon.

>>33676866
I wanna fucking get saved, why do you think I created the thread? I wanna find a way to find a girlfriend without approaching girls. If you can't help me then kindly fuck off.
>>33676886
Problem with Bumble is that it requires a photo of your ID now, that's fucking bullshit.

>>33677057
This post is just sad. Every men wants to find a partner and have children, that's a basic human need. Living only for your hobbies is the true teenage idea. The happiness of education your children is infinitely more fulfilling than that of playing videogames or whatever you do on your free time.

>>33677126
IT'S NOT THAT I DON'T WANT TO APPROACH WOMEN IT'S THAT I FUCKING CAN'T, MY BRAIN IS HARDWIRED LIKE THAT, IT'S PHYSICALLY IMPOSSIBLE FOR ME TO APPROACH THEM BECAUSE OF MY DEEP FEAR OF REJECTION, I WISH I WAS FUCKING NORMAL LIKE YOU BUT I'M FUCKING NOT.

>>33677194
Why do you keep making this thread?

Go see a psychologist god damn, if they can help people get over their fear of spiders or fear of flying they can help you get rid of the fear of a girl going "sorry anon you're not my type"

>>33677223
I don't believe in psychology, I had sessions when I was 15 and they were a huge waste of time.

>>33677239
You believe in shitting up the board with your thread where you yell at people trying to help you though

>>33677165
>I wanna find a way to find a girlfriend without approaching girls.

>I wanna win a race without having to run

>I wanna become a rock star without having to learn music

>I wanna win a million dollars at poker without learning how to play poker or having to actually play poker

>I wanna solve my severe mental problems without any sort of professional help.

Psychologist. Now.

>>33677165
>I wanna fucking get saved
Bait or not, this is legitimately one of the saddest and most pathetic things I have ever seen wrapped into one statement and really summarizes the very core of a lot of people here.

>>33677194
>BECAUSE OF MY DEEP FEAR OF REJECTION,
So in other words, NOT physical then?
Everyone gets rejected at some point, everyone. But you also miss 100% of the shots you don't take. The real question you should be asking yourself is why is your ego and sense of self-worth so fragile that you'll be crushed forever from one(1) rejection?
Get out there and take your licks like everyone else, you haven't earned your gf yet faggot.

>>33677165
>I wanna fucking get saved
Absolutely pathetic OP.
Not only is no one coming to save you (and no one should) but furthermore you should be the one doing the saving.

>>33671601 (OP)
approaching my mid 30s soon. it'll get better bro

>>33677250
You call that help? Nigga, I've been telling you I can't approach women and all you've been telling me is that I should approach women…

>>33671685
I was sure it would happen this year but here we are it's almost Octover and I'm still a single Chud with no trad Stacy by my side.
It's fucking over

>>33677428
>I've been telling you I can't approach women
No one cares, we reject the premise.
They're not gonna approach you, I can promise you that.

>>33677467
If it's meant to be then Fate will find a way. If it's not then it just means I should kill myself to avoid further suffering.

>>33671601 (OP)
i started fucking prostitutes.
it’s been good for me.
Think about it. I mean you’re gonna die anyways

>>33677584
Its expensive and sinful

>>33677584
I don't wanna have sex, I want a girlfriend. I can easily get sex whenever I want because I'm kinda good-looking, that's not the fucking point though.

>>33677611
if you can easily get sex then you can easily get a girlfriend, you just for whatever reason don't want to wife out the girls you're having sex with. So either you're banging ugly girls, or you're attracting sloots, in which case something about your vibe/aesthetic or where you hang out is putting into you contact with a lot of them

>>33677611
Wait how have you not been able to get a gf if you can fuck? If you can pull then getting a gf shouldn’t be an issue. Unless you’re like idk weirdly bad at sex but still attractive so somehow constantly catfish girls. Or you could just have a shit personality or a combo of both. If any of those are the case then you need to fucking fix yourself real quick before your looks go.

>>33677607
Being on 4chan is the ultimate sin
Stop hiding behind religion and decide good and bad for yourself

>>33677611
Then why don't you just ask a girl out?

>>33677640
>>33677686
>>33677693
Aight, I need to clarify things. I'm not a chad and I'm not super attractive either, I mostly have sex with sluts and average looking women at best that I find on apps, I wouldn't date seriously any of them though. However, when I got out with a woman that I plan on dating it never works out because I have level 1 autism and somehow they notice it through my personality and the date goes nowhere. Again, all of those dates are from apps and not by approaching women in real life. Because of my autism and my fear of rejection I just can't approach them outside of apps, maybe it's trauma for the bad dates I had idk.

>>33671601 (OP)
you should have started earlier, but now is the time to change. you need to work on yourself, be more personable, make women friends, put yourself out there, try new things, work on yourself to become a better person, perhaps work through issues in therapy, get fit, take care of your appearance, and then in a couple years you could turn it all around and finally be in a loving relationship. but you need to do it now. you are running out of time. go now. start by making a list of things you could be doing to meet people and make friends, and and then go and try and do them. keep at it and you can fix yourself

>>33677765
if all that is true then you need to work on yoursef and get better at conversations, or lower your standards and just settle for someone you might not think is the most gorgeous person in the world. Looks fade anyway, so marrying someone you are friends with is probably the most important thing. like if you are pulling, then how about continuing the relationship, and actually put in effort into maintaining the relationship?

>>33677765
So let me get this straight, you can ask a girl to fuck on the apps no problem but somehow you can't ask a girl to just get together sometime in real life?
How come you're not afraid of rejection online then?

>>33677428
Yes. Just like how a agoraphobic shut-in needs to go outside to get over his useless nothing fear of the outside. Just like how a germophobe OCD dude or shy bladder faggot needs to learn how to use a toilet at work/in public.

>>33677765
>I mostly have sex with sluts and average looking women at best that I find on apps
what is this nonsense? How do you manage to go up to them and say hello and introduce yourself and make small talk.

>>33677611
>I can easily get sex whenever I want because I'm kinda good-looking
Either you're lying or someone else hijacked your thread or you're just a shitposter

>>33677958
Are you being disingenuous on purpose? It's obviously easier to talk on dating apps than in real life, and not just for me but for practically everyone else as well, this is not rocket science.
>>33678137
>what is this nonsense? How do you manage to go up to them and say hello and introduce yourself and make small talk.
I'm not afraid of talking to woman, I'm afraid of approaching them out of nowhere. Of course on dating apps we talk for a few days before we go out so I already know what to talk about when we actually meet, it's completely fucking different from approaching a girl out of nowhere, what the fuck am I supposed to say? "Hey, I found you attractive, do you have instagram?", I can guarantee 99.9% of women would reject you if you approached them like that.

>>33671601 (OP)
I swear like 75% of all threads on this boards are the same dozen daily/weekly/monthly/sporadic reposts by probably one guy who operates them like one of those chinese viewbot farms
You've been at it for two years now, at least
https://archive.4plebs.org/adv/thread/28775688/
https://archive.4plebs.org/adv/thread/28430367/https://archive.4plebs.org/adv/thread/28499548/#28500433
https://archive.4plebs.org/adv/thread/28514626/
https://archive.4plebs.org/adv/thread/28697279/
https://archive.4plebs.org/adv/thread/29134978/
and in countless HTGW threads as well

>I've never had a chance to show off my personality to women
>why don't you go talk to women?
>FUCK YOU

>>33678233
>It's obviously easier to talk on dating apps than in real life
No I'm not disingenuous, I'm just not a scared bitch like you.
>what the fuck am I supposed to say? "Hey, I found you attractive, do you have instagram?"
No retard, how about
>simple comment/question/compliment
>I'm anon, by the way
and take it from there?
Or better yet, don't approach women out of nowhere, "approach" women you already know you socially clueless retard.
>b-but I don't know any women
Yeah no shit, and there's your problem.

>>33678233
>I'm not afraid of talking to woman, I'm afraid of approaching them out of nowhere. Of course on dating apps we talk for a few days before we go out so I already know what to talk about when we actually meet, it's completely fucking different from approaching a girl out of nowhere, what the fuck am I supposed to say? "Hey, I found you attractive, do you have instagram?", I can guarantee 99.9% of women would reject you if you approached them like that.
How are you unable to meet women if you're such a cool dude who's able to fuck women off of dating apps.

Here's a million dollar idea, why don't you date the women you meet off those dating apps?

Otherwise, I've never cold approached a stranger in that way. I've always had something to break the ice like meeting girls at a bookstore you talk about books, meeting girls at a video game store you talk about video games, meeting girls at a record store you talk about music.

It helps to have interests and hobbies that you're passionate about.

I've never approached a girl based on superficial normie looks alone, it's always been shared interest/lifestyle first and looks second. or if it is based on looks it's because they're dressed all freaky and alternative and they're actually receptive to compliments on their looks since they're not being told that they look great by 50 normie dudes every single day.

>>33678266
>>33678306
How many times do I have to fucking say that I don't fucking know any woman socially and the ones on the apps are mostly sluts that I would never date seriously? Holy shit, read the thread. I have only 1 woman acquaintance and she probably has a boyfriend.

>>33677165
You're a useless human being

>>33678495
>How many times do I have to fucking say that I don't fucking know any woman socially
You should go ahead and change that then.

It doesn't have to be women you've known for months or years, like I said with the bookstore thing if you have a genuine interest in things and you come across women with also a genuine interest in the same thing the conversations make themselves.

>the ones on the apps are mostly sluts that I would never date seriously?
okay your majesty lol maybe spend less time having sex with epic sluts and focus more on your girflriend conundrum you keep posting about.

>Holy shit, read the thread.
right? isn't it frustrating when people don't read what you've written or worse yet read what you wrote but refuse to take the advice and turn it into action.

>go talk to women
>AAAAAAH NO I CAN'T I WON'T I NEVER WILL, NOW GIVE ME A GIRLFRIEND ON MY DESK BY FIVE O CLOCK AND EXCUSE ME WHILE I GO HAVE SEX WITH SLUTS

>>33676607
My life's certainly not great but at the very least I admit, like a fucking adult should, I'm guessing, that if I want something in life I gotta do something for it. Like getting money. Turns out I gotta work my ass off to put food on the table. I can't just wait for god to put a big pile of money in front of me to grab. Luck is for lucky people. How the fuck are you gonna win any lotteries if you don't buy tickets you sack of nothingness? If you didn't get women to fall on your lap you won't at any point unless you do something about it. No, not anyone else, you. "I don't know enough people" then try getting into any activities where you would be forced to. Study something, join some group, fucking hang around in places with people. "I don't want to approach women randomly" don't do it then, just make acquaintances until you get things you can call friends and then meet women that way.
You're a coward because you're insecure. Find the source lf your insecurities and fix that. I'm insecure about a lot of things. That's why I'm in this situation. So if you're fat lose the weight. If you don't have a driver's license go get it. Your lack of experience doesn't disappear by never doing anything. If learning how to get up and walk this late in life is necessary for you, sure you have a problem, but would you rather never learn just because someone might find it funny?
Your problems go beyond "I have no girlfriend".

>>33677334
>The real question you should be asking yourself is why is your ego and sense of self-worth so fragile that you'll be crushed forever from one(1) rejection?
nta but the only way for me to be good enough as a person is if i never fail

>>33679191
>If learning how to get up and walk this late in life is necessary for you, sure you have a problem, but would you rather never learn just because someone might find it funny?
unironically yes

>>33679329
/thread/
My condolences to everyone who replied trying to help this retard, he just wanted to whine. Probably is another mentally ill spammer who will make this very same thread tomorrow.

>>33679319
That’s your problem.
Failure is natural, it’s human.

You cannot stop being human so guess what, THERE WILL ALWAYS BE FAILURE IN LIFE! However what you do after the failure is what determines if you stay a failure or excel.

Stop moping around like an emo teenager and work on your mentality so that you can start living life. Christ you all want this shit handed to you like a fucking baby. You’re grown, get the fuck on.

And if you’re autistic:
Your autism isn’t enough of an excuse for how you live if you’re capable of going online and typing semi-coherent sentences.

>>33679349
i'm not OP

I really hope you don’t.

>>33679319
You're a mentally ill retard then. Literally everyone fails at something at some point. People far greater than you have failed more than you've ever tried.

>>33679351
>THERE WILL ALWAYS BE FAILURE IN LIFE!
nuh-uh. there’s gotta be some sort of loophole or something

I just saw the girl I like yesterday and I'm again falling into a deep depression because I know we will never be together because I'm a fucking coward who can't approach women. I fucking hate myself, I hate my life, I hate everything, I just wanna die…

>>33671601 (OP)
Ah, to be young and suicidal, oh the memories. I remember my plan to kill myself if xyz didn't happen by 30, then 30 came and I was like "well, maybe 40". But yeah I can see it happening by 40, or maybe I'll chicken out again and do 50.

Anyways, if you dont put the effort it just wont happen, do the normalfag route (gym/eating healthy/going out and talking to people/ dating apps) or the quirky normalfag route (anime conventions/ clubs/ art classes). But yeah doing nothing just wont cut it.

>>33671601 (OP)
ok chud not gonna happen if you bank on god sending you a gf lmao

>>33682196
No girl ever approached me at anime conventions, actually it did happen once but my autism got in the way and it didn’t go anywhere.
>clubs, art classes
I'm almost fucking 30, only young people go to those.

>>33682326
>I'm almost fucking 30, only young people go to those.
What, 12 year olds?

I thought you wanted a "young" (20something year old) girlfriend? Are you now shooting for a 40 year old?

>>33681033

Of course. Surely you had a valedictorian in high school. There are people who got perfect grades, got into the school of their choice, graduated University with the major they wanted, then built the career/life that they wanted. The loophole is to find achievable goals and then achieving them. People will cope by saying shit like pic related, but it's just not true.

>>33682326

>Gets the exact female approach social dynamic he wants
>Fucks it up
>Refuses to try again

Deserve what you get.

>>33682420
>Deserve what you get.
And she was very cute too, but I don't even really know if she was truly interested, she merely striked a conversation about college, maybe she was just being kind.

this fagola has yet to explain why he even refuses to talk to women in the first place

>I'll be embarrassed!!!
okay, then what

have you never tripped while walking or faced the wrong doors when getting out of a train or have your voice crack as a teenager or never had anything embarrassing happen to you before?

Only Japanese school girls perform sudoku from embarrassment.

>>33682690

Not OP, but social anxiety is wild and irrational. The biggest culprit is never interacting with women unless you've already got romantic interest in them. Every interaction feels like a life and death struggle for your genetic lineage. Very high stakes on the subconscious level. Rejection feels like you're dying because your genetic lineage is perceived to be dying.

In turn, you never go out and have low stakes interactions. You never talk to women you have no interest in fucking, so you don't build up any kind of social reps or charisma. The girl at the anime convention was working out because she was a stranger. Lower psychological state, no perceived "loss" on a failure, since you weren't going to scuttle an existing relationship or your reputation at work/school.

tl;Dr The normies are right. Incels don't see women as people that have value outside of their reproductive capacity. This causes them to never talk to women unless it's for the goal of scoring a relationship, leaving them anxiety riddled and socially inept.

>>33671601 (OP)
So we have to put up with your larping and complaining for another year? Fuuuuuuck. Do us all a favor and rope yourself today.

>>33682798
Yeah I know, I had bad social anxiety as well as general anxiety. Like I didn't go to the dentist or to a doctor's for years because I was scared that they would uh .... that something definitely terribly bad would happen, or somehow that if I DIDN'T go to the doctor's then my health issues would just go away by themselves and that actually going to the doctor's would create a bunch more health issues.

And then when I did go there it was just like "you're kinda fat and your blood pressure is kinda high, here's a cream for your weird rash, exercise more and eat less junk food" and when I went to the dentist's they fixed my teeth and didn't all like stand around pointing their fingers at me laughing and taking pictures.

Same with the fear of rejection

I got rejected and I was just like "huh.... well whatever, fuck you too bitch"

and then I had awkward terrible dates and it was just like "ah whoops, I guess, I should message that other girl then"

literally nothing happened that warranted years of panic and isolation.

>>33682821

It's really just a matter of having that one worthwhile interaction that doesn't make you feel like you're in mortal danger afterwards. Some people are too "Introverted" to ever go out and have that experience. Shit turned around for me when I had just resigned to being a permavirgin, but it shifted the risk profile in my head. It stopped being a genetic life and deaths struggle because they weren't going to date me anyway. Became able to talk to them like normal people, and then eventually one invited me to a concert because her "friend bailed on her."
>Dentist
I hear you there. I grew up before pic related had been invented, and I was too clumsy to use traditional floss. As a kid the dentist would intentionally try to make my gums bleed and humiliate me to my parents over it. Never had a good experience and it never seemed necessary. Never got cavities.

>>33682690
>sudoku
lol, lmao

>>33682690
>okay, then what
Severe psychological distress resulting from the obliteration of whatever little self-worth you have

>>33683419
bro has literally 0 self-worth, you can't obliterate what's already not there.

getting rejected would show to him that he was shitting his pants and shitting up the board for years over nothing at all.

>>33683419
Now put that on the scale vs. Never improving and dying exactly as you are now.

>I'll never live pic related
Why God? Why did you curse me like that? I just wanted to love and to be loved, but I'm gonna fucking die alone…

Why are you fags so whiny
A woman will not turn your life around. Change yourself you dumb niggers, and learn not to be such a whiny fag while you're at it

>>33687929
You're right.

However feminine company helps and brings something one alone cannot always do. There's whiny and there is hurt.

The prospect of spending a life alone and dying alone can be scary. That's not being whiny, however begging for it rarely works.

Best years of my life was when no women involved. They just bring problem. Look at celibate people Nikola Tesla an others they are strong. Don't jerk off don't eat meat. You can find a girl not because you need it because they will need you..basically don't chase butterflys instead make a garden they will come to you. Work on your body mind skills.

>>33677194
You can, I Promise you that. What you have to do is to go out and try, you will feel the fear and back of at the last second, keep trying, keep going out to aproach woman and failing miserably. After awhile you Will be so frustrated and enraged with yourself that you will just do it. She will think of you as a weirdo but you Will feel on top of the world. Try asking for the time first.

>>33687958
You are perhaps right about not chasing.
But getting laid is nice.
I don't see the point in being strong for the sake of being strong, maybe only to compare penis size with one another but that looses it's shine after a while.

Best thing is being able to do shit you like without having to rely too much on people, but that is difficult.

I would still aim for getting a woman and doing shit I like. I already felt into most traps, so I am under the impression that I could walk into a new relationship with the necessary caution.

>>33671601 (OP)
I'm a woman. This is me approaching you. Hi. I wouldn't reject you because you're socially anxious or autistic, that shit is endearing and relatable, I would reject you because your despair/suicidal ideation is likely obvious after a few minutes of conversation. While some woman love to act on their delusional savior complex's most of us don't want to try (and fail) to pull a man from the special pit of hell you guys can think yourselves into. Helping a man out of his despair is often thankless and heartbreaking work that gets us nothing but attacked or pushed away every single time. Men need church, communities, and therapists for a reason. You need to find ways to emotionally regulate. Enough to endure tense conversations because those will happen a lot with women, especially when establishing relationships. When you're stressed try to become aware of your body to pull away from spiraling thoughts. Breathe. 4 counts in 4 counts out. Stim. Drum your fingers on your leg under the table to pull you from your mind to your body and keep breathing. To create additional mind-body connection, try more physical exercise. If going to a club or event where people are is too much right now, start with a simple daily walk around where you live. Make non-aggressive eye contact and smile at people, regardless of female/male, say "good morning" or just nod in their direction. Do this with every person.

>>33671601 (OP)
i'm 34 and i just ate chick fil a in my car in the parking lot 20 minutes ago, bought some beer on the way home and am now drinking alone, on 4chan.

you might assume i'm a loser by that, but i speak chinese and i've been to all 50 states and 5 other countries including living in japan for 4 months and i have 2 project cars and am a homeowner and am a team lead on the bleeding edge of tech making over 100k and i have lifelong friends (since elementary school) and regularly visit my parents back in my hometown four hours away and i have no health problems and i mentor dozens of people at work for fun (they visit me at my desk usually daily).

but i just ate chick fil a in my car in the parking lot 20 minutes ago, i got a couple weird looks. i've met more than a thousand people in my life and i'm not shy, people like talking to me especially at work, all smiles and checking in with me, i sometimes ambush new guys at their desk getting to know them.

i'm a loser, i'm cool, it's all perspective. you can't choose how other people see you, but you can choose how you see yourself. it sounds gay, but with this mindset i've lived a lot more life than most people my age. i could've done more but why look to the past when you can look to the present and do cool things

>>33671601 (OP)

I think somewhat similarly only I am a bit older.
And I don't feel like killing myself.

I am not that terrified of rejection, but getting to meet said person who you'd like to spend with isn't easy.

A life walking this earth alone is depressing.

I just came to say that I was just outside for a short walk and some girls shouted "YOU ARE SEXY!" to me while on their bikes.

But I am exclusively in to alt girls now since a couple of weeks, and they are pretty rare here where I live so let's see who finds a GF first?

>>33689487
you know they have suicide pods now right? you slip into it and then all good

>>33671685
>dating apps but only sluts use those things

You dumb fuck you are living in the year 2013 LMAO

you are the weirdo here not the people on dating apps

>>33677165
>Bumble is that it requires a photo of your ID now

fucking bullshit lmao

>>33682086
It's definitely worse, You approach her and she presents all signs that she wants you and when you ask her to be yours she rejects it

Better not go, Trust your instincts

>>33671601 (OP)
I'll try to he compassionate with you OP since the whole thread seems to be against you

Embarassment is the final stage which a men must always face in order to reach his perfect self, And ironically the thing you fear to do with a girl turns to happen because Women are unpredictable and will always become distant if you don't initiate, So it's a loss-loss unless you're an extremely attractive social freak, But better go with a win-loss, Ask her out and win or loss rather than live in your imagination

Also go find a work or to back to college or do something in order to increase your surroundings, If it doesn't happen in 29 or 30 it'll happen later in life, Be patient

>>33691014
Based optimist

>>33688997
I don't know why this is the best post on this shit website

>>33671601 (OP)
You gotta calm down anon. You’ll find someone, keep trying

I'm a recovered homeless drug addict of three years that's schizophrenic, autistic, bipolar anxious and depressed. I had sex one time when I was 20 then never again. I have no friends and my family is abusive so I've estranged them. I get intrusive thoughts where I see people raping and shitting on me non stop everyday for the past two years. Just this past month its improved thats it. I used to believe when I was homeless that I was god in a simulation and I had to kms to return to a higher dimension (I tried twice but survived) I lived in a cave and only came out at night to eat raw fish and ice cream out of the garbage. I also wore a surgical mask at all times because of how ugly I was. My looks have improved and I no longer am homeless or have to wear said mask. I also was obsessed with praying for my garbage food and cleaning out gutters of trash at night. Before I was homeless I got addicted to hurting myself but managed to stop in the physical sense. My past addictions include chicken anime and porn. I am also extremely ignorant, struggling to understand 10th grade level Khan academy. I believe I was brainwashed by rap music to betray the only people I once knew for absolutely no reason. Completely not trolling just asking for life advice or if anyone would like to hear about my story this is my first time talking to people online since I have been homeless. Have a nice day and be well :)

>>33691016
I mentioned I didn't feel like ending myself. Learn to read or at least input something productive.

Also suicide pods don't exist here.

>>33671601 (OP)
(a) You're putting far too much of your psyche on relationships.
(b) This
>I'm also not gonna make an effort to find a girlfriend at all because I'm terrified of rejection
will never work unless you're tall, ripped, and wealthy. And even then, the kinds of women who would throw themselves at you aren't going to be the good ones. You have to put in some effort, because women are generally even more terrified of rejection than you are.
Put your effort into being sociable, and use that skill to get to know people--both men and women. And with women, if you learn something about them that interests you, focus on that a little more and go from there.

>>33676886
"Normal" people are promiscuous now. It's not a good thing.

Anon whatever you're don't do it, those thoughts come from the devil and he's trying to lead you to hell, if you repent of your sins and ask god to help you, he will through his son jesus Christ, he will rescue you from your depression and bring you a peace unlike anything you can ever know, and heaven is an eternity where you don't have to have these thoughts, please don't throw it away, come to Christ and recieve everlasting peace, may he bless you and comfort you anon