Thread 33918225

What is falling in love like for women?

>>33918225 (OP)
I have BPD. It's like finding a soul mate. Sorry I can't give you a normative answer.

>>33918225 (OP)
Oh so they can cover their asses and this entire thing was intentional.

>>33918225 (OP)
When I met my husband, I immediately felt like there was something special about him. I really liked the way he spoke, how passionate he was about things, his sense of humor, how sensitive and kind he was. I also found him really cute, obviously.
We got very close, very fast. After 2-3 weeks of talking to each other and spending time together casually, I was completely obsessed with him and I could not think of anything but him. I wanted to do nothing but talk to him. If I wasn't able to, I just wanted to talk about him and how great he was.

Even before we ever went on a date, I felt such a strong connection with him, I liked him more than I ever liked anything else or anyone else. We got together quickly and I was more and more smitten every day.
We went through a lot during our first year together, it was not an easy time in my life or his. Watching him fight hard to be a better man and to make me proud made me develop such a strong sense of devotion towards him - he was trying so hard to be the man worthy of my love, and I wanted to love him more and more and support him.

I love my husband a lot. I loved him just as much when I gained nothing from loving him, and I love him more every day, when he was at his best and at his worst.
Through it all, he showed me nothing but kindness, love and patience, and I strived to showed him the same. I'm completely devoted to him, and I hope I get to feel this way for the rest of my days.

>>33918491
Before any of you retards say "fake, hypergamy, must be chad" my wife is the exact same way. She latched on quick and strong, we went through hell when I didn't have anything to offer her, and I went through even more trying to be the kind of guy she really deserves. We stood beside eachother the whole time, infatuated and deeply in love, and it only got stronger over the years.

>>33918225 (OP)
for me it's feeling like even the "negative" aspects of him are just endearing and cute, there is nothing negative. he becomes my type and i can't find others attractive unless they remind me of him.

>>33918815
I wish you and your wife the best, anon.

>>33918491
>t. chatgpt

>>33918454
Yes it's called flirting

>>33918491
No man will ever love you fucking ugly bitch.

>>33918491
Damn. You just made me realize no woman has ever loved me or likely ever will. Noone has ever liked my bad traits and my wife has never appreciated me fighting hard to be a better man for her. I only got resentment for not having already been perfect. I love her so much, but I guess everyone I have ever met was ultimately right about me being unlovable haha

>>33918225 (OP)
You do realise the purpose of this skit was for her to show the audience her ass without it seeming "weird", right?

>>33919171
What even prompted this reply

>>33919579
Women do this in real life though

>>33919586
Name one

>>33919646
Debra

Guys watch Black Mirror. The future is just women doing porn and men being "mad as hell and not going to take (Insert Topic) anymore!" Also history documentaries and metaphysics and archetype examination.

>>33919646
Maleah

>>33919646
Susan

>>33919153
Nah. I even made several typos in that post lol

>>33919171
I'm like 97% sure my husband loves me a fair bit.

>>33919187
I'm sorry, I did not mean to make you feel bad. I don't think that your wife not loving you the same exact way I love my husband means she does not love you at all. Your wife and I are different women, and everyone has their own way to experience and express love.

>>33919885
You did nothing wrong, no worries. Also like I said, ppl have been telling me since I was a small child that noone will ever love me or care about me, for some reason. Idk why, something about me elicits people to say that unprompted. The first times I remember were several friends telling me when I was about 4. It continues to this day with coworkers and shit. I don't even act emotional or tell anyone about this IRL so idk why everyone targets me to say this specific thing. I guess I am just plainly and aggressively unloveable, in such an overt way that people feel compelled to declare their observation to me.

>>33919187
>but I guess everyone I have ever met was ultimately right about me being unlovable haha
It's not your failure which is pathetic, it's these sardonic statements, and letting yourself be hopeless.
You live live for others, you try to live to please some random woman, and by latching onto this sentiment, instead of becoming a person who's found peace in his solitude, you express how pathetic you are.
Grow a spine and accept that the world owes you nothing, if you're rejected, safeguard your humility, it's more important to be courageous and indifferent to failure than to linger about it like a loser. Live to be a good person, no matter what the world throws at you, don't live to please others.

>>33920210
I love you.

>>33920210
And your intimacies within your thoughts are attractive.

>>33920210
You do realise that any time you say this you spit in the face of those who are way worse off?
Disabled people, deformed people, human beings who were treated as such only by their mothers...
You literally said that you have a wife, and i would assume that many people willingfully interract with you in a friendly manner. Grow a spine and yammering about how pathetic your life is, many have had it and will have it worse.

>>33918491
oh sweet summer child, he's already thinking about other women. shouldn't have introduced that busty latina friend of yours to him

Knowing he will never be mine in this life.

>>33919157
That's not flirting, its exhibition

>>33918491
Ill ask in good faith, how did you meet him?

>>33918225 (OP)
>no ass not even in tissue-thin shapewear
insane.

>>33918454
If a woman's ass can be seen, it's because they want it to be seen. That doesn't mean they want it to be seen by you, pay attention to context. And even if they want you to see, it's not particularly an indicator of their interest, it's a cry for attention first and foremost. They probably just want to boost their ego by rejecting you.

>>33920591
In the context of what she said in the video it's flirting. A girl being playful or suggestive around you is flirting.

>>33920468
Lmao. I'm pretty much the only woman between the ages of 15 and 60 he has interacted with in the last 3 years.

>>33920602
Mutual friends. An acquaintance introduced us to each other because I was moving close to him and did not know anybody in the area.

>>33918225 (OP)
Damn. Females really are hoes