>>213428485 (OP)there's a reason they say when you date a woman you're dating her entire friend group
she's going to share everything you say or do, and they will judge you for it, maybe even tell her to leave you if they end up not liking you
I forget the name of this phenomenon, but it's very common in women where they share everything, especially embarrassing stuff almost like they all instinctively agree to black mail each other if one steps out of line, social media and the easiness of communicating has driven this instinct into overdrive too, your mom probably would phone her friends once a week, but girls your age are spending half an hour a day every day in their group chat airing these little secrets