Thread 40813563

General for all nonbinary, intersex, questioning, and friends.
QOTT: How would you describe your sense of style?
QOTT2: What is your favorite method of self-expression?

>>40813563 (OP)
>1
Style changes every time I watch a new piece of media
>2
I write short stories

>>40813563 (OP)
>QOTT: How would you describe your sense of style?
homeless schizoteric crackhead. i mostly wear sportswear or like really old clothes passed down from my relatives
>QOTT2: What is your favorite method of self-expression?
sculpture and making talismans is the most fun i have with art. but i draw more due to it being more convenient and easy to do. idk. hard to say

being a compulsive binge eater sucks because why did i just eat a container of cake if i didnt even enjoy it and it felt liek i was forcing myself to eat it just to "get it over with". its like if i have good food my mind tels me to eat it as soon as soon and as fast as possible, probably because in my childhood i didnt have a lot of tasty things. now that i have a surplus of them but my mind is still in that survival mode

>>40813956
I'm not a binger, but my partner is. I love him to death and his weight never bothered me but I hate to see him struggle even when I buy healthy food he will cave and order pizza or eat a whole cake like yourself out of sheer stress. Hugs.

>>40814027
thanks. its a humiliating disorder to have and people usually offer very little sympathy because the only eating disorder that gets taken seriously is anorexia (and even then its only the stereotypical subtype of anorexia that gets other worried. ive met people who didnt know that you coudl be obese and have anorexia)

>>40814093
:-( My partner lost 70lbs from fasting before I had met him, but when we started dating... Well, they call it the "relationship 20", you know? He says all the time he's going to start fasting again, but I know he doesn't have the energy right now due to working ALL the time. I don't hold it against him, we had some really lovely dinners and fun cooking and everyone can have a slice of pizza sometimes. I just don't know how to support him without seeming judgemental or naggy.

>>40814315
i dont blame you its hard to support mentally ill people in general especially those with eating disorders

>>40813563 (OP)
qott: idk . picrel is ootd .
qott2: drawing .

>>40814461
you’re that kid from that movie. Dracula hotel. Nice

>>40814518
wow . down to the lipstick . incredible .

i dropped my airpod in the bath

i found a pink sheep in Minecraft for the very first time :0
>>40815640
r u die?

>>40815806
im glad people are still enjoying minecraft, i genuinely havent played since the beta. yes im fucking dead or i might as well be reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

>>40816017
Minecraft is the only game I need. Living out my homesteading dreams.

>>40813563 (OP)
>QOTT: How would you describe your sense of style?
Weather dependent + whatever's clean.

>QOTT2: What is your favorite method of self-expression?
Fix/invent little things, make the odd comment around here, stay inside.

>>40816039
the economy is going to collapse if we don't WORK to build homes that we LOVE in IRL anon. get off the computer and get a fucking job!!!!!!

>>40816144
I had a job... Once......

>>40815640
THE LITTLE CUNT STILL WORKS
>>40816254
MonkaS

>>40816663
O_0 jobs make the voices in my head too loud. How am I supposed to listen to the crusty custie scream at me to check the backroom if I have already fricking 5 voices yapping at me INSIDE my EARDRUMS about how im going to die tomorrow

What do i do in life? Im a crashout at 21 and have genuinly no future apart from random hobbys but i cant be motivated for anything i have SOOOoo much time but i spend it smoking all day is this a ok life style or do i have to do more? :3

>>40813563 (OP)
OMG IS THAT CHAPPELL ROAN?!?!?

>>40814461
stubble ruins it

>>40813563 (OP)
>How would you describe your sense of style?
A mix of corporate goth and librariancore
>What is your favorite method of self-expression?
Drawing, even if I suck at it

>>40817892
>:3c

Everything hurts

Never had a boyfriend how chopped am I

>>40813563 (OP)
>1
Too broke and insecure to bother with fashion. I wear whatever is most comfortable.
>2
Venting online in hopes that I'll get sympathy and attention

77 degrees and I'm shivering under a wool blanket

made some chanh muối to kill my hangover. may God have mercy upon my soul

>>40820204
You just need braces/jaw alignment to be desu

Cup of tea, Gold Bar XL vape, it’s my birthday tomorrow AND free pool day at the pub. Gender euphoria time
>>40817630
You gotta break the cycle and engage with other people in some small way that you actually want to do, and work up to the big shit
>>40820204
Kinda cute giving Porter Robinson

Good morning nonbineys

today is horrible .

>>40822581
What’s the problem xir

>>40822645
government staff treated me like shit denied me an id for the 2nd time after telling me my documents were unnecessary (guess what they were fucking necessary) and told me to leave after I had been standing in line since 4am . it's 9am now . oh and I got called a cunt in the parking lot as the cherry on top .

>>40816039
i want to build a gothic mansion in minecraft but i suck

>>40822680
That sucks, bureaucracy makes my dick soft. I’m finna apply for an EU passport but it seems like it’s going to be that kind of shit

>me
i am out here angelmoding and the normies can't believe their eyes. serving postnietzschean cunt for free
>the people at mcdonalds
that transvestite's vape has been dead for an hour and he keeps grinning and sucking on it anyway

*hits the bong nonbinarily*

>>40820204
take a walk in the woods get cruised

>>40822724
I don't know how to build very well either. I don't spend any time in creative. I also struggle with making pixel art so maybe it's just me.

>>40817892
stubble really makes it actually

>>40825945
hehehehehe .

NEW MECHANISM
One puff of 0mg niccy vape = one drink of water. I’ll be the picture of health

>>40813563 (OP)
>QOTT
I want to look like a fancy napkin
>QOTT2
drawing

>>40826813
Explain yourself

>>40826880
like really loose but also frilly clothes

>>40813563 (OP)
1. Black and dark clothing, mystic, erotic, submissive, bata, Apex predator.
2. Writing

>>40826910
>>40826983
Waow

>>40826999
I now, sounds crazy, but I was never the normal person. I think I'm crazy but doctors say I'm not.

why do videogames seem so tedious to me. its like i want to play something but i also dont want to learn all of the new rules and mechanics becuase it seems like a chore. not relaxing at all. or like weven when i try to learn the rules my brain just zones out and frefuses to focus

>>40827134
Yeah I’m sorta like that, I’ll make the effort sometimes but. LGBT people always want to do game nights where u have to learn some bullshit like Terraform mars and I cba

WHY DO ALL OF YOU CARE ABOUT STYLE? TRUE FREEDOM LIES IN JUST PUTTING ON WHATS CLOSEST TO YOU WHEN YOU WAKE UP!!! I DO NOT CARE TO SERVE CUNT!!! I WANT TO EXIST WITH THE LEAST EFFORT POSSIBLE!!!

>>40827490
they think being an enby is a fashion thing

>>40827489
humblebrag

>>40827552
MY FEELING OF MAYBE BEING NON BINARY COMES FROM MY UTTER APATHY TOWARDS IT ALL!!! I DO NOT FEEL LIKE I AM SIMILAR TO ANYONE IN THIS THREAD!!! ITS QUITE UNFORTUNATE!!!

>>40827490
Do as you will but I like looking cool >>40827566
How is saying I can’t be arsed learning how to play a board game a humblebrag

>>40827490
Sorry that you look like shit standing next to me honeybuns

>>40827583
You can coexist with us attention seeker nonbineys, big shot anon

>>40827583
no one is the same, get over yourself already .

>>40827490
For me black clothing seems to be better than bright clothing.
I have a androgynous body type,

>>40827617
AND ALWAYS SO CATTY TOO!!! WHAT REASON DO YOU HAVE TO ACT LIKE THAT? I DONT ACT LIKE THAT TOWARDS YOU!!!
>>40827632
YOU ARE KIND!!! I LIKE YOU!!!
>>40827634
I KNOW THAT!!! I JUST WONDER WHERE MY TRUE BELONGING IS!!!
>>40827645
I KNOW I LOOK BETTER WEARING CERTAIN THINGS, BUT I CANT BRING MYSELF TO CARE ABOUT HOW IM DRESSED!!!

>>40827663
You come into MY house, suck MY dick and call ME gay?
>stop shitting up the thread with your whining and superiority complex

>>40827697
I DONT HAVE A SUPERIORITY COMPLEX!!! I AM NOT SAYING I AM BETTER OR WORSE THAN YOU, JUST THAT WE ARE DIFFERENT!!! I NEVER SAID THERE WAS ANYTHING WRONG WITH YOUR EXISTENCE!!! IF YOU WERE THE RUDE ONE, MY ONLY COMPLAINT IS THAT YOU HAD NO REASON FOR IT!!!

>>40827606
>it's so difficult to have all these friends that I have

>>40827663
why are you avatarfigging

look at me look at me I'm using all caps and an avatar pay attention to me pay attention to me

>>40827762
TOO SCARED TO SAY FAG? ANYWAY, WHY AM I DOING THIS? I HAVE NO IDEA!!!
>>40827786
Here you go, my friend. Just for you.

>>40827749
You’re right I was flexing, I’ll refrain from discussing any interactions with other people in the future darling

SETTLE DOWN IN HERE I CAN HEAR YOU FROM THE NEXT GEN OVER

>>40827803
thank you, some of us aren't so lucky

>>40827663
We talking pants, tee shirt, maybe a tank top
Sneakers or boots
How simpler is that

>>40827801
you're doing it for attention

>>40827811
Mmmm don’t lose your temper just hide my thread mother, stuff all these throbbing replies into a little digital cage

>>40827811
THEN GET SOME SOUNDPROOFING, [Trash Heap]!!!
>>40827823
EVEN JUST PICKING THAT OUT TAKES MORE TIME THAN IM WILLING TO SPEND!!!
>>40827832
ARENT ALL COMMUNICATIONS JUST FOR ATTENTION?

>>40827862
no they're for communication

>>40827875
BUT, YOU DONT SAY ANYTHING HERE WANTING TO GET ZERO REPLIES, RIGHT?

>>40827862
My friend is probably like you.
Two piles of clothes clean and dirty

>>40827890
kek

>>40827885
sure I do

>>40827921
NOW THATS MORE LIKE IT!!!
>>40827935
I THINK YOU ARE DIFFERENT FROM MANY PEOPLE IN THAT WAY!!!

>>40827949
Oooooo

>>40827949
I think you're deliberately conflating attention seeking behaviour where you seek to be the centre of attention by appearing superficially different with wanting to converse with other people about topics that interest you
I don't think you're different from many other people, I think you're just a cunt that doesn't feel enough shame to not do what you're doing

Off subject
But why don't transgenders like us ?

QOTT: How would you describe your sense of style?
I want to pass as a normie man in public. I look like a butch lesbian. I dress a bit alternative sometimes.
QOTT2: What is your favorite method of self-expression?
I used to like to write, but I lack inspiration. I've been getting more into reality over stories. I would love to make music. I don't want to do vocals.

>>40827984
it's just the same vocal minority thing that makes people hate every group, the loudest nbs seems to want to set down rules for everybody and tell people what is and isn't "valid", tell trans people what is and isn't ok for them to do with their bodies, try to use afab and amab as a new way of saying woman and man etc.

>>40827984
if you think dysphoria should be the hallmark of transition, the general lack of dysphoria in nonbineys makes it seem more like an aesthetic, that’s gender non conforming at best and performative queer larping at worst. Also people who are medically transitioning who become nonbiney represent an attractive target for punching down at by passing trans people who feel like the enbies are coping with a “failed” transition

>>40828000
>afab and amab what is this ?
Even normies sometimes are a little confused and afraid. But transgenders look at like scanners trying to blow my head off.

>>40828045
esl and unreadable

>>40828022
Oooooo, ok that makes sense. I'm good in certain circumstances, but other circumstances I Excel very well.
That makes sense

>>40827984
jealousy

>>40828057
No
English is my first language, and most people like me talk like me .
You know what I'm saying, drama queen

>>40828090
who do you think you're kidding? who are these people "like" you? the bump on the head in childhood community?

>>40828079
Because we're disabled ? Fuckable disable people. Awesome !!!
The confusion erotic staring.
Nothing to jealous of, I have small tits to

I got a cute little pink dress in the mail today just wanted to share with the based fashion savvy nonbinarys

>>40828106
What ever, asshole

>>40828125
you heard it here first , being transgender is now a disability .

>>40828125
Okay you are a little hard to understand you know anona

>>40828156
I'm a nb tranny so I can speak on behalf of everybody here (do I have to /jk with you people?) when I say that's not a new approach, we trannies have been seeing it as a disability/medical issue for, like, ever

>>40828156
i don't think this is the first time that's been said, and it's also arguably true, assuming gender dysphoria is considered a package deal.

nothing to jealous of saar
please do the needful

>>40813563 (OP)
You're retarded all of you are retarded anyone that thinks or claims to be non-binary is fucking retarded

>>40828175
sorry I have autism .

>>40828198
why do you have such faith that your socially constructed categories of man and woman are enough to cover all people?

>>40828170
For over a decade, I always talked like this my whole life.
Are we on 4chan just to remind you

>>40828198
having a little menty b are we

>>40828203
actually kind of a similar thing with autism now you mention it, more recently it's being accepted that autism is not a disability but just another way that people can be, something that doesn't need to be 'fixed'

>>40828214
how drunk are you right now silly goose?

>>40828175
That's how I see it, but then you get some that spaz out. Now their saying mental illness, the transgender umbrella is really big now, to say mentally ill/fetish.
Just my opinion

>>40828221
idk . i took hrt for 3 years never felt like my dysphoria was as disabling as being autistic . just weird to think about since i fixed my dysphoria but I can never fix my autism .

>>40828244
Oh I didn't mean disabled in like a mentally ill way, more like a developmental disorder where your brain doesn't match your body, physiological, not mental
I guess the umbrella expanding also causes friction between trans people and nbs, because like, we're not allowed to say transsexual, but then how do the OG trans people differentiate themselves from other people under the trans umbrella?

>>40828265
I guess society being the way it is is a big problem with autism, and you can't take pills to make society change

>>40828233
Who are you ? And what's the name of your bug up your ass ?
Please introduce yourselves to us.
Talk about a high class, behavior

>>40828221
Is this like the indigo children thing ?
Because I have tits and the other indigos don't.

>>40828287
I go by many names

>>40828312
errrr
no

>>40828281
But DSD, intersex, accidents, non binary are all now under the transgender umbrella.
It's good in a way

>>40828314
Beatles

>>40828336
I don't think the first three are idk

>>40828343
I'm getting round to that in my own good mystical time

>>40828323
Ok
Asking for a friend

>>40828345
Why wouldn't they ?

>>40828354
That's good, but be nice and don't let others get you down.

>>40828371
we just don't do it that way

>>40828386
some call me shatoon, bringer of corn

>>40827740
Aw, does the sweet little boy need headpats to feel better?

>>40828390
O ok

>>40828410
Nice,

>>40828212
because biology is real, science is real, I live in the real world not some fantasy make-believe or anyone can be anything
there's male and there's female, only ever been male and female. I believe in nature I believe in reality I believe in fact.

>>40828569
is Pat a man or a woman?

>>40828569
you have an epistemological misunderstanding of categories, male and female aren't categories inherent to nature or reality or science or fact, they're part of a model that we create and could create differently
just like you can cut up a colour spectrum any way you want you can do the same with a distribution of characteristics

>>40828569
And what if someone where to be a doner womb, then what
What about all the sterile men are they women
What about women who can't have children are they men.
Let's roll science

are eunichs trans?

>>40828699
I think so , and I think they were workers not so much slaves

>>40828699
no

>>40813563 (OP)
>qott1
i alternate between phantom jellyfish and denis villeneuve harkonnens
>qott2
i have an ongoing worldbuilding lore thing thats been my main creative focus for the past couple years, i like to write and draw and its usually stuff that feeds into that in some way. i have been meaning to form a proper unified story for it instead of occasionally coming up with disjointed little scenes & passages but i still can't quite figure out how. i'm sure i will eventually
>>40828699
i'm a big we wuz priestesses advocate when it comes to historical trannyism. i think modern western-derived conceptions of transness are just a particular codification of the broader phenomenon of gender deviance & unconventionally gendered social roles, from the perspective of modern social sciences & cultural & political values. sometimes this deviance is codified into certain archetypes from a completely different frame of reference and thats okay. it frustrates me a bit when people accuse others of "imposing modern western phenomena" when they associate third genders & such with transness bc yes of course a modern transgender and a priest/ess of inanna aren't exactly the same thing but if numerous societies in all areas of the world over thousands of years have gender-deviant social categories contravening birth sex don't you think it's useful to point out that common thread?
anyway eunuchs vary a lot between cultures that had/have them as a social role and some would probably fit more closely with what people consider "trans" than others. personally i consider them to largely be part of the overarching tranny tradition bc they often seem to be more of a distinct third gender sort of thing that is explicitly made to not be men, as opposed to just "non-reproductive men" like monks, but i suppose the line is blurry in some cases. its up to you really i'm just giving you my pseudbabble

IM KEEPING THE THREAD ALIVE!!!

>>40832657
hello spamton poster and thank you. i am feeling an urge right now to vomit and go out into the street and strip the flesh off someone's limbs and eat it in big slabs. alternatively i could just go to sleep, but i have a headache and my body feels like it wishes to fold in on itself. what would you do in this scenario?

>>40830152
> i'm a big we wuz priestesses advocate made me lel + nice post. modern people who identity as eunuchs are based and its an interesting historical tradition, I agree they fill a somewhat special role

>>40832695
ID SAY TO RELAX AND GET YOURSELF A GLASS OF CHOCOLATE MILK!!! LIGHTNERS LOVE THAT STUFF!!!

>>40813563 (OP)
I want to make myself look as much as a chud, like i go to comic con every year. Surrounded by artkid 20 year olds fags i cant look like that too even tho im also an artfag

>>40813563 (OP)
Hey, I rarely post here but i'd really like to hear your thoughts on a sort of idea i've had.

The show "Firefly" but the whole main cast is genderswapped....

Like, not magically or whatever, just, they always WERE the other gender... and we see how that plays out.

same position in the crew, ship, job, whatever... just... the literal opposite gender.

Your thoughts?

to me being trans is just a form of humiliation, like its so ridiculous the idea that some ugly freak like me could ever be feminine, could ever have value, i have no value at all, so this feels right for me or more accurately i just identify as nothing, you dont think of a bug as a male or a female even if it technically has that trait, its just a disgusting bug, thats how i feel.

>>40832759
same i think

>>40832759
out of chocolate milk I suppose

>>40832876
THEN GO TO THE STORE!!!

good morning nonbineys!! i went to the Renaissance faire this weekend with my family and i saw lots of trans people there....i feel a little bad for being consciously aware of something like that but seeing so many people out and happy and beautiful while i'm so deep in the closet just filled my heart right up :) i'm not sure i've ever experienced the trans joy thing myself but it manifests vicariously for sure.

>>40813563 (OP)
>QOTT: How would you describe your sense of style?
nonexistent...i wear what is comfortable and i think looks nice on me. i tend to gravitate towards camo pants and tank tops, but shorts with hoodies or big t-shirts is also pretty regular. my dad got me a camo pair of picrel last summer and they are my favorite pants in the world.
lately i have discovered an enjoyment for the one Hawai'ian shirt i own which i had not previously worn since my freshman year of high school...i have been wearing it with white capris or shorts and basically just a sports bra underneath. very comfortable and probably the only thing in my wardrobe which counts as a fashionable choice, whether good or bad
>QOTT2: What is your favorite method of self-expression?
that i wasn't sure what was meant by this until reading other anons probably says more than i could with a real explanation...i like to write, but it's really only to vent feelings and it isn't something i do regularly. it's not meant to be read by anyone, either.
i probably express myself for the most part just by talking to people and sharing my interests; i would like to think that i am very authentic, but maybe i can't make that sort of appraisal about myself. i definitely talk too much, at least.
>>40816017
>>40816039
it's been years since i've been really into it but i've been talking to my husband and brother about Minecraft lately and we've all started playing a little again. it's a nice thing to do or watch while just talking and hanging out :)

>>40832695
Based violent bugchan (I know how it feels. Hugs)
>>40833057
I love the ren faire! And Minecraft!! Are you a builder or a miner? What did you wear to the faire? Cop any cute trinkets?

>>40832716
i do not know what this show is but what would you hope to accomplish or demonstrate in doing this? or is it just something you are thinking about because it is interesting to you?
>>40832759
ugly freak or no, feminine or no, you are valuable and worthy of love as anyone else. i wish i could meaningfully extend that love to you through this screen and i know that this doesn't mean very much but i think it is good to remember that while the world is not always kind, we are often even less kind to ourselves. the unkind thoughts you have about yourself do not accurately reflect the world as it sees you. i care about you, nonny, for whatever it is worth

>>40833197
i am definitely a miner lol. i like to dig my home into the ground or the side of a mountain partially because it means i don't have to design the outside of a house, although i do try to keep it nice and cozy, nonetheless!
i had planned to wear a Victorian mourning outfit, but the dress we got did not look as pictured and the chiffon for the veil i had to buy from Walmart bc there are no textile stores around here wasn't very good...so this idea will be saved for next year :) i was going to just wear a hoodie but my mom got me a cheap little outfit with a cloak and a skirt because she didn't want me to be the only one out of costume. i feel a little bad about that but it was fun and i was grateful. i did not buy anything because i am currently between jobs but there was a really beautiful iridescent pair of insect-wing-shaped earrings i wish i had bought because they were only $25. my ears aren't even pierced, though, and i only want to pierce one, so i couldn't justify it. this was my husband's first faire and he bought a sword lol.

>>40833271
i got a picture here is the alfet

Good morning nonbineys

>>40828569
Science is a made up fairy tale. It was invented to control human cattle like you. Your beliefs are no different from ancient slaves believing the pharaohs who ruled over them were gods.

having another chronic pain+fatigue episode... guess it's time for my monthly week long nap

it do be like that

I drove away with the soda on top of my car. I hate myself

>>40832716
I like gender swapping because it triggers everyone. There are almost no people out there who genuinely believe gender should be excised from daily social interactions

I think I'm about to freak out on the next person that pisses me off

I'm a he/him amab enby

>>40837273
if youre identifying yourself with these words youre just a man

should i go to sleep now or try and stay awake a little longer

>>40837550
Sleep for both of us.

>>40837550
Stay up you fucking. You fucking PUSSY

>>40813563 (OP)
has anyone here gotten nb ffs

my art is so fucking bad i hate it so much kill me

>>40838138
If you post some, I can give concrit if you'd like. I won't be mean.
>t. drawer

>>40838035
its gonna be cringe if i get ffs and i have to tell the surgeon "yeah so basically can you remove all the masculine features of my face but dont make me look like a girl"

>>40838176
unironically id rather look like a girl as long as i stop looking manly/ugly.

>>40813563 (OP)
>q1:
currently? trying to go for something between a faggified sam winchester, and a 2007 emo teenage girl whos his biggest fan
>q2:
i write music both to play on my own and for my band (im the basist)

I am about to have sex with my first moid. Wish me luck
>>40838855
You are based

>>40838167
its ugly people are gonna make fun of me

>>40838884
HE WAS UGLY AND I RAN AWAY IF HE KILLS HIMSELF ILL KMS TOO IM SO SORRY BRO WTFFF

>>40838884
good luck nonny :) have fun
>>40839095
nta but it seems like enbygen is a very nice place....i respect your decision to keep it to yourself but i really do not think anyone would make fun of you or your art

>>40839154
>good luck nonny :) have fun
omg never mind i guess

Is my voice andro?
https://voca.ro/1hV9aWpKKqto

>>40839133
lolll

>>40839182
you sound like a male sixth-grader in like September which is pretty andro i think?? but my brain keeps reading it as feminine.....i am not sure tbdesu but i couldn't guess your agab so i guess it works out lol

i should probably ask this too
https://voca.ro/15Vs3WHW5dIy

>>40839182
>>40839377
https://voca.ro/1eMJKW9syy9A

>>40839377
Definitely reads feminine to me i dont think cis people would clock although I would assume mtf?

>>40839647
https://voca.ro/1bF5UsMVs1TE

>>40839647
?? nonny what is this about
>>40839695
>i dont think cis people would clock
as male, you mean? i am mtf(tnb) but i am not rly concerned abt my voice clocking me, i just wanna sound androgynous

>>40838770
same…
>>40813563 (OP)
hello nb gen

>>40839836
https://voca.ro/1ib0PhSMkBBo

>>40839844
hello Naoto!
>>40839939
understood o7

>>40839844
Good evening my succulent little potato chip

>>40840081
hiya hiya
>>40840103
whaaa

luv me some good sock

>>40838770
That's all "NBs" want to be. Female. lmao

>>40837696
>>40838021
i ended up going to sleep trololo

>>40840424
holy ngmi, foot size?
>>40840745
trvke

>>40841265
Euro 40
>>40841131
I am about to do the same myself

bump

good morning non bineys

good morning nonbineys

>>40844145
Wow I did a double take just now lol. Who is that character?

>>40844158
Speed o sound sonic from one punch man

GOOD MORNING EVERYONE!!!

good morning nonbineys (x3)

i went to get a haircut yesterday and asked about going shorter and the woman who does my hair said no way José and that she thought i should definitely keep my hair long.....she has been very affirming of my transition in the past so maybe it is just trying to keep doing so? but i'm not really sure what to do..i kinda wanna shave my head like totally bald (i know that's probably a bad idea) but even just having it shorter she said she thought i shouldn't do.
i really wanna try a shorter hairstyle but she thinks i will regret having it short since it took me so long to grow it out and she might be right.....what do friends

>>40844188
i got my hair cut really short yesterday after 4 years of growing it out and i liked it

>>40844200
how long was it before? i've been growing mine out for ten years and it is almost to my butt so she is right i think to say that it is a big commitment to cut it
also what kind of style did you get!!

>>40844205
it was about halfway down my back, i just got a basic middle part, nothing special

>>40844229
mmm that is still a lot of hair..hm
were you scared? as much as i *think* i want to cut my hair it really kind of scares me. hence the uncertainty.....but this gives me some confidence that i wouldn't regret it

is it weird that i long for relationships with binary trans people but have no interest in dating a fellow nb

>>40844248
i was kinda scared the days leading up to it, but on the day of, i didnt feel much of anything while it was getting chopped
i didnt even really WANT to cut my hair to begin with, i was just doing it because i was tired of putting in effort for/overall dealing with it, and putting it up for work

>>40844253
Hmmm sort of yea. What’s ur type anona

>>40844253
i don't think so..it is like any other gender preference, isn't it?
>>40844281
ok now i am uncertain again bc i do really want to cut my hair and it is still scary lol
i wish there were a low-stakes way to do this sort of thing....i guess getting a haircut is sort of low-stakes already bc it's gonna grow back but i wish i could get like some kind of temporary-tattoo equivalent to a haircut

>>40844300
i don't know if i have a type to be hornets

>>40844188
Do what makes you happy, never let anyone... Especially a HAIR STYLIST... tell you what to do
>t. way too many bad haircuts

>>40844398
the problem is that it is scary and i do not know if it will make me happy or how to figure that out ://
my thought for a while has been that if i just bite the bullet and do it, then if i hate it, that's the worst it can ever get and it will only be better thenceforth.....but it's still scary
is that stupid? am i standing in my own way? i sort of think that i am but i don't know how to get over the fear

>>40844348
Well find out. I want fifteen pages on YOUR type on my desk before the bump limit or by god you’ll be through that door so fast your head will spin, capiche??

anyone here over 30 i hate it here

>>40813956
fucking same i was malnourished the whole childhood and puberty and now my most rewarding hobby is basically eating things. (mostly) recovered from binging and im not fat but im still kinda bleeding money on food i just got the volume down but not self control over what i buy

>>40828000
>tell people what is and isn't "valid", tell trans people what is and isn't ok for them to do with their bodies, try to use afab and amab as a new way of saying woman and man etc.
enby hate got big before they started doing this

>>40828221
the 2 aren't mutually exclusive

>>40844471
I turned twenty eight yesterday

28 is a scary age i dont like this, i need to get a job and become an adult fast and i still havent even accepted who i am

>>40844253
im the same dating nb as another nb is like being extra gay

>>40844481
nightmare when did you enby out

>>40844471
i’m 27 so approaching 30 faster than i want to …

>>40844447
I've found that even when I get a bad cut it looks a lot better after growing it out a little. Right now my hair is down to my shoulders because of how much I loathe getting haircuts.

we on that victorian grindset

>>40844527
>nightmare when did you enby out
you mean like start acting like a faggot or start asking people to use they/them pronouns? 23 and never

>>40844816
well cello there, how bassd

i finally got my fucking id card .

>>40813563 (OP)
>QOTT: How would you describe your sense of style?
>dress pants and blouses at work
>overalls and hoodies outside of work
>dresses on special occasions

>QOTT2: What is your favorite method of self-expression?
Does painting minis count?
>>40840424
gay

>>40844852
what minis do you paint i paint GHOULZ

>>40844859
Battletech and whatever I need for my ttrpgs mostly
I used to play 40k, but started selling my army

>>40844880
is that for mausritter? i like ttrpgs i am running a mörk borg adaptation called corp borg in an asylum dungeon tomorrow

>>40844894
It is for my big DnD campaign
I mostly run DnD with some Die Schwarze Katze on top
Trying to get my players into d100 sometime soon(maybe Halloween?)

Hope you have fun running the game

>>40844812
it isn't so much that i'm worried about it looking bad (although i suppose i am worried about that) but, like, the commitment of cutting off ten years' worth of hair, y'know? i think i don't want to admit it to myself but on top of being worried about how i'll feel personally i'm probably also afraid that instead of looking inconspicuously androgynous i will look very conspicuously transgender...maybe it just comes with the territory of externalizing the enby feelings but i've never existed as a trans person before without long hair and i'm not sure i could handle that if it meant people always knew and it weren't something i got to decide when to share and to whom
i'm sorry for going on and on and on about this i keep finding new layers here intersticed in the fear i had to begin with
i am probably just thinking way too hard
i wonder if i could find a queer hairstylist who might understand what i am thinking and be able to do something that would feel and look nice

>>40840745
yawn

>>40845042
>find a queer hairstylist
Yes, do this.
>look very conspicuously transgender
Not gonna lie, I am extremely trans-looking. It makes for some awkward moments but I'm used to it, even if people look like they've seen a ghost when I walk by (hooray red state).
10 years of hair is really something special. Maybe instead of getting the big chop, you could get it trimmed and styled? I've never had hair past my collarbones and consistently kept it really short...

>>40844527
pic rel
>>40845042
i’ll just say ever since i ditched long hair for medium length, ive felt a lot better about how i look. i’d definitely recommend a stylist who knows how to make you feel good after your haircut- ie it’s what you want or more. bring photo reference in if you can

>>40845072
>I am extremely trans-looking
Hard to avoid as an enby aiming for at least some degree of androgyny, isn't it?

>>40845088
sick pic

>>40845099
Why would I avoid it?

I can't wait til I get paid; I'm going to drop a good chunk on 5 pieces from a superb fashion designer on Etsy. I'm so excited, and their prices aren't horrible at all

>>40844457
i like nerdy losers i guess. it's more complicated than that obviously but i usually gravitate towards those types. there are certain visual tropes i like too, brown eyes, androgynous face, alt/emo fashion, but i can't really pinpoint "my type"

>>40845681
why does that look like something a gay dracula would wear?

>>40846074
Because I am a gay dracula

>>40845681
>Doesn't ship to Germany
RIP

My mystery box has arrived...
>>40846335
Sorry to hear that lil bro

good afternoon nonbineys!!!!!!!!!! therapist recommended i pick up a new book since i am making such slow progress on my current one so i went to the library today and i am starting picrel :) i have wanted to read it for a while so i am very excited
i still wanna read my current (previous?) book though so i think i will keep doing that whenever the mood strikes me but hopefully i will have an easier time with this

>>40845072
>>40845088
thank you nonnies..i do not really even know myself what kind of style i want in particular, but i am definitely going to look for a stylist who can understand the sort of thing i am hoping for :)
i think i probably need someone new anyways lole......i fumbled the entire like forty-minute interaction HARD yesterday and she was basically verbally pushing me out the door by the time i left
>>40845681
to wear out? that looks freaking epic i am excited for you
>>40847650
oh so fun!! what is the candy like?

>>40847985
Yes, I am a full-time freak.
The candies are very tasty juicy hard candies, 10/10. I'm most excited about the Cinamoroll chopsticks; I was lamenting the loss of my Rilakkuma chopsticks just yesterday.

>>40848079
>I am a full-time freak.
i do not think you are a freak at all i literally love that
a girl i used to work with had like a medieval-style cloak she would wear out in cold weather and seeing that sort of opened my eyes to the fact that you can actually wear whatever you want wherever you want and no-one can stop you. i want to start wearing cool and unique clothes too it is awesome
>chopsticks
how serendipitous :) if you don't mean they were broken somehow, though, i do hope you'll find your old chopsticks sometime.

>>40848324
That reminds me .. One time I was working at a basic grocery store, and I saw an absolute queen walking through the aisles with a floor length white cloak. I still think about her.
Unfortunately my old chopsticks were trashed by my POS ex alongside some of my other stuff (cosplay, figurines, etc). Honestly worth it just to get away from that psycho.
I would love to hear more about the clothing/styles you are interested in.

>>40848410
i don't really know anything about fashion or clothes or anything (i was the camo-pants-and-tank-tops response to the qott), so i'm not sure that i could really accurately describe the sort of stuff i think is especially cool. i have no money right now, either, so it's not even something i've looked into. but i would love to have the style and confidence to wear a cloak out in the world without feeling weird. i'd like to try wearing trenchcoats too, although that's way more normal, i guess. just something i never see and don't imagine i could pull off. i like the elaborate style of lots of Victorian clothing, as well, and i doubt i'll ever really do it, but i imagine going out in an extravagant suit or an enormous dress would be fun lol.

>>40848612
I actually own a trench coat/leather duster, got it at the thrift. It makes me feel swag as fuck, but pretty much everyone said it makes me look like a *bad person*.... lol...

>>40848733
nice pants

>>40848324
I think the item of clothing I got the most compliments for is my plash palatka
Which isn't as cool as a medieval cloak, but it still feels cool to wear
Especially when going down stairs

>>40848733
nice everything tbdesu you do look swag as fuck i also love those pants
>>40848843
>plash palatka
that does sound very comfy......where do you even get something like that

NO ONE CAN TELL MY PRONOUNS ARE CIM/XAM

GRRRSR
WTF
I'M
WEARING
VERRRRRY
CIM ATTIRE

I don't know why I even bother to talk to my mother when all she does is fucking insult me

After consideration and a period of enbying, I’ve decided I’m detransing. Good luck, best general, hopefully I’ll see less of this board

>>40849851
Enby was never trans to begin with and you should kill yourself for using the strife of an oppressed people are your identities playground. I hope you literally die of aids faggot

>>40849911
Are you actually retarded

>>40849673
i'm sorry nonny. i wish i could offer more than that.
>>40849851
i wish for you boundless happiness friend. good luck to you as well <3

>>40849911
this general is not for you please leave

>>40844471
>anyone here over 30 i hate it here
Me and same. :(
Everyone seems barely 18 these days.

>>40849851
good luck babe say hello to the normies for me
>>40849911
someone who hasn't undergone any hormones or surgery and is just self IDing as enby is not going to "detransition" you fucking moron

>>40844471
>>40850005
I'm 26 myself and I feel like 50% of 4chan is 18-19 years old >_>

fucked up in the club

>>40851585
Turnt up on a Wednesday evening? Cheers.

>>40851610
fucked up in the club psychologically

>>40813563 (OP)

i rlly like this kind of style with guidi but im too ugly/oddly shaped/etc to pull it off... i also kinda like the grungy-ish look of stuff like our legacy and r13 but idk

>>40852501
>>40852472
pic rel anyways

sleep

good morning nonbineys

>>40855246
KIND OF EARLY FOR THAT DONT YOU THINK, [Little Sponge]?

>>40855311
I only need like 4-5 hours of sleep idk

>>40844471
>anyone here over 30 i hate it here
I had my 30th birthday last week

>>40856039
unc

>>40856342
30 is the new 20

>>40856512
yeah kind of. people live longer and safer now so we started infantilizing ourselves. 30s are treated like 20s, 20s are treated like teenagers, and teenagers are treated like actual toddlers

>>40856512
cope

good morning nonbineys i love this general

i love guidi too, i really want some 788z they look so elegant

>sense of style
this bothers my autism because the phrasing implies it means "what you find stylish or good looking" when it actually means "what you actually wear". these are two things that don't necessarily overlap.

>>40856597
idk
I am pretty okay with getting old
Seems kinda cool

>>40856960
true actually! im sorry for being mean

Kinda wanna go to IKEA today.. man, I wish I had friends to do fun stuff with...

>>40856592
Which is based. Let people enjoy themselves.

>>40858004
not really i think that self infantilization is a problem

>>40813563 (OP)
qott1: i want clothes that makes ppl go wowie, i guess i mostly go with band shirts, sick pants and platform shoes (being taller with pants that shows how long my legs fucking are somehow helps me cope with being fcking tall)
qott2: i like drawing and making noises

>>40844471
ye 30 here and i also hate it wtf is the fucking point of getting older if you cant reap any of the benefits
>>40856512
we cant keep pretending this is true anon. we dont have to give up on skibidirizzling but we're going to have to accept that people half our age are borderline adults who are borderline capable of doing most of the adult shit we can do, which effectively means we're fucking ancient in comparison

>>40858262
Is this you? Nice Rocks. I have two pairs myself.

>>40858050
Depends in what you mean by that. In general I think a pit of problems in society are down to people being way too uptight about fucking everything more recently and trying to rope everyone else into that as well. Taking it easy would help with that. We could have it so fucking easy yet people just have to make themselves and each other miserable.

>>40858262
nice everything nonny this is sick
i will listen to HEALTH now i do not do this enough

>>40858292
thanks, i have two pairs as well, i think it's enough. my other pair is the one that hasn't got much platform, with the metal thingy in the front and the sides (tank-m i believe?) i like them but they weigh quite a lot lol
Maybe in another color it'd be cool, i just don't think i could settle with white ones, they are cool but i can't think of a way to pair them with what i wear.
>>40858318
thank you very much i love you, i like health but i can't really get out of rat wars, i like that they are featured in the ultrakill soundtrack, i also have their asuka shirt, i do not have the courage to buy the cum metal crop top

>>40858452
New Rocks, Tripp, Vivienne Westwood... Are you me? Tripp has been putting out some real lame shit lately. I have 5 pairs of Tripps but I'm starting to be not interested in much from them anymore...

>>40858317
some people need to chill. many younger leftists need to get off their asses and do something productive for society. we can do something about conservatives.

>>40856870
right? they’re so beautiful. i’d post more inspo but im at work rn

>>40858523
we share the brandwhore way of life..
I agree, i have 4 pairs of tripp, 3 of which are the ones where you can, like, zip out the legs and get a short out of a pant. i love that, a lot. this is sick, i like zippers and straps, i did not check on their website recently because the delivery fees were too much, now i only check the brand on secondhand apps like vinted, but i do agree most of their latest releases sucks lol.. i like their instagram account though, they repost a lot of pics of their customers and it's nice to get inspo. sometimes a bit dysphoria inducing when it's girls...
I like your new rocks, they look good, they are shiny.. The boots on the right are soo cool.
i recently got my hands on tartan blue bondage pants from vivienne, i now need a white shirt to fit it but you'd like them i believe. i get most of my vivienne stuff from secondhand japanese websites, except some jewelry that i bought in store.
i love lolita fashion (btssb) as well but i was not born a girl so i can't really get it to fit well, so i mostly encourage my girlfriends to buy it instead of me. i will muster the courage to wear a headress in the wild someday.

>>40858714
Yeah I love the Tripp zip offs, so I was insulted to see them selling straight up shorts... I don't own any Viv yet, but it's on my list to get a full set (earrings necklace bracelet). I also love Lolita! I did a coord once for an anime convention... Perhaps you will appreciate my ootd.

>>40858875
very cool, it makes me want to buy a corset to layer.
i had some views on dilara corsets recently but i'd need some fatter racks.
last time i went to a viv shop i saw these shoes that i still dream about. but there weren't any of my size. i like the rocking horse platforms as well. Buy some clothes after you get your jewelry, it takes a huge amount of time to find something secondhand that is good looking with a correct sizing but these piece are so cherishable

>>40859042
talking about viv clothing ofc.

>>40859042
I would honestly commit crimes to get my hands on some black rocking horse shoes

>>40859082
try looking after the bodyline ones. they aren't that hard to find secondhand and i belive they do the trick for 10 times cheaper

>>40859097
Thanks! I'll definitely check it out

>>40858875
Cute waist coat
I should get one like that

>>40859515
I love my waistcoat, it makes my outfits feel elegant and complete. All I need is a pocket watch lol

>>40858714
>i love lolita fashion (btssb) as well but i was not born a girl so i can't really get it to fit well
why not, i figured lolita would look best on amabs since it obscures lack of curves. unless you literally mean not fitting into japanese sizing

>>40859914
ye i guess i'm just being dishonest because i don't really like my physique, i should try again through playing dress up with a friend
it wasn't about sizing since the main pieces i have are mostly tartan babydoll JSK so it's not about shoulder length or things like that

nom nom nom

>>40852549
pic rel is a cute look too

>>40861828
If I didn't have wavy hair I'd get that haircut in a heartbeat