What hairstyles do femanons prefer on guys?
Post examples if you can.

do femanons like messy curly/wavy shoulder length hair as a result of not liking having my hair cut because of autism?

>>81623730 (OP)
Long hair long hair long hair long hair LONG HAIR. Especially with layers in it. Or maybe the leon kennedy haircut at the shortest if they have thick enough hair pull it off.

>>81623730 (OP)

I don't want to post examples cause I'm lazy but I've got a bit of good advice. Firstly good hairstyles are dependent on your face shape and hair type. I have thicker/wavy hair and a round face which sucks to have for longer hairstyles so I stick to short and styled ones usually almost buzzed on the sides and a bit of length on the top pushed to the side or left messy

Secondly and more important go to barbers who are good. Don't go to supercuts don't go to great clips or any chain where you pay ~20 bucks. If you pay like 10-20 dollars more you get access to the immigrants are fucking good at cutting your hair and will do just as good of a job as the ~100 dollar hair cuts you get from the snobby white people who work at fancy places. If you are white find an immigrant place and just ask them to do what they think is best and they'll do some good shit for you. If my barber isn't an immigrant or can speak fluent english I don't want them

>>81623771
YES YES YES YES YES. if it's wavy cut some layers in it by a salon. Not a barber. Barbers don't know shit most of the time.

>>81623828
I've grown my hair out but I keep it just under my chin. Kinda going for a Chris Cornell/Kurt Cobain length and look. Though my hair is more like Chris Cornell's texture wise. I've learned that longer hair is a fucking pain in the ass to deal with and have gotten a new appreciation for girls with really long hair. I have stupidly thick hair and want to layer/maybe thin it a bit but I have no idea what to do about that and really don't want to go to a beauty salon. I don't think barbers would know how to do my hair at this length right.
Plus I have no idea what products to use. I wake up with a frizzy mess and only really have my hair looking ok after I wash it. Otherwise the humidity and heat fucks it up. I'm thankful to not be a balding fag but holy shit I have too much hair. I don't know how to manage it and get it styled how i want it. And on the rare time it does look how I want it I don't know how to make it stay like that.

>>81623923
Nonni, there are men's salons out there, and a good amount of "women's" ones often have a few male customers (I worked at one.) You can ask to go on at a time where nobody else is there if it makes you nervous. I see way more unisex salons than men's specific ones here, but I rather trust hairstylists because they spend years in college studying to do it. Do you use conditioner? Use baby shampoo or sulfate free shampoo, and do not hairdry your hair, only air dry. You can dry it off with a cotton shirt or microfiber towel after your showers. I use silicone oil to unfrizz my hair sometimes but it can be a bit pricy. You can style with hair wax or with a hair straightener, I think that blonde arab looksmaxxing guy made a tutorial on how to use hair wax/clay. You can also look at men's "emo" hair tutorials to figure out how to use a hair straightener, even if you aren't going for that look, it's still man to man. If you are seriously struggling with frizz, get a botox treatment at a salon. It's non-invasive, just a leave-in product that fills the gaps in your hair follicles. Worked wonders for me. I look after my hair extremely well and I still have days where it puffs up badly, but then I just do an 80s look.

>>81623902
>>81623914
>>81623923
wtf I am too autistic to understand any of that why are normalfags so obsessed with hair? I just grow it out like this >>81623914 and go to the barber sometimes to make it look neat again.

>>81624002
In my opinion, the first thing I pay attention to when I see a man is their hair. You could give me the ugliest shmuck on earth and if he has incredible hair I'd like him. Your hair is what frames your entire face. I could see a 10/10 model male and if their hair is short and gross I'd be turned off in seconds.

>>81624002

because other normalfags are obsessed with hair and I'm also a server so my appearance matters as I get tipped higher from chicks if I look more presentable

>>81624002
Yes you're too retarded and autistic. Correct.

>>81624026
Women are so strange hair is one of the least important things as long as it mantained and clean it it fine.
>>81624168
I don't like normalfags at all. Do they really pay 200 euro per month just for their hair? No wonder they are all broke.

>>81623828
my hair is wavey and comes down to the top of my lumbar, it has layers (5 months old layers, I like them grown out) not a twink like picrel though as I lift 5x a week but same hair colour

>>81623730 (OP)
I try to get a hairstyle like Erwin Smith but I just look like even more of an autist

>>81623730 (OP)
Idk why but bottom left looks so faggoty compared to middle left. I guess because it takes more "styling" which equals more gay.

>>81623998
I do use sulfate free shampoos and conditioner but I don't know if the conditioner is the right one. I do dry my hair with a cotton shirt. I went and read about hair but I still struggle. I even did some of those hair type online tests that I don't really know the legitimacy of but I do remember that my hair is apparently very high porosity. It's like a sponge. I've tried different oils but haven't really found one my hair likes. I do know it absolutely hates coconut oil. One problem I have is dandruff that dermatologists have told me to wash my hair like every 2 days for with a special harsh shampoo and I think that's part of why it gets the way it does. I just think I need some kind of hair expert that really looks at your hair one on one and helps you figure out what's best for it. I went to a salon once and I tried to ask questions and learn about hair but the girl that did my hair was very standoffish and I just didn't like the experience. I feel like I need some super fruity gay dude to do my hair. Maybe he'd be more helpful.

>>81624226
Go to goth bars/clubs those women whine and bitch about needing a man with long hair like that like it's their life aspiration

>>81624168
Anon this is going to sound crazy, but you should get your nails done too. You can get a male manicure, as everyone will look at your hands most of the time when you serve food. Don't go to a salon in a mall, just find a good person on insta in your area, mall salons will fuck you up. Almost all nail techs offer male manicures, it's just cleaning up the nail and making them look very fresh and presentable. If you're willing to give up your dignity, a lot of girls will tip lots for gay guys with nicely designed nails, I know I do it myself kek

>>81623923
>>81624226
you have my hair from the sounds of it, here is what you will do:

>buy cantu curling cream, it contains shea butter
>buy a heat protecting hair oil spray, mine is jojoba oil, I prefer a spray because its easier to distribute
>buy a deep conditioning conditioner, I use mark hills deep hydrating conditioner
>buy yourself a shampoo without shit like alcohol or sulfates
>buy yourself a WIDE toothed comb
>STOP using towels on your hair after a shower, use a cotton towel
>sleep on a satin pillow case
>buy yourself a boar bristle brush, no plastic crap, actual boar bristle.

here is your routine
>brush your hair before the shower
>use shampoo and really massage your scalp
>use conditioner on your ends
>once out of the shower use the wide toothed comb to gentle untangle your hair
>use a T SHIRT that is 100 percent cotton to blot your hair slightly
>pea sized amount of cantu curling cream, work it onto your hands so its warm, distribute into your hair
>re scrunch with towel
>hair oil hair spray, not on your scalp but the ends
>re scrunch gently with t shirt
>use wide toothed comb to move your hair back and out of your face to dry
>let your hair air dry 75%
>use a hair drier to get your scalp dry because damp scalp is a pain with thick hair
>once dry
>use boar bristle brush to break the cantu shea butter casts that will be on your hair lengths, not break but just brush it out
>always brush from TIP to root, never root to tip or you will create breakage which will amplify frizz


Go rn and book a hairdresser, stop being a fag and go do it, barbers dont know long hair, hairdressers do, go and get layering because I had a shoulder length lump at one point and it sucks, layering for most lengths is king with frizzy hair. You will shape up or suffer terrible hair.

>>81624279
Does your conditioner have proteins your hair doesn't like? My boyfriend doesn't use conditioner but his hair always looks incredible. Lots of gay guys work in "women's" salons, just give a call and ask if you as a guy can come in, they usually don't mind.

>>81624279
>high porosity
>>81624316
exactly like mine, yours could be 2A or 2B, for dandruff I unironically use head and shoulders which I should have mentioned but I dont have it.
>super fruity gay dude
thats my hairdresser, I wont let anyone else touch it lmao

>>81624333
I have no idea about the conditioner or proteins. I just asked any woman in my life and they all say to use conditioner so I use one lmao. I have moments where my hair looks really nice but it always goes back to he frizzy mess eventually.

>>81624286
I notice a lot have bfs though, but im pretty much only in local gigs for the music. Not been to local bars on my own as wtf do you do on your own if theres no gig

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hlyLxCZ27jk&list=PLa4SWjrdO7XlrxvVVEBuiNa3cagHn2oQP&index=7

>>81624402
You offer them a joint. That's what almost all of the men at gigs/goth events do with me and the other girls. I don't smoke for medical reasons though but it seems to work for the others.

>>81624476
Normalfags are so disgusting oh god just hearing about this makes me glad I have never been into a bar or club.

>>81624316
I have nappy hair, im trying to get it straightened then curled.
I'm most likely gonna book a hairdresser.
Is it doable? how would i do it? HELP SMART ANON

>>81624476
>joint
ohhh, its that easy? fuck im slow. What about for making dude friends too, I have a distinct lack of metalhead friends, another joint?

>>81624519
>nappy hair
srry vro thats a whole other ballpark, I literally have 0 idea what to do with nappy hair, dont dudes get dreads? that sounds easier with hair like that then I think you just use a fuck tonne of oils

>>81624310

your right, that does sound crazy I'm not gonna pretend to be gay for extra cash. You did remind me to cut my nails though so thank you

>>81624601
i don't want dreads you have to retwist that shit i think
i just wanted nice long jheri curled hair like picrel so i don't have to comb my stupid as carpet hair all the time

>>81624651
have you heard of the curly girl method

>The Curly Girl Method is a hair care routine designed for naturally curly, wavy, or coily hair, developed by hairstylist and curl expert Lorraine Massey. It focuses on avoiding harsh chemicals, heat styling, and certain styling techniques that can damage curls, and instead promotes hydration, definition, and curl retention through specific products and methods.

hair is hair so ignore the name, sounds like you need that, if its so curly id avoid directly brushing it. Thankfully mine isn't so curly that I cant without it exploding into frizz but some peoples hair is like that but thats some shit I never looked at too closely as I never needed to as mines just lightly wavey

>>81624676
bro i love that gay hair shit man i don't care what its called ill look into it.
I want gay boy hair so i can whip that shit back and cover my shitty hairline.
ill probably visit a hairdresser to get started what should i tell them? just show them a pic like the one i have and see what happens?

>>81624757
yeah show them a pic and say you think layering and they will look at your hair n shit and do something good your hair, if its a proper hair dresser they may also wash it and put special shit in it so you can find out what works best as they should know

>>81624577
Ehh, not sure about dudes, my dad made all of his metalhead friends through biker groups/bars. I'm not very experienced with men unfortunately

I typically rock number 5

>>81624310
just cut your nails and file them into a neat shape don't pay somebody to do it, stuff like cuticle clearing and buffing that just looks like clear nail polish is unnecessary and odd looking