Men aren't going to dating events. It's bizarre. Why are they just dropping out? Women want to be with you now, anon.

>>81659723 (OP)
>why dont men attend the humiliation ritual fest where we make them compete for us washed up bitter women who still harshly judge them

They spent my whole life telling me to not be a creep and then they start being nit-picky and controlling about everything? I dont care at this point, you have to go after ME

>reddit rage slop thread

>>81659723 (OP)
they should legit make the tickets free, first come first serve for men, because a dating event is such a foid idea. It's like a dating app where women will reject you with the same insane expectations they have on their phones, but you get to be there in front of them to put on your best poker face when they do. We don't want to spend money on that.

>>81659723 (OP)

The kind of men (Chads) women want don't go to those events because they don't have to. The kind of men that are in a position to go to such events (incels) don't go because they are understanding the aforementioned more and more every day. Why would a man go where he isn't wanted?

>>81659723 (OP)
Oh wait, you are supposed to pay for those events? Lol, lmao even. There was one of these in my area some years ago, i told my zoomer coworker who wouldnt stfu about being lonely and he said a rotund no because he thought it would be only worthless roastie women. I would have gone just to get some keks of it and for being curious about it. They havent repeated it anymore, or at least i dont even know about it. Seems like a waste of time tho, you can doomswipe on dating apps

>>81659723 (OP)
>Women want to be with Chad now, Anon
FTFY

>>81659723 (OP)
i have literally never heard of one of these happening, seems like fake shit

>>81659842
You vill pay for your own humiliation ritual anon

>>81659723 (OP)
Hiking every single day has reduced my sex drive to the point where I don't even think about women, nigga. Stay Hard.

Chad can just unlock his phone for pussy he does not go to these events.

Non-chad is not going to waste his time.

>>81659723 (OP)
Simple: Women have signaled to me, personally, that I am unwanted. I dont say this as some sob story, but realistically.
Some people just aren't very attractive and I'm one of them. So I don't bother with false hope by engaging with people who would rather not see me.

>>81659723 (OP)
>40+

What exactly is supposed to be the mystery here?
It's just some old hag coping with the reality that her dating market value dropped to zero years ago.

>>81660386
This. And for an event for 40+ year olds, that's 25+ years of men being told they are unwanted, why would they go to an event that is entirely about lining up and having groups of women judge you? Only an absolute masochist would voluntarily want that level of humiliation.

>>81659894
This. Post some of these supposed 'meetups' or it's just another episode of reddit ragebaiting.

>>81659723 (OP)
Women have 2 phases for relationships, the fun phase and the serious phase. I was excluded from the former, so I don't participate in the latter. You seriously expect me to clean up a party I wasn't invited to? If you wanted my help later, you should have paired up with me sooner. Your life, your mess, your problem, you're just a stranger to me and have been for almost half your life, why the fuck would I care. Did you care about me during the first half? Exactly, so don't expect what you don't fucking give.

>>81659723 (OP)
At 40+ most desirable men and women are already out of the dating pool. I think most 40+ undesirable men have accepted their fate at this point and are just wanting to live quiet lives until they die. After all, is there any point in trying to date 40+ women, most of them will have huge red flags and lists of requirements that many tired and broken men would look at and just think it is not worth the trouble.

>>81659894
>>81660460
https://www.eventbrite.ca/d/ia--des-moines/singles-party/
These are some of them from her city.

>>81660500
>You seriously expect me to clean up a party I wasn't invited to?
gold

>>81660500
I agree but as a non-incel non-virgin I guess that implies I'm also morally obligated to date these hags now. Fuck.

>>81659723 (OP)
>Pay to be rejected by mentally unwell women
No

>>81659723 (OP)
Women would rather die alone than marry a low value man.
Men would rather die alone than marry a low value man.

What defines value varies, but for the most part money is very important for men's value and age for women's value. No man *wants* to marry a 40 years old women (except if they're old too and divorced), just like women don't *want* men with 5ft height or making 5 figure salaries.

>>81659723 (OP)
>Women want to be with you now, anon.
Lies.

>>81659723 (OP)
Can I grill these women about their sexual history with a lie detector and publicly humiliate them for their degeneracy (unless there's a genuine femcel there)
If not I'm not interested

>>81659723 (OP)
Why would I pay to speed date whores that are already sleeping with 10 guys but want to make me pay for 10 dates before letting me eat her out?? The juice isn't worth the squeeze. Women treat men like shit so men stay home

>>81659723 (OP)
>Why aren't men dating anymore?
i live a temporary life i am not established anywhere i work shrot term contracts and move around the coutry

>>81659723 (OP)
Men are shit and pretend videogames make them happier. It obviously doesn't so then they throw a tantrum and blame women for their own retarded decision making

>>81662174
>retarded foid screeching

> paying for a chance to date a bitter 40+ roast

Not even the most thirsty boomer would do it.

>>81662174
Despite being an avid fan of games, I must admit you can see some dudes definitely using it as a tool to numb themselves. It's always some competitive game they queue on for 12 hours a day, not even thinking about what they're doing, their strategy or mistakes made. They run on autopilot and hope they win. It's really miserable to see.
On my end though, I'm fuckin thriving, just installed CFW on my old 3ds and it's been incredible, the only downside is probably having me grin like an idiot on the bus.

No man wants the "privilege" of dating a foid over 40, let alone 30. They look hideous to me beyond 25.

>>81662174
keep seething cuntoid
you will never find a man to take care of your worthless used up ass

>>81662174
Why do women seethe so fucking badly over men playing video games? I can at least grasp why they seethe about porn but this is just crazy. I see it everywhere.

As I've grown older and more cynical, it's become painfully apparent that everything is transactional, including dating and marriage. I have nothing to offer these women so I'm not going to put myself through the dating process, wasting their time and mine. I'll just keep jerking off while I wait for death, periodically sprinkled with dopamine hits.

>>81659723 (OP)
Not reading that, but I'm assuming it's something exclusive, invite only so you need to know a person who knows a person, etc., etc. Or need to meet certain parameters to attend.
So no.

>>81662174
Least retarded foid.
>Living with a cold fish normie woman who hates putting out who will no-fault divorce rape you is better than vidya.
Did you even Xenoblade? Have you even boomer shooters w the boyos? Normie women can't even be more fun than lazily filling an unova dex. Literally AI is more interesting. And a normie woman is never going to have sex with a non-normie non-chad, so that's out. What else is there? Wage extra to help her buy trendy decor for the overpriced apartment? Help a 44 yo try to have some downie kids? lol. lmao. That's not better than vidya. That's not even better than doing nothing at all.

>>81662174
Facts, hate men, horrid things

>>81662306
Paedophile, you like young women because you want to manipulate and harm them, older women wont stand for your shit

I'm too busy jerking my little penis and Cumming over and over again in my childhood bedroom to absolutely depraved and ridiculous internet porn

>>81662743
Welp, it's a livin'!!

>>81662728
>officer this pedo is attracted to 25 year old children

>>81662291
Yeah at some point the locking in your room and escapism things become addictions, not in the amount of time you waste doing it but in knowing they bring no real value to you, and knowing they won't, and still resigning yourself to those things.

>>81662775
Stop hating on older women. We're human too.

>>81662780
So we're not supposed to do fun things unless they bring value to others? Having fun is valuable to me, I couldn't care less what others think of how I spend my time

>>81662882
(((You))) are just not good enough. Prime females deserve the best and (((You))) ain't it.

i'm 5'7. just that fact alone is all i really need to know that i don't even need to bother wasting my time talking to women with the hopes they'd ever like me.

>>81660593
Well I admit this isn't another episode of reddit rage-baiting. It's another episode of normies being ten years behind the blackpill and normies not understanding basic patterns outside of how to be hypersocial wierdos, which they then apply to every single problem they encounter. You get a good faith reply so you can tell Leah how to unfuck her stupid idea and farm some reddit karma too.

tl;dr: "Supply cannot meet the demand".

The simple answer is this: Introverted men who aren't dark triad give women the ick. If just 40% of men are introverted, then how many normie women must live either single or unhappily married? If no-fault divorce is allowed and women initiate 70% of divorces, how many non-chad men care to play against the odds? Then add to that the men who are too anti-social to ever want to date a normie woman let alone live with one. Then add to that the men who are ambiverted enough to be socially outgoing, but have icky interests like anime and vidya. If you go to the vtuber convention or twitch con you'll find the missing single men that are interested in social events but don't go to singles mixers featuring martinis with turbonormies.
Women don't want to date those men. And a lot of those men have been rejected by those women for most their life. So ask yourself this: Why would a man who has gotten rejected for free pay a $18 to $127 fee for it? Or phrased differently, "why did you think selling ice to eskimos was going to go well?" And if things go miraculously well for the guy, he gets to date a normie woman he doesn't even vibe with, has nothing in common with.

>>81662979
>It's another episode of normies being ten years behind the blackpill and normies not understanding basic patterns outside of how to be hypersocial wierdos, which they then apply to every single problem they encounter.
Brilliant reply. It's like the form without the substance, "If I just have a dating meetup like people did a generation or two ago, it'll surely go well." And no thought beyond that goes into the normie mind, no cynicism or bitterness warns them before they do an action. The problem is that bitches are now crazier than ever with social media, expectations, etc. 30 years ago a woman really only had tv, movies, books, and men around them, that was bad enough but now it's 100x worse. The men don't go because they aren't interested in crazy women with high standards and the women aren't interested in them either. I mean take 25 years ago, a guy could go to a bar with his buddies and as long as we reasonably attractive and talked to girls, he could likely hookup that night. That might as well be an alien and foreign experience to most young men today. For a normie they must swim in dishonesty and ignorance, to look honestly at their grim situation would only depress them or worse, lower their status.

>>81662979
I think you're thinking too much. You are supposed to rant about women and plot vague threats against the XX species.

>>81663025
*as long as he was reasonably attractive

>>81662728
>because you want to manipulate and harm them
No. It's just that older women look and act horrible

>>81662728
To old hags like you, any man who wants a woman a day younger than her is a pedophile. Maybe realize your bitterness and "not taking shit" attitude is precisely why you're alone. Nowhere on Earth are men excited about ugly, old bitches with chips on their shoulder.

Normie women are just going to have to go without something in their lives for once. In one single thing in their life, they're going to have to take an L. There will be "women most affected" articles about it soon.

I actually know the answer to this one
The only single men over 40 who are still "serious" enough about dating to bother attending a speed dating event are the ones that want a family and as we all know women over 40 giving birth is risky
Therefore men over 40 will only go to events featuring women in the age bracket below them and this works because men in their 30s who want a family are still going after women in their 20s
This leaves women in their 40s shit out of luck

>>81663030
Real talk, artificial wombs are gonna do that whether we want it to or not. Women want to hate child birth and child rearing, so men are about to relieve them from those duties. Then what will women have to stand on? That women can do the same jobs men can? Even if that were true, it doesn't matter because so can men. It doesn't have to be a woman. The only job on earth that required a woman and women threw it away. So men are going to do what they always do: Adapt and overcome.

>>81663232
I honestly haven't looked into it since Dolly(?) the sheep clone. Isn't a real egg still required? I guess women can get paid to live their best lives by selling eggs to normalcels. But I think that there would need to be a massive cultural shift on par with the technological achievement to allow men to raise even a lab baby by themselves, when they can't adopt on their own.

I used to fire up Hinge, Tinder and Bumble occasionally just to see what I was missing and I always was taken aback by how ugly real women actually are. Maybe that would be fine if they were interesting or had hobbies or could just be bothered to market themselves better...but they dont. Terrible photos, terrible bios. I just dunno wtf the appeal is meant to be.
I dont get lonely so im not desperate at all.

>>81659758
third post best post i'm tired of retards taking up threads to signal boost ragebait for no reason

>>81660500
This. The pair bond a guy makes with a girl in her younger years is the foundation for justifying living with an old lady who actually cares about him. Whoever she gave her youthful sexy years to is the person who owes taking care of her during your wrinkly, loose, blown out, smelly, menopausal years. Cold fish, hot flashes, thermostat up and down all night. It's just extra chores with no upsides. The only thing that justifies doing it is that a man loves her.
Being not good enough and being settled for doesn't make a man feel loved and certainly doesn't justify seeing a woman through her elderly years. At best it makes him feel ambivalent, at worst bitter and resentful. Normie men are feeling ambivalent, many internet men are feeling resentful.
In maybe in a few decades time, too few men will be willing to pay into a government that gives any handouts to chad-only women who wound up alone. GILF chasers will be eating real good.

>>81662780
Bitch please, this addiction is far less destructive than stumbling on some woman that is addicted to manipulating men into buying her gifts.

>>81663344
Yeah, I was just speculating. Yes, girls or something like it will still be needed to provide eggs.
The cultural shift requirement assumes that the elite won't just go making these things without our permission like, say, COVID for example. A queen bee has conscious control over which egg she uses and of course which drones she mates with. It's not a far reach to think that geneticists are going to be doing the same with humans in a lab soon, and if it means no more incels and no more genetic diseases, why the heck not?
The queen bee thing is interesting, she picks three different genetic strands of Chad to propagate so that if a disease spreads through her hive, she only loses 1/3 of the hive total. Either way, it's not yours or mine genes that are going through so it's pretty much a moot point to have kids from that standpoint, especially with a 44 yo roastie.
I'm at peace about it because I think a future of free of unnecessary genetic obstacles and shortcomings is pretty cool. So in this case, it's literally "women most affected".

>>81663465
The ruling class very well could decide forced gene therapy is the answer to further their goals, and maybe it would turn out 'good' in the end. Who knows?
I had a prof my last year if college for a humanities requirement who tried to bring up the idea that turning everyone into hermaphrodites was the key to future success as a species.
While I am a pervert and secretly had a laugh and wank at the idea, I wondered how broad such an idea might be to be brought up in that place. The prof, female of course, was always pretty reasonable for an hardcore lefty so I was a bit surprised by her words and wish I could have seen the looks on my classmates faces. They were completely silent until she went, "well maybe we're not ready for that one yet".

>>81663388
Same and also nice numbers. Blessed thread despite being a gay reddit repost.

>>81663511
lefties are so anti-competitive with some things.
Hermaphrodites would be moving backwards. The only reason for two genders is quality control on a complicated, fail-prone genome. Women are nature's way of policing the genome for bad dice rolls because if sex felt good, everyone would do it and multiply a bunch of bad outcomes. If sex didn't feel good, no one would do it at all. So it was a decent workaround to correct "bad parking jobs" but it has since become obsolete.
When it comes to women, I'm not even mad, I'm greatful because they carried men all the way up to the point where they became advanced enough to take over the job. Also pretty cool.
I think women would have been treated better during the transition if humanity wasn't sitting on a massive library of women's rampant hate and stupidity, written by women themselves for social media.

I might have hit on my prof if she was cute and she said some wild shit like that. Like let's meet after class and talk about the hermaphrodite utopia and chill. "If I was a hermaphrodite, i'd still hit on u".
Have a chill night anon.

>>81659894
In my town's Faceberg community page some foid shills for speed dating events she organizes once a month. I also see flyers for these events when I'm walking around town. She started doing these late last year and has them broken up into 25-35, 35-45 and 45-55 age groups. Lately she is offering discounts to try to get more men to attend, especially for the 35-45 and 45-55 brackets.

I thought about doing it. I'm 35, which puts me at the cutoff for the only bracket I'd be interested in. Even then, the women in that bracket are much more likely to be 30-35 than 25-29 which is a big turnoff. I ultimately decided not to after browsing through the profiles of some 25-35 women who had marked they were attending the event. Nothing but single moms, Plapjak girls and girls who think their obnoxious political beliefs are a substitute for a personality.

>>81659723 (OP)
the only time i considered going to one of these, there was a reddit post about the event and photos and recountings of it basically said it was maybe all men outside of the woman who set the event up and one of her friends. This notion that men don't go to these I feel like is bullshit, they probably only post about it on some facebook page that men are definitely not on and acting surprised that men aren't seeing them.

>>81659723 (OP)
Looking in that thread, it's kinda amazing how every post says something like "Why would I ever pay to go to a 'dating' event where women will ignore me? At least on Tinder they don't reject me to my face."

>>81659723 (OP)
Its simpler than they make it out, men just don't want to be rejected.

>>81660386
it would just be a humiliation ritual if you are below a certain standard, people don't get rejected kindly anymore

>>81660537
like they think some rich guy is standing by waiting for them for the last 15 years

>>81663232
Artificial wombs will be good for me men but then the tough choice is who will they use for the other half of the DNA needed, I can imagine a future where some guy sneaks some hair samples from the tall guy at the gym to use or maybe just get DNA from the toilet of random people.

>>81659723 (OP)
I'm a Chad and have to hit on tons of girls to get one sub par date. Then inevitably something is wrong with the girl that's why she is single. The hotter the crazier. Then she expects exclusivity while dragging on with no sex forever and only seeing me once a week or whatever retarded shit. So you learn to just lie to the women and juggle ten because most aren't worth a hill of beans and certainly won't please you if you cuck out to this ridiculous BS

>>81659723 (OP)
Women are like this across all age groups, but it gets worse as they get older and the dick and attention dry up.

>>81662408
because you give her neither attention nor resources by playing video games, you use your time for yourself and that is intolerable from an unwanted man, you must act like a slave, an invisible robot working for her good and that of Chad

>>81663798
>50
>her post sounds like a teenager

Why does this sex have rights again?

>>81663616
haha thanks, Anon. Take 'er easy.

>>81663848
About a hundred years ago, somebody fucked up more than anyone in the history of our species has ever fucked up.

>>81659791
The progress appears to be very fast, so it's even worse in 2025 than it was in 2022. There being twice as many single men as single women has to be one of the most bizarre statistics I have learned regarding relationships. This means there are likely several men out there who are dating two and three women or more simultaneously, and women will complain about men cheating more than women.

It looks like tinder has been very transformative in the dating market. Tons of 4 to 6/10 beckies have learned that they are swipes away from literally getting their brains blown out by 8 to 9/10 chad, maybe even a few 10/10 chads if they get lucky. As soon as they've had one such experience, they are forever changed. They've gained the knowledge that they can hook up with super attractive chad whenever they want, so why would they give their looksmatch an easy time? I started this thread earlier that died too early, as is usually the case.

>>81659777
>they should legit make the tickets free
Discounted, not free. Free attracts the type of men who would not be attractive to the women anyway, the homeless and the blacks and such.

>>81660421
40+ women would also be settling for you, if they even pick you in the first place.
The deeper you analyze it, the more masochist you would need to be.

>>81660674
I've dated/had sex with two (virgin) women. They both broke up with me. In no way did I contribute to the hag epidemic. I refuse to accept that moral obligation.

>>81662291
You are both correct and incorrect. These men have given up on life. They numb themselves until the end approaches. What else would they do?
>build a business!
To what end? Money? Who cares?
Making your "community" better? Who cares?
No, genuinely, what else are they supposed to do? I don't even play games I just read stories but it's the same thing at the end of the day.

>>81663923

I'm curious as to what the stats are today. Waiting for the next drop of statistics. I may just do the calculations myself and infer from the trendline.

>I started this thread earlier that died too early, as is usually the case.

Happens to the best of us. Especially effortposters.

>>81662882
You are human, sure. And I respect you the same way I respect any other 50 year old man: I wish you the best, but I don't want to be with you.

>>81663923
>>81663973
I forgot to add the link to the thread.
>>81655594

>>81659791
Fake chart.

>>81663344
Here's blackkpill territory for you:
One woman can, with ovulation drugs, produce many eggs for men to use in artificial wombs.
Of course the woman will not be happy with this, but that's if she's given a choice. With advanced technology she may not even need be conscious.
Why would a society bother with women at all if the men are stronger and do the things like building everything?

>but anon!
Fret not, that's a future of cruelty. The truth is we're already able to create stem cells from non stem cells, so it's entirely feasible we figure out how to skip the entire egg dynamic and go straight to cloning.

Then we're on a fast track to becoming the greys if you're well read on /x/ theories.

>>81663798
>which means you actually have to bring something to the table
Outside of sexual stuff, I don't really get what the average woman brings to the table. I don't mean that in a "women's only use is as a warm, damp hole" way either. Because if the guy is supposed to bring his car, house, wealth, stability, or whatever, I can't think of something he gains by letting a woman parasitize him. Kids? More parasites. Domestic labor? Today's women actively push against it; you'll split it 50/50 with her at best. I guess you say you get a close interpersonal relationship, but that's something you can get without cohabiting with someone or sharing your wealth with them.

>>81659723 (OP)
i'd pay to see someone run a bus through it, nty otherwise

>>81663923
>This means there are likely several men out there who are dating two and three women or more simultaneously, and women will complain about men cheating more than women.
Out of 100 men and 100 women, if 30 are pair bonded appropriately, 30 men are dating 60 women, and the rest are single, then the men are "cheating" more than the women, provided the women don't know about the other women.

Everything costs so much fucking money that it's not even funny; every time I step outside, it feels like I'm spending money- driving to work, money, driving back home, money, groceries, money, snack, money- got it?

>>81663792
The last time I had sex was 5 fucking years ago... I've tried to find a few dates, i've asked women out and nothing has come of it. Both irl and online, nothing.

>>81664056
>Domestic labor? Today's women actively push against it; you'll split it 50/50 with her at best.
Agreed.
>Kids? More parasites.
Disagree.
Kids and domestic labor were what women always provided.
Emotional connection and the like you could have gotten from another man / friend.
Also your viewing of children as "parasites" is part of the problem.

>>81664079
>then the men are "cheating" more than the wom
That's what I was trying to say. It is a known statistic that men are more likely to cheat in relationships, but I suspect the only men doing this are chads who actually have the option. When you look at individual cases of men cheating on women, surprisingly, the man actually sees an escort or the man is a bisexual meeting men on the side. I suspect that most cheating cases, especially before marriage, are going to be with chad dating becky, since men naturally want more volume of women to have sex with, and chad is the only man who has the option to achieve more volume without paying for it. Also, that statistic is from 2022, and it's quite a bit more extreme than the 2019 statistic. In 2025, it's likely at least a bit worse.

>>81660386
Same here. Even when I go out dressed nicely and looking good (I'm very fit) I never even get so much as a glance by any women at Target or anywhere else. They clearly are not interested in me at all so I gave up.

>>81663923
Just lean into it and fuck a bunch of 3/10, 4/10 ams occasional 6/10 plus. Every whore is a whiny pile of shit that will never change

>>81664097
>Kids and domestic labor were what women always provided.
Fuck that shit, we can't afford to survive on a single man's income anymore, this isn't the 50's!!! FFS, these people need to help w/ the bills or gtfo.

>>81664096
Hit on women every where you go. Up your wardrobe game. Hand them your number. Do it ao much it becomes second nature to you. Never stop shooting your shot and one will lans. Forget the Net the apps are full of worthless whores anyway

>>81664122
They do tell you not to put all of your eggs in one basket, so why not?

>>81664141
Its your face Ive seen chadlites in drabs getting instant attention

>>81664173
>Forget the Net
Oh, I'm done w/ apps at this point, and I also try be very discerning w/ women and who I could date/sleep w/... if I could find more easy women to sleep w/, that would be great. I'll see what I can do.

>>81664096
I'm right there with you, closing in fast on 5 years and I'm a successful, fit, normal looking guy, not socially awkward or anything. Makes no sense.

>>81664195
I'm sure it is. But I'm not deformed or anything. I have a bit of a rounded face, not chisel chinned sadly. Again I'm in fantastic shape, I lift and do cardio daily.

>>81664304
Women are mentally ill, they think any face that isnt Chad is ugly and should die

>>81664144
>ams
What is this?
>Just lean into it and fuck a bunch of 3/10, 4/10
My goal now is to work towards becoming chad in the looks department (essentially just what chad is, anyway, a particular look). I've been on steroids for the past 10 months, being careful with hair loss, and I already look way better, having lost a few dozen pounds of fat and gained a few dozen pounds of muscle. I'm 5'11, and I turned 25 this month. My dream is to get to the point where I look good enough that I can at least somewhat regularly hook up with women. I just need to lose around another 60 pounds of fat. I hope to achieve at least an 8/10 look by the end of it. 3/10 is the bare minimum I would hook up with. I feel like most women are out of reach when it comes to dating due to me being low income, but wealth shouldn't really matter when it comes to hooking up. Being able to hook up with just a single 3 or 4/10 each month would be a massive improvement to my quality of life. One of my ideas is even to buy a massage chair, take a few photos of my hopefully future jacked body, and post ads on places like craigslist for free massage, specializing in women. Nearly all women aren't going to pay for shit like that, but it would be pretty hot getting to rub down a bunch of women as an athletic jacked dude, hopefully leading to some sex with them.

>>81659723 (OP)
>the 40+ age group
who the fuck wants a 40+yo woman to start a relationship with?
at 30 they are already dangerously scratching the best-by date, but 40? thats fucking expired.
with a 30yo, you can at least usually still manage a kid or two before the eggs run out if you hurry up.

>>81659777
Lol, never happening. Free tickets and some more men will come but it'll thin as women mass reject them. They need a real incentive for men, like unlimited food for men without a cost. Have some people hawk the women trying to get free food off the men and expel the woman. There's more than enough women, can kick out 70% of them and still have enough left over.

Let's be real, these events don't work. The man these women are seeking don't need these events. The men that would want to be in these events to seek women will just get rejected by these women. So the result is that there's no reason to attend for men because you either have options without it, or it's ritual humiliation while boosting these women's egos to reject men.

Women have shown they detest the vast majority of men, men should do their best and not been seen by women. If you have to be seen then don't interact with them unless you're forced to like someone in the service industry.

there's like 8 of these events in my city in the next week or so. i wouldn't go though because it would just be humiliation as i am disabled

>>81664378
Your post is yet another reminder to me of how the tradcuck man up movement failed. It was mainly /pol/ centric but it spread to all boards and it spread across the internet. Over a decade of that and things are worse than ever. Will people ever admit that how they approach this issue is the real problem? Young guys are silently dropping out and there are reasons for that. Women don't want most guys, but when they get older and their value deprecates, they expect some average bloke to be there to "man up" for them and give them their wedding day and white picket fence and 1 or 2 kids. It's so disgraceful.

>>81664378
>not be seen
>not interact
This is the best course for me. Not that I scurry about in the shadows but I don't look at women and walk quickly by them when needed. Unfortunately I am ugly and standout a little so I can see people turn to look at me sometimes from my periphery.
Older ladies in service roles are at least have the nice act down so I don't mind them much anymore but I keep my words short and to the point and never make eye contact with any female under 40.
I don't need a beat down or a public banning from a store because a young female decides I was creeping on her by existing too close.

>>81659723 (OP)
>Go to dating events
Why? To be called a creep?
Inb4 some loser or brown foid tells me to just try. I'm a brown guy. I don't care anymore. The only women I attract are sluts who won't be serious (only the loses tho).

>>81664028
>The Greys
hmm that is something I've always wondered about why media chooses to portray these super advanced lifeforms as sexless goons.

>>81664420
As they don't get top tier dick anymore they can either settle or go single for the rest of their life. Let's be real, the only settle to freeload off a man provides. Not only that but eventually divorce the man so they can free load without that man in their life.
>>81664433
Keep on trucking man.

Because most women are horrible to talk to.
Women could have gotten away with being absolute gutter whores and cucking men to their faces and whatever else the manosphere complains about. What finally did it was when they became bad company. Once literally just interfacing with them as people became exhausting and loathsome, men en masse were like, "Nah."
Incidentally, the ones who aren't walking migraines aren't at these events either. They're dating without the event.

>>81664489
Well I noticed many years ago how resentful women are when there aren't enough of the guys they want to go around. So yes of course they always end up resenting the guys they settle with. That's life though, things tend to even out eventually. I find it very shameful that tradcucks will look at this situation and then blame guys for not being good enough. You can't negotiate attraction and women just don't like most guys. At best, the majority of guys are there for the convenience of women. At least women are honest about it now though.

Because we actually HATE dating. Just fuck us already. Women make those decisions very fast.
I went to a cougar/toyboy singles event in 2008 and it was fucking awful. Had a couple of chats, but no-one was willing to be up-front. I left early.

We laugh about posts here but I wonder if anyone there has actually just stated whats obvious to us
>I am an ugly man so I don't ever go to these since the thought of a woman actually finding me attractive is almost laughable. Why go where I'm unwanted?
I wonder how they would respond to such a post

>>81665116
Beauty is subjective and I am sure you'll catch the eye of some of the single ladies there :smileyface: You just have to get out of your comfort zone and ~~try~~

>>81665116
They would either say you're wrong and it's all in your head, or they would make fun of you for being a privileged incel and rant about "men these days'. I have lots of experience with this.
>>81665169
shut up u idiot

>>81665116
I wouldn't consider myself an ugly man, but I'm likely somewhere between a 3 to 4/10 in looks, but I'm pretty masc and very jacked. I remember being interested in trying tinder again maybe 4 years ago, and I was shocked to learn that average looking guys between 4 to 6/10 were waiting months just to get a single date through the app. They were looksmaxxing and having professionally done photographs of themselves that were carefully cropped and everything, and only ending up with one date once every few months. Meanwhile, the average 4/10 woman can end up with a date within a week through an app like tinder, and the guy she'll go on that date with will likely be an somewhere between a 7 to 9/10, and I mean 9/10. Some chads are hypersexual. They'll fuck 4/10 becky, but there's no way they'll actually stay loyal to her, even if they continue dating her for the occasional fuck. The opposite, where 9/10 stacy fucks random loser 4/10 gamer boy, at least virtually never happens.

>>81665116
I wouldn't consider myself an ugly man, but I'm likely somewhere between a 3 to 4/10 in looks due to still being a bit fat, but I'm pretty masc and very jacked. I remember being interested in trying tinder again maybe 4 years ago, and I was shocked to learn that average looking guys between 4 to 6/10 were waiting months just to get a single date through the app. They were looksmaxxing and having professionally taken photographs of themselves that were carefully cropped and everything, and only ending up with one date once every few months. Meanwhile, the average 4/10 woman can end up with a date within a week through an app like tinder, and the guy she'll go on that date with will likely be somewhere between a 7 to 9/10, and I mean 9/10. Some chads are hypersexual. They'll fuck 4/10 becky, but there's no way they'll actually stay loyal to her, even if they continue dating her for the occasional fuck. The opposite, where 9/10 stacy fucks random loser 4/10 gamer boy, at the very least virtually never happens.

>>81659723 (OP)
>pay money to get mass-rejected face to face instead of over an app :))))
How about no

>>81659723 (OP)
Cuz no one want to date an ugly sea monkey like me

>>81659723 (OP)
There is nothing in it for me, simple as. I'll elaborate.
Since the more or less civilized society was built by MALES, females try to hold two things hostage, as leverage, for everything else: sex and having children. Ironically (incidentally) these are the only two things a straight male would never need a female for in the first place.
I don't have either as my real goals in life, I never wanted children and I find humans quite repulsive and disgusting. Therefore females have nothing to offer to me, therefore females have no value in my eyes. Worthless leeches.

>why aren't men wasting time and money to attend a mass-scale humiliation ritual, where all the women are either single mothers or morbidly obese
a mystery for the ages

>>81662174
I've been playing Weird West and it was very cool to larp as a rootin tootin bounty hunter cowgirl out for revenge. The pig man chapter was a bit too relatable (except the part where a woman loved him at some point) but it was still cool.
Anyways this post is kinda right, most men I have talked to just play LoL or CS all day, I rarely find people who love games as a genuine hobby, it's more of a numbing time sink for them. Like TV for our parents. I really love vidya though so I still think you're stupid though

>>81659723 (OP)
Who wants 40+ year old women?

>seems to be a problem with the 40+ age group
I guess most women have never heard of the wall.

>>81665629
Are most women in their 40s more difficult to get if you're a guy in your 20s? I imagine women's standards to actually go up with age, even though you could say they technically become less attractive with age. Older women typically date older men, and older men typically have more money. They would at least consider a lot of guys in their early 20s to be too immature for them. I'm a 5'11 25-year-old man. I would actually love to date a woman in her 30s. My first kiss was with a 24-year-old woman when I was 15. We made out.

I would legit, rather put a bullet in my head than attend one of those. It would just be rejection and judgment and humiliation for an entire night. All these dried up egg roasties trying to pore over your stats - height wealth attractiveness, (of course being on r9k I'd fail on all so it makes it extra bad), and then rejecting you one after the other.

I don't think women genuinely actually understand just how bad it is, or how had it hurts or how humiliating and emasculating it is as a male, to be rejected by a woman. Like they just don't get it. I recently crashed my motorbike and broke my finger in like 3 places. Genuinely the pain from that is less than when a girl rejects me. That's why I can't do apps like tinder etc. Yes casually swiping etc is fine, but if I genuinely like a girl and she rejects me, it is utterly emasculating humiliating it's like literally I cab barely deal with it. I will only write this here because I am anon (well deep down they can track ips etc) but I am 33 and I have been attracted, like genuinely attracted as in, be my wife type attraction to 3 girls in my life. 1 ended in tragedy, the other I broke up with her, and the third rejected me, basically she broke it off with me. I cannot express the amount of pain this caused me. The self doubt and humiliation and then outwardly, and yes I know it's bad to say this but Hayes the anger and very real potential for violence and retribution because of it. I moved on though.

>>81665924
And then you see posts like the redditbait in OP and it just really brings home to me, just how differently men and women view romantic attachments. I suppose for me I am so much more jealous controlling possessive and like all those red flag type things than would allow me to even attend these events. I mean lucky for women I guess I only ever was attracted to 3 lol. Love is crazy man. For me it's so intense. It's like possession but love and wanting them to be happy and caring for them and their happiness being yours as well and you're entwined as one but there's like this undercurrent of possession and violence and property and ownership and guardianship and covetedness. It's kind of like she's gold or cocaine or meth or heroin and you want her and you love her all for yourself amd you'll do anything to get her and so much obsession and desire and she'll fuck your life up and you'll do bad things to get her and in the end it's just tragedy and misery

Not really sure what point I'm making. I think these types of events are very dangerous for women. If I were one I wouldn't go. Men are unstable and violent. I know I am lol like fuck I wouldn't date me. And you brant to out me in a room with some old hags to get rejected 1 by 1 ? Lol

>>81665924
Oh they understand it alright. Women go apeshit when they're rejected by men, especially chads. They know what they're doing to us. They're just narcissistic and malicious.
If you ever want to see foids chimp out try chadfishing and then reject them, especially over petty minor bullshit in the way they reject men. It's hilarious.

>>81665169
Yeah, you can be at an attractiveness that they can tolerate, but you need to put in much more effort compared to someone that is attractive. The fact that they have to tolerate you means the relationship either won't last or will be a living hell.

Just spend all your money to put a roof over her head, pay off her debt, get her a new car, go on vacations. You can get a woman, but you'll be a means to an end that she'll resent being bound to.

>>81659753
>>why dont men attend the humiliation ritual fest where we make them compete for us washed up bitter women who still harshly judge them
/Thread
>>81660386
>Simple: Women have signaled to me, personally, that I am unwanted. I dont say this as some sob story, but realistically.
>Some people just aren't very attractive and I'm one of them.
This. I'm in the same boat and will only earn enough to feed myself while not paying taxes.

>>81665194
The 4/10 chick is someone you call up at 1 AM saying
>You up?
And never being seen outside with her. Take that as far as you can until she tires of just being used as last minute sex to repeat the cycle over again.

>>81665893
Some amount of older women go for younger guys because the older you get the less bullshit you want to deal with since you've lived through enough of it.

You just have to be attractive to be a boy toy for these older women.

>>81664182
I don't have eggs, I'm a man.
I'm out there cumming in picnic baskets and getting chased out of church brunches.
Whoever said church was where to meet people was pranking me.

>>81664355
Kuroneko bro, i say this as a friend:
that idea is really stupid and will land you the types of girls who will mess your life up, like false rape allegations. You're gonna end up like doublemint dave if you keep that up.
You're clearly touched by the tism so please, for your own sake, just try to get one nice girl.

>>81664455
Basically cloning somehow degrades over time.

>>81664541
You can't negotiate attraction, you're correct.
Whatever your opinion on male female dynamics are, men are valued for things like looks and resources, whereas women are valued for looks. And there's an obesity epidemic right now. Men can offset that to a degree, but women?

>>81666167
>like false rape allegations
This has been an OCD fear of mine, and I have actual OCD. My little brother actually got falsely accused of rape a while ago, but nothing came of it. I believe he was temporarily detained by police, but they likely found out that girl was bullshitting early on and let him go.
>that idea is really stupid and will land you the types of girls who will mess your life up
This would still just be for casual sex. I would be pretty hot by then, so hopefully, they would be pretty happy to be in my company. I would be massaging them and taking my time between asking them if they want to take it further. At least that's what I'm guessing. I don't know how it would actually turn out. I figure most of the women interested would be ugly women in their 40s, anyway, and I'm unlikely to want to take things far with women like that. Also, do you have a bitcoin address? I would actually tip you a bit.

>>81660199
checked, this is the way

>>81666236
>Also, do you have a bitcoin address? I would actually tip you a bit.
That's the most out of the blue nice thing anyone's ever said to me, thank you. No i never got into buttcoin because i just never "got it".
Which is sad as I was there when it was under a dollar lmao.

Casual sex can still be dangerous because what if they develop feelings for you and want to be something more, but you just wanted the sex? Now they're jealous and maybe vindictive and oh hey look your DNA is in their vagina.
My own mother got someone (or herself) to hit her and tried to get someone in legal trouble over it (assault). Don't underestimate the things people will do, especially if the caliber of people you're aiming at is "oh hey free craigslist massage".

But, y'know, some people do it and it goes well enough so maybe it will for you too.
Hope you don't catch any STDs.

>>81659723 (OP)
I've been to one. Most of them enforce a 50/50 gender ratio or are for LGBT, which means it's a thousand bi women and no one else.

The reason why I'm not going to one again is I just don't find hanging out with strangers fun, unless they're a specific personality that I like. Women love it because they can just make friends if they don't find anyone they like but honestly I'm barely interested in that. Then I have to be physically attracted to them which is rare in itself, its just pointless.

>>81663792
if you have to hit on girls you aren't a chad. girls obsessively pursue chad

>>81666521
>girls obsessively pursue chad
It still takes balls to approach someone, and women tend to be more anxious than men.

>>81666521
Being a Chad isn't just being an extremely attractive guy with money. Believe it or not there is a lot of effort and charisma that goes into it. Chads make it look effortless but their suasion and seduction skills are honed from thousands of attempts... Chad can be rejected by 999 Staceys and he is still content with the Stacey he already has, his backup Betty's, etc etc. from field observation I believe one of the big differences between Chad and Chadlite is Chads social skills are honed to a razors edge. His tone, game plan and everything else is on point. In any case yes women will pursue Chad but he does not typically rely on that. Having a good cold approach game is needed for the times his Stacey gets in her feelings and dumps him etc. it's a way for him to accelerate the process at will

>>81666590
Chadfish
A literal fake Chad gets effortless attention

>>81666590
>Being a Chad isn't just being an extremely attractive guy with money. Believe it or not there is a lot of effort and charisma that goes into it.
Being successful on dating apps essentially comes down to looks; although, they are hypervisual. If you want to date a woman and you can show that you are pretty wealthy, you can pretty much date any woman you want. Lack of wealth becomes a non-issue.

>>81666448
>No i never got into buttcoin because i just never "got it".
I would recommend getting familiar with buying and moving around cryptocurrencies. It's very easy to move around wealth online with cryptocurrencies, and you can buy all sorts of things you wouldn't be able to buy with cash. I would recommend learning how to buy, send, and exchange between bitcoin and monero. Get an account on coinbase. Create a local bitcoin wallet on your computer with electrum. And learn how to exchange bitcoin to monero and vice-versa with trocador.app.

>>81666590
You aren't a chad.

Chad gets attention from girls merely by existing on dating apps, irl, wherever. Chad gets the experience with all girls that a HTN gets when dating a femcel, the absolute simping, displays of public affection, pathetic horninessand need to be with you that men simply do not display because of their relative lack of oxytocin.

Women *all" have the same standards as soon as they're a 4. If you can get a Beckie you can get Stacy

>>81667014
>If you can get a Beckie you can get Stacy
Nta, but you seem pretty naive in general. Stacy will always be more difficult, even if you're chad. Unlike becky, stacy will likely place more emphasis on wealth. Stacy can already get pretty much any man she wants, and she's still going to be hypergamous. She could easily get a wealthy man or simply sell her body for $2000 per hour in the modern US. Stacy has a shitton of monetary value attached to her body, and compared to men, women generally value money more than sex.

>>81660386
Yeah that sounds.......realistic.

Let me tell you a tale.
Just two weeks ago, I was on a work night out for a retiring colleague.
I got the last train back at around 11pm towards the smaller town where I live.
A woman, 35 years old, was sat across from me. She looked slightly annoyed so I spoke to her. She was apparently bothered by some young men to our side who were quite drunk, which she found distasteful. We got to speaking and she was clearly interested in me, at least physically; I missed my stop to get off at the stop for her city instead. We had both already had 4 or so drinks.
She took me to a pub and then a club and we had a couple more. She walked me right to her house and we went to bed together. I had no condom, so I didn't fuck her (did other stuff) but she repeatedly said she wished I had one.
What was this woman doing on the train alone? She had just come from a Bumble date. The man, she said, was lovely expect for one comment about people not having proper sense before age 25 (which shouldn't really bother her). She let me sleep with her bed. I arranged a date with her soon after. She's a broker for a money management firm; she clearly has wealth. She says she wants someone "with their shit together". She goes to the gym, apparently, yet has the top-heavy figure of a typical British woman (large breasts, lack of ass and a belly). A good face, though. She mostly spoke about other people and very little of the conversation was directed to getting to know each other, although I did my best to learn about her. She also said it wasn't like her to bed someone she just met (suuuuure). Oh and she said she has two phone numbers to parition people in her lives - she was very upfront about that.
Guess what? She wants kids and a family.

The point of this story? To show what women can be like. Draw your own conclusions and biases.
>Anon why did you do that then??
Because I wanted to see what would happen.

>>81667495
>She wants kids and a family.
Hilarious punchline 10/10

>>81667495
>Let me tell you a tale
Your story fucking sucks, reddit9k trash

>>81659723 (OP)
Men just use dating apps and don't look into community events or they tried the bar scene or tried dating a few times and thought the women where scum bags and peaced out. Some just got no Tinder matches and give up. Also a lot of men are just dropping out of society because home ownership their birthright has been stripped away from them.

I'm not dating because I'm in my mid 30's and still live with my parents because I don't have enough money to live on my own. I'm embarrassed by this, so that's why.

>>81663848
>>81663869
We're forced to sit through thousands of social media discourse threads about how age gaps are wrong and teenager brains are immature but most people online never mature past their teenage years.

>>81660199
That's weird. Because exercise usually makes me horney. But I just jack off. Makes going to the gym awkward though. jk

>>81664144
>Just lean into it and fuck
What a nonsense statement. You're acting like any of these men get ANY opportunities to fuck, like they're just casually rejecting all of these 2/10 girls available to them all the time.

>>81662419
100 percent based pilled

>>81663204
Yeah it really sucks how mother nature cucks woman at every turn.

>>81663232
Artifical wombs are retarded. You would have Chris Chans making armies of retards to fallow their weirdo cults.

>>81668243
Single men are not allowed to adopt children, what makes you think they'll be allowed to father a child from an artificial womb?

Does anybody here think dating could be fun? Or that the average woman could be nice to spend time with?

>>81668281
People who think [social situation] is anything BUT a negative anxiety inducing gauntlet where they come out feeling like shit for weeks afterwards don't usually end up spending time on 4chan /r9k/

>>81668281
>Does anybody here think dating could be fun? Or that the average woman could be nice to spend time with?
No, we're not *that* retarded

>>81668281
Actual dating is fun. Walking up to strangers and asking them out is painful

>>81659723 (OP)
The only type of men "dating" now are some kind of golem skinsuits imitating masculinity in a mechanical manner.

The ascension of women is the sign of the end times. Age of decaying imposters.

>>81668393
>The ascension of women is the sign of the end times. Age of decaying imposters.
I've been thinking about this a lot lately: women are NOT harmed in any way by remaining single for their entire lives. For most of them it's actually a benefit and they're happier that way than if they got married. For hundreds of thousands of years women have been forcibly oppressed by men into being their wives and the mother of their children, and now those women are actually free and they don't want ANYTHING to do with men or reproduction at all.

There is no solution. The human race dies off. Evolution picked the wrong tech tree with women and now we don't get to play the endgame content.

>>81668281
My boyfriend and I love going on dates
Just the other day we pitched our half tent and picnic blanket near the edge of a bay and watch the boats sail by and enjoyed the sunset while eating some snacks and touching each other covertly
We joke that we should fuck and give them a show but I was too shy

>>81668419
Men are becoming derivatives of derivatives. Women are the source of the decay without realizing it. The domestication of men is the history of men attempting to appeal to women. Tge race won't die out, it'll just rot away until the machinery keeping up this abomination breaks down and forces humanity back to the stone age.

>>81668557
>Men are becoming derivatives of derivatives
We need to integrate to get that love constant back in our equations

>>81659723 (OP)
Skimmed through comments. Its surprising for reddit full of simps and misandry. But comments are full of nuclear red and blackpills, didn't expect such.
These pills more than mainstream know.

>>81668419
>There is no solution. The human race dies off.
Natural selection would fix it.
People and cultures who dont want to reproduce would be replaced by those who do.
Though these cultures are mostly represented by religious anti intellectual fanatics and low iq races and human civilization would degrade much.

>>81668422
That's cute now how attractive is he and why would you not give an average guy a chance?

>>81668422
I am sorry for your boyfriend that he is dating someone who posts on 4chan even now.

>>81659723 (OP)
The prize, after jumping through the hoops to get a woman, is an entitled, high body count, bitch that will make outrageous demands and leave you at the tiniest ick.

I'd go on dates and stuff if i wasn't circumcised. Society and my parents made a doctor to destroy my genitals and now i'm supposed to go through all these courtship rituals pretending everything is fine ... absurd.

>>81659723 (OP)
It's like Tinder, but you get rejected irl instead. It should be a hit for the humiliation cucks.

>>81668557
Men, unlike women, are DEEPLY harmed by remaining single for their entire lives. It completely fucks them up. They don't perform at work, they don't have motivation or passion, they become spiritually dead, their physical health collapses worse than chronic smokers. By every measurable characteristic the man is lessened by having never felt reciprocated love from a woman.

>>81662408
It boils down to that women hate men having fun, that's all there is. They want men to cater to their nagging instead and listen to her for four hours about how Ursula looked at her and sighed at lunch today.

>>81669701
>they don't have motivation or passion
I am here
>they become spiritually dead
I just want it to end

>>81669701
I think most of those women who once rejected you expected you to kill yourself at some point and they'd laugh about it. It's weird to still be alive. Life offers no value but I'm still here. What a strange and horrifying existence. I wonder if I'll ever make sense of it.

>>81669701
Yeah, they don't care. Women opt for the golem man who requires less effort. Its a tradeoff in quality/convenience. Women are kind of doing the equivalent of choosing the sex robot, except its the new golem man.

>>81659723 (OP)
Being in a relationship is not appealing for men, so we're not pursuing a relationship.
1. We're good by ourselves.
2.Woman are like children and you have to catter to their emotional needs all the time.
3. Relate to no2. They do boring shit and drag us into those said boring shit.
4. They want us to do everything on the idea that we are the man so we have to do all the "work" (approch them, start conversation, be entertaining, carry the conversation, etc....)
5. From the law POV they have all the power. If something were to happen you'll be responsable and punished by the law.

in conclusion they are spoiled rotten because the law is on their side and everything they do is right so being in a relationship is not appealing and most would rather stay alone at home and play some game or work on their car and shit.

>>81659777
I saw a video recently of one of these events and it was a literal humiliation ritual. The few men probably went with some stupid idea like "oh there's lots of girls there I have good odds". There were about 30 or 40 women flocking (picture pigeons clustering around the old man at the park) literally flocking around the ONE (1) best looking guy there, while a few average looking guys lingered around the room. I've never seen hypergamy so vividly and clearly illustrated in real life. I felt bad even watching the clips, I can't imagine how suicidal those guys felt lol. These weren't even 10/10 girls btw, just your average post-wall roasties. Only desperate women go to these things, and even they were this picky.

>>81668086
im in a similar situation of unironically being with my parents to take care of them but roasties find that repulsive

>>81668281
its nice if the woman isnt a bitch but then you remember that most of them fake kindness for free shit and can ghost you right after its over

>>81662728
>older women won't stand for your shit
This is just a thinly veiled way of saying younger women are much more kind, patient, considerate, and accepting. Wow, I wonder why men prefer them.

>>81670301
It's funny how western women can't figure out how to be popular with men. Asian girls did that many years ago, that's why they're so popular. Be pleasent to be around and don't be a nagger, that's it.

>>81664144
You are acting like a 3/10 is easier than a 8/10. Every guy thinks like this and its why a 3/10 probably has a higher ego than a 8. Shes been approached far more.

Also someone who has been rejected over 100 times in the last 15 years i would say go for the hot girls, it hurts less to get rejected by a cheerleader looking chick than a fat ork

>>81670301
Older women have been kinder in my experience. Millennial and up.

>>81670563
Older women definitely eat up my attention, physical contact and flirtatious remarks more readily. Or maybe I'm just more confident around them.

>>81670493
8 out of tens are all fucking Chad and have 0 motivation to say yes. This isn't always true but certainly is on average. Don't get me wrong keep shooting your shot try land every chick to want but lower value foids ARE easier to fuck. ON AVERAGE.

>>81668281
lol no, no woman ive ever dated wanted to connect with me over anything but dinner. I hated it, they kept treating my hobbies and interests like a burden. I like cooking and realized women were a lost cause when I made a bitch scratch chicken marsala and she gave me the ick stare the whole way through dinner

>>81662174
>blah blah blah headcanon bullshit
Do you ever shut up?

>40+
HAAHHAHAHAHAH
I wouldn't go there either.

>>81662408
We discussed this multiple times already but TLdR women want all the attention on themselves.

>>81663923
People always omit the crucial part of that stat. It's for young adults. The women are dating older and sre more likely to delude themselves into thinking getting railed by some dude they knew for 3 days is now a relationship
The notion of Chad harems don't actively exist to the point of being statistically significant. The only form a such a harems would take place is through the invention of "situationships", where the state of the relationship isn't clarified, allowing both parties to just keep their imaginary relationship state

These threads keep happening but everyone already knows the answer

>>81669650
What does a humiliation cuck going to one of these events for a giggle do if he lands a gf by accident?

>>81670975
What am I supposed to do with a 40+ wife I don't even know. The whole concept seems to verge on the ridiculous

>>81663963
I think you're just sticking a false dilemma right now. I love games, I hate when someone's life is boiled down to logging 12 hours on fucking valorant, league or some other jew-designed sysiphean nightmare. I see some of these dudes, they can't even bother to talk shit on VC properly, they barely seem to acknowledge their humanity, only going through the motions.
There's so much more mileage you can get out of games instead of staying inside this little cuck cage that keeps you numb.
I'm not a sigma conservatrad Juder Peterstein telling you games are bad and you should do *generic productive thing*. At least make them fun for you.

>>81659723 (OP)
why would i want to date modern women? none of them actually want romance, they just want sex. even the women on r9k that complain all day about feeling lonely / ugly, they will ditch you as soon as they find a better guy

>>81671220
Of the newfags cant put a name to their problem whats the point of having /r9k/?

>>81665343
That's what I'm talking about man. Still not caught up with Devolver's releases but they're definitely among my favorite publishers of the industry.

>>81659723 (OP)
I feel the world has been getting more isolating with each passing year. I barely see young women out in public without their friend groups or on a date.

>>81659723 (OP)
I don't want a woman my own age

>>81666751
>you can buy all sorts of things you wouldn't be able to buy with cash.
what can you not buy with cash outside of illegal things?

think about it:
women hate tinder because there's too many guys
but they LOVE dating events, where they get a chance to talk to every guy in the room
???

>>81671468
cooldown reduction is too expensive. why don't you just make that game?

>>81664097
>Kids and domestic labor were what women always provided.

So women bring no worth beyond sexual satisfaction. Good to know.

>>81668281
Dating is a humiliation ritual, if it was like in romcom manga I'd do it but it's not.

Take me back to 19 when I was naive enough to think spending time with women would be a thrilling experience.

>>81670208
Post it, I need to see this shit lmao

>>81671726
There's entire boomer MGTOW bait channels on youtube. It all seems so tired

>>81671290
>none of them actually want romance, they just want sex
that's true for like 90% of r9k posters whether male or female

>>81669701
>work
>motivation or passion
>spiritually dead
Not your personal nigger. I really hope men die single so I can watch the aftermath of these arrogant modern Babylonian faggots and their families suffer from hell. Holy shit, you dips speak in code, but all you retards think about is maintaining your safety net society. Who the fuck really has no spirit when you useless nigger cattle wouldn't make it and your families would all die out the second you have to rely on yourselves. Who would really suffer the aftermath of a decaying society, those who expect more or those who expect less? Those who have abundance or those who have very little? I am so tired of hearing about how my sole purpose in life is being some nigger for society.

>>81659723 (OP)
>Why aren't men dating anymore?

>>81671898
>hole is mad at their biological programming
Lol then neck yourself. It only gets worse from here.

>>81671479
I don't understand your reply.

>>81659723 (OP)
Oh boy, I sure do love paying for a girl to not give me any affection or substantive conversation when girlfriends of the past threw themselves onto me without any prelude.

Humiliation ritual that is utterly pointless since any relationship born from it is shallow at best and has no staying power.
Stick with casual hookups and grinding your hobbies. Leave the societal collapse to those with stake in it

>>81671849
true, I like the idea of a loving wife sometimes but extended that fantasy to the routine of everyday life is torturous. Why the fuck would I put in the astronomical effort to make myself attractive enough to land a wife just so I could resent her in less than a year if cohabitation?
Im just not built for that lifestyle.

>>81671941
Do you lack reading comprehension and just hear a mix of good and bad words in your head to think I am a woman for suggesting men opt out entirely instead of serving a soulless nation led by Satan?

I'm over 6', I have a dedicated gym regimen, a larger than average penis, and I'm in a good grad program. I'm still not good enough for women.

>>81672187
You probably are, you sound like the one guy in the thread who is gonna make it. Put yourself out there - dating apps but state you are 6'2 or whatever, also go to real life dating events and I am not joking. Your height alone might be a ticket. You do not belong here.

>>81659723 (OP)
>why don't men want to go to a miserable experience in hopes of meeting a 40+yr old used up roastie with tens of thousands of dick milage and a horrible attitude
>why aren't they spending money to beg for the chance to let us ruin their peace or mind and finances?
Really one of the mysteries of all time

>>81670208
Post that video anon or you're a faggot

>>81660386
Same, they say yes for the free drink, then politely ask me to leave, which I oblige because I dont want to push on them, all of you women who will defend this behavior should just neck now

>>81660500
>You seriously expect me to clean up a party I wasn't invited to?
Beautifully fucking said anon.

>>81671910
crystal cafe isn't it?

jesus christ what a horrendous place

>>81672207
I straddle the world between normie and autist. I look like a normie, but internally I'm one of you. I grew up isolated and made fun off due to my lack of athletic ability and social ineptitude. Women can sense that, which is why after starting uni I would routinely entertain the 4's and 5's who threw themselves at me. This was how I was able to rack up a chad-lite body count, but when it came to women I was actually attracted to I had no chance due to my autism, which fueled my resentment. I've always had alternative hoe scaring interests and my politics are hoe scaring as well, which is why I had no luck with Stacies nor with more attractive alt girls. These tendencies are also how I got banned from dating apps. I'm effectively unpersoned, and since no one actually meets IRL anymore I've resigned myself to this fate. I typically freak people out when I speak my mind and people realize I have incel beliefs and tendencies, and I'm unable to hold my tongue. Life brought me back to my roots here and I'm coming to terms with the fact that I'll never find anyone who meets my standards either.

>>81660500
I kneel king, screenshotted for future use

>>81672279
And by hoe scaring politics I'm pro 2nd amendment, anti immigration, and pro union, which scares off the alt girls. But my taste in media, music, and books scared off the Stacies as well. I never had much to work with.

>>81662291
Yeah I seen that hugely in my generation. Like a lot of the guys i grew up with or especially the younger ones they use competetive video games very much as a drug to numb themselves and distract from reality. I try that cope here and there but desu just doesn't really work for me. I prefer actual drugs

>>81671910
>>81672277
Is she wrong, though? Nothing in that post is a lie.

>>81672298
A lot or righties forget that unions did a lot of good for this country and instead choose to only equate them with a branch of the mafia. They might not lead to fantastic prosperity but it sure as shit is better than importing 3rd world morans to fuck shit up.

>>81672322
I get you like trolling but I'm just so tired of this constant dehumanization battle you people do to each other.

Not going to humor it any further than this. Just do something actually sensible with your life. This will not make your pain go away.

>>81672341
Trolling? Men do fall apart without female validation, just look around you: it's why places like /r9k/ even exist.

>>81672362
This place exists because this is where autists come to seek refuge.

>>81668281
I hate people in general. Spending time with people sucks. When i dated I didn't find it fun I saw it as an annoying chore. Even sex the novelty wears off

this is a failed men cope, all dating events are sausage fests
>if I sit in my basement some more all women will definitely suffer! Take that, whores!

>>81672298
Larp and a turbonormie, mention 2nd amendment only after she has already seen your bio gun. Ideally after the last thrust, locking eyes with her, and instead of a sloppy breathless kiss, inform her of your political views. If she has a collar on, hold her by it when doing so.
Also, hit the real-life dating events like in OP's post. You will be that one successful guy there, just don't go all about how the KAR98 is the superior rifle, and that Germany needs to finish what they started. Not right away, that is. Dress like whichever kind you want to impress and treat the other as second class citizens. Both will either throw themselves at you because of it, or only one side.
You got the 6' ticket, use it. Treat women like a fucking social experiment, embrace the autism, turn the IRL events into spreadsheets with which you may regale us.

>>81672327
Both major parties kowtow to their rich donors that want cheap labor, whether it be h1b, physical, or service. All immigration takes money out of your pocket and makes your life worse. Lefties get emotional hearing that, and righties start screaming about muh capitalism. Both are awful.

>>81672589
I'm not a nazi, I'm just an autist who's been exposed to too much political thought in his life, appreciates both Lenin and Schmitt for their works, and dreams of a world where Huey Long wasn't shot. I just lift and read, that's all I do.

And trust me, I repel women quicker than you realize. Plus the ones I'm attracted to end up already having boyfriends, husbands, and/or kids along with tens of thousands of dollars in debt I have no interest in. Not for me, I'd rather just jerk off.

>>81672707
Yeah same
After a while you realise what you're supposed to be in life and realise that you can be someone's emotional rebound/ a dad for their kids, or you can be alone

If you have self respect, don't chase women

>>81659753
Why are incels so fucking pathetic? You cunts invoke primal disgust. You get what you deserve

>>81665343
You are not better than them, that's a common mistake too.

>>81669701
>They don't perform at work, they don't have motivation or passion, they become spiritually dead, their physical health collapses worse than chronic smokers.

>>81672322
>Nothing in that post is a lie.
Yes, because the massive rant about every guy wanting to constantly fuck them for "an ego boost" is 100% the true, after the previous statements how men also want them to be mommies, pets, and arm candy.
Their argument is unfocused and the mental equivalent of some drunk punching everyone at a bar in some misguided attempt to get back at the guy who turned them down for a dance.

>>81672362
>Men do fall apart without female validation
I find this such an interesting concept. Women clearly want strong, capable motivated men but don't feel any responsibility to help them feel like they belong or are welcomed in their society.
>I don't owe anybody anything
That's the logic of our times, it's so corrosive to us as a whole.

>>81662728
meds, please take them. will you?

>>81662882
No, no your not.