Thread 82061514

Where? Its straight up illegal in most places and women hate it when people bother them?

>>82061514 (OP)
It's sometimes scary when a man approaches me and me having to tell no. Men don't always take well to rejection.

>>82061514 (OP)
The apps existence of the apps has made it taboo to approach women in any other context. Women love the apps because it creates a dedicated space for romantic behavior and implicitly de-romanticizes every other place. Bars are now a fun place to go with friends and nothing else. Gyms are where you work out. Libraries are where you get books. Streets are where you travel. Before the apps approaching in these circumstances wasn't just acceptable but necessary. Now that apps exist, those men have lost their excuse to approach in those places.

>>82061514 (OP)
honestly it's uncomfortable being approached in public because i have no context or way to verify your identity. if you do approach women, it's better to do at a community space/event so i know we have some likenesses. also have some self awareness. if you're a 3/10 jeet, a nig, or a tub of a lard, don't even try

>>82061700
Well, women are the ones that refuse to do any approaching. So you're not really giving men any choice but to approach you.

approaching ANY stranger is a retarded meme. you don't get anything long lasting that way, it's fuckin retarded you were supposed to do that shit in school and college

>>82061758
Exactly. So basically when you ask a woman where could i talk to women theyll be like
>what talk to women just go on a dating app or something

>>82062093
>if you're a 3/10 jeet, a nig, or a tub of a lard, don't even try
I hate women and I hate being alive. You people are so fucking awful.

>>82062161
1350 and you're surprised about this

>>82062159
And of course women love dating apps. They love funneling men into an environment where they have all the control, where rejecting someone is as easy as a single swipe and they don't have to have any sense of accountability or burden and they only have to interact with people they've been given the opportunity to vet in advance. It's such a female-brained thing to love in the way that it's so disgustingly inhuman.

>>82062161
As a guy, I wouldn't either approach a sheboon or a jeeta or a fattie, so it seems fair desu.

>>82062178
Dating apps is unironically better than cold approaching where you'll be rejected 90 percent of time. Atleast in the apps, you atleast know the girl wants to fuck too. Just don't use Tinder or Bumble. The algorithms are fucked there.

>>82062246
>Atleast in the apps, you atleast know the girl wants to fuck too
That was true 10 years ago. Now half the girls on apps are only using them for attention and validation with zero intention of meeting anyone, or to shill their social media/OF. Then there are the bot accounts and scammers and catfish. Then with every single match you have to compete with every Chad in a 100 mile radius. Then you have to worry about her getting the ick over something you weren't even aware of and randomly unmatching or leaving you on read. And we can't forget you are shrinking your already tiny dating pool even more if you have even the most minimal standards, such as no whales or no single moms or no interracial relationships.

Apps are a fucking hellhole nowadays for non-Chad men. I'm sure if you could see the data the apps have about their users and gender ratios and how often men who aren't favored by the algorithm meet a woman IRL it would be blackpilling as fuck.

>>82061514 (OP)
I swear to god anyone who "cold approaches" is probably rushing way too fast into turning the conversation into flirting and thats probably their biggest issue. no woman wants to get randomly hit on but if you genuinely engage with them first your chances will go up.
its a stupid idea regardless because most people who are just hanging about are busy and dont want to be bothered.

>>82062281
I use Hinge and never had a problem much. I'm 5'9, look like an Asian chud with an average salary.

>>82061514 (OP)
>Bro just approach
Don't. Don't get baited into this.

I think building a solid social media presence is the key to getting laid in 2025. buy an old instagram account, fill it up with generic posts showing outdoor activities, pay a botting service to like all your posts and follow you.

>>82061758
This, sterilizing public places from male presence is how females prefer to live.
Males must be a disposable commodity, only present when there's a specific need for them, be it utility or casual sex with a more attractive specimen.

>>82061758
>Gyms are where you work out. Libraries are where you get books. Streets are where you travel.
Wow, imagine that.

>>82061514 (OP)
do you people just not get introduced to anyone in your social circle?

>>82062779
>your social circle
what's that lol

>>82061514 (OP)
Then die alone :DD

>>82062358
This is just robot insular belief, how you feel. Most people aren't afraid to talk to strangers.

>>82062907
what is the point of wasting your time on 4chan if you don't already have a big social circle / network?

>>82061514 (OP)
I'm pretty sure this "why aren't men approaching us" shit is some sort of psyop, men not approaching women is exactly what women spent the last 15 years trying to achieve

>>82062907
Join the army or study or work or go to church or something
>>82062932
What do you mean ... Anons are my friends right??? We've posted together for YEARS

>>82062935
They still approach em, look up the ages of the journalists who write those articles. Robots not approaching women is abnormal and something to fix, not status-quo in society.

>>82062779
I don't, in the rare events that I do they're almost always taken, or if they're not there's always a glaringly obvious reason why that makes them non viable

>>82062944
They're almost always spinsters past marriable age, in the third world their father probably would have married them off for cheap a decade ago

>>82062950
Keep it up anon, the different between you and a middle aged neet is the ability to try after failing

>>82062950
>i don't
>but if i do its not like that
>but if its like that then im not interested
ye that's kind of my point man. nobody is truly autistic enough to think it's hard to meet women, but if you're not interested in dating then you won't date. it's really that simple.

>>82062957
You're fucking retarded
I mean stuff like they're really rude, or they're morbidly obese, or they're clearly still not over their ex, shit like that
But keep approaching reality with your preconceived notions that'll get you far

>>82062358
Women like neatly compartmentalized society with strict social rules and regs that they alone control, if you break those rules they feel "unsafe" and will call the police. The apps just gave them yet another means of social control and regulation. These rules also exist strictly for the 90% of men they don't find immediately attractive, the upper 10% of men are exempt from all of these retarded standards they hold the rest of us to. The entire point is to filter out 90% of male social interaction by physical force (incarceration) if necessary.

>>82061514 (OP)
>Bro just approach
yes men need to approach their fellow brocels irl and organize, mobilize, agitate and fucking revolt like men for once rather than being obedient little cucks of the chad-foid duopoly, and watching their own blood line that is 4+ billion years old die in front of their own eyes.
FUCKING SELF_IMPROVE TO ATLEAST REVOLT & HEKP YOUR FELLOW INCEL BROTHERS YOU FUCKTARDED FAGGOTS. PROVE TO THE WORLD THAT YOU"RE NOT A BASTARD CHILD. PROVE THAT YOUR Y-CHROMOSOME IS HOLY IN IT"S OWN RIGHT.

>>82061514 (OP)
>Where?
I got my gf because a female coworker gave me her number. I think if you are hot and just stand around women will sometimes initiate stuff.

>>82062956
you know it's fucking over when people tell you not to give up

Being a blackcel is even worst. If you're white, you have zero excuses. Simple as.

>>82063062
BASED comradecel doing the needful revolution posting

>>82062932
where else to go lol
there's nothing

Women have started whining about men not approaching en masse but they only really want to be approached by guys they already like.
Like if you're some short, autistic black guy just try walking up to a mid white woman. Most will not appreciate the confidence or courage that took.

The best way is probably to just be friendly with some non-bitchy woman you work with and ask her to play matchmaker but depending on how ugly/spergy/lucky you are that may not work out either.

>>82063197
In the marathon today, I observed the opposite.

>>82063275
Why would you even approach someone of another race? What's wrong with yours?

>>82063276
that's funny because i went to a casino today

>>82063285
Anon I was trying to make the point that certain characteristics exist that will make people shoot you down by default and get irrationally angry that you even tried.
Normies can see it exists with race, they still often deny it with things like height, personality, etc.

>>82063275
>Like if you're some short, autistic black guy just try walking up to a mid white woman. Most will not appreciate the confidence or courage that took.
The only real barrier is the autism. I've been approached by women (asian and white/eastern euro. never black.) a number of times in public and have watched their demeanor change when they clock me as ND one sentence in.
>t. 5'7" black hapa

>>82063062
The only truth men must swallow
>>82063275
Nice cope. Women can always afford to be single moms and that she'll just can afford to be Chad's sidebitch. It's a win-win for chads & foids as chad gets to spread his seed, the foid's lineage still remains competitive and the whole genepool continue to see a eugenic improvement each generation. The only real losers are incels getting filtered out of the genepool. You won't be part of the genepool and you will be happy

>>82062093
how are people supposed to know you're racist though? I mean I get it if you're like wearing white power shit but otherwise I can't blame a minority guy for trying

>>82062348
wtf i love birds now

>>82063323
I used to believe this, but I no longer do. This is an attitude caught digitally, a technological mind virus.

>>82061514 (OP)
>According to this bait troll twitter account that I run, it's illegal to approach women!!!

anyone who replied to this in earnest deserves to be wiped off the gene pool

>>82063835
Welcome to the club, pal. It's a shame that a fucking monkey won the race of evolution. Look at how much crows or certain breeds of parrots can do with their pea sized brains. Their brains are 35-40 times smaller than that of apes and they actually outperform them in many ways and posses similar cognitive functions.

>>82062147
>modernized zoomer who lives his entire life online
god I wish this shit would go back to how life is supposed to be

>>82062779
>have to have social circle... to build social circle
you're fucked if you ever end up alone after college/school

>>82063987
to be fair weren't dinosaurs birds basically? so technically they did win the evolutionary race, it's just that a dumb fucking big rock just so happened to hit the earth. fuck you big rock, you took away my huge t-rex bird wife away from me. oh well in the meantime there's always sex dolls and soon androids hopefully

>>82063920
but anon.... you replied to it in earnest!

>>82061514 (OP)
>Where?
Ingratiate yourself in a social group and go from there.

>>82064003
>Your friendship application was received. However, we regret to inform you that it has been rejected on the following grounds: insufficient experience.

>>82064026
>to be fair weren't dinosaurs birds basically?
Yes. It is assumed that non-avian dinosaurs had the same ZW/ZZ system that birds have. What could have been...

>>82064003
nah many people relocate after college/school

the problem is just whether or not you care. if you care, then you'll find friends and relationships. if you don't care, you'll spend time alone or with random strangers online.

>>82062985
reality is that there are 10 billion women.
delusion is thinking it's somehow hard to find one that doesn't hate you

>>82062348
>>82064136
>3% of mammals bond for life
So with 4.094 billion women on earth right now, 3% of pair bond rate would imply that 122.8 million women are capable of pair bonding. According to statistics, 4% of women are within your specific demographic, which implies 4.912 million women are both within your demographic and are capable of pair bonding. So applying that to the total world population of women, that's 0.119% of women on earth. But dividing that by the 195 countries there are on earth, you're left with more or less 25189 women in your country that are worth a damn. Whether those odds are worth bothering with, that's up to you. Personally it's just better to not try at all and instead see if life's circumstances lands you a good woman on your doorstep. Anything else feels like you're cucking yourself.

>>82064307
didn't say anything about pair bonding or "odds." somehow you made this post even though the odds of you making any logical sense are 0%

>>82064351
I didn't exclusively reply to you, look at my post. I'm also replying to >>82062348 and the pic in that post.

>>82063987
i love birds too, bird women are not hoes, i wish we were all superintelligent birds
>>82061514 (OP)
they reap what they sow. When most of them ask for approaches they mean approaches by chad.

It's also generally a bad idea to suddenly approach at random, you should know her a bit first.

>>82064353
can you walk me through the thought process of being so scared of "cucking" yourself that you would rather watch other people have sex with your potential partners instead of forming your own relationships. isn't this what they call ironing?

>>82064307
>3% of pair bond rate would imply
No, that covers entire species. If a species is incapable of long term pair bonding then it's individual specimens would very likely not diverge from the overall pattern because they are genetically hardwired to act a certain way. There are no individual male and female hyenas who just happen to pair bond, the behavior is universal.

Every social construct that we have in place, every attempt that we make to force men and women to live together is fighting an unspeakably strong natural force that eventually consumes whatever containment we build. Women will never, ever, EVER consider men their own people. It's simply not possible. They just can not do it. You can see it yourself, patriarchal revivals last for a few generations because it always encounters the same problem, women just don't want it and simply will not co-operate. If you start conceding pieces of the containment system in hopes of making them co-operate, then they will proceed to utilize whatever you just gave them against you, because it's just how they feel, it just feels right, natural. You -males as a collective- are perceived as an enemy. This didn't start with feminism, it's ancient. You can go back to any century and observe the phenomenon yourself, the first women who picked up a pen when literacy became common in Europe utilized it to take a stance against men, I mean look at the literature of Aphra Behn. Women just can't tolerate the man made society, it will never work, it will never feel "right" for them.

>>82064383
So according to you, trying to find exceptions to the rule is not an option. What other solutions are there? Accelerate genetic research to eventually rectify humanity down to the core? That'll just be shut down like eugenic programs. I don't know what anyone is supposed to do with that information, which is why it'll never reach public awareness, since it leads to no solution or alternative path. But if there is a solution, crazy or not, pair it with everything you're saying and you got yourself a new movement. Like redpill/grinding culture but better and less vapid.

>>82064427
>Accelerate genetic research to eventually rectify humanity down to the core?
It's the only realistic way if you see this as a problem. If not, then these cycles will continue forever.

Also, IF (and that's a big if because until the rat experiment isn't delivered, it's nothing but a theory that doesn't even have it's first solid building block) my theory is correct and the existence of the adversarial mechanism reduced to measurable brain states then with further research it's possible, that one day, some form of medication will be available to interfere with it. I know that sounds stupid at this point, but 300 years ago, you would have said the same thing about birth control pills or local anesthesia. Who knows.

>>82064136
did you miss the part where there's also just as many men if not more?

>>82061514 (OP)
>>82062147
Anyone here figure out how to make new friends and approach women offline?

>>82061700
Then just say yes
Men need a road to consent, we're just trying to have a better sex life

>>82062147
The problem is that men think approaching means they have license to talk about sex and be shit.

No you idiot, is still a stranger. You need to build a full rapport. As with most of the people you know, you don't exactly get to know them with a compliment that signals you're thinking with the incorrect head.

>>82062938
>join the army
can't
>study
can't, it's too expensive
>work
already do, and tried three times
>church
don't believe in that shit and stop pushing it

>>82065731
>wtf why didn't this guy take the time to get to know me and befriend me before making a move what a creep!
>wtf why did this guy think it was OK to make a move after we became friends what a creep!
What exactly is the winning move here, besides "be Chad"?

>>82065731
Unless you are a really hot guy then you can say whatever you want to them wherever you want

>>82061514 (OP)
Approaching women is pointless because they are all worthless bitches and whores.

>>82064850
have you ever met a man?

>>82062957
If poor people really wanted money they'd get good jobs.

>>82065833
>What exactly is the winning move here, besides "be Chad"?
there isn't one.

>>82065883
>have you ever met a man?
fuck kinda question is that?

>>82066064
many of them do. in most cases money is not the problem, it's how they spend it.

>if poor people can't reproduce then poverty would end in 1 generation
yes, exactly

>>82066515
Some people say that it's "straight up illegal" to talk to men

>>82066138
Vantablackpill. The infinitely dense seed at the core of all female psychology. This pill weighs so heavy in the mind, it could be an entire religion, it could be an entire philosophy, this simple singular fact is enough to rupture civilization forever and doom mankind to extinction.

When you bear witness to such a pill as this, you have no choice but to kys, or otherwise completely refashion your life into that of a wise hermit sage; fully cognizant of the pure black horror of the human female and dispensing your knowledge to the few worthy folk who journey to your recluse abode in search of the fatal truth.

>>82066138
This is pretty much the answer

Chad doesn't have many if any reatrictions placed on his behavior, in fact it's probably more attractive to women the more he acts against society (women love criminals).

Being a non-Chad (AKA "beta male") means going through a thousand loops just to get some Chad's scraps. You have to pay every bill, you have to pass every shit test, you can't control her behavior, you have sex only when she's in the mood, if you're really unlucky then you'll get divorce raped.

>>82061514 (OP)
Women really dont care unless you are extremely pushy about it. I worked in a grocery store, and we would hit on women all the time. Never got in trouble. If she says she has a boyfriend, just move on.

>>82067403
the vast majority of society acts against society.

>>82067468
I was specifically referring to crime and violent behavior

>>82067481
yeah and? men are violent by nature.

>>82067543
How does saying that negate the statement "women love criminals"?

>>82067622
it doesn't. "women love men" is a normal thing to say.

>>82067627
What fun do you get out of being purposefully obtuse to waste time arguing on 4chan?

>>82067645
I didn't argue anything. I was agreeing with you.

>>82061514 (OP)
Women will say anything but the truth which is that you should hit on them at any and all times. Treat a hole like a hole and it will probably squeeze your cock

>>82067403
for noN-chads, relationships are a total waste of time. getting a gf is a net downgrade.

majority of women have no hobbies except browsing instagram, tik tok and facebook. they don't even consume funny content like men do, they just use these apps to look at ads. their ONE and ONLY hobby is looking at ads.
>look at this ad I just saw for this brand new super AWESOME and super COOL pet friendly ethnic food place that has EXPOSED BRICK WALLS! look! its CHIC, it says so right here! we HAVE to go! We can't NOT go, look, it says so right here!
expect to hear this multiple times a day. your expenses will multiply by 10x the moment she moves in.
Majority of women don't make any money, don't save any money, and have terrible spending habits. They don't have any career plans, no long term goals, nothing. actually they do have one long term goal,
>I want a guy to propose to ME one day and have a wedding like in this tik tok video i just saw! it got 50k likes, that means it's good!
despite this being their only goal in life, they're not even willing to ask out/propose on their own (lmao)

obviously not all women are like this. some have great jobs, want to pursue higher education, some have awesome hobbies etc. but to get these women, you have to be Chad, hence:

relationships are a waste of time, money and energy if you're not Chad.

>>82067826
tell me more, good sir. You sound based

>>82065846
>>82065833
be Chad is not a thing, this isn't a movie.
The realistic "Chad" move is pretty close to what you do to get a good job, networking a lot, having friends that introduce you to girls, etc.

We don't do it because it's hard work, and that's okay. But the delusion of that hot guy that just looks at them and they melt is just being brainwashed by lame advertising