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Anonymous No.82140085 [Report] >>82140099 >>82140111 >>82140113 >>82140116 >>82140118 >>82140136 >>82140155 >>82140160 >>82140163 >>82140180 >>82140193 >>82140209 >>82140315 >>82140490 >>82140754
I'm so desperate I would literally let a guy hit me irl and use me for all his gross fetishes and humiliate me just so I can say I had sex I hate it i hate it i hate men
orospu çocuğu No.82140099 [Report]
>>82140085 (OP)
babygirl I'm right here what are you waiting for
Anonymous No.82140101 [Report] >>82140116 >>82140209
People make posts like this without even getting drunk and naked overnight in a homeless encampment even once.
Anonymous No.82140109 [Report]
Go on grinder then, troon. Nobody wants you here.
Anonymous No.82140110 [Report]
so go for it what are you waiting for
Anonymous No.82140111 [Report]
>>82140085 (OP)
Instead of doing that you could also peg me
Anonymous No.82140113 [Report]
>>82140085 (OP)
>i'm so desperate
>i hate men
retarded?
Anonymous No.82140116 [Report] >>82140136 >>82140294
>>82140085 (OP)
Same anon, same :<

>>82140101
What was that like anon
Anonymous No.82140118 [Report]
>>82140085 (OP)
Ok cool.
Wanna play fighting games or watch anime with me?
Anonymous No.82140136 [Report] >>82140221 >>82140258
>>82140085 (OP)
>>82140116
What makes the either of you 2 so desperate, what's making you fail?
Anonymous No.82140155 [Report]
>>82140085 (OP)
>I would literally let a guy hit me irl and use me for all his gross fetishes and humiliate me just so I can say I had sex
You can literally just go do that, you know that right?
Anonymous No.82140160 [Report]
>>82140085 (OP)
Yet you won't even respond to my post, strange...
Anonymous No.82140163 [Report]
>>82140085 (OP)
Hot. How hard can I hit you? We talking open or closed fist? What if I wanna make you rim me? Piss on your face and down your throat? How far would you go to say you had sex?
Anonymous No.82140180 [Report] >>82140203
>>82140085 (OP)
I wouldn't hit you but I'd still have sex with you, I'd also treat u so well are you still interested in me fembot :)
Anonymous No.82140193 [Report] >>82140221 >>82140277
>>82140085 (OP)
Well OP, can I ask why?

Why do you see sex as such a monolith? Do you really think you'll be happier having had it?

This question applies to everyone in the thread, really, not just OP
Anonymous No.82140203 [Report] >>82140444
>>82140180
She doesn't want to be treated well, she wants to be hit and used for gross fetishes and humiliated. Reading comprehension, anon.
Anonymous No.82140209 [Report] >>82140294
>>82140085 (OP)
>>82140101
You're sick and disgusting, you should sooner kill yourself.
>captcha: TMATT
That's what you'll be, a mat
Anonymous No.82140221 [Report] >>82140239 >>82140256 >>82140295 >>82140490
>>82140193
I'm
>>82140136
I think most people are confused. They think they only want sex. This is misguided. If what they wanted really happened and they got the sex they wanted, it would just leave them feeling more empty than before. It would be casual, soulless. Nothing more than masturbation.
What people actually want is a partner. A relationship. Genuine love. But they don't seem to know that. That's what I think anyway and that's how it works for me.
Anonymous No.82140239 [Report] >>82140272
>>82140221
>What people actually want is a partner. A relationship. Genuine love.
Men want this, but how do we get women to want it too?
Anonymous No.82140256 [Report]
>>82140221
A man can want two things at once. I can enjoy intimacy AND fucked up, nasty sex.
Honestly it's better you keep the two seperate because some things, you can't look at a girl the same way again after, you know?
Anonymous No.82140258 [Report]
>>82140136
Completely unrelated but, yuuri!!!
Anonymous No.82140272 [Report] >>82140304 >>82140331 >>82140490
>>82140239
Women want that too buddy. Who says they don't? I'm not interested in sex at all, and only wish for a romantically partner
Anonymous No.82140277 [Report] >>82140299 >>82140313 >>82140577
>>82140193
i just feel like im missing out since everyone already mostly had it before, all the girls my age anyway, and i just feel left out like always and its a bad feeling, so i dont think it will change me drastically or anything, i just want to expirience it, like this intimacy of it seems really nice i think
Anonymous No.82140278 [Report] >>82140930
>a brown man posted this
Anonymous No.82140294 [Report]
>>82140116
>>82140209

I wouldn't know, I don't make posts like these after all.
Anonymous No.82140295 [Report] >>82140313 >>82140327 >>82140329
>>82140221
>What people actually want is a partner
I'll do you one better, anon. What people really need is human connection.

A lot of people are isolated and they struggle to truly connect with even their friends and family. They can't be properly vulnerable or understood in their vulnerability. They can't work with these people toward something better. They do not feel community or comraderie with whomever (if anyone) is around them. They have the expectation that a romantic relationship will finally provide them with this; They will finally understand someone and deeply care for this person and victims versa.

The sad truth is that most relationships fail because this does not happen in them. People whom are lonely, without realizing it, will take advantage of another person to fill the void inside of them by transposing an ideal of the person they wish to be with on someone who is vaguely similar out of desperation. This mutual maladaptive pattern causes both parties to create a feedback loop of codependency which will eventually fall apart. Neither party will realize this is what they are doing.

The solution? I wish I knew. The best I can tell you is to find some real friends. I have a few men that I am willing to kill and die for. And despite my circumstances, I can drag myself through the day time and time again because I know they are there for me, and I am there for them.
Anonymous No.82140299 [Report] >>82140545
>>82140277
Where are you from? Are you fat?
Anonymous No.82140304 [Report] >>82140354 >>82140356
>>82140272
Their actions implicitly say they don't. Because they will cheat on partners who are 'too nice' and want that intimacy while getting wet over serial killers and fuckboys. They think they want it, because women don't even know themselves.
Anonymous No.82140313 [Report] >>82140545 >>82140690
>>82140277
Please read
>>82140295
As I think this applies to you (and most people here) as well
Anonymous No.82140315 [Report]
>>82140085 (OP)
You need to have some decorum and respect for yourself.
Anonymous No.82140327 [Report]
>>82140295
Guy who you replied to. I completely agree with the whole post, in case anyone starts talking shit.
Anonymous No.82140329 [Report] >>82140359
>>82140295
C'mon mate I came in here to make a fembot uncomfortable because it gets me hard, not to read truth.
Anonymous No.82140331 [Report] >>82140373
>>82140272
>Who says they don't?
Every girl I've dated or interacted with. It eventually turns into nothing but sex and they beg for a fwb when I leave them. I've accepted that they will never see us for more than just a walking dildo. I have no idea how to change their mind.
>I'm not interested in sex at all, and only wish for a romantically partner
Yeah, cause men are the ones interested in romance and love. For women it's only a mating ritual.
Anonymous No.82140354 [Report]
>>82140304
I'm pretty sure those are just shitty girls. Just because some have their head full of bullshit, don't generalize them. Also, irl people don't usually do that. Or at least the people I know.
Anonymous No.82140356 [Report] >>82140492
>>82140304
Women want men to be nice to them obviously, and that extends to the men they're fucking, they just don't want to settle for the men being nice to them because they can do better.
If a man isn't nice to them, they'd benefit from winning him over.
Anonymous No.82140359 [Report] >>82140612
>>82140329
Oh, mea culpa my nigga.

Call her an ugly virgin or something I guess.
Anonymous No.82140373 [Report] >>82140463
>>82140331
That sounds pretty shitty. I guess it's because girls usually have a higher libido? But even if they do, they should still see their partner as a person and should care and respect their boundaries.


Also I'm a woman.
Anonymous No.82140444 [Report] >>82140455
>>82140203
I still want to treat her right though, you know? She shouldn't want to be treated like that lol. But I guess foids are evil and don't want good treatment if they tried
Anonymous No.82140455 [Report]
>>82140444
That's based thinking anon. Treat every girl right. Make the world better
Anonymous No.82140463 [Report]
>>82140373
Women can do whatever they want and the coomer pajeets here will only incentivize their degeneracy. Until we start having a conversation about the damage that porn consumption is doing to both genders, nothing will change in society.
Anonymous No.82140490 [Report]
>>82140221
>>82140085 (OP)
I'd do that but you probably live too far. Oh and you're underaged
>>82140272
The problem is that women are just really cautious around most guys and most also seem to want to play mindgames a ton. Ive given up finding anyone I can actually love.
Anonymous No.82140492 [Report]
>>82140356
You know how many times I've seen a woman walk out on a dude breaking his back to provide for her because 'he's too nice, I need excitement (read: stupid hoedrama)'? Then gone and hooked up with junkies?
Shit's fucked man.
Makes me appreciate having mummy issues.
Anonymous No.82140545 [Report] >>82140568 >>82140612
>>82140299
cali and no not fat, maybe actually kinda idk
>>82140313
please read what kek.
Anonymous No.82140568 [Report]
>>82140545
The post I linked, friendo
Anonymous No.82140577 [Report]
>>82140277
Why don't you just find someone that cares about you. Instead you choose to whine on this site
Anonymous No.82140578 [Report]
What about foot licking and toesucking and footjobs and the like?
Anonymous No.82140612 [Report]
>>82140359
That's no fun man, that's just plain rude.
>>82140545
>Read what?
Okay you're not exactly the sharpest though, are ya?
Anonymous No.82140690 [Report] >>82140703 >>82140769 >>82140828
>>82140313
okay yea so, hard to understand that reply but i think they are saying people think a relationship will fix their lonliness and make them feel accepted and that real true connection with someone, but doesnt turn out that way, thing is i do chase that and i want that with someone, but i said in my reply that i dont think sex would fix me or make me happy, it was more of a physical rather than emotional way of intamcy that i was referring to, i understand that being lonely isnt a direct affect of how people around us treat us, i think its more of an internal projection thing, so im not going to go searching for that and be stuck in that endless loop that anon mentioned, im leaning more toward fixing myself emotionally and being comfortable in my own skin and mind before i try and seek out that connection, i dont know if this is the right way to go about it but we all living for the first time and thats the way of thinking that makes most sense to me even if its not right
Anonymous No.82140703 [Report] >>82140760
>>82140690
Nta but you sound childish and pretentious
Anonymous No.82140754 [Report]
>>82140085 (OP)
That's just normal sex. If you were actually desperate you'd get with an equally desperate beta, since they're everywhere and easy pickings.
Anonymous No.82140760 [Report] >>82140791 >>82140810 >>82140828
>>82140703
pretentious by thinking that i need to find myself and love myself before i worry about being lonely? i seek that connection and acceptance by everyone around me just as much as anyone does, im not putting myself above anyone i just can think for myself and if its wrong then ill figure that out on my own terms
Anonymous No.82140769 [Report]
>>82140690
God I want this dumb girl to rim me. I wanna see the vacuous look in her eyes as she tongues my ass.
Anonymous No.82140782 [Report]
This board has almost the same amount or larp as /x/. Sad.
Anonymous No.82140791 [Report] >>82140844
>>82140760
Nah pretentious by making these dumb threads when youve definitely ignored guys that would've given you a chance. You're just filter fishing for good looking guys here, admit it
Anonymous No.82140810 [Report] >>82140926
>>82140760
>i need to find myself and love myself before i worry about being lonely?
NTA but I'll be real with you those are just buzzwords people use so that you can shut up about your issues. There is no 'finding yourself', that doesn't really even mean anything.
Anonymous No.82140828 [Report] >>82140926
>>82140690
>>82140760
This is how you end up alone at 30 with a bunch of cats. There is no good time to meet your person.
>t. 30yo khhv with cats
Anonymous No.82140844 [Report] >>82140871 >>82140920
>>82140791
KEK im not even OP retard. ive ignored guys yes, but only because i knew it wasnt going anywhere and i didnt wanna lead them on, only men i choose to talk to are ones that i actually like and like talking to, more intellectual kind of guys that stimulate me mentally, and i dont even know what any of the guy i have enjoyed like this look like, so i dont fish for the good looking guys actually.
Anonymous No.82140871 [Report] >>82140926
>>82140844
Yeah sure. Let me guess, the better looking ones turn out to be smarter? I wish you'd just stop using this board and whining about not having a guy cause women can never truly stay stuck in such a rut
Anonymous No.82140920 [Report] >>82140954
>>82140844
You really should stick to your class, foid.
Intellectual guys will get bored of you fast.
Anonymous No.82140926 [Report] >>82141021 >>82141166
>>82140810
sigh, okay. well what i meant by that was, not being so insecure to let people love me and into my life, i just want to be somewhat proud of myself and have something to offer people other than just being boring and void of persoanilty because ive been depressed and hating myself so long, but im working on that, my company just sucks for people irl and i understand that but im trying to be someone that can be loved and cherished, i feel that online with people sometimes but dont ever irl because i just feel so boring and like i cant be liked or befriended by anyone, and that is a mental thing for me because i know thats probably not how it actually is, its all inside my head and i really need to fix that part of me, so thats what i meant by finding myself
>>82140828
worst nightmare please dont say that kek
>>82140871
as i said ive never even seen the guys faces who i like that way online, also if girls whining about stuff is annoying, you can easily see what the thread will be about before you click, OP whining about how she wants sex, you click, get annoyed when femanons are whining, dummy anon
Anonymous No.82140930 [Report]
>>82140278
This is not a chickn thread
Anonymous No.82140954 [Report]
>>82140920
OKAY. intellectual loosely meaning not retarded and centered around superficial things in life, i know what i want and how to get it anyways, no point in explaining to you KEK but yea make me look dumb okay
Anonymous No.82141021 [Report] >>82141080
>>82140926
Who can guarantee that perception of yourself will ever be fixed? And how?
While I'm not very informed on how women actually gain self confidence, I can't particularly think of any way you could really achieve that goal alone. I believe you need to simply accept what you've been dealt, and go with it, and more so than that, you could try accepting people you like loving you for who you are, even if you disagree with their perception of you.
I really don't think your lack of confidence in yourself is really that big of a deal that you have to renounce dating for now. You can just date, and who knows, maybe you just need another person to validate that within you for you to finally feel like you're worth it.
Anonymous No.82141080 [Report]
>>82141021
see im not super insecure about my looks, but its more insecurity about my character and how interact with people and who i am as a person, it really was never about looks but thats something im also working on in hopes of maybe being able to befriend people easier even if they are superficial and only friends with me because of how i look, it will get me used to the feeling of having a friend and feeling normal and maybe bring out my own personality and myself easier so im not so insecure about evrything, its super hard to explain but i get what your saying, just subside my feelings and thoughts on myself and let people into my life regardless of that, but its really hard to
Anonymous No.82141166 [Report]
>>82140926
>OP whining about how she wants sex
That's the only threads women make lol. There are no threads desiring a fairy tale love story, just hardcore sex.