>>82152281 (OP)
Well, if we are to make any assumptions based off of
>>82152375 and what
>>82152318 said about being in the UK...
For one, you're talking about a practically neo-feminist country where they WILL arrest men for slighting women even for the most insignificant things, so a lot of men and boys there probably just don't WANT to talk to ANY woman out of fear of the current political administration there.
For two, knowing some UK friends of mine, isn't there like a negative social stigma around gothic clothing or outfits kind of like that one? To add smoking onto that... well now you make yourself look even worse.
For three, back when I was just a teenager playing Minecraft on multiplayer servers, I found a... really weird trend. UK girls, gothic/dark clothing and attitudes... they pretty much ALWAYS had at least 3 guys in their DMs, lost their virginities at 14, and consume more vapes than water. So, if that stereotype is true around the UK, looking like you do probably just makes people... well, worried you're like them.
Also four, I wouldn't ever date a girl that smokes personally. Partially because it smells fucking horrible, and partially because I'd want my future wife to have a long life expectancy, and bear healthy children. So, no. No smokers. If you wanted to quit, that's fine, but otherwise no.