>>82422445 (OP)
status sexuality => incel tiers are by definition lowest
time developed familiarity and sense of safety based love => they feel nothing for guys in short term outside of people in her proximity, no default want to give chance and willingly take one outside of status selection
even if you are one of the ones in her proximity and she is in love, female love mode involving safety necessarily requires having little to no attraction to him + the love is self oriented instead of other oriented, it's about her sense of safety in association to him, not the mode guys want