>>81922616
>get a hobby
so, what, join a book club just to pick up chicks, isn't that creepy behavior? leftists and feminists don't tell us to socialize, they unilaterally tell us to fuck off

I went to 2 mental health clubs, not looking for a date, just for mental health reasons, mostly just sat there quietly and only talked about on topic things when asked, yet the women there were disturbed and avoided me and I was called an idiot by one of the staff and people reacted strongly every time I tried to talk, one was offended they had to sit with me and left

society is awful, just fucking awful and women more so than men, there is like a 5% chance a dude talks to me like a human being but basically 0% for women under 35 as I have never met any who have

>>510095089
Because the most recent psyop convinced men that it was immoral to do so. That it makes them as bad as weinstein or a stalker to even try to talk to a woman. It is particularly powerful because it is not just forgettable social awkwardness, their face will be plastered on social media, the woman will tell all her friends about him and socially ostracize him, she has a justification for doing so.

In the past they relied on psychology and changing people's perceptions of things, perhaps because they think so little of white men they assumed that moral appeals wouldn't work, or perhaps because western christian morality declined and could be replaced with "social justice". Whatever the case, they made this big discovery about the 2010s and began scolding men for so much as saying "hi" to a woman. Even if there is a 1% chance that it was unwanted, they tell us that it is wrong, that we are bad, that we are being creeps.

Why risk ruining your life just for a small chance of getting a date? No, you just put yourself on tinder and hope you get a match, if not, then you can only assume women aren't attracted to you and that's just that.

we are not even allowed to talk to women you fucking retard, and even if we "talk" to them after being introduced by friends in an incredibly safe setting it is like treading a social minefield, you have to pretend to enjoy milquetoaste normy interests and talk in a certain way and say the exact right things or they go "ew" "ick" and ghost you, they will literally hate you forever over something completely trivial and tell their friends to ostracize you, go back to r*ddit

Women have been mildly irritated by men's advances since forever, but most boomers will attest that this is how they met their wife and how they won her over, doing things to make her laugh until she finally gave him a chance.

However recently men have been told it is immoral, and this changed the game. Instead of just being a little bit cheeky, they are placed in the same ballpark as rapists and pedophiles just for approaching a woman, just for finding her attractive or having a crush on her and expressing that. And the media encourages women to do this, to accuse them of "sexual harassment" and try to ruin their life and get them socially ostracized just for talking to her. That old romance, that dance, is now considered pure evil rather than just cheeky.

The thing is this is only directed at white men. BIPOCs catcall women constantly with zero consequences, but "straight white male patriarchy" is always blamed. Mass media consumes the better proportion of our lives, we were once glues to the TV now we are glued to social media and social media companies heavily vet and moderate what can be said at the behest of "feminists" and government funded special interest groups. It is all by design.

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>>81585370
yet none accuse her of being a sex offender and try to ruin her life, which is truly malicious unlike saying mean things

let's face it, we are like chimpanzees where the females only breed with the dominant male, we can observe this in nature and analyze it, but apparently it is le bad to do the same with humans, the way most of the male population are deliberately socially ostracized, how in every TV show you have some nerd stock character and it is ok to treat them like shit and get rid of them, they are "le bad" even if they haven't acted immorally or much different from the chad characters, it is part of our culture and society, yet we can't spell it out or even talk about it

We are being told 2 different things. That we are le bad for not approaching women and that we are le bad for bothering women. That women love men, that every tiny thing we do gives them the "ick".

So what is the truth? Feminists seem to confirm what the blackest black pills are saying, that women are only attracted to the top 20% or so and are physically repulsed by the rest. Unlike men that might prefer a supermodel but still find a fat woman attractive. Are we really going back to the social system of chimpanzees where the dominant male and females are at the center and the beta males are pushed to the periphery?

Or am I overreacting? If so, where exactly are these mysterious women that want to be approached by me and are attracted to me? They do not seem to exist anywhere.