New update on my parents divorce (sorry I don't have anywhere else to talk about this)
Saw my dad cry for the first time. He was very concerned on convincing me he did not have a physical affair. He says my mom said she is "afraid of him" and locked him out of the bedroom and that this hurt him a lot. He said "I've never called her a bitch, or done the stuff they do on the movies or tv". He talked about his abusive childhood and said "im sorry I failed you".
I'm like fighting for my life during all this to be supportive and not a sperg since i probably have autism but i was never diagnosed. I made sure to hug him when he started crying. I said i believed him about there being no physical affair (i do) and let me know if there was anything else I could do for him.
I don't completely blame my mom, I recognize they are both very flawed people, but he is taking this way harder than she is.
This weekend i had to start paying for my own phone plan because they ended our family plan.

Is Asriel going to get anti-redeemed / cut down to size like Toriel and Asgore have?

Small update about my parents' possible divorce, apparently my mom went through my dad's phone and believes he is having an "emotional affair" with his female coworker. She also thinks he has had sex with this coworker (ie actual affair) although he denies it
For some reason she installed a new doorknob on the master bedroom, I think maybe one of them broke the old one out of anger but I'm not sure. Maybe installing it was unnecessary but symbolic to say he wasn't welcome in there idk.
My dad apparently "vented" / "trash talked" about my mom sometimes to this coworker. He didn't seem to have ever sexted her though.
My dad regrets those texts but he does claim he's had a lot of grievances with how my mom has treated him including being unwilling to like drive him to the hospital for surgery, or not being supportive when he had a kidney stone because she'd previously passed one without being given pain meds and she was annoyed he received pain meds.
I guess my mom is canceling all their shared finances or something because my dad told me and my sister we needed to start paying for our own individual cellular plan instead of being on the family phone plan.
I asked my dad if anyone is moving out and he said "we're not there yet" so idk. When one of them is at the house while the other is not they act relatively normal but I guess that makes sense. You can't be in impending divorce mode 24/7 I guess. Idk.

I think my parents are getting divorced. My dad moved his toiletries into the bathroom I use and this noon I found him laying on the floor of the kitchen with his dog. (I've never seen him like that before. Also, I work remotely and he works second shift)
He said we'd talk about the bathroom thing later and then he said "tomorrow I need you to get your own cellular plan. We can talk about that later too"
They've been going to marriage counseling on and off before this but this felt different. He seemed sad and defeated in a way I never see him express.
I know >who gives a fuck, but I'm not comfortable talking about this with anyone irl yet. It's very surreal and a developing situation I guess. I might end up having to move into my own place