Was gaming a co-ed hobby for you growing up?

>game has enticing enemy design

In general,
weg/hgame, animated, dating sim, mystery, survival, close relations/family matters, "landlady"/"childhood friend", sim, fantasy/horror, minigames

Where did the stigma of girls not playing games or being terrible at them come from? The hobby is tailored to both sexes its not like this is tabletop or fashion which gravitate towards one obvious sex.

You will play with them right? You aren’t afraid of losing to a bunch of girls right?