>>82132151
Daddy issues did a lot of the work. She is a daddy's girl but he died when she was 12 or 13. I've seen pictures of him and he looks just like me. When he died he was only a few years older than me.
>>82132211
She wasn't a virgin when we met, and never claimed to be. That actually helped make me look better in comparison. She had dated shitheads her own age, so when she dated somebody whose head wasn't completely up his own ass (me) it blew her away. She said it was refreshing when I asked for her number instead of Snapchat and directly asked her on a well-planned date instead of asking her to hang out. Also told me I was the first man to ever make her feel like a lady and bring out her feminine energy.
I've dated girls my age and older. At least with the 20 year old she still had a relatively low body count, no ex husband/baby daddy bullshit to deal with and wasn't completely jaded about relationships yet unlike women in their 30s. Every problem you're citing only gets worse the older a woman becomes.