>>81963646
>First off, what made you an incel?
believing that dating is not possible for me.
I have had at least 1 woman interested in me in the past so it's even worse knowing that I am missing out.
I don't want sex outside of a relationship.
I also do not believe in bending over backwards for a woman. I also don't expect her to do that for me.
I need personal space and some sense of independence.
>Was it a certain experience, or do you feel as if you were born into it?
I live a life of inaction and living by the rules.
I will continue being an incel by continuing to live this way.
>What, if anything, could make you stop being an incel (or is it a way of permanent living)?
1. I need to talk to girls
2. Find a girl that has a similar ideology as me
3. Need her to be attracted enough to go out with me
Step 1 is difficult in real life. I do text a 3rdie girl online regularly but it's not a relationship sort of thing.
I also have solitary hobbies.
I am open to dating.
But I'd rather be doing anything else that isn't pursuing a girl.
>Do you believe that femcels are real and valid?
No.
I believe they suffer from choice paralysis if they are like this.
Which I think is better than being swinging from vine to vine trying to find the tallest tree.
Maybe in some country where the men have left to work in a foreign land or something and there's a female skewed gender imbalance it exists.
>How easy is it to find incel communities outside of online forums?
I don't look for them.
And we're a group that is actively discriminated against.
>What age did you learn about incels?
16ish. I just see it as an evolution of the term cyborg.
>What age did you become an incel?
18. My last chance of meeting women naturally was first year of uni. It's been over since.
