>>81855005
Love and true friendship isn't conditional on the other person delivering you "good vibes" only, anon, unless you're a completely self-serving person. I guess that friend wasn't a good friend, after all. Your opinion will indeed be unpopular because it reveals a purely transactional point of view to relationships that is against human dignity.
It's completely normal that when facing possible death due to an illness someone becomes depressed and starts to radiate negativity. He needs a therapist and family support, not abandonment.
I think it's a blessing in disguise, as hard situations separate the wheat from the chaff. Situations like these are also opportunities, in the sense that they allow to form bonds and gratitude that will last for a lifetime