i keep getting into fights with two good friends of mine because they both ghost me on a regular basis. for example i would write one of them on friday if they wanna hang out saturday or sunday and i get a reply on wednesday, telling me that they spend time working on a car. i just dont understand what's so hard about writing one line of text. i dont care if we dont hang out but just communicate with me.
on another occassion one of them would tell me that we should hang out thursday or sunday, i wrote them on thursday about it and got a reply a week later because that person was trying to fix their sleep schedule. i just dont see how it wasnt possible to let me know. i kept reaching out and was being ghosted for the whole week.
when i bring this up, they are mad at me. it's been an issue for years now and now i am being threatened with them ending our friendship. wtf.
