Focus on school, focus on work, and focus on family. For the love of God don't make my mistake which is spend 15 years of life wasted on trying to get a girlfriend. I could have finished college earlier had I not done all of that.

I do, but at some point you got to move on.

Avoid women who only see the negative in you. Especially if you honestly intend to be kind with what you were doing. People who constantly only find bullshit with things tend to be assholes, especially when they are undiplomatic and unforgiving.

I don't know how to phrase this right. Sometimes it is better to be around people nicer than you than be around people smarter than you.